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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into  maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because you want to speak about it, doesn't mean she does. Age filters should be respected. Trying to use the forums to get around age filters is not allowed.
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
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Im not trying to get around it by using forum
I wanted to confirm the bit on the side (massage) outside of the sex was also included in the age range.
This is why her profile name isnt in the post.
Just thought id ask. |
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"Im not trying to get around it by using forum
I wanted to confirm the bit on the side (massage) outside of the sex was also included in the age range.
This is why her profile name isnt in the post.
Just thought id ask."
I’m just letting you know that you can’t do it, is all.
If people have age filters up they should be respected. Winds me up when folk try get around mine |
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By all means post a forum topic on spiritual massage as a means of chatting to like minded people.
If a woman or anyone for that matter has filters set to exclude certain age groups that means they don't want interaction privately on any subject at all. It doesn't matter that 'you' think you're the exception to their personal limits and preferences, you're not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol
How would that help.
I think theres alot more creepy things on here than finding someone who enjoys different types massage over sexual preferences.
I find going around banging at clubs a little wierd but i wouldnt just post unless for a purpose  "
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
"Im not trying to get around it by using forum
I wanted to confirm the bit on the side (massage) outside of the sex was also included in the age range.
This is why her profile name isnt in the post.
Just thought id ask.
I’m just letting you know that you can’t do it, is all.
If people have age filters up they should be respected. Winds me up when folk try get around mine "
Yeah i understand that thanks anyway |
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
"It all sounds a bit creepy to me.
Sorry.
Hope that helps."
Lol
How would that help.
I think theres alot more creepy things on here than finding someone who enjoys different types massage over sexual preferences.
I find going around banging at clubs a little wierd but i wouldnt just post unless for a purpose |
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"So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
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Eh.. Have you thought about why she has age ranges set?  |
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
"By all means post a forum topic on spiritual massage as a means of chatting to like minded people.
If a woman or anyone for that matter has filters set to exclude certain age groups that means they don't want interaction privately on any subject at all. It doesn't matter that 'you' think you're the exception to their personal limits and preferences, you're not."
Well....That was sort of my point in asking the lady in question to see what groups etc where out there as ive only really found it in the last year.
Probably would of been more sensible to post topic on the subject |
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"By all means post a forum topic on spiritual massage as a means of chatting to like minded people.
If a woman or anyone for that matter has filters set to exclude certain age groups that means they don't want interaction privately on any subject at all. It doesn't matter that 'you' think you're the exception to their personal limits and preferences, you're not.
Well....That was sort of my point in asking the lady in question to see what groups etc where out there as ive only really found it in the last year.
Probably would of been more sensible to post topic on the subject "
Yes, it would. |
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
"So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
Eh.. Have you thought about why she has age ranges set? "
Yes probably not to engage physically with someone below her age range.
It was more of a conversation on the subject and some guidance around groups etc. |
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"So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
Eh.. Have you thought about why she has age ranges set?
Yes probably not to engage physically with someone below her age range.
It was more of a conversation on the subject and some guidance around groups etc."
Nope, it means not to engage.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You don't need a particular woman to answer these questions. Unless, of course she is the Oracle?
I'm sure you can find out what you need from other means |
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"So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
Eh.. Have you thought about why she has age ranges set?
Yes probably not to engage physically with someone below her age range.
It was more of a conversation on the subject and some guidance around groups etc."
Definitely not to engage privately at all with someone below her age range. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
Eh.. Have you thought about why she has age ranges set?
Yes probably not to engage physically with someone below her age range.
It was more of a conversation on the subject and some guidance around groups etc.
Nope, it means not to engage.. "
Exactly.
When my filters are off, it doesn’t mean I’m up for general chit chat with people outside of my age preferences. |
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"So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
Eh.. Have you thought about why she has age ranges set?
Yes probably not to engage physically with someone below her age range.
It was more of a conversation on the subject and some guidance around groups etc."
Just a bit of food for thought. I've had roughly 20 people contact me who are out of age range today. I blocked and deleted all of them, purely for not respecting my filters  |
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
"So for a while on here ive been keeping my eye out for a certain kind of lady, non sexual reasons believe it or not ha! Someone who i could share and have conversations with about sensual massage techniques and other stuff you probably think its usually what hippys or spritual nut cases are into maybe but dont class myself as either its just something i think is great emotionally and spiritually
.anyway her age range for meets is above my age but does state in profile that she is into the same sort of thing, so outside of actual sex im presuming the massage side doesnt really have to be 40+ to speak about it ?
1.Is there a way to contact her to ask this?
2.Would it be better to post a forum topic on the spiritual massage to see if herself or maybe another lady i havent seen noticed it?
Some guidance would be great
Eh.. Have you thought about why she has age ranges set?
Yes probably not to engage physically with someone below her age range.
It was more of a conversation on the subject and some guidance around groups etc.
Just a bit of food for thought. I've had roughly 20 people contact me who are out of age range today. I blocked and deleted all of them, purely for not respecting my filters "
I understand now, i just presumed with it being totally non sexual and wanting guidance really usually people with same interests and not wanting to meet or anything usually are able to discuss a topic, this was all i was interested in, i should of maybe posted a topic on the actual subject and waited for a response.
Thanks tho
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
"You don't need a particular woman to answer these questions. Unless, of course she is the Oracle?
I'm sure you can find out what you need from other means "
I have actually tried to source people local who study the same thing but it is quite hard to find.
Thanks anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don't need a particular woman to answer these questions. Unless, of course she is the Oracle?
I'm sure you can find out what you need from other means
I have actually tried to source people local who study the same thing but it is quite hard to find.
Thanks anyway"
I'm really confused. It's sensual massage you want to discuss, right? There is a plethora of websites and forums dedicated to this?
Or, is it the woman you want to contact? |
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By *ubzero99 OP Man
over a year ago
County Durham |
"You don't need a particular woman to answer these questions. Unless, of course she is the Oracle?
I'm sure you can find out what you need from other means
I have actually tried to source people local who study the same thing but it is quite hard to find.
Thanks anyway
I'm really confused. It's sensual massage you want to discuss, right? There is a plethora of websites and forums dedicated to this?
Or, is it the woman you want to contact? "
I dont even know what the lady looks like and to be honest she is alot higher in age than i would go for sexually anyway.
It was purely to discuss a few things, the forums usually are just basic sports massage etc this isnt what i do, there is women out there who prefer this over actual intercourse which is why i was shocked/interested when i came across it on someones profile |
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