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Are there any or many people hear practicing or living polyamory?
Would be interested in chatting to you if you are do or gave an intrest in this?
I know to some it's a taboo even to swingers but being diffrent keeps life interesting. |
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Me. I live with a boyfriend of 3 and a half years and I've been seeing another guy for about 9 months and have dated a few other people before that during the relationship. My live in boyfriend has been seeing another girl for coming up to a year. We both also have a couple or occassional non-sexual kink play partners. The girl he is seeing dates other people but the guy I'm seeing currently doesn't but isn't totally against the idea of meeting someone else either. |
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"Me. I live with a boyfriend of 3 and a half years and I've been seeing another guy for about 9 months and have dated a few other people before that during the relationship. My live in boyfriend has been seeing another girl for coming up to a year. We both also have a couple or occassional non-sexual kink play partners. The girl he is seeing dates other people but the guy I'm seeing currently doesn't but isn't totally against the idea of meeting someone else either."
I find this very interesting. It sounds very complicated. Is difficult to divide your time match diaries and keep everbody feeling loved?
I see you are bi. Have you thought about having a girlfriend as well as a boyfriend? |
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"Me. I live with a boyfriend of 3 and a half years and I've been seeing another guy for about 9 months and have dated a few other people before that during the relationship. My live in boyfriend has been seeing another girl for coming up to a year. We both also have a couple or occassional non-sexual kink play partners. The girl he is seeing dates other people but the guy I'm seeing currently doesn't but isn't totally against the idea of meeting someone else either.
I find this very interesting. It sounds very complicated. Is difficult to divide your time match diaries and keep everbody feeling loved?
I see you are bi. Have you thought about having a girlfriend as well as a boyfriend?"
It takes work sure but it's a situation that works for us all. The guy I'm seeing has a bit of a chaotic work schedule so the time we get together can be a bit sporadic. We can see each other multiple times some weeks and then sometimes not meet up for a month. This wouldn't really work for most people if he was dating monogamously. The girl my partner is seeing is also casually dating and is content with their arrangement. The boyfriend I live with and I have never been the sort to need to live in each others pockets and even when we havent been seeing other people we will often go out separately or do different things on weekend days but we still make sure to get enough quality time together.
As for having a girlfriend, I'm open to it but it hasn't happened yet. There's a girl I've had a "Will it happen?" thing with for a couple of years now but so far the stars haven't aligned despite mutual interest. It just so happens that the other people I have met so far have been other men. I've always found as a bisexual woman though that it's easier to meet male partners. I have dated women in the past though. |
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