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over a year ago
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think   "
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Life is too short. Totally agree. I lost my best mate and father in a couple of months. Made re reassess life and decided to do more things for fun and not let being sensible get in the way.
What is it you’re wanting to do? |
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over a year ago
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
it's a woman thing, I just do whatever comes into my mind but this only happens when I stand up and let it breath |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
Fuck yes, all the time. 
I wish I could roll with the  me all the time. But the thoughtful me makes me a bore. 
Jo.Xx |
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"Life is too short. Totally agree. I lost my best mate and father in a couple of months. Made re reassess life and decided to do more things for fun and not let being sensible get in the way.
What is it you’re wanting to do? "
Aww I'm really sorry to hear that...but glad you have taken that from your loss. I totally agree life is precious and we need to grab those moments... What would I like to do...oooh there's so many things |
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"Life is too short. Totally agree. I lost my best mate and father in a couple of months. Made re reassess life and decided to do more things for fun and not let being sensible get in the way.
What is it you’re wanting to do?
Aww I'm really sorry to hear that...but glad you have taken that from your loss. I totally agree life is precious and we need to grab those moments... What would I like to do...oooh there's so many things "
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Yep!
Fighting cancer and severe mental health issues is what taught me to live, really live!
I try to make the most of everything and take every opportunity these days! You never know what's around the corner and I want to have lived, not existed. |
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After loosing 9 people, in under 12mths a few years ago.
I decided caution could go right out the chuffin window.
Life really is too short, I'm still a planner, a thinker.
I just started to plan all the things I'd been to scares to do before |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think it's a woman thing, I just do whatever comes into my mind but this only happens when I stand up and let it breath "
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think
Fuck yes, all the time.
I wish I could roll with the me all the time. But the thoughtful me makes me a bore.
Jo.Xx "
It's not been a bore, sometimes we do have to be sensible but it is sooo annoying when that happens x |
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"Yep!
Fighting cancer and severe mental health issues is what taught me to live, really live!
I try to make the most of everything and take every opportunity these days! You never know what's around the corner and I want to have lived, not existed."
Your just wonderful and so I'm so happy you grasp every moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
Yes , that's why I go to my hills .
It's ok not to be ok Cariad x x |
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"After loosing 9 people, in under 12mths a few years ago.
I decided caution could go right out the chuffin window.
Life really is too short, I'm still a planner, a thinker.
I just started to plan all the things I'd been to scares to do before "
I do when faced with loss or adversity like this it really does me you reavaluate life and on the whole make us more positive... Sending hugs xx |
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"All the time mostly about going to clubs then the overthinking kicks in and all the nerves so I don't end up going "
I understand that... But then also think what you could be missing out on... One time I hope you go and have an amazing time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m normally a logical person and weigh up the options but some times it is fun to say “F*ck it” and just go with the flow  "
Could not have said that better myself |
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My best caution to the wind story is this: I’m an over thinker, I worry and fret and get in my own way. I met a guy in a chatroom in 1999, we were friends for a year and it felt like more but seemed silly as it was online and that wasn’t considered valid back then. I bought a plane ticket, flew 5000 miles to meet him and it was real. We’ve been married since 2002.
If I listened to my overthinking self, I wouldn’t have met him, and I definitely wouldn’t be living in England. The way that worked out definitely makes me push through my thoughts and just do the thing, even if it’s not as big as that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
Yep. All the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
i over think way too much and know i dont have control on how things go ( as others involved).so yes it gets spoilt ... and i end up missing out |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
All the time....then I over think,i give myself a headache then...and then I get pissed off with myself for letting myself get stressed....good luck, xxxx |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think
Yes , that's why I go to my hills .
It's ok not to be ok Cariad x x"
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"My best caution to the wind story is this: I’m an over thinker, I worry and fret and get in my own way. I met a guy in a chatroom in 1999, we were friends for a year and it felt like more but seemed silly as it was online and that wasn’t considered valid back then. I bought a plane ticket, flew 5000 miles to meet him and it was real. We’ve been married since 2002.
