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who is at fault. if anyone
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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago
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Beloiw is a quote from a thread I read earlier.
"I also know from my experience i never tell a man to his face hes shit in bed. I just don't go back for more"
Whose fault is the shit sex?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beloiw is a quote from a thread I read earlier.
"I also know from my experience i never tell a man to his face hes shit in bed. I just don't go back for more"
Whose fault is the shit sex? "
Depends what made it awful, if it was a case of the man just taking with little regard for the woman’s pleasure then obviously the mans, however if it’s a case of just not being compatible then both? Or no one? All circumstantial. |
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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago
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"Beloiw is a quote from a thread I read earlier.
"I also know from my experience i never tell a man to his face hes shit in bed. I just don't go back for more"
Whose fault is the shit sex? "
Are we talking about a one off (we can all have bad days) or repeated failures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anyone puts up with something they don't like in a voluntary situation they're as much to blame as the other person "
totally agree. Go find someone you're compatible with.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can all be guilty of being responsible for bad sex. Hell I've fallen asleep half way through and she had to push me off. Can't really blame anyone but myself for that. |
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"If anyone puts up with something they don't like in a voluntary situation they're as much to blame as the other person totally agree. Go find someone you're compatible with. "
Some time ago a guy posted on here that you shouldn't need to tell your lover what you like, if you're in tune with each other you'll just know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there are people out there who are "bad" at sex. It's all well and good saying it takes 2 but if the person you're with has no intuitive ability when it comes to reading people and their responses then it makes no difference what effort you put in.
You can learn tricks and techniques but you can't teach someone how to read body language and respond accordingly.
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both but if its a meet from here they should of communicated their wants and needs before the meet. Also why would a woman put up with sex if it was bad. You just say sorry its not working for me and leave. |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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I blame the women. It’s all their fault. How are is men supposed to find the clit without proper instructions. There’s no point in just pushing our heads between your legs. You need to line us up so we hit the target and then when we do. Would ye stop crossing your dam legs. If I wanted cauliflower ears I’d have kept up playing rugby  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I blame the women. It’s all their fault. How are is men supposed to find the clit without proper instructions. There’s no point in just pushing our heads between your legs. You need to line us up so we hit the target and then when we do. Would ye stop crossing your dam legs. If I wanted cauliflower ears I’d have kept up playing rugby "
Those damn women!!!!! Burn them at the stake, witches
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
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What 1 person finds bad another might not.
Iv found guys who I wouldn't say are bad at sex, but I wouldn't go there again as just not what I personally want no matter how hard i tried 
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It could be either, both or neither.
Sometimes people just turn out but to be compatible in the bedroom. It's nobody's fault.
Other times or can be that one party lied about their likes/skills or didn't put in the effort... Making fire disappointing sex.
Or sometimes neither partner puts in enough effort and what could have been good sex becomes mediocre.
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It's just a throw away phrase.... 'he's shit in bed' .....
I prefer 'he's shit in bed' to 'he's shit in the bed' tho .......
Stupid throw away phrase. Could mean as little as he didn't lick between her toes.
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"Either or both. Or incompatibility.
I do agree that I'm not likely to tell someone that they weren't my cup of tea. "
Neither would I but if they were doing something I didn’t like I'd say in a tactful way. I hope they would do the same. |
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Takes two to tango...but some people are just sexually incompatible...it ain't never going to work regardless of words of encouragement or "show and tell"....in those instances it's best to cut your losses and not revisit, in my experience |
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Why perceive fault? If you and a partner aren't matched, there may be a limit to reasonable adjustments that one may be able to effect in the other, especially if it's during a one-off meet. Communication is the key to sharing what's needed but requires mutual openness as well as abilities to respond. Some people have their own sexual signature, which is often as patterned and formulaic as our DNA - their partners would recognise their style from others recollections.
Like most behaviours, sex is a skill which can be learned and improved. The happy but ignorant may gain little insight into themselves and lose out. |
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"Either or both. Or incompatibility.
I do agree that I'm not likely to tell someone that they weren't my cup of tea.
Neither would I but if they were doing something I didn’t like I'd say in a tactful way. I hope they would do the same. "
In the moment I might try to tactfully steer in a different direction, but if it didn't work or it was overall style, I just wouldn't see the person again. |
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"Why perceive fault? If you and a partner aren't matched, there may be a limit to reasonable adjustments that one may be able to effect in the other, especially if it's during a one-off meet. Communication is the key to sharing what's needed but requires mutual openness as well as abilities to respond. Some people have their own sexual signature, which is often as patterned and formulaic as our DNA - their partners would recognise their style from others recollections.
Like most behaviours, sex is a skill which can be learned and improved. The happy but ignorant may gain little insight into themselves and lose out."
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