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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Not everyone has your winning personality OP!! 
I think the problem is getting that first meet, which is probably down to unreasonably high expectations of this being a place to get an easy shag.
It’s not. You have to work for it.
But once that first meet is out the way, then it’s all systems go - if you want it to be?
I dunno.
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed "
Exactly it's meant to be fun any sex is a bonus..  |
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed
Exactly it's meant to be fun any sex is a bonus.. "
All of this |
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed "
So you've had lot's of sex from here have you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not everyone has your winning personality OP!!
I think the problem is getting that first meet, which is probably down to unreasonably high expectations of this being a place to get an easy shag.
It’s not. You have to work for it.
But once that first meet is out the way, then it’s all systems go - if you want it to be?
I dunno.
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In my experience, it's about working out what works for the individual person. Some people are graced with good looks, a beautiful cock or have worked for a great physique, others have a winning personality.
Its about working out how to meet those interested in what you have. Once you've done that then things get easier. I don't think it's necessarily something that someone can be shown or coached on as that's not going to be 'them'.
For many they just don't get it or understand how to work it out for themselves, so they complain, moan, troll and eventually leave in a flurry of toys.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the problem for most people that struggle is the first message. If it makes it through the net and gets read, it needs to be particularly good to get a reply. Then I'm in complete agreement that you gotta just talk naturally like you would with a friend. Its still a fine line, too aloof and they might lose interest and too keen and they might be put off by that too. Just be yourself and keep trying, it's not an exact science and everyone you contact is different. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Not everyone has your winning personality OP!!
I think the problem is getting that first meet, which is probably down to unreasonably high expectations of this being a place to get an easy shag.
It’s not. You have to work for it.
But once that first meet is out the way, then it’s all systems go - if you want it to be?
I dunno.
In my experience, it's about working out what works for the individual person. Some people are graced with good looks, a beautiful cock or have worked for a great physique, others have a winning personality.
Its about working out how to meet those interested in what you have. Once you've done that then things get easier. I don't think it's necessarily something that someone can be shown or coached on as that's not going to be 'them'.
For many they just don't get it or understand how to work it out for themselves, so they complain, moan, troll and eventually leave in a flurry of toys.
Tea"
Exactly. Too many are in a hurry. If you just relax and take it all with a laidback style, but put the effort in for each individual, it’s far better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem is that so many people on here don’t think they actually need to make any effort, they think we’re all here for the same thing so let’s all just shag; no standards required.
The complaints come when they realise this isn’t the case.
However there are a select few who do seem to understand how it all works, or at least try to understand and it’s those that get meets. |
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"The problem is that so many people on here don’t think they actually need to make any effort, they think we’re all here for the same thing so let’s all just shag; no standards required.
The complaints come when they realise this isn’t the case.
However there are a select few who do seem to understand how it all works, or at least try to understand and it’s those that get meets. "
Faf. I send my best cock pic. Balls deep into so salad I picked up last night while I was supping my 15 cans of wife beater   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think it is as simple as putting the effort in and having good conversations. Neither of those equate to being attracted to someone. Attraction is virtually impossible to create when it isn’t there. There may be times when someone has a positive reversal of how they feel about someone but that is infrequent. It is more likely that someone says something or does something that puts the other person off.
However effort and a good conversation are most likely pre-requisites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone’s got a meet and wants to brag about it
Do you ever post anything that isn't a snipe or barbed comment? "
Can’t say I’ve ever noticed him before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think it is as simple as putting the effort in and having good conversations. Neither of those equate to being attracted to someone. Attraction is virtually impossible to create when it isn’t there. There may be times when someone has a positive reversal of how they feel about someone but that is infrequent. It is more likely that someone says something or does something that puts the other person off.
However effort and a good conversation are most likely pre-requisites."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed
So you've had lot's of sex from here have you?"
yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed
So you've had lot's of sex from here have you?yes "
When, you’re always on here ?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone’s got a meet and wants to brag about it "
no if i wanted to brag i would do i aint shy lol iv no intterest in meeting but thanks for the amature psychoanalysis |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed
So you've had lot's of sex from here have you?yes
When, you’re always on here ?!"
when im at work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed
So you've had lot's of sex from here have you?yes
When, you’re always on here ?!when im at work "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed
So you've had lot's of sex from here have you?yes
When, you’re always on here ?!when im at work
You work ?! "
not hard if i can help it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. "
im not talking about standards if you like someone just make it happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that so many people on here don’t think they actually need to make any effort, they think we’re all here for the same thing so let’s all just shag; no standards required.
The complaints come when they realise this isn’t the case.
However there are a select few who do seem to understand how it all works, or at least try to understand and it’s those that get meets. "
This
I agree with all the comments. Those who get regular meets are those who put in the effort to have an actual conversation and learn a little about women in the process. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I recall times when you’ve come on whinging and whining
Think back before moaning about others moaning "
i did think back i have no memory of such a time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. im not talking about standards if you like someone just make it happen "
Ugh
How do you make it happen if the lady who you like won't talk? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that so many people on here don’t think they actually need to make any effort, they think we’re all here for the same thing so let’s all just shag; no standards required.
The complaints come when they realise this isn’t the case.
However there are a select few who do seem to understand how it all works, or at least try to understand and it’s those that get meets.
This
I agree with all the comments. Those who get regular meets are those who put in the effort to have an actual conversation and learn a little about women in the process."
A lot of effort goes a long way, as does a lot less moaning |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. im not talking about standards if you like someone just make it happen
Ugh
How do you make it happen if the lady who you like won't talk? "
move on to another you like unless u only like 1 then ya be buggered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. im not talking about standards if you like someone just make it happen
Ugh
How do you make it happen if the lady who you like won't talk? "
You move on and find someone else who does want to talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that so many people on here don’t think they actually need to make any effort, they think we’re all here for the same thing so let’s all just shag; no standards required.
The complaints come when they realise this isn’t the case.
However there are a select few who do seem to understand how it all works, or at least try to understand and it’s those that get meets. "
It really is not that simple |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. im not talking about standards if you like someone just make it happen
Ugh
How do you make it happen if the lady who you like won't talk? "
You only like one? Start looking around more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. im not talking about standards if you like someone just make it happen
Ugh
How do you make it happen if the lady who you like won't talk?
You only like one? Start looking around more "
One or two. I think I'll have to start thinking about it as a numbers game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not hard to meet people if you have no standards.
Most of the women who I like don't see my message or just ignore it.
I guess this is a regular occurrence for men so we will allways see ranting threads. im not talking about standards if you like someone just make it happen
Ugh
How do you make it happen if the lady who you like won't talk? move on to another you like unless u only like 1 then ya be buggered"
Buggered it is then, she still hasn't opened the last message I sent nearly 2 months ago ...
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
My charity works completed
So you've had lot's of sex from here have you?yes "
No I meant like with different people not just Sally. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All u ever seem to see is people complaining how hard it is to get laid on here
But its really not at all just stop whining and using the horn brain be realistic your not likely to get laid there and then are ya so have a play get it out your system then talk to people like your chatting to one of ya mates down the pub not a horn dog Ready to hump a leg or a phone im not saying kiss arse just have a laugh
Your welcome
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So you've had lot's of sex from here have you?yes
No I meant like with different people not just Sally."
before i went exlusive to her yes |
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