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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From google-
"Race Play is an avant-garde form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates Racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the others race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure"
Sounds fantastic... not.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From google-
"Race Play is an avant-garde form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates Racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the others race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure"
Sounds fantastic... not.
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I think it’s important to recognise that we all have kinks and that what appeals to one may not appeal to another.
While not my cup of tea, it would be hypocritical for me to vilify another’s kink, when mine are varied and twisted
Happy fabbing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it’s important to recognise that we all have kinks and that what appeals to one may not appeal to another.
While not my cup of tea, it would be hypocritical for me to vilify another’s kink, when mine are varied and twisted
Happy fabbing "
The OP asked for opinions.... |
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"I think it’s important to recognise that we all have kinks and that what appeals to one may not appeal to another.
While not my cup of tea, it would be hypocritical for me to vilify another’s kink, when mine are varied and twisted
Happy fabbing
The OP asked for opinions...."
He did indeed and I have mine. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"general filthy language all good but not into race specific- no. Mixed race myself so would feel weird..."
 Yep, I feel the same. I've had a few people wanting to incorporate slave owner roleplay with this sort of dynamic and I can safely say it's not for me. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Are you actually serious OP??
How is this even a thing??
I’m not the op but hey two consenting adults ... who are we to say no .. all got our likes and dislikes "
Agreed, it wouldn't be for me but if that's what you like, crack on. |
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I always assumed it was normal, the girls I know into black guys told me their skin colour is referenced in the first sentences when out and about "Whats up white sugar" kind of thing.
Seems obvious to me that once you reference skin colour, even in a positive way, that it will descend into stuff that looks racist in the cold light of day.
Going from "sugar", to "slut" to "dirty whore" might happen in normal dirty talk.. but put a skin colour in front of it and it takes on a very racist tone.
I do know one black girl who told me her white bf said some of the most racist things I have ever heard, she wanted to know if such dirty talk was normal, and I said no cause it was so bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mean interracial sex, I mean role play involving race like using derogatory words "white bitch black bitch nigga and so on"
Put me right off. In a club nice guy amazing body. We went off to a private room .. were his words of wisdon ..take it you white bitch whore.
Stopped him right there and walked out.. |
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"I don't mean interracial sex, I mean role play involving race like using derogatory words "white bitch black bitch nigga and so on"
Trying to escape Trump and his rhetoric and walk into this......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him?? |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I don't mean interracial sex, I mean role play involving race like using derogatory words "white bitch black bitch nigga and so on"
That would be a complete turn-off for me. Goes against every instinct I have.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him?? "
Just preferences i guess. I only have a interest in pal white women, doesnt mean im racist.. just not sexually drawn to other colours inc tanned white women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not my thing,but then I dont understand nor wish to,the whole sub/dom aspect some people like.If it's ok for derogation against lets say a female(by calling her names etc),then it's ok for derogation on race play.
Some like daddy/mummy play,again I find that weird,however each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it’s important to recognise that we all have kinks and that what appeals to one may not appeal to another.
While not my cup of tea, it would be hypocritical for me to vilify another’s kink, when mine are varied and twisted
Happy fabbing "
You are my hero.. we need more people like you in this world. Thank you x |
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"I think it’s important to recognise that we all have kinks and that what appeals to one may not appeal to another.
While not my cup of tea, it would be hypocritical for me to vilify another’s kink, when mine are varied and twisted
Happy fabbing "
100% this!
I saw a documentary about a club in New York called Pandora's Box. It was run by a group of dominatrixs who catered for all sorts. There were Jewish judges etc who were whipped and called derogatory names by blonde, blue eyed women dressed in nazi uniform. Black congressmen etc were being whipped in cages by "plantation owner" blonde women.
For the life of me I didn't get it, but I didn't need to as it wasn't aimed at me, but fair play to those who enjoyed it: I wasn't going to castigate them for having a different kink to my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him?? "
Tell him to get off fab and listen to Michael Jackson |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him?? "
well, he's lying.Or telling a little white lie(forgive the pun).I wont go calling people something the R word just because they have a sexual preference that might not include someone outside their race.For the reasons?-i'd tell him just to avoid profiles that state it and there's no point engaging in a conversation to change someones mind,especially just to make a negative feeling upon yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him?? "
Tell him there are also profiles who state No black men and No white men so in his face boom! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him??
