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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't we all get judged every day . Social media in our jobs on the tram train bus etc it's all part of being human we all have opinions , not everyone is going to like you , in my case most , but there are people who will |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't we all get judged every day . Social media in our jobs on the tram train bus etc it's all part of being human we all have opinions , not everyone is going to like you , in my case most , but there are people who will "
True |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People judge us regularly because of our appearance (goth).
They have a right to an opinion. We have a right to ignore it.
“Your opinion of me is only valued by one person, you”
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse "
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Halfway through been fucked the other week the guy stopped & went home saying he didn't like been judged...it wasn't as if OH & myself were holding scorecards up...  "
Sevvveeeeern .....lol |
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I feel like being judged all the time, but being optimist I don't give a flying sh.. If people who don't know me judging me, mostly coming to wrong conclusions. Either they like me for who I am or they are not worth worrying about.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel like being judged all the time, but being optimist I don't give a flying sh.. If people who don't know me judging me, mostly coming to wrong conclusions. Either they like me for who I am or they are not worth worrying about. "
On a daily basis i agree, but i was in a dungeon with about 14 people watching... i think il shut the gate next time |
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"Halfway through been fucked the other week the guy stopped & went home saying he didn't like been judged...it wasn't as if OH & myself were holding scorecards up...
Sevvveeeeern .....lol "
Lol. .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get judged because of the way I choose to look
I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead
Tbh it makes me smile lol "
Good for you! You're gorgeous x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think we feel we're being judged much much more than we actually are ... maybe he had lost his confidence and simply put the onus on you. Just except that the situation wasn't for him and let it pass! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People judge us regularly because of our appearance (goth).
They have a right to an opinion. We have a right to ignore it.
“Your opinion of me is only valued by one person, you”
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "
There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "
It sounds like he was intimidated by the situation and didn’t have the confidence to engage further. I’d say he was judging himself rather than you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't we all get judged every day . Social media in our jobs on the tram train bus etc it's all part of being human we all have opinions , not everyone is going to like you , in my case most , but there are people who will "
This
And as long as you had a good time that's all that matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"
How many guys were involved in your gang bang and when’s the next one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"
Fuck judgement...judgment comes from jealously. Enjoy whatever u enjoy doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"
Also why did he come in the first place to your gang bang if it wasn’t his thing or was it a surprise gang bang? |
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that
There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly "
Ha ha ha! Excellent! |
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"Don't we all get judged every day . Social media in our jobs on the tram train bus etc it's all part of being human we all have opinions , not everyone is going to like you , in my case most , but there are people who will "
...in a nutshell! |
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"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"
I love judgey people, see them all the time.
It's a great filter.  |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that
There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly
Ha ha ha! Excellent!"
You’re not so bad yourself! |
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that
There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly "
 ...fabsters are on comedic form today and it not 9am yet! |
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"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?
Fuck judgement...judgment comes from jealously. Enjoy whatever u enjoy doing"
Judgement doesn't just come from jealousy. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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"I get judged because of the way I choose to look
I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead
Tbh it makes me smile lol
Good for you! You're gorgeous x"
ladies we have the power in this space ... if some guys is intimidated or unsure of himself in a group play space or open play space ... there are plenty of other fish in the sea ... embrace the erotic ... xx Anne (George is a great supporter of strong women ... look who he married) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not sure telling someone how they feel about the effect they have on them is judging. It’s simply an expression of how they feel. If you felt frightened in the presence of someone on a meet would you tell them and leave?
As to what caused his fear did he say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe he was happy just watching and didn't want to be kissed?
Maybe she sucked all the cocks and then kissed him?
That sounds horny as fuck to me  "
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe he was happy just watching and didn't want to be kissed?
Maybe she sucked all the cocks and then kissed him?
That sounds horny as fuck to me
Me too "
You two should contact her immediately |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"
No in fact he lost his bottle. Don’t blame yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?
No in fact he lost his bottle. Don’t blame yourself "
What bottle? |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
Leicester / London |
Our minds are either judging or perciving.
It is how we absorb information around us, then process it and act on it
We do not see the world the way it objectively is.
We see it the way we feel.
You both just felt different...
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "
I think you're perceiving what he said as a negative judgement when he could have meant that your powerful sexuality frightened him. Sometimes our judgement of ourselves makes us interpret other people's words and actions incorrectly |
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"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"
I wouldn't worry to much about it...maybe he had his own issues he was dealing with. I hope it didn't spoil it totally for you..
you can't please all the people all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get judged because of the way I choose to look
I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead
Tbh it makes me smile lol "
Wow your a stunner very sexy looking love the hair too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all judge .... we are judged
Is your conscience clear ? Have you hurt anyone ? Are you using people ?
Only you can decide if the judgements mean anything to you or if you can let them wash over you
I have a problem with people who judge others, whilst having questionable intentions themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair I was there and that Scream mask was a bit scary
Yes OP I’ve felt judged but it’s just human nature to judge people. I maybe wouldn’t say it during a gangbang however |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't we all get judged every day . Social media in our jobs on the tram train bus etc it's all part of being human we all have opinions , not everyone is going to like you , in my case most , but there are people who will "
I think we observe and then persuaded by thoughts and conclude with judgment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our minds are either judging or perciving.
It is how we absorb information around us, then process it and act on it
We do not see the world the way it objectively is.
We see it the way we feel.
You both just felt different...
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Love this and so true.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.
This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing "
At least you got noticed for something x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.
This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing
At least you got noticed for something x"
Should get an award for doing nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.
Then you will be judged as lazy
Only if they know you exist
Good point! Thank you x"
Free of charge x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.
This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing
At least you got noticed for something x
Should get an award for doing nothing "
It takes some practise to stay still |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "
Aww I dont know that he was judging you, sounds more like he was bravely admitting his own fears. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.
Then you will be judged as lazy
Only if they know you exist
Good point! Thank you x
Free of charge x"
No sexual favours x |
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I think there is always going to he people judging our actions.
I think people seem to forget that you may have a thought or opinion about something but sometimes it's best to keep it to yourself.
This idea that you should be able to say anything that comes to your mind is stupid and can damage someone.
Then if someone's pulls them up on their behaviour or option the old "snowflake" argument comes out.
In the long run it's sometimes better just to keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.
This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing
At least you got noticed for something x
Should get an award for doing nothing
It takes some practise to stay still "
And the dangers of going numb |
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"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.
This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing
At least you got noticed for something x"
No, I get noticed for nothing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that
Aww I dont know that he was judging you, sounds more like he was bravely admitting his own fears."
Yes maybe, i think he was honest and incan handle that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse
He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that
I think you're perceiving what he said as a negative judgement when he could have meant that your powerful sexuality frightened him. Sometimes our judgement of ourselves makes us interpret other people's words and actions incorrectly"
I wondered that too. |
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