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I don't know what the question means |
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It's too seasonal to have one, they change too much. About eight years ago. |
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over a year ago
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Morning....im in x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, depending on how I feel it's either her on top so that I can watch and play; or doggy so that I can get deep and thrust hard. |
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Someone who appreciates it and will share it with me. A cafe overlooking the sea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer... i prefrr on top i have more control |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer...i dont eat breakfast |
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Probably on my back so I can get good eye contact....
Jo x |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
Hahaha, I used to be quite good at maths but not that great at arithmetic. But permutations and combinations have recently been running through my mind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I’m in! Keep me entertained seeing as I still haven’t slept and I’m struggling to settle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer....depends on my mood
A ice cold sweet cider sat on the seafront |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"Hahaha, I used to be quite good at maths but not that great at arithmetic. But permutations and combinations have recently been running through my mind! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in, ask away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pour the drink away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer...i actually got that one from ebay....quite a while ago now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am in like a great big inny thing with added inness.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In.... |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Fleet |
I have a trip coming up, it's going to be quite an adventure. A lot of new experiences and it was remarkably simple to organise. Fun times ahead. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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A cornucopia of berries and soft and intimate fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d choose to cut out bread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had some super buttery toast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It often feels like I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something large, fast and comfy. BMW M5 Touring. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'll go with brutal honesty and use the cloak of anonymity. Mixed - not stroking the ego but pleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not fussy which, tent or van |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wasn’t being a bitch in my response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer....always skip first slice |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Greek yoghurt. I want crumpets but alas, it's not to be for some time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right now, fast & frenzied. I need to go to work soon |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Fleet |
She didn't draw me, but then, I never asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No it’s weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Munster |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I had a piece of Toblerone last week but I can’t remember what the last whole bar of chocolate I ate was. Probably dairy milk. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
I’m in for a little while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t remember much, I was only out there for a year and a half and I came back to Scotland when I was six |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Fleet |
In a 1 to 1, reverse cowgirl for the feeling. Deep stick looking into their eyes for sexual intensity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer....really no idea why i skip 1st slice...someth ing ive always done
I drink all my coffee never leave a little for the reason you mentioned....as nope not weird like you |
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It would have to be a race day, and I would be Seb Vettel, so I could drive that Ferrari in a race, alongside Leclerc
D. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
I have a trip planned soon which excites me more than anything before. It’s on my mind a lot and always leaves me smiling
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hugo woman |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Kate Halfpenny dress with Louboutins, probably Pigalles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I’m in for a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer ....i have but need a new one . |
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Depends very much on the woman and what suits her! It's a cliche because it's true, something that highlights the best things about her figure and face, that she feels confident wearing. |
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No! Taking social as social, but that's not set in stone. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
Nutella, cream, banana, strawberries and yogurt
I’m too much of a lady to say |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Material culture. And neurotypical thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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over a year ago
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Hugo woman |
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No I haven’t I’ve seen a few flying overhead though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard one but hold ups for me
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
Always a dessert usually with strawberries |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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My get up and go playlist. Last two - Aerosmith and MCR. I'm an old emo girl secretly. |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Fleet |
"Nutella, cream, banana, strawberries and yogurt
I’m too much of a lady to say "
Collecting Tesco club points |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"Nutella, cream, banana, strawberries and yogurt
I’m too much of a lady to say
Collecting Tesco club points "
I’ve got a lot |
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Luckily I'm trained to be both.
