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Would you date or get into a relationship with someone you met on Fab?
I’m looking to meet someone ideally for dating with a view to long term relationship, tried other dating apps but find it difficult to meet likeminded individuals who enjoy swinging but actually want a relationship.
I’d rather be open and honest from the outset about sexual preference and swinging etc with someone than cheat on them.
Spoke to a few people who say that this is not the right place for this..
Just wanted to hear some opinions from fellow Fabbers...
Would you consider a relationship with someone you met on Fab?
Is this the wrong place to look for this?
Do you find it difficult to meet someone who is open minded about their sexual preferences etc on other dating apps?
Would love to hear for people x
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't have a relationship with someone off here.
Lots of people have met their partners on here and there's always threads for people wanting to date. Good luck.  |
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This type of thing happens (to us for example) but I've only ever seen it happen by chance not intention.
If you actively seek a relationship I would advise you not to put all your eggs in one basket. Use this site by all means but use standard dating apps too and go to socials and clubs.
Most single men on here don't even get to meet anybody by all accounts. Finding a relationship is an order of magnitude less likely. Be prepared for the odds to be against you. Examine your priorities and work out where you are prepared to make compromises. |
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"Would you date or get into a relationship with someone you met on Fab?
I’m looking to meet someone ideally for dating with a view to long term relationship, tried other dating apps but find it difficult to meet likeminded individuals who enjoy swinging but actually want a relationship.
I’d rather be open and honest from the outset about sexual preference and swinging etc with someone than cheat on them.
Spoke to a few people who say that this is not the right place for this..
Just wanted to hear some opinions from fellow Fabbers...
Would you consider a relationship with someone you met on Fab?
Is this the wrong place to look for this?
Do you find it difficult to meet someone who is open minded about their sexual preferences etc on other dating apps?
Would love to hear for people x
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I met my Mr. On a site similar to this over 13 years ago. We are now in a loving relationship with a family and have frequented this site many times during our journey.
I love the relationship we have; I am able to Express myself with no fear of what he may think, and enjoy inviting others into our dynamic without any unwanted feelings...
So, yes. It can definitely work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely would and have considered taking things up a notch with someone I met from here.... oh hang on, we did!
We met here as singles and neither were looking for anything more than laughter, friendship and great sex.
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over a year ago
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Met Mr on here, has been difficult at times, as not everyone is respectful of some of the dynamics in a relationship, but by ignoring them we’ve been ok. As in any relationship it’s about respect, no different really, apart from the having sexual contact with others, haha xx |
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over a year ago
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Why wouldn’t I? What makes someone any different from here than outside of here. I want to have a serious relationship with someone of a likeminded mind. Why not from here? |
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"Why wouldn’t I? What makes someone any different from here than outside of here. I want to have a serious relationship with someone of a likeminded mind. Why not from here?"
This. To have a relationship with someone it means a connection or shared interest that you can then build on to see if there’s more.
It’s no different to people meeting at any event or place; it’s just a beginning. The only difference here is that when you play scrabble together you can allow words like MILF and BBC  |
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"This type of thing happens (to us for example) but I've only ever seen it happen by chance not intention.
If you actively seek a relationship I would advise you not to put all your eggs in one basket. Use this site by all means but use standard dating apps too and go to socials and clubs.
Most single men on here don't even get to meet anybody by all accounts. Finding a relationship is an order of magnitude less likely. Be prepared for the odds to be against you. Examine your priorities and work out where you are prepared to make compromises."
Thanks great advice x |
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"Would you date or get into a relationship with someone you met on Fab?
I’m looking to meet someone ideally for dating with a view to long term relationship, tried other dating apps but find it difficult to meet likeminded individuals who enjoy swinging but actually want a relationship.
I’d rather be open and honest from the outset about sexual preference and swinging etc with someone than cheat on them.
Spoke to a few people who say that this is not the right place for this..
Just wanted to hear some opinions from fellow Fabbers...
Would you consider a relationship with someone you met on Fab?
Is this the wrong place to look for this?
Do you find it difficult to meet someone who is open minded about their sexual preferences etc on other dating apps?
Would love to hear for people x
I met my Mr. On a site similar to this over 13 years ago. We are now in a loving relationship with a family and have frequented this site many times during our journey.
I love the relationship we have; I am able to Express myself with no fear of what he may think, and enjoy inviting others into our dynamic without any unwanted feelings...
So, yes. It can definitely work "
That’s fantastic exactly where I’d like to be in the near future.. thanks for sharing x |
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I'll start by saying I have absolutely no recent experience of dating with a view to a relationship.
That said I can't see any reason why it wouldn't be possible to form a long term relationship on fab. I would consider it if I was ever thinking of getting in to one. I do think though that the chances of meeting someone who is prepared to be completely open about their requirements is no greater on fab than anywhere else. When looking for longer term people tend to show themselves in the best light. Also things change when deep emotions come in to play and the person who was ok with swinging at six weeks might not be at six months.