Tell him there are also profiles who state No black men and No white men so in his face boom! "
However he needs to clarify if they mean Asian as in Chinese or Asian as in Indian etc.. |
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him??
Tell him there are also profiles who state No black men and No white men so in his face boom!
However he needs to clarify if they mean Asian as in Chinese or Asian as in Indian etc.. "
Why?
If I saw a profile "no blacks" I wouldn't ask if the meant Caribbean, African or other black heritage. I'd take it they meant me and crack on elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him??
Tell him there are also profiles who state No black men and No white men so in his face boom!
However he needs to clarify if they mean Asian as in Chinese or Asian as in Indian etc..
Why?
If I saw a profile "no blacks" I wouldn't ask if the meant Caribbean, African or other black heritage. I'd take it they meant me and crack on elsewhere. "
Because Chinese and Indian are very different races. They may like to meet an Indian guy but not a Chinese guy. No offence to Chinese guys x |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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"Jesus Christ
No I really, really wouldn’t feel comfortable doing that. "
we would agree .. it would be not a comfortable or ethically acceptable thing for many ... what people do in their own bedrooms with consent at all that ... but for the chat room or public discourse ... no |
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him??
Tell him there are also profiles who state No black men and No white men so in his face boom!
However he needs to clarify if they mean Asian as in Chinese or Asian as in Indian etc..
Why?
If I saw a profile "no blacks" I wouldn't ask if the meant Caribbean, African or other black heritage. I'd take it they meant me and crack on elsewhere.
Because Chinese and Indian are very different races. They may like to meet an Indian guy but not a Chinese guy. No offence to Chinese guys x "
You miss the point. If someone says "no (anything)" and you could be included, why question it? If someone said no bbws I wouldn't ask what do they class as bbw. I'd include myself and look elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is very interesting. I recieved a few messages last night from an Asian gentleman who despite being on here on and off for a while had never been lucky...he said all he ever sees on women's profiles is 'No Asians'..and asked me why (it's certainly not on my profile btw!)...what on earth could I say to him??
Tell him there are also profiles who state No black men and No white men so in his face boom!
However he needs to clarify if they mean Asian as in Chinese or Asian as in Indian etc..
Why?
If I saw a profile "no blacks" I wouldn't ask if the meant Caribbean, African or other black heritage. I'd take it they meant me and crack on elsewhere.
Because Chinese and Indian are very different races. They may like to meet an Indian guy but not a Chinese guy. No offence to Chinese guys x
You miss the point. If someone says "no (anything)" and you could be included, why question it? If someone said no bbws I wouldn't ask what do they class as bbw. I'd include myself and look elsewhere. "
Errmm I disagree, black and bbw is very clear descriptions however Asian includes many different races
Apples and oranges sweetie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, I've indulged in race play in a masochistic sense.
Being of Indian origin I frankly grew up feeling less desirable. Oddly I still do ok with women of all backgrounds but on Fab I just don't get a look in.
What I found quite pleasurable was once asking someone to denigrate me for my heritage - I just liked it when it came from a woman I know and asked to be party to it - because I suppose there's a fine line between pleasure and pain. |
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Vocal abuse is par for the course in a sado masochistic scenario, raceplay with interracial couples is an extension of that (its much more common used on a white sub than visa versa). It's more common in America than here, & can get quite extreme, uncomfortably so for most.
I`ve had it with a couple of dominant Black women to a degree, but the other way round. I`m pretty sure I couldn't bring myself to return the favor though.
The fact the OP has incorporated the "N word" into his one of his replies, on a public forum, concerns me.. It could have been easily explained without that little nugget, & therefore makes me question his motives, or his ability to judge situations.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're opening line hurts. I have several friends who feel wary in different ways because of race.
I see that as therapy rather than sex.
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Therapy? Please explain G-Crumps |
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"Vocal abuse is par for the course in a sado masochistic scenario, raceplay with interracial couples is an extension of that (its much more common used on a white sub than visa versa). It's more common in America than here, & can get quite extreme, uncomfortably so for most.
I`ve had it with a couple of dominant Black women to a degree, but the other way round. I`m pretty sure I couldn't bring myself to return the favor though.
