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over a year ago
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I regret settling for someone who didn't really want me, only what I represented for her.
An awful lot of my 'things' now are based around being wanted for me.
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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I think this life is just a game of survival,get to the end and you've won. The end being old age of course,what happens inbetween well that's a lottery,some things we're in control off other's we're not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No regrets for me as each event leads you to something new that could be a good thing. To have regrets would will away all sorts of positive through a chain reaction. That’s what I tell myself.
If I died tomorrow I’d know I’d lived a full and good life. But dying so soon would be the regret as I wouldn’t see my youngest grow up. |
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I would have no regrets, I had a wonderful childhood, have a close family, my sons are now both married and getting on with their own lives 
The last few years I had with my partner were the best days of my life, sadly he passed away last year, so many good memories and definitely no regrets |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would have no regrets, I had a wonderful childhood, have a close family, my sons are now both married and getting on with their own lives
The last few years I had with my partner were the best days of my life, sadly he passed away last year, so many good memories and definitely no regrets "
That's lovely and sad all wrapped up together. |
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I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I were to die tomorrow wouldn't matter if I were content or not.too late to change it now.
PS I do hope this passing will be quiet, peaceful and dignified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m ok if I die tomorrow.
I’d like to think the world would come to a stand still for an international day of mourning.
In reality, I doubt any one would even notice.  |
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No regrets from my past, it makes me who I am and still managed to hold on to my values
What I would regret is not having someone in place to clear my phone and my play box 
Seriously though, the only regret I would have is leaving my lad behind, at a time when he’s going to need the most guidance and support |
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I've no regrets in my past. They've made me the man and father I am today... I have improvements I can still make and I'll try hard every day.
If I died today I wouldn't have fulfilled my life's potential for sure, I have more I can give |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life."
Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her? |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m ok if I die tomorrow.
I’d like to think the world would come to a stand still for an international day of mourning.
In reality, I doubt any one would even notice. "
I have two guinea pigs,two goldfish and a teenager who would miss me. They'd be no food in. |
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"I’m ok if I die tomorrow.
I’d like to think the world would come to a stand still for an international day of mourning.
In reality, I doubt any one would even notice.
I have two guinea pigs,two goldfish and a teenager who would miss me. They'd be no food in."
That's one fish dish, and 2 guinea pork dinners at least .. teenager good for 3 days then |
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life.
Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her?"
I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m ok if I die tomorrow.
I’d like to think the world would come to a stand still for an international day of mourning.
In reality, I doubt any one would even notice.
I have two guinea pigs,two goldfish and a teenager who would miss me. They'd be no food in.
That's one fish dish, and 2 guinea pork dinners at least .. teenager good for 3 days then "
I think the child would rather die than have fish,whenever she asks what's for tea I say fish she loves it so much  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life.
Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her?
I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back."
Life would be a damn sight easier without emotions wouldn't it. |
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life.
Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her?
I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back.
Life would be a damn sight easier without emotions wouldn't it."
Wouldn't it just, I'm still the same warm person with friends that I aways have been, but I think my experience with this is why I'm now more of a commitment phobe when it comes to relationships. |
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I'd regret not seeing the child grow up.
I know my mum, who died last year, felt the same way about her only grandchild.
She kept saying to me "I wish you'd had her earlier", which at the time I took as a criticism....with hindsight I understand she just wanted to see her grow up.
They were very close.
We miss the old bat much. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life.
Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her?
I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back.
Life would be a damn sight easier without emotions wouldn't it.
Wouldn't it just, I'm still the same warm person with friends that I aways have been, but I think my experience with this is why I'm now more of a commitment phobe when it comes to relationships."
I don't blame you it's way less stress all round isn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’d like to enjoy many more years of living. I feel more content as each day goes by. However if my time was up today I’d be content with the life I have had. That said there is so much more I’d like to experience and see. Most importantly I want to spend considerably more time with those I love. |
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I'd be obviously gutted. My life is going so well it's not my time.
If I was to pop my clogs it would be with regret that I didn't stick around long enough for my daughter not with regret for the things I have done. |
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I regret situations.
I regret meeting some people.
But it is my journey not my destination.
If I died tomorrow I would be sad to leave the people I love, for them to be sad I wasn't here anymore.
Do I think I have lived my best life? No, I think I have lived, at times survived and 75% has been pretty shit.
But. You have to make the best of it. And that is what I am doing.
