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"If you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best"?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do any women subscribe to this, cause I mean how much of the worst is there and how long does the best bit last, cause to be honest it sounds more hassle than it’s worth ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......  "
Fuck no, only women can get away with saying that. If a bloke says it, you’d be like ‘Shut the fuck up dude!’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol I think this applies to all relationships, men and women and just is about not wanting someone who is a “fair weather friend”.
I think fab can just be about sex and not all the best or worst |
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"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......
Fuck no, only women can get away with saying that. If a bloke says it, you’d be like ‘Shut the fuck up dude!’"
I only read the thread title and my next post was going to be.....* Stfu Tame you fanny* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can tell the people who say this early on - just check if they’ve got “live, laugh, love” on their wall  "
. I was going to say this but used mockery of that quote just yesterday on another thread  |
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If this is in real life, and it’s someone you care about that’s ok to a point. What I mean is this attitude is ok for a while but actually friendships and relationships have to be equal. Sometimes one person needs a bit more, that’s ok. But you as a person don’t have to carry someone else always.
If this is fab, run a fucking mile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The issue comes when the worst outweighs the best
I've put up with, absorbed and forgiven some utter bullshit from previous partners, but no more
I want your best, I want to know you're giving it your best even when you feel at your worst
I am supportive, generous, emotionally open, tolerant, caring and would go to the ends of the world for those I love, but it has to be a two way street
I'm not an easy guy to live with either to provide some balance - for all my good points, I can be anxiety ridden, sarcastic, petulant, cold, aloof, awkward and stubborn to the point of stupidity
I recognise these traits and have taken steps to eliminate and reduce them from my daily life
That's kinda what I ask for in return really - that if you have faults, that you recognise them, own them and manage them
Don't expect that because I am your partner that I will put up with your shit because you are hormonal or a moody, snappy bastard with an awful side |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......
Thought exactly this
Jo x
It’s in quotes ladies! 
Oh lighten up it's Sunday "
I only use the eye rolling emoji ironically, you lighten up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The issue comes when the worst outweighs the best
I've put up with, absorbed and forgiven some utter bullshit from previous partners, but no more
I want your best, I want to know you're giving it your best even when you feel at your worst
I am supportive, generous, emotionally open, tolerant, caring and would go to the ends of the world for those I love, but it has to be a two way street
I'm not an easy guy to live with either to provide some balance - for all my good points, I can be anxiety ridden, sarcastic, petulant, cold, aloof, awkward and stubborn to the point of stupidity
I recognise these traits and have taken steps to eliminate and reduce them from my daily life
That's kinda what I ask for in return really - that if you have faults, that you recognise them, own them and manage them
Don't expect that because I am your partner that I will put up with your shit because you are hormonal or a moody, snappy bastard with an awful side "
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By *.T.Man 30 weeks ago
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"You can tell the people who say this early on - just check if they’ve got “live, laugh, love” on their wall
That proper made me laugh,mainly because it's so accurate  "
I prefer women who have "live, laugh, lube" on their ceiling |
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