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"Saying goodbye to someone I'm fond of. Work. I've got the itch and am tempted to move sideways in my career but can't for a bit."
Oh Meli it’s always hard saying goodbye 
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"My grandson, it’s his first birthday. Thinking about how lucky we are to have him, thinking about my first grandson who is no longer with us. "
Oh Cookie a special day indeed, hope you all have a fantastic day.
Your first will always be with you xx |
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"Friends and relatives having health issues.. always makes me realise how fragile we are and how lucky we are to be here in good health.  "
Sorry to hear that.
It is a reminder that we are all indeed fragile, make the most of life as you just never know xx |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"My grandson, it’s his first birthday. Thinking about how lucky we are to have him, thinking about my first grandson who is no longer with us.
Oh Cookie a special day indeed, hope you all have a fantastic day.
Your first will always be with you xx "
Thanks my lovely |
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"I'm thinking "did I leave the oven on?"
Oh I hate those moments  I’ve had to dash home from work too many times this last month thinking I’ve left something or other on "
Glad I'm not alone in this |
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Been thinking alot lately about forgiveness.
Friends and family can be hurtful or annoying sometimes..and it's easy to lose patience..
I've just said goodbye to my brother and I've realised that even though there is a slim chance I'll see him again..there is still that chance.But my parents will never get to see him again.
Some of us are lucky to have amazing people in our lives.. even the annoying ones can be amazing.
Forgive easily.. show you love them.. and remember fond memories  |
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Having a hugely reflective day regarding my career and where I want to be in ten years..
I need to move home and I need to make decisions that affect me seeing my kids during the week and taking them to school during the week |
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"My grandson, it’s his first birthday. Thinking about how lucky we are to have him, thinking about my first grandson who is no longer with us.
Oh Cookie a special day indeed, hope you all have a fantastic day.
Your first will always be with you xx
Thanks my lovely "
You’re very welcome |
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"I'm thinking "did I leave the oven on?"
Oh I hate those moments I’ve had to dash home from work too many times this last month thinking I’ve left something or other on
Glad I'm not alone in this"
Definitely not haha |
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"Been thinking alot lately about forgiveness.
Friends and family can be hurtful or annoying sometimes..and it's easy to lose patience..
I've just said goodbye to my brother and I've realised that even though there is a slim chance I'll see him again..there is still that chance.But my parents will never get to see him again.
Some of us are lucky to have amazing people in our lives.. even the annoying ones can be amazing.
Forgive easily.. show you love them.. and remember fond memories "
Oh that sounds all too final with your brother, I hope not.
Completely understand your comment regarding friends and family, but as you say you need to try and forgive. If not try to just push it too the back of your mind and make the most of the time together, as one day it will be too late to make any more memories |
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"Funny. I’m also reflecting about my life today and what the future should look like. It’s not clear at all.  "
I think it’s hard to see what the future will look like. I now just take one day at a time, as if you think about it too much it can eat you up.
Live for now and see where your daily choices take you, it might just surprise you when you least expect it |
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"Having a hugely reflective day regarding my career and where I want to be in ten years..
I need to move home and I need to make decisions that affect me seeing my kids during the week and taking them to school during the week "
That’s a lot to think about and sounds like some tough choices to be made and never easy when children are involved.
I’m sure you’ll figure out what is best for you all, even though your choice may not seem it at the time |
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"Funny. I’m also reflecting about my life today and what the future should look like. It’s not clear at all.
I think it’s hard to see what the future will look like. I now just take one day at a time, as if you think about it too much it can eat you up.
Live for now and see where your daily choices take you, it might just surprise you when you least expect it "
This is great advice that I could really do with following!! Trying very hard today to not over think certain things/situations!! x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Saying goodbye to someone I'm fond of. Work. I've got the itch and am tempted to move sideways in my career but can't for a bit.
Oh Meli it’s always hard saying goodbye
Work wise, you’ll know when the time is right "
Isn't it? I'm such a daft mare I've had people ask me on the train if I am okay. I think I'm getting ever softer and dafter which isn't a bad thing but ach. Sometimes people get under your skin in the most infuriatingly beautiful way. |
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"Funny. I’m also reflecting about my life today and what the future should look like. It’s not clear at all.
I think it’s hard to see what the future will look like. I now just take one day at a time, as if you think about it too much it can eat you up.
Live for now and see where your daily choices take you, it might just surprise you when you least expect it
This is great advice that I could really do with following!! Trying very hard today to not over think certain things/situations!! x"
Overthinking is definitely not good for you, I’ve been there.
Try to just let it all go, as I said deal with today and tomorrow is another day. Let things flow off your shoulders and you will feel a lot lighter xx |
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"Saying goodbye to someone I'm fond of. Work. I've got the itch and am tempted to move sideways in my career but can't for a bit.
Oh Meli it’s always hard saying goodbye
Work wise, you’ll know when the time is right
Isn't it? I'm such a daft mare I've had people ask me on the train if I am okay. I think I'm getting ever softer and dafter which isn't a bad thing but ach. Sometimes people get under your skin in the most infuriatingly beautiful way."
Not a daft mare at all, just shows you care. Hopefully you’re not saying goodbye for good but more see you soon. Be happy in the memories and let those tears be happy ones of what you’ve shared and could share again.
In today’s world no one is too far away xx |
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"I've got 3 days with my kid this weekend, how can I make it count, what if I fail.
Being there with your child is not failing xx"
Precisely this !!
Even if you burn the dinner or give them the wrong cup for their juice, they won’t care, what they care about is being with you xx |
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"Possibilities.
I'm doing a lot of daydreaming at the moment.
Same here Rubi, keeps the mind alive  "
That's where my mind is right now. The mind starts to overthink |
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"Thinking about a change of job but not knowing what I really want to do
That’s the hardest part ! it is part if me thinks just stay and save all the hassle. "
The grass isn’t always greener, but only you can take that step, if you really want to |
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"Possibilities.
I'm doing a lot of daydreaming at the moment.
Same here Rubi, keeps the mind alive
That's where my mind is right now. The mind starts to overthink "
Daydreaming is good makes you smile, until it takes over and turns in to overthinking which is not a healthy turn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Possibilities.
I'm doing a lot of daydreaming at the moment.
Same here Rubi, keeps the mind alive
That's where my mind is right now. The mind starts to overthink
Daydreaming is good makes you smile, until it takes over and turns in to overthinking which is not a healthy turn "
I am thinking clearly but just lots to think about.
You are right the daydreams to put a smile on the face |
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