If I listened to my overthinking self, I wouldn’t have met him, and I definitely wouldn’t be living in England. The way that worked out definitely makes me push through my thoughts and just do the thing, even if it’s not as big as that. "
That's absolutely amazing.. And that's why in life I just think you have to think f**k it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
Yeah, I just had some fruit that was a day past it’s best before date, fuck it, I’m in all day. |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think
Yeah, I just had some fruit that was a day past it’s best before date, fuck it, I’m in all day. "
Haha good luck |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think
Fuck yes, all the time.
I wish I could roll with the me all the time. But the thoughtful me makes me a bore.
Jo.Xx
It's not been a bore, sometimes we do have to be sensible but it is sooo annoying when that happens x"
We have both had our share of 'near misses' shall we say. And that has definitely given us both a fuck it attitude but like you say sometimes the sensible self stops things in there track and that is soo annoying/frustrating when it does. 
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’d like to up sticks and leave Devon, I’ve got no ties here, I don’t know what stops me. I think about it all the time, I think there must be a better way than go work, come home, go work, ad nauseam. |
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With the way my (Bubbles) life has been over the last 8 years, I basically do a mix of planned and spontaneous. If I wake up one morning and decide to do something, I do it.
The old cliché....Life’s too short, my friends |
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"I’d like to up sticks and leave Devon, I’ve got no ties here, I don’t know what stops me. I think about it all the time, I think there must be a better way than go work, come home, go work, ad nauseam."
It's not easy.. I changed my career after 19 years and my 18 year marriage ended all in the space of 6 months... It was bloody hard but now I couldn't be happier.. (well a couple of things are missing haha) sometimes you have to take that leap of faith x |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
Yes on a regular daily basis! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My best caution to the wind story is this: I’m an over thinker, I worry and fret and get in my own way. I met a guy in a chatroom in 1999, we were friends for a year and it felt like more but seemed silly as it was online and that wasn’t considered valid back then. I bought a plane ticket, flew 5000 miles to meet him and it was real. We’ve been married since 2002.
If I listened to my overthinking self, I wouldn’t have met him, and I definitely wouldn’t be living in England. The way that worked out definitely makes me push through my thoughts and just do the thing, even if it’s not as big as that. "
Very similar but for me not anyone else.
At 18 (1988) as soon as I could get my Passport I left the uk for good I did not hesitate for one second, after such a shit childhood I had to get away. I traveled through France, Spain, Gibraltar then Tangier, Algiers, Tunisia, Libya and finally entered Egypt 5 months later, Egypt has always seemed to be calling me it's all I ever thought of.
Egypt has been good to me I have a good life here.
If you dont do what your heart desires, you will always think 'What If' just do it.
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"I’d like to up sticks and leave Devon, I’ve got no ties here, I don’t know what stops me. I think about it all the time, I think there must be a better way than go work, come home, go work, ad nauseam."
Where would you go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After loosing 9 people, in under 12mths a few years ago.
I decided caution could go right out the chuffin window.
Life really is too short, I'm still a planner, a thinker.
I just started to plan all the things I'd been to scares to do before "
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"With the way my (Bubbles) life has been over the last 8 years, I basically do a mix of planned and spontaneous. If I wake up one morning and decide to do something, I do it.
The old cliché....Life’s too short, my friends"
This is so true |
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"My best caution to the wind story is this: I’m an over thinker, I worry and fret and get in my own way. I met a guy in a chatroom in 1999, we were friends for a year and it felt like more but seemed silly as it was online and that wasn’t considered valid back then. I bought a plane ticket, flew 5000 miles to meet him and it was real. We’ve been married since 2002.
If I listened to my overthinking self, I wouldn’t have met him, and I definitely wouldn’t be living in England. The way that worked out definitely makes me push through my thoughts and just do the thing, even if it’s not as big as that.
Very similar but for me not anyone else.