I hope I don't die tomorrow. I have plans, for the first time. |
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"Regrets are pointless,but I do have a few.
Then again ... too few to mention.
Tsk ... read back ... been done  "
I knowwwwwwwwww It was Hatter..... I tend to read UP ....
It's a habit i've got to stop.
Maybe i'll put reading up on the regrets page ....... fnarrrr ! |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I regret situations.
I regret meeting some people.
But it is my journey not my destination.
If I died tomorrow I would be sad to leave the people I love, for them to be sad I wasn't here anymore.
Do I think I have lived my best life? No, I think I have lived, at times survived and 75% has been pretty shit.
But. You have to make the best of it. And that is what I am doing.
I hope I don't die tomorrow. I have plans, for the first time. "
It would be interesting to see if we did get another chance at life how differently we would do it or whether we'd still do the same things,procrastinate,wait for tomorrow to be better etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you be content with how your life turned out,any regrets?"
I would be content. I would regret how I reacted to certain things. But if those things happened again I'd still react the same... so..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My whole life is one long regret.
Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted.
Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"My whole life is one long regret.
Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted.
Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot."
That's sad to read,I hope you find you slice of contentment soon. |
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"My whole life is one long regret.
Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted.
Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot."
Sending some good vibes. It’s difficult when you’re in a rut. If you’re really struggling there’s always a way out without tapping out. Not saying it’s easy though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regrets I didn’t tell more people to F off instead of allowing them to treat me like a door mat
Will you tell them now?"
yes hun I have & there deleted blocked on all social platforms feeling a lot happier to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My whole life is one long regret.
Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted.
Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot.
That's sad to read,I hope you find you slice of contentment soon."
Many thanks for the kind thoughts. Much appreciated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My whole life is one long regret.
Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted.
Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot.
Sending some good vibes. It’s difficult when you’re in a rut. If you’re really struggling there’s always a way out without tapping out. Not saying it’s easy though. "
Never tap out. I'm a whinger but never a quitter. Thanks for the thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I regret situations.
I regret meeting some people.
But it is my journey not my destination.
If I died tomorrow I would be sad to leave the people I love, for them to be sad I wasn't here anymore.
Do I think I have lived my best life? No, I think I have lived, at times survived and 75% has been pretty shit.
But. You have to make the best of it. And that is what I am doing.
I hope I don't die tomorrow. I have plans, for the first time. "
I love you - not as in I want your babies mind.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try not to have regrets.
I would not have the life I have and my family if I didn't make the choices I did in my life.
I do however have food regret a lot, as soon as I've eaten it :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regrets I didn’t tell more people to F off instead of allowing them to treat me like a door mat
Will you tell them now?
yes hun I have & there deleted blocked on all social platforms feeling a lot happier to "
Yay! |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I regret situations.
I regret meeting some people.
But it is my journey not my destination.
If I died tomorrow I would be sad to leave the people I love, for them to be sad I wasn't here anymore.
Do I think I have lived my best life? No, I think I have lived, at times survived and 75% has been pretty shit.
But. You have to make the best of it. And that is what I am doing.
I hope I don't die tomorrow. I have plans, for the first time.
I love you - not as in I want your babies mind.
P"
That's just as well  . No to be serious that is one of my regrets not trying a surrogate but it was hard as we lived in Germany at the time. I love the bundles I have now,it's been a rollercoaster of emotions but they're 95% mine.
It would have been great to see what my children looked like. |
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"Regrets I didn’t tell more people to F off instead of allowing them to treat me like a door mat
Will you tell them now?
yes hun I have & there deleted blocked on all social platforms feeling a lot happier to
Yay! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have regrets but i dont have control over them so and a few things i sacrificed couldnt change them tho but in general im happy enough but i cannot die |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If you're dead it's too late to have regrets. You wouldn't be around to have them, would you? "
Heaven may not let you in so you get stuck somewhere on the way up giving you time to think before you make the journey to hell...you know. |
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"I've had a good life. Still want to do more. Never any regrets. I'm happy 
Not even just a little tiny weeny regret?"
I'm sure with honesty and deep thought , I could reason something worthy of regret however , I generally dont not spend time regretting or any other emotion that will not change the outcome
Most events where another course could have occurred even if not always considered positive have led to learning understanding something , often an insight into me and help construct who I am now , and who I maybe
So regrets almost non |
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Apart from that, no regrets at all.... it's been a relatively good one.
