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over a year ago
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You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.
Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore? |
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"You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.
Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore? "
Yea why not lol |
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Does pointing out that he doesn't in fact have a "BBC", but in fact is simply a black man with an average sized penis make me a grade A cunt?
Will he respond abusively?
If so is he justified? Even if I've been polite in pointing out his mistake? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does pointing out that he doesn't in fact have a "BBC", but in fact is simply a black man with an average sized penis make me a grade A cunt? "
Depends how you word it I guess. As long as it's not in a mocking tone it's not rude. Men are sensitive about the size of their dick.
" Will he respond abusively?
If so is he justified? Even if I've been polite in pointing out his mistake? "
Maybe. Like I said men are sensitive about that kind of thing. As long as you're polite about it it's fine. No one is justified in responding abusively. Ever. If he is just block him and move on. |
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If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
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Evening if his first message was offensive to me?
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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago
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"You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.
Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore? "
Well, let’s ignore the size and colour of his cock just for a moment...
I just read your profile and to be honest it’s abundantly clear that if you are a man you’re not interested
No ambiguity there!
What’s the point of sending the message? He was just waisting his time!!
What a dick!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
Evening if his first message was offensive to me?
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It's up to you what you do.
I reply politely. Many times they apologise. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.
Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore?
Well, let’s ignore the size and colour of his cock just for a moment...
I just read your profile and to be honest it’s abundantly clear that if you are a man you’re not interested
No ambiguity there!
What’s the point of sending the message? He was just waisting his time!!
What a dick!!!"
I agree! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
Evening if his first message was offensive to me?
It's up to you what you do.
I reply politely. Many times they apologise. "
Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.
Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles. |
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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
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I would agree if he had messaged a woman that asked for men to message, in this case it was the polar opposite
Can’t even use the excuse that he can’t read or write and he managed to message her in the first place  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
I would agree if he had messaged a woman that asked for men to message, in this case it was the polar opposite
Can’t even use the excuse that he can’t read or write and he managed to message her in the first place "
See I'm of the same opinion.
Anyone who messages me having ignored my profile has opened themselves up for me to be brutally honest. If they don't respect me, why should I respect them?
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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
I would agree if he had messaged a woman that asked for men to message, in this case it was the polar opposite
Can’t even use the excuse that he can’t read or write and he managed to message her in the first place
See I'm of the same opinion.
Anyone who messages me having ignored my profile has opened themselves up for me to be brutally honest. If they don't respect me, why should I respect them?
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Absolutely!
I mean FFS! Read the profile first to see if you have any compatibility, then and only then send a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
Evening if his first message was offensive to me?
It's up to you what you do.
I reply politely. Many times they apologise.
Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.
Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles. "
But if you're mean back and they're a cock womble you're just proving what they believe anyway. That women are terrible and they are denying them sex and it's not their fault.
When they are mean/ abusive etc it's because they want a reaction. They want to hurt you. If you're nice back they don't get what they want.  |
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I would ask him where he stopped while reading my profile. As I am no size queen (within reason, but I am tiny), it would not bother me. I would just ask for a proper introduction, and if I do not get that, the person is discounted as someone with no manners and blocked. |
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
Evening if his first message was offensive to me?
It's up to you what you do.
I reply politely. Many times they apologise.
Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.
Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles. "
They apologise more often than not. Some new people genuinely think this is the way of talking to people on here. That they may be rejected for being "too nice". I have come across only a few wombles. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
Evening if his first message was offensive to me?
It's up to you what you do.
I reply politely. Many times they apologise.
Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.
Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles.
They apologise more often than not. Some new people genuinely think this is the way of talking to people on here. That they may be rejected for being "too nice". I have come across only a few wombles."
We've had very different experiences then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So he's an ABC"
 I like this.
But honestly, I'd rather these guys were just people. Even if i was looking for men, the size and colour of their dick is of very little importance to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.
Men are human too.
Evening if his first message was offensive to me?
It's up to you what you do.
I reply politely. Many times they apologise.
Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.
Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles.
They apologise more often than not. Some new people genuinely think this is the way of talking to people on here. That they may be rejected for being "too nice". I have come across only a few wombles."
 I agree, many new people think that's how it works. Same as thinking they must have cock pics or be on their 'friends' list just to get a reply. |
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