At 18 (1988) as soon as I could get my Passport I left the uk for good I did not hesitate for one second, after such a shit childhood I had to get away. I traveled through France, Spain, Gibraltar then Tangier, Algiers, Tunisia, Libya and finally entered Egypt 5 months later, Egypt has always seemed to be calling me it's all I ever thought of.
Egypt has been good to me I have a good life here.
If you dont do what your heart desires, you will always think 'What If' just do it.
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That's amazing and I'm really glad things worked out for you... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Don't overthink Snow! Just do it.
Take it from someone who spends a bit of time, every now and again, slightly overthinking. Life is too bloody short to not do it and actually experience all the happiness life can bring. And if it turns out to be a bad decision? Well fuck it you tried.
I've decided to adopt a more fuck it approach; hence next weekend. Which I'm a bit ach no about but also. Fuck it. And going to the gym because fuck it, life's too short to not actually try. So live more. Experience more. And I can cheerleader you on all day. |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
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I'm absolutely bang in this zone right now, of throwing caution to the wind, expanding my boundaries - and thoroughly enjoying it!
I occasionally have doubts, which are worth listening to, as your subconscious is generally trying to protect you. Just ask yourself, is it doubt through wise caution, or old (or even others') beliefs/values? Then consider the philosophy of never denying yourself pleasure.
Exciting, eek! Enjoy
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"Don't overthink Snow! Just do it.
Take it from someone who spends a bit of time, every now and again, slightly overthinking. Life is too bloody short to not do it and actually experience all the happiness life can bring. And if it turns out to be a bad decision? Well fuck it you tried.
I've decided to adopt a more fuck it approach; hence next weekend. Which I'm a bit ach no about but also. Fuck it. And going to the gym because fuck it, life's too short to not actually try. So live more. Experience more. And I can cheerleader you on all day. "
Your just  thank you my gorgeous friend xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't overthink Snow! Just do it.
Take it from someone who spends a bit of time, every now and again, slightly overthinking. Life is too bloody short to not do it and actually experience all the happiness life can bring. And if it turns out to be a bad decision? Well fuck it you tried.
I've decided to adopt a more fuck it approach; hence next weekend. Which I'm a bit ach no about but also. Fuck it. And going to the gym because fuck it, life's too short to not actually try. So live more. Experience more. And I can cheerleader you on all day.
Your just thank you my gorgeous friend xxx"
I’m grabbing my Pom-poms too |
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"Don't overthink Snow! Just do it.
Take it from someone who spends a bit of time, every now and again, slightly overthinking. Life is too bloody short to not do it and actually experience all the happiness life can bring. And if it turns out to be a bad decision? Well fuck it you tried.
I've decided to adopt a more fuck it approach; hence next weekend. Which I'm a bit ach no about but also. Fuck it. And going to the gym because fuck it, life's too short to not actually try. So live more. Experience more. And I can cheerleader you on all day.
Your just thank you my gorgeous friend xxx
I’m grabbing my Pom-poms too "
Your just utterly gorgeous too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
I've done exactly this the last 8 months and I've had the time of my life ... So just go for it. |
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think
I've done exactly this the last 8 months and I've had the time of my life ... So just go for it."
And I'm absolutely thrilled for you... You deserve it my lovely mwah xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you ever feel think fuck it life is short...have fun and throw caution to the wind..
But then start thinking and it gets spoilt..
I'm having one of those moments and I don't want to over think "
Often and enjoy the sky diving journey too.
Life is short and those friends of mine who are the saddest are those constantly thinking 'if only'.
Most 'if only' moments are not having done something but rather not doing something. |
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"You've all cheered me up today... I've been feeling utterly rubbish... I try to grab life with both hands but sometimes you just get bogged down and need reminding... I'm single... Free and won't ever have this time again..so I will be throwing caution to the the wind.... First things first though... Must sort out this raging horn before I break something... How much longer can I wait...
Ps thank you to my gorgeous friends you all know who you are "
Go get them |
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