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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
It's a common lament on the forums that the ones we fancy the most are miles away.
Let’s not let a bit of distance get in the way of a sexy adventure.
If there’s someone you like that’s miles away, and it’s mutual, then let them know and get creative about bridging the gap.
Who would you go the extra mile for?
Let them know below or by pm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I travelled quite a distance once for a meet. Which was very much worth it at the time.
I love travel though, and don't see it as a barrier, provided the situation is right of course. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Agree distance is not a barrier if you know somebody. We drove to London last weekend to meet a couple and had a fantastic night but we had met and played before.
Would be reluctant to do the same for somebody who I only knew through messages on here and maybe a video or phone chat. |
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I live in Derby which is probably the most central part of the country that you can get. I've had 3 ladies who have traveled up from the South Coast to come and stop at mine, one even came twice, but nobody local or from ooop North yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agree distance is not a barrier if you know somebody. We drove to London last weekend to meet a couple and had a fantastic night but we had met and played before.
Would be reluctant to do the same for somebody who I only knew through messages on here and maybe a video or phone chat."
That's my issue. Some people are not easy to read via messages and video calls alone. They may feel the same.. I dont really fancy making a shit load of effort only to find its weird, awkward and little actual chemistry.
An hours radius, give or take.. for travelling and accommodation.
Takes a lot of pressure off. |
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I've had some fantastic meets with people from many miles away...it takes a bit more planning than a local meet, but there's a bigger sense of adventure. You can always overcome distance if you really want to meet |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you."
*cough cough  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you.
*cough cough "
Alright, alright. Rubi, I'm counting down the days until we meet. You're on my wall planner (you are!) and whenever I see your name I think Ru take control? Pah.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you."
I can’t wait 
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol."
Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you.
*cough cough
Alright, alright. Rubi, I'm counting down the days until we meet. You're on my wall planner (you are!) and whenever I see your name I think Ru take control? Pah. "
*smiles at Meli's teasing and adds a note to the "things Meli needs punished for" list. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
For a one off meet distance isn't an issue at all, for a regular thing it makes it more of a challenge. You can make it work but both people need to be committed to it and really want it, that's my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.
Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though "
There’s always London... |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.
Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though
There’s always London..."
True! That’s doable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance has never been an issue for me, I like travelling and my local area has always been rather bereft anyway. If I liked someone and the chemistry was there then making plans was fun.
In terms of the OP; Dotty. She lives 300 miles away and is always worth the journey.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.
Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though
There’s always London...
True! That’s doable! "
Doable is always good.  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I don't do miles."
This. I just can’t see anybody being that amazing a shag that i’d want to go to all the effort of driving on a Motorway. Motorways are full of shit drivers.
And if they were amazing at the sex, i’d get fed up that they lived so far away.
Nope. I’ll stick to the local men.
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"I don't do miles.
This. I just can’t see anybody being that amazing a shag that i’d want to go to all the effort of driving on a Motorway. Motorways are full of shit drivers.
And if they were amazing at the sex, i’d get fed up that they lived so far away.
Nope. I’ll stick to the local men.
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*gives up smoking, knocks a few years off his age, and moves to South Wales  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance is nothing!
Mr and I met online while living 5000 miles apart. Leap if they’re worth it, even if just for a good time even if we hadn’t ended up together, he was the best sex I’d ever had, well worth the trip haha |
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
The right place |
"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.
Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though
There’s always London...
True! That’s doable!
Doable is always good. "
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
Distance is my curse that's for sure. Thinking about it, if someone was looking for the same as me as per my profile and they ticked some of my interest boxes (I'm not talking sexual) now. Then I think yes I'd be happy to made that investment in time. However I cant travel that far due to my commitments at home but maybe they can.
For just sex nope I'm not your girl. If you have to think about choosing me then I'm also not your girl.
So if you think I'm worth it you know where I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Distance is my curse that's for sure. Thinking about it, if someone was looking for the same as me as per my profile and they ticked some of my interest boxes (I'm not talking sexual) now. Then I think yes I'd be happy to made that investment in time. However I cant travel that far due to my commitments at home but maybe they can.
For just sex nope I'm not your girl. If you have to think about choosing me then I'm also not your girl.
So if you think I'm worth it you know where I am "
True. I’ve always said that. If I’m part of a choice there’s no longer a choice. Always go for the other one 
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Distance is my curse that's for sure. Thinking about it, if someone was looking for the same as me as per my profile and they ticked some of my interest boxes (I'm not talking sexual) now. Then I think yes I'd be happy to made that investment in time. However I cant travel that far due to my commitments at home but maybe they can.
For just sex nope I'm not your girl. If you have to think about choosing me then I'm also not your girl.
So if you think I'm worth it you know where I am
True. I’ve always said that. If I’m part of a choice there’s no longer a choice. Always go for the other one
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Absolutely Nora. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its unlikely I would forge any kinda connection with someone who lived miles away.
Real life would make it difficult to see them on any kind of regular basis and a virtual relationship would be unfulfilling for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love travelling around the UK. And I don’t mind travelling for a meet. I see it as visiting friends.
But, I don’t actually know if that actually puts people off.
There’s someone on here I fancy, but I think they know I do (well, hopefully).
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