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"Well a bit of a mix can certainly spice things up sometimes " i'm sure it can.. ... | |||
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"What about guys who are green.... "Naah.. sound too vegan for me | |||
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"What about guys who are green....
Naah.. sound too vegan for me"Would it help if they were purple... | |||
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"Why?" Why not if it's what they want? | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. " GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. " It does not make you racist. I’ve never been with a black man, I’ve never been with an Asian man. I don’t find myself attracted to them sexually. I’m not bloody racist!! Your comments boil my blood sometimes Genghis. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. " If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! " I stand by what I said. Discrimination comes in many forms. When you do it based on ethnicity, its classed as racism. Except when it comes to sex? | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. It does not make you racist. I’ve never been with a black man, I’ve never been with an Asian man. I don’t find myself attracted to them sexually. I’m not bloody racist!! Your comments boil my blood sometimes Genghis. " As do yours mine. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. " Funnily enough your post with the definition of ‘preference ‘ actually proves that having a preference is not racism. Well donec | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. " And one other thing before I bow out of this. I have never ever in my life refused to be friends with someone because of their race, nationality, religion or sexual preferences. You are apparently so openminded yet look at some of us as the opposite. However, you refused to be friends with someone based solely on their sexual preferences. Can you really not see the narrow mindedness and hypocrisy here? Or does it only work one way? | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. " The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. Funnily enough your post with the definition of ‘preference ‘ actually proves that having a preference is not racism. Well donec "Where exactly? | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY?" Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. And one other thing before I bow out of this. I have never ever in my life refused to be friends with someone because of their race, nationality, religion or sexual preferences. You are apparently so openminded yet look at some of us as the opposite. However, you refused to be friends with someone based solely on their sexual preferences. Can you really not see the narrow mindedness and hypocrisy here? Or does it only work one way?" Stop bringing up private conversations. Friendship has nothing to do with it! If you wont even consider someone.. simply because they've been with a man. Or have a certain shade of skin.. but still like them in every other way.. You have to ask yourself WHY!? Now leave me alone woman! Stop airing our laundry. No I dont want to be friends with you because you think that way about bi men. Deal with it. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life." That's not WHY? | |||
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"We might as well all give up, the man is as stubborn as his namesake "Only if I'm sure of what I'm saying. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life." Exactly!! I’m not attracted to TV/TS and never will be but I bloody love Mikki, Juicyass, Stella, trannsgirl I think they’re great people! The logic here is ludicrous. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life. Exactly!! I’m not attracted to TV/TS and never will be but I bloody love Mikki, Juicyass, Stella, trannsgirl I think they’re great people! The logic here is ludicrous. " That has nothing to do with racism. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. And one other thing before I bow out of this. I have never ever in my life refused to be friends with someone because of their race, nationality, religion or sexual preferences. You are apparently so openminded yet look at some of us as the opposite. However, you refused to be friends with someone based solely on their sexual preferences. Can you really not see the narrow mindedness and hypocrisy here? Or does it only work one way? Stop bringing up private conversations. Friendship has nothing to do with it! If you wont even consider someone.. simply because they've been with a man. Or have a certain shade of skin.. but still like them in every other way.. You have to ask yourself WHY!? Now leave me alone woman! Stop airing our laundry. No I dont want to be friends with you because you think that way about bi men. Deal with it. " Making you think a bit am I? I’d still be friends with you. Even though you make absolutely no sense. Please don’t speak to me in that tone, I am not a child. And don’t tell me to ignore your comments either. If you’re going to post publicly I’m going to comment. Deal with that | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life. Exactly!! I’m not attracted to TV/TS and never will be but I bloody love Mikki, Juicyass, Stella, trannsgirl I think they’re great people! The logic here is ludicrous. That has nothing to do with racism. " Carry on contradicting yourself Ghengis. I’ve made my point. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. Funnily enough your post with the definition of ‘preference ‘ actually proves that having a preference is not racism. Well donec
Where exactly?"Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. Funnily enough your post with the definition of ‘preference ‘ actually proves that having a preference is not racism. Well donec
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Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ????
