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By *partharmony OP   Couple  over a year ago

Ruislip

I have just had a vasectomy.

We are a strictly safe-sex couple but we are happy we are not going to catch anything off each other. We have always used condoms in order to avoid an unwanted pregnancy but we looked for an alternative.

Hannah offered to do something that would mean we could dispense with contraception but I didn't feel that it should be a woman's responsibility to alter her body and take risks when the man benefits too. So I proposed that I have a vasectomy. It turns out she was hoping I would offer to do that but didn't want to say anything so I didn't feel any pressure to do it.

I feel good because I've done right by the one I love. It's not done lightly though because I still have altered my body forever.

I am now giving myself a pat on the back by eating a pack of Bakewell slices.

Luke

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have a second pack! Good work. It makes it so much easier and is so much less invasive for a man to be sterilised than a woman.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury

Good man, I'm a huge proponent of vasectomy's. I'd get one myself if I thought they would agree to it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Congrats

Hoping the Mr can do the same...he was told he'd have to pay

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By *edmark07Man  over a year ago

liverpool

Well done Mr

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

Well done, OP. I hope you are soon back in action!

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By *partharmony OP   Couple  over a year ago

Ruislip


"Congrats

Hoping the Mr can do the same...he was told he'd have to pay

"

Is that because of a lack of children? I had mine done on the NHS.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Congratulations and well done.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Congrats

Hoping the Mr can do the same...he was told he'd have to pay

Is that because of a lack of children? I had mine done on the NHS."

Yep, he's 49 in a week, no kids, I'm 30, no kids....so they said he has to pay and it's expensive!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I did it too, was a no-brainer for us. Enjoy the cakes

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I was told that the Mirena coil is the most permanent thing the NHS offers for women.

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By *coxy69Man  over a year ago

Stone


"I have just had a vasectomy.

We are a strictly safe-sex couple but we are happy we are not going to catch anything off each other. We have always used condoms in order to avoid an unwanted pregnancy but we looked for an alternative.

Hannah offered to do something that would mean we could dispense with contraception but I didn't feel that it should be a woman's responsibility to alter her body and take risks when the man benefits too. So I proposed that I have a vasectomy. It turns out she was hoping I would offer to do that but didn't want to say anything so I didn't feel any pressure to do it.

I feel good because I've done right by the one I love. It's not done lightly though because I still have altered my body forever.

I am now giving myself a pat on the back by eating a pack of Bakewell slices.

Luke"

I had the snip 15 years ago, best days work i’ve Ever done!

Also it’s far simpler than the female equivalent.

My cock was back on the nest in 24hrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was told that the Mirena coil is the most permanent thing the NHS offers for women. "

No use for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

best thing ive done..

for many reasons

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

My ex husband had a vasectomy, probably the best thing he did in our marriage tbh

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I was told that the Mirena coil is the most permanent thing the NHS offers for women.

No use for me "

I have it, although partly also for health reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mr here - Well done mate, more balls than me ... Excuse the pun!

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