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By *ycra lout OP Man
over a year ago
york/Scarborough |
So after 10 months of trying and getting nowhere..
I've come to 2 conclusions as to why.
1.I'm too polite
2. I'm too ugly
Just want to thank the very few that have engaged in brief conversation with me.
Btw..the site is great but it's the people on it that could make it better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There currently 30,908 people online on Fab. It takes time but some will live up to your expectations OP... don’t give up just yet, perhaps you’ll have a lucky run soon.  |
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By *ycra lout OP Man
over a year ago
york/Scarborough |
"I wouldn't give up so soon. Hang in there x "
All I hear is stories of time wasters which obviously I'm not 1 of them but getting tarred with the single bloke brush..it can be quite frustrating at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been back on here after a 18 month or so break. I find you really have to read profiles and see who you are looking at and what they like. I have had a few meets but that was after I put myself out there and went to a club got to know a few people who are all great and slowly started building my profile back up, 3 weeks in and a few meets later and I'm getting there. my advice is hang in there and it will happen |
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"ive been back on here after a 18 month or so break. I find you really have to read profiles and see who you are looking at and what they like. I have had a few meets but that was after I put myself out there and went to a club got to know a few people who are all great and slowly started building my profile back up, 3 weeks in and a few meets later and I'm getting there. my advice is hang in there and it will happen"
This for sure. Trust us, you are not the only one who gets messages deleted etc. Try a club. |
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You can never be too polite and most of us expect this as standard.
Most guys are not ugly, which would be determined by the observer but are subject to the incredibly high competition here.
Preferences and a clear matching of needs and availability is what gets meets - usually gained from men who make maximum use of the site including selling themselves well.
Most men here do not do well at giving us what we want, via your profiles. If they struggle with that, it's not a great sign for sex 
We need to know how much we fancy you, how well we are sexually and personality matched and for it to be as painless as possible to meet. Lives/availability is typically already tough, so tougher to conclude a meet is off-putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had a few people block me because of my face. I just think it’s because I’m intimidatingly pretty
Prove it "
Lol how would you like me to prove I’ve been blocked in the past? |
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"Just to clarify you get blocked after sending a face pic?
Yes..it's happened twice today "
Ok...well different strokes for different folks.....I wouldn't use the word ugly just because some don't like.....they'll be more that do....chin up kid... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after 10 months of trying and getting nowhere..
I've come to 2 conclusions as to why.
1.I'm too polite
2. I'm too ugly
Just want to thank the very few that have engaged in brief conversation with me.
Btw..the site is great but it's the people on it that could make it better "
If they don't reply see it as a positive. Would you want to meet someone who does that? |
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By *ycra lout OP Man
over a year ago
york/Scarborough |
"Just to clarify you get blocked after sending a face pic?
Yes..it's happened twice today
Ok...well different strokes for different folks.....I wouldn't use the word ugly just because some don't like.....they'll be more that do....chin up kid..."
No one is ugly in my eyes but I know how cruel some people can be.
Thanks for your kind words  |
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"Just to clarify you get blocked after sending a face pic?
Yes..it's happened twice today
Ok...well different strokes for different folks.....I wouldn't use the word ugly just because some don't like.....they'll be more that do....chin up kid...
No one is ugly in my eyes but I know how cruel some people can be.
Thanks for your kind words "
No problem... |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"So after 10 months of trying and getting nowhere..
I've come to 2 conclusions as to why.
1.I'm too polite
2. I'm too ugly
Just want to thank the very few that have engaged in brief conversation with me.
Btw..the site is great but it's the people on it that could make it better "
If those are the two reasons ..one you can change(easily) and one you cannot(too much anyway)
If its not working out the way you hope, and its causing you angst.. change something. That might include deleting your profile
Have fun  |
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"So after 10 months of trying and getting nowhere..
I've come to 2 conclusions as to why.
1.I'm too polite
2. I'm too ugly
Just want to thank the very few that have engaged in brief conversation with me.
Btw..the site is great but it's the people on it that could make it better "
It could be because you're a cyclist... many people seem to hate us _ycra louts.
Cal |
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By *ycra lout OP Man
over a year ago
york/Scarborough |
"So after 10 months of trying and getting nowhere..
I've come to 2 conclusions as to why.
1.I'm too polite
2. I'm too ugly
Just want to thank the very few that have engaged in brief conversation with me.
Btw..the site is great but it's the people on it that could make it better
It could be because you're a cyclist... many people seem to hate us _ycra louts.
Cal"
You may have a point there..but beneath our lycra..we are just human beings just like all the non cyclists |
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