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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some yes. With others I think I’m only there as their charity case so I don’t much "
I always check what they’re up to, recent photos and status updates |
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"Some yes. With others I think I’m only there as their charity case so I don’t much
I always check what they’re up to, recent photos and status updates "
Yes, it does make your stalking a lot easier, I know you’re busy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We send a message every few weeks, just to keep in touch.
Most reply, still waiting for some.
If we have no response within a month, and can see they have been, or are, on,one, we send another to say “goodbye”. In our humble opinion, a month is long enough to reply, and if none by then, they obviously are not interested. |
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In the last week, four on my friends list have contacted or I messaged them. I had a big clear out a few weeks ago, due to those I didn't feel were actually intending to meet or contact.
I now only accept friend request if I know that person is genuinely going to be a part of my 'fab life', not try and get access to my hidden photos. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not that often via here, sometimes on other platforms. There's only 8 so not in abundance."
I was just going to ask if people spoke to their friends list offline |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a friends list - primarily cos I'm shit at keeping in touch
Even my friends in real life go unnoticed for weeks on end
I am pretty much happy in my little cocoon
I'm not a loner, I'm just not very social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.
One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.
Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.
One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.
Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.
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I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.
One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.
Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.
I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise. "
If I left fab.. then there are a few folks,like your good self, who I'd ask to remain friends with. Given I see you online as much as I am.. comment on alot of similar threads.. there's no real need to spam you with PMs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not that often via here, sometimes on other platforms. There's only 8 so not in abundance.
I was just going to ask if people spoke to their friends list offline "
Three of my friends are Kik contacts but we don’t chat on there normally and haven’t for ages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.
One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.
Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.
I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise.
If I left fab.. then there are a few folks,like your good self, who I'd ask to remain friends with. Given I see you online as much as I am.. comment on alot of similar threads.. there's no real need to spam you with PMs."
I agree. I’d be happy to find another way to continue should one of us decide to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.
One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.
Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.
I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise.
If I left fab.. then there are a few folks,like your good self, who I'd ask to remain friends with. Given I see you online as much as I am.. comment on alot of similar threads.. there's no real need to spam you with PMs.
I agree. I’d be happy to find another way to continue should one of us decide to go "
Fucking love you man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few I chat to regularly. Have made friends here and now friends outside fab so very rarely chat here. If I add someone as a friend and than no contact they usually get kicked to the curb after a few weeks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just wish I some frwends to communicate with
Go teeth collecting
I cut the pastry off my pie with mine "
Why am I thinking “ little house on the prairie “ |
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"I just wish I some frwends to communicate with
Go teeth collecting
I cut the pastry off my pie with mine
Why am I thinking “ little house on the prairie “ "
What goes on in the house stays in the little house |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some more than others if i’m honest. I tend to have more men who message me regularly who aren’t on any of my lists. Not for sexual chit chat either, just random stuff.
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Do you sell a red carpet by any chance? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Some more than others if i’m honest. I tend to have more men who message me regularly who aren’t on any of my lists. Not for sexual chit chat either, just random stuff.
Do you sell a red carpet by any chance? "
No. I don’t sell anything foxy - i give it away for free |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends list is pretty much people I've met and meet in person with an added few who I will met when time and distance align in our favour.
Really only do real time chats ie in person or on the phone as never been into online messaging as it's without the nuances of body language so not really for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I talk to a few but not all of them. Most mainly on forums
Hello stranger
I was naughty say no more lol. How's cheeky
I’m good . I’ll not mention being naughty
Good to hear. I'll behave today "
Of course you will sunshine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like it when people drop off my friends list without explanation. I make a point of being honest and approachable, but polite and reasonable. Hide next to nothing.
If I was going to drop off someone's friends list, I think I'd feel obliged to explain.
We're all different I guess.
I'm quick to make friends and be friendly, unless someone gives me reason not to be.
When they drop off without telling me, it makes me wonder what you said or did wrong to lose them. For all of five minutes. |
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