But sadly I'll have to kill you or at the very least give you a very good spanking to prevent you spreading gossip under the official secrets act |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ears, my toes and my knees |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
the answer to that question would be to turn him on, nothing else matters |
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On here.. talking to a certain incredibly sexy lady about a shared addiction
Irl.... Jo lying down next to me telling me all her new fantasies
D. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
Of course you can, it’s been a long time coming |
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Gender studies. Long found it fascinating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What an awesome game, I’m in, will answer all questions honestly and will send a few out too x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Porn star worthy makeup obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in for exactly 34 minutes
I’ll take all sex based questions next Thursday though
Unless - you’re someone I like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just an anklet against tanned skinned... |
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The last song that I listened to was the Offspring- Why Dont You Get a Job
I mostly just want conversation and friendships out of fab, and hopefully I may get a shag of of it. I try not to have high expectations though, optimismst generally leads to disappointment and all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With a man - depends on the urgency
Thrown over something from behind
Or on top
With a woman - in charge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last one I listened to was David Bowie
And I think you’re great |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Drive well. Or rolling the sleeves up (that honestly hits me right *there*). Or read a book. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d take a dog with me to the island to swim and play with |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
Is that the fucking time, it was about five past three and yes I had morning glory too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that the fucking time, it was about five past three and yes I had morning glory too "
I’d like to join |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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This was a giggle last time I played.
I'm in x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go on then, we're in for a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are in! ( Mr is at work and not online so it’s really just me!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, in my opinion, they are.
There are many reasons as to why but I think many people feel that they have a vested interest in not rocking the boat, so give bland 'nice' responses.
The days of informed and frank discussions are long gone. It's a real shame. |
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For me it would be Pineapple.
For D it would be Bolognaise
Jo.Xx |
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It would be, standing up to a controlling & abusive partner.
Walking away with nothing, but my dignity.
Living in 1 room, for 3yrs with my children while I rebuilt our lives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chat to most people I’m interested in in the forums so your question is difficult to answer. |
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It's trite, but I felt the fear, and I did it anyway. In many ways about many things. Standing up for myself and overcoming my weaknesses and detractors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably boring, but moving to the UK. G is from here but had lived in the states for 14 years and leaving everything and starting anew was crazy.
Either that or climbing straight down the dissolving cliffs at Skipsea to get to the beach |
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Pizza
Being fed pizza, is even better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably a message I just deleted, either that or the forum post about owing replies lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In an ideal world I'd have a bedroom with a skylight in it or a conservatory with a pull out bed in it, and just have amazing, passionate sex in the dark, listening to the thunder and the rain on the windows. Those sounds are also my favourite to fall asleep to so I imagine I'd have a pretty awesome sleep too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately I can think of any particular bad moments. That either means I'm a very good boy, or much alcohol was involved. I'm sure my friends would be able to point one out though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's would be a hard one, there are quite a few things that we've talked about/planned. Possibly a first club or going camping together (although I hate camping) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your comments made me sad. Yes I am getting sick of all the same people posting the same tra la la comments all the time too. It’s so boring and predictable. Maybe start some debate topics but warn people in the thread that this thread will be non lovey pukey dovey? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One G and I were in the carpark at a shopping centre in front of my car. I had his cock in my mouth and two men came out the door at the end. They yelled “oh shiiiiiiit he’s getting it, let’s go” and started to go away quickly haha this happened AS he came, I burst out laughing, cum was ch*ked on and I spat and it still makes me laugh. We were seen coming out of the toilets at my old work once as well, but that wasn’t on the same level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stealing pick and mix at Woolworths. White mice slipped so easily into my mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably the first time that we told each other how we felt... |
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D. Barcelona fountain display when we had our first holiday together (I wanted to propose but the only ring I had was a ring-pull from a can and I thought it was a crap idea )
Jo. Going to a club night with the hope that I don’t bump into someone I know again so that we can play!
D. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr- FFM
Mrs- a swing , as boring as that may be lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was 19 I used to be sleeping with my married boss at work. She would either pick me up and we go and fuck in the. Are somewhere or she would take me to hers when he was away. Riskiest was we used to be only ones in while everyone at lunch so used to fuck behind one of the isles in the warehouse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably equality for all, preference for none. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Chilli prawn linguine. Or a paella. Or steak. I'm honestly dire at decisions. |
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We tell each other how much we appreciated each other on a regular basis
D. |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"Is that the fucking time, it was about five past three and yes I had morning glory too
I’d like to join "
Can't ask you a question.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those where we learn from each other and about each other. Intelligence is a huge turn on and that needs to be given a chance to shine through |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ask myself several questions:
Are they what I'm looking for?
