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Hi all, so I split with my ex nearly 2 months back and she has moved on with another guy which is fine no probs. But she keeps texting me etc even though says she is happy etc. Said our connection we had was strong and will never ne broken. I just dont get it. They are a couple so she says sleeping together but chats with me on video chat when he dont stay over. Totally confused. |
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"Hi all, so I split with my ex nearly 2 months back and she has moved on with another guy which is fine no probs. But she keeps texting me etc even though says she is happy etc. Said our connection we had was strong and will never ne broken. I just dont get it. They are a couple so she says sleeping together but chats with me on video chat when he dont stay over. Totally confused. "
My wife and I were married for 25 years when we split up (on fairly good terms).
We text stuff about the kids and grandkids etc. We have never video chatted. Seems a bit too personal/intimate.
Do you want her as a friend? If not, you may have to draw a line.
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"Ask her.
Or block her number. "
I did ask her and she said because we had a strong connection that wont go over night. But it's been 2 month nearly. I think it's so she can inform me of what she is up to get me. |
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Ask her, not strangers.
I still chat and go to gigs with my ex. He was one of my best friends and although we fell out of love we still enjoy chatting and each other’s company. She may still see you as her best friend and miss your chats. |
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over a year ago
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"Ask her.
Or block her number.
I did ask her and she said because we had a strong connection that wont go over night. But it's been 2 month nearly. I think it's so she can inform me of what she is up to get me. "
Maybe she just wants to be friends. A strong connection is hard to let go of. But if it’s getting to you, I’d just block her number. Simple as that. I wouldn’t dwell on it. |
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over a year ago
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With only hearing your side of this, I'd say maybe a hint of rubbing it in to show she's doing ok in case you move on too quickly and don't care too much. She she also not be as happy as she suggests.
There will be other offerings too no doubt. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Just because a relationship ends, doesn't mean affection and friendship disappears.
I've stayed close to 80% of my ex's. I have been to their weddings, invited them to mine, we've helped each other through the bad times and celebrated the good. |
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"Ask her, not strangers.
I still chat and go to gigs with my ex. He was one of my best friends and although we fell out of love we still enjoy chatting and each other’s company. She may still see you as her best friend and miss your chats. "
She did say that she felt had lost her best friend. |
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"With only hearing your side of this, I'd say maybe a hint of rubbing it in to show she's doing ok in case you move on too quickly and don't care too much. She she also not be as happy as she suggests.
There will be other offerings too no doubt."
It was her choice to split up as didnt like my new job choice and being away doing training even tho back every weekend. |
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"Ask her.
Or block her number.
I did ask her and she said because we had a strong connection that wont go over night. But it's been 2 month nearly. I think it's so she can inform me of what she is up to get me. "
surely that’s a form of mental torture it’s like rubbing nose in it .... it wouldn’t be for me sorry so just block x |
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"I'd tell her to make her mind up if you're interested in taking her back. "
Says there is no going back for us which I just dont get why she keeps contact with me. I dont initiate it it's all her. I dont block or delete coz I'm not that kind of person |
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"Hi all, so I split with my ex nearly 2 months back and she has moved on with another guy which is fine no probs. But she keeps texting me etc even though says she is happy etc. Said our connection we had was strong and will never ne broken. I just dont get it. They are a couple so she says sleeping together but chats with me on video chat when he dont stay over. Totally confused. "
Why are you pretending you’ve a problem with it? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"It takes two to tackle. If you dont want this to happen then firstly tell her then block her. The end.
Tango 
Did wonder lol. "
You dont need to read the same book twice. The ending is always the same  |
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"Tell her to shape up or ship out. You got bigger fish to fry. Then get yourself back on the market and look forwards, not backwards."
I am trying to be honest. I told her I was out the other night with a girl I know from my course and she got all shitty about it which I thought hold on your with your BF doing all sorts. The cheek. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It takes two to tackle. If you dont want this to happen then firstly tell her then block her. The end.
Tango
Did wonder lol.
You dont need to read the same book twice. The ending is always the same "
Strangely life is just a book unfinished. Not a novel already written. Who knows how it will end |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"It takes two to tackle. If you dont want this to happen then firstly tell her then block her. The end.
Tango
Did wonder lol.
You dont need to read the same book twice. The ending is always the same
Strangely life is just a book unfinished. Not a novel already written. Who knows how it will end"
Trust me when you go back it always ends the same for normally the same reasons. So..the end is always the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She’s doing it to play mind games just ignore them leave her to it and keep moving on with your life she will see it dosent phase you and then you’ll either be friends or just drift apart into your own life’s don’t dwell on the past think of the future and let her play her games but just don’t let it bother you
Eventually her mind games she’s trying to play with you will backfire and annoy her so just move on and leave her to it
Just my opinion |
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"She’s doing it to play mind games just ignore them leave her to it and keep moving on with your life she will see it dosent phase you and then you’ll either be friends or just drift apart into your own life’s don’t dwell on the past think of the future and let her play her games but just don’t let it bother you
Eventually her mind games she’s trying to play with you will backfire and annoy her so just move on and leave her to it
Just my opinion "
That's my thinking on it also and that's what will do. |
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"It’s over a year since she got rid of you for another guy, time you moved on..
2 months ago and I am seems she ain't tho says she has. "
Do you think it’s possible that she thinks you’re a lying, cheating prick? |
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