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Do you dress according to your lover's specifications?
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Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.
Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? |
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"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.
Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "
All the time |
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I have done in the past, or at least tried. However I have quite a personal style that if I change it up I often get it terribly wrong and look like a wally.
The short skirt and heels episode was just terrible and not to be repeated. If I hear the words "I'd love it if you wore..." then I shut it down. It ain't happening haha |
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When I was younger my boyfriends would dress me up "like a slut" and I felt fucking awful doing it. I might choose my outfits with a nod to someone's preferences, but if I'm asked to wear something particular or dress outside my comfort zone, I shut that down. |
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"I never do. I come in the flavours take it or leave it. "
Same for me, I wear what I wear. I do ask Mr Cagey if he likes things sometimes but it doesn’t stop me wearing what I like. |
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"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.
Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "
yes I wear a swingdress  |
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Yes, sometimes I'll wear an outfit or underwear that my partner likes to see me in. I would be happy to try out outfits etc for him too if something tickled his fancy, but I'd never wear something I didn't feel comfortable in. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I wear red nail varnish if that counts? 
Erm, I have done in the past. I don't think there has been anything I've felt uncomfortable wearing though that they have wanted me to wear so it hasn't been an issue for me as such. No themed outfits etc. Oh I did wear a body stocking once.  |
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"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.
Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "
No. I dress for me |
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I quite enjoy dressing to please occasionally, but it’s only ever something I do for those who appreciate me and my normal style.
I would find it impossible to change who I am to meet someone’s expectations/preferences |
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I mostly wear what I like but this can be influenced by what the other person likes as it feels so good having them super aroused by how you look in it and unable to keep their hands off you.
Sometimes I choose outfits specifically for them for things like their birthday. |
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No, I have my own style and like to wear what I like. If something a partner liked and it went with my style I may take that onboard. I wouldn’t wear something I felt uncomfortable in. |
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"When I was younger my boyfriends would dress me up "like a slut" and I felt fucking awful doing it. I might choose my outfits with a nod to someone's preferences, but if I'm asked to wear something particular or dress outside my comfort zone, I shut that down.
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I quite like being dressed like a slut...
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"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.
Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "
Yes and no. I try to but ultimately she tells me what to wear. |
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"No but if they had something they'd like to see me in I'd consider it, unless it was a gimp costume or something. "
can I see you in dungarees and wellies please with a straw hat |
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I would have normally said no, however I've found myself feeling like I'm lacking in certain areas. I know B likes a "classy lady" which couldn't be further from me, so yes, I've been looking at clothes I think he'll like to try and cover all bases I guess. Maybe that's my insecurities rearing their head.
If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.
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"No but if they had something they'd like to see me in I'd consider it, unless it was a gimp costume or something. can I see you in dungarees and wellies please with a straw hat "
Only if you wear a leopard print leotard and deely boppers with penises on. |
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"No but if they had something they'd like to see me in I'd consider it, unless it was a gimp costume or something. can I see you in dungarees and wellies please with a straw hat
Only if you wear a leopard print leotard and deely boppers with penises on. "
lol omg I'll only do it for you where do I find this outfit........ Lovehoney I suppose |
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"I would have normally said no, however I've found myself feeling like I'm lacking in certain areas. I know B likes a "classy lady" which couldn't be further from me, so yes, I've been looking at clothes I think he'll like to try and cover all bases I guess. Maybe that's my insecurities rearing their head.
If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.
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Come to the dark side. We have swing dresses |
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"I would have normally said no, however I've found myself feeling like I'm lacking in certain areas. I know B likes a "classy lady" which couldn't be further from me, so yes, I've been looking at clothes I think he'll like to try and cover all bases I guess. Maybe that's my insecurities rearing their head.
If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.
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Come to the dark side. We have swing dresses "
I adore swing dresses 
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"I would have normally said no, however I've found myself feeling like I'm lacking in certain areas. I know B likes a "classy lady" which couldn't be further from me, so yes, I've been looking at clothes I think he'll like to try and cover all bases I guess. Maybe that's my insecurities rearing their head.
If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.
P
Come to the dark side. We have swing dresses
I adore swing dresses
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It's one of those outfit choices where people assume you're classy  |
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Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.
Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out? |
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"Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.
Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out?"
I personally like a guy that has his own unique style and owns it. Wouldn’t dream of requesting anything to be worn as I like them to think for themselves. |
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"Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.
Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out?"
God no. I'd never be so presumptuous. |
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"I never make requests "
I have never had a request to wear anything specific although I do make mental notes of things that potential partners say they particularly like, should I get the opportunity to meet them. |
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By *SAchickWoman
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"Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.
Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out?"
No, I trust that they'll be able to dress themselves. |
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"I never make requests
I have never had a request to wear anything specific although I do make mental notes of things that potential partners say they particularly like, should I get the opportunity to meet them."
That said I have a style of dressing and usually wear whatever I feel like, although the choice may be influenced by who I am meeting. |
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Clothes turn me on, so I wear (girl mode) what I find sexy. If I was bought some lingerie with my style of clothing I'd consider it, also if someone said they liked an outfit I'm wearing in my pictures, no problem. However I couldn't wear something I didn't feel comfortable in or found exciting to wear. |
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"I never make requests
I have never had a request to wear anything specific although I do make mental notes of things that potential partners say they particularly like, should I get the opportunity to meet them."
I do this, and appreciate when others do for me. But if it becomes a request, particularly outside what I own or like, the answer is no. |
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