Am I what they're looking for?
Basically do our interests match and are we within each other's age brackets.
The key is to read the profile and if we match then send a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bathe in the blood of men who write “lush tits babe” accompanied by a dick pic . Good for the skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m often alone but a spot of retail therapy always hits the spot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I don't. I do think that people should be honest though, not what they think others want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like not getting dressed, making tea, putting music on loudly while I wander around doing little chores in peace. I love being home alone.
If I was out I would get a giant latte and sit around people watching. Then I’d think I was going to shop and just go buy more leggings and go home to my quiet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work on inspiration, often a comment or phrasing from someone will set my wheels turning. Much the same as I need someone to be open and sharp in conversation, I need something to work with, otherwise I spend my day thinking about incidentals. |
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I'm too sneaky to get caught. Ninja skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I don't think there's such a thing as 'shouldn't have', unless it's illegal. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It still exists, I'm using it in studying and with others away from here.
Right now I'm using the fora to decompress mentally due to things going on away from the site; I'd much rather engage in light hearted conversation that boost my serotonin levels than discuss certain topics with the same posters passive aggressively stating their truth as the only truth. That dogmatic approach and the lack of openmindedness is yawn inducing and hardly cohesive to debate. I find the fallacy laden arguments eyeroll inducing after a certain point. And I think generally the fora is in its lovefest stage currently. It's cyclic and the debates will return at some point. Whether I take part or not is uncertain. |
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"It still exists, I'm using it in studying and with others away from here.
Right now I'm using the fora to decompress mentally due to things going on away from the site; I'd much rather engage in light hearted conversation that boost my serotonin levels than discuss certain topics with the same posters passive aggressively stating their truth as the only truth. That dogmatic approach and the lack of openmindedness is yawn inducing and hardly cohesive to debate. I find the fallacy laden arguments eyeroll inducing after a certain point. And I think generally the fora is in its lovefest stage currently. It's cyclic and the debates will return at some point. Whether I take part or not is uncertain."
I love it when you talk dirty Meli!
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I know you miss it though so maybe it will reappear soon. |
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Flapjack is my favourite baked food. But I wouldnt go that far for it as I'm lazy and there are some nice bakeries in brum I can go to. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I love it when you talk dirty Meli!
D."
Maybe I should revert back to my other facet more often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Peanut butter bagel |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It involves writing.
That's as far as I am going. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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There isn't one. I'm all for people doing what makes them happy and owning that in whatever guise it comes in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always wondered what would be like having 2 from same family ( not necessarily at same time) mum/ daughter or sister /sister etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone should be given the same opportunities regardless of what they look like or believe. But if they mess up, why should they still be treated better just because they belong to a certain group? That leads to resentments and hatred and is not equality in my eyes. Simples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know you miss it though so maybe it will reappear soon. "
Woohoo |
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Hot air balloon. I would really love yo sky dive and go in a hot air balloon so it would be a two birds with one stone situation. |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
I don't like this game. |
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I think id have to go with shark! At least you could potentially punch it to try to escape |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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The little fried egg ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No I don't when it comes to responding to people. I respond to the post more than the poster.
When it comes to flirting, yes. That's more to do with how others interact with me and wanting to remain fairly discreet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still in - Mrs |
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I've had snails before .. wasnt keen ... erm tough one lol I'd say snails again . U less the shoping centre was closed then I'd do that haha |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d have to be naked in the shopping centre as I am phobic of slugs and snails are just slugs with a house. |
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over a year ago
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
No responses or being totally ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sweetcorn |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
A slug........ don’t ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would trade one arm for a bear arm. It could still open cupboards and could just smack the crap out of anyone who needed it lol |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
I'd jump out of a plane without a parachute so long as it wasn't over shark infested waters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right catching up from this morning
Tuna crunch ... melt
America but I’d love to be on the coast
Whinging people but this changes daily |
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