We find it difficult to meet people who are open minded about sexual preferences anywhere. Fab (some) members are amongst the least open minded we've met.
All in all you have as good a chance here as anywhere but I wouldn't exclude other avenues. Just be open and honest from the start yourself.
Ps I wouldn't look for a ltr anywhere. I don't think I could build up one that would compare |
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"I'll start by saying I have absolutely no recent experience of dating with a view to a relationship.
That said I can't see any reason why it wouldn't be possible to form a long term relationship on fab. I would consider it if I was ever thinking of getting in to one. I do think though that the chances of meeting someone who is prepared to be completely open about their requirements is no greater on fab than anywhere else. When looking for longer term people tend to show themselves in the best light. Also things change when deep emotions come in to play and the person who was ok with swinging at six weeks might not be at six months.
We find it difficult to meet people who are open minded about sexual preferences anywhere. Fab (some) members are amongst the least open minded we've met.
All in all you have as good a chance here as anywhere but I wouldn't exclude other avenues. Just be open and honest from the start yourself.
Ps I wouldn't look for a ltr anywhere. I don't think I could build up one that would compare"
Thank you, great and honest advice.
I’ve used other dating mediums.. apps or been set up by friends etc tried to be open and honest about about preferences (obviously not on the first date to freak the poor girl out lol) I mean when the conversation has been appropriate and has come up but I find a lot of women I’ve met so far tend to get freaked out or are too vanilla to even say they like porn let a lot even dream of swinging lol
I think I will remain open and honest despite the fact I’m yet to find the filthy love of my life and just wait til she comes along lol
But yeah I really appreciate you taking the time to share your opinion x |
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"I'll start by saying I have absolutely no recent experience of dating with a view to a relationship.
That said I can't see any reason why it wouldn't be possible to form a long term relationship on fab. I would consider it if I was ever thinking of getting in to one. I do think though that the chances of meeting someone who is prepared to be completely open about their requirements is no greater on fab than anywhere else. When looking for longer term people tend to show themselves in the best light. Also things change when deep emotions come in to play and the person who was ok with swinging at six weeks might not be at six months.
We find it difficult to meet people who are open minded about sexual preferences anywhere. Fab (some) members are amongst the least open minded we've met.
All in all you have as good a chance here as anywhere but I wouldn't exclude other avenues. Just be open and honest from the start yourself.
Ps I wouldn't look for a ltr anywhere. I don't think I could build up one that would compare
Thank you, great and honest advice.
I’ve used other dating mediums.. apps or been set up by friends etc tried to be open and honest about about preferences (obviously not on the first date to freak the poor girl out lol) I mean when the conversation has been appropriate and has come up but I find a lot of women I’ve met so far tend to get freaked out or are too vanilla to even say they like porn let a lot even dream of swinging lol
I think I will remain open and honest despite the fact I’m yet to find the filthy love of my life and just wait til she comes along lol
But yeah I really appreciate you taking the time to share your opinion x"
If I was dating I'd say what I want from a relationship on day one. I don't have time to wait and see. I think if someone is going to be freaked out by me insisting on financial security, a warm house, having a cat and a BDSM element to our relationship it's best to find out at the start.
I'd probably be single for a very long time  |
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"I'll start by saying I have absolutely no recent experience of dating with a view to a relationship.
That said I can't see any reason why it wouldn't be possible to form a long term relationship on fab. I would consider it if I was ever thinking of getting in to one. I do think though that the chances of meeting someone who is prepared to be completely open about their requirements is no greater on fab than anywhere else. When looking for longer term people tend to show themselves in the best light. Also things change when deep emotions come in to play and the person who was ok with swinging at six weeks might not be at six months.
We find it difficult to meet people who are open minded about sexual preferences anywhere. Fab (some) members are amongst the least open minded we've met.
All in all you have as good a chance here as anywhere but I wouldn't exclude other avenues. Just be open and honest from the start yourself.
Ps I wouldn't look for a ltr anywhere. I don't think I could build up one that would compare
Thank you, great and honest advice.
I’ve used other dating mediums.. apps or been set up by friends etc tried to be open and honest about about preferences (obviously not on the first date to freak the poor girl out lol) I mean when the conversation has been appropriate and has come up but I find a lot of women I’ve met so far tend to get freaked out or are too vanilla to even say they like porn let a lot even dream of swinging lol
I think I will remain open and honest despite the fact I’m yet to find the filthy love of my life and just wait til she comes along lol
But yeah I really appreciate you taking the time to share your opinion x
If I was dating I'd say what I want from a relationship on day one. I don't have time to wait and see. I think if someone is going to be freaked out by me insisting on financial security, a warm house, having a cat and a BDSM element to our relationship it's best to find out at the start.
I'd probably be single for a very long time "
Yeah I think being honest from the start can go along way and save a lot of time x |
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