The fact the OP has incorporated the "N word" into his one of his replies, on a public forum, concerns me.. It could have been easily explained without that little nugget, & therefore makes me question his motives, or his ability to judge situations.."
but you're okay with white bitch ? |
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You're opening line hurts. I have several friends who feel wary in different ways because of race.
I see that as therapy rather than sex.
Therapy? Please explain G-Crumps "
Later sex God. I'm off out for the day now 
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but you're okay with white bitch ?"
If it's safe, sane & consensual, between 2 adults, then yes, if it works for both parties..
If you mean someone randomly saying it in here in an abusive manor, then no, not cool at all.. |
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You're opening line hurts. I have several friends who feel wary in different ways because of race.
I see that as therapy rather than sex.
Therapy? Please explain G-Crumps
Later sex God. I'm off out for the day now
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Enjoy your day, you know where to find me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You're opening line hurts. I have several friends who feel wary in different ways because of race.
I see that as therapy rather than sex.
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Are you referring to me? |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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"I think it’s important to recognise that we all have kinks and that what appeals to one may not appeal to another.
While not my cup of tea, it would be hypocritical for me to vilify another’s kink, when mine are varied and twisted
Happy fabbing "
If the practice of the kink is consensual, lawful and those who are not into it are not exposed to it. It is a question of fill your boots. There was a thread a while ago on FL about people whose kink was Nazi uniforms and NCN which caused outrage.
The mantra in the fetish worls is "Your kink is not my kink but I respect your right to do it."
But it does not include exposing it to people who would be offended.
Where I have an issue with OP, is that he could have explained his kink differently and his choice of words exposed it to people who would be offended by his kink. Which is an unacceptable act.
By his failure to respect others in the thread I would have no confidence in OP. Also the public use of the "N" word is unacceptable. |
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The N word is a word that I do not use. It does not offend me and I do not often get offended on other peoples behalf. It is interesting to me when it is widely used in the music world though. Crazy world. |
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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago
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Race play is to racism as S&M is to assault or exhibitionism is to flashing.
There’s a big difference between two (or more) people who WANT to do something, and a unilateral imposition of something on another whether they want it or not. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
Although I believe by nature most kinks are taboo. I think with extreme kinks including impact, the dominant should reflect upon why they want to treat the submissive in that way. Interestingly enough my favourite podcast Blacknkinky lifestyle has just done a podcast on raceplay from an African American perspective. |
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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Although I believe by nature most kinks are taboo. I think with extreme kinks including impact, the dominant should reflect upon why they want to treat the submissive in that way. Interestingly enough my favourite podcast Blacknkinky lifestyle has just done a podcast on raceplay from an African American perspective."
What was the gist of it? |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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I had literally only started the podcast. As part of the podcast the hosts ("Bomber" the male, and "Belle" the women) answer listeners' question. A husband had written in saying that he and his wife were thinking of swinging. The husband (an African Americwn) had watched a porn video where white guy had used racial slurs against a black woman whilst having sex (similar words another contributor mentioned). The husband had said that was fighting talk and the wife (also African American) had been non committal which had upset the husband. So the podcast was discussing the issue. Belle was against it full stop, Bomber was against it but was just starting a nuanced discussion when I had to stop listening.
However I know from the Afrocentric group (mainly African Americans on FL raceplay is fighting talk and seen as an act self hatred given the historical perspective. It falls under the same thread as the theme explored in The Night Porter. Both types of race play exist It is not my kink and I don't want to see it.
However it is a thing. |
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"I had literally only started the podcast. As part of the podcast the hosts ("Bomber" the male, and "Belle" the women) answer listeners' question. A husband had written in saying that he and his wife were thinking of swinging. The husband (an African Americwn) had watched a porn video where white guy had used racial slurs against a black woman whilst having sex (similar words another contributor mentioned). The husband had said that was fighting talk and the wife (also African American) had been non committal which had upset the husband. So the podcast was discussing the issue. Belle was against it full stop, Bomber was against it but was just starting a nuanced discussion when I had to stop listening.
However I know from the Afrocentric group (mainly African Americans on FL raceplay is fighting talk and seen as an act self hatred given the historical perspective. It falls under the same thread as the theme explored in The Night Porter. Both types of race play exist It is not my kink and I don't want to see it.
However it is a thing."
Does it have to be black and white?
What about English and Scottish ? |
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