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By *ornyblue69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Wirral

So what’s the best message subject someone has put when they first messaged you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Something to show they have read my profile and are what I'm looking for is a good start

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester

Nice tactic OP.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The first thing I do is read the profile of the sender. If it has no photo's, or just cock photos, a generic paragraph that tells me little more than man looking for women, ask me anything you want.

The chances are we would not progress to chatting.

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By *heslimoneMan  over a year ago

Deeside

Doesn't happen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

'Hi.'

That's it usually.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lawnmower.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lawnmower. "

Scarifier

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Something to show they have read my profile and are what I'm looking for is a good start"

Yup

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By *ornyblue69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Wirral


"Nice tactic OP."

Ha ha. Looking for inspiration.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The one’a that I respond to usually have mentioned my sense of humour or put floccinaucinihilipilification in their message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lawnmower.

Scarifier "

I am a bit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

5 years ago a guy messaged me on here and asked what is my favourite cheese. We still chat now I like a different quirky message

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By *ornyblue69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Wirral


"The first thing I do is read the profile of the sender. If it has no photo's, or just cock photos, a generic paragraph that tells me little more than man looking for women, ask me anything you want.

The chances are we would not progress to chatting."

I always check out profiles before messaging to be fair. And whilst I know my profile isn’t great I do try and be honest and to the point. I think I’m on my 10th iteration of it now.

As for us not progressing is that a general statement or because I’m out of your range? Thanks for the advice though it is noted x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As long as it's not crude or a one liner then I'll read most messages.

I also check their profile, if I don't see anything I like there then I don't respond.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Something from my profile but the comment should make me smile.

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip

My advice is talk about them and things that interest them. Say why you are attracted to their profile. Avoid talk of meeting up. You can even avoid sexual chat. Just talk. If they don't like you they won't want to meet you so just concentrate of finding people you like and who like you. That is the way to open doors.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

anything that shows they've read my profile is always a start

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By *ornyblue69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Wirral

Cheers for the advice. Will take it on board

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The first thing I do is read the profile of the sender. If it has no photo's, or just cock photos, a generic paragraph that tells me little more than man looking for women, ask me anything you want.

The chances are we would not progress to chatting.

I always check out profiles before messaging to be fair. And whilst I know my profile isn’t great I do try and be honest and to the point. I think I’m on my 10th iteration of it now.

As for us not progressing is that a general statement or because I’m out of your range? Thanks for the advice though it is noted x"

I wasn't declining you personally, but you have a range if cock photo's and your profile has nothing that gives me anything to suggest compatibility. So in theory if you were the right age range, I would politely decline.

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By *ornyblue69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Wirral


"The first thing I do is read the profile of the sender. If it has no photo's, or just cock photos, a generic paragraph that tells me little more than man looking for women, ask me anything you want.

The chances are we would not progress to chatting.

I always check out profiles before messaging to be fair. And whilst I know my profile isn’t great I do try and be honest and to the point. I think I’m on my 10th iteration of it now.

As for us not progressing is that a general statement or because I’m out of your range? Thanks for the advice though it is noted x

I wasn't declining you personally, but you have a range if cock photo's and your profile has nothing that gives me anything to suggest compatibility. So in theory if you were the right age range, I would politely decline."

Understood and added the Dad bod Pic too x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan  over a year ago

Okehampton

If they send me a photo of their bum, preferably arse facing camera whilst on all fours, I make a point of sleeping with them....

.... said a friend

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By *ornyblue69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Wirral


"If they send me a photo of their bum, preferably arse facing camera whilst on all fours, I make a point of sleeping with them....

.... said a friend "

Ha ha. Friends ask some silly questions sometimes don’t they

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