The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. "Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. " Wow. Someone is in a particularly triggered and judgemental mood  | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life. Exactly!! I’m not attracted to TV/TS and never will be but I bloody love Mikki, Juicyass, Stella, trannsgirl I think they’re great people! The logic here is ludicrous. That has nothing to do with racism. Carry on contradicting yourself Ghengis. I’ve made my point. " I'm not. I'm asking you to stop bringing up Private Conversations in a Public Forum. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. Wow. Someone is in a particularly triggered and judgemental mood "Judge Ghengis. Not triggered. | |||
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" Wow. Someone is in a particularly triggered and judgemental mood "If GK is triggered (that is, suffering significant ill effects from disorders such as PTSD), then I'm not sure that's desperately amusing. | |||
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"So my view is that people have preferences and you have to respect them. The unspoken rule of being on here. Be mature about it and move on. I personally dont think it too be racist, then again as someone of an ethnic minority I dont bring up the race card as I find it either funny or a barrier towards intergration and acceptance. I personally am not attracted to obese or heavily overweight people or an unhealthy lifestyle. I cant change that and dont expect someone to change that for me. Keep calm and carry on is what I would say to those who get annoyed about it. Make a brew and dunk in some biscuits. " | |||
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"Not bothered as long as their cocks are big.. " Which would make you Size-ist.. if it existed.. which it most definitely does.. but doesn't.. if it did.. it's not be as bad as racist... WHY? | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life. Exactly!! I’m not attracted to TV/TS and never will be but I bloody love Mikki, Juicyass, Stella, trannsgirl I think they’re great people! The logic here is ludicrous. That has nothing to do with racism. Carry on contradicting yourself Ghengis. I’ve made my point. I'm not. I'm asking you to stop bringing up Private Conversations in a Public Forum. " Ah but I’m not. I’m not that dumb! This all happened on the forums. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. If someone doesn't feel sexual attraction to a group of people that DOES NOT make them racist. It is NOT discrimination or prejudice. I don't care what people like you think of me for not wanting to fuck people I'm not attracted to. The key word is ONLY. If you can rule out a whole continents worth of people.. simply because you're not attracted.. to any of them.. regardless of the variety on offer.. then you have to start asking yourself WHY? Because I am not attracted to them. Any of them. All my life. Exactly!! I’m not attracted to TV/TS and never will be but I bloody love Mikki, Juicyass, Stella, trannsgirl I think they’re great people! The logic here is ludicrous. That has nothing to do with racism. Carry on contradicting yourself Ghengis. I’ve made my point. I'm not. I'm asking you to stop bringing up Private Conversations in a Public Forum. Ah but I’m not. I’m not that dumb! This all happened on the forums. " Not the part that matters. Let's both stop being dumb now and end this bit of the thread. | |||
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That's what being triggered means. I'm not saying that you are. "oh ok.. you just picked one close to my heart and made me panic I think he means emotionally triggered to say something.. stirred.. moved..
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"I play with those I am attracted to. Race or colour doesn't come into it. What royally fucks me off is people playing the race card cos I won't play with them. Totally undermines the real racist issue and is totally pathetic!! " totally agree ... the real substantive racism are in the 98% of the world that is not Fab ... as George said of his Navy days: all serve, all respected, no time for racist tossers or snowflakes | |||
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"Not bothered as long as their cocks are big.. Which would make you Size-ist.. if it existed.. which it most definitely does.. but doesn't.. if it did.. it's not be as bad as racist... WHY?" Size-ist as a word isn't the same as racist. 'Racist' conjures up thoughts of segregation, violence, bad feelings. That is what I think people are usually rejecting. They don't hate that race or wish them any harm, they just don't want to fuck them. If 'race-ist' just meant not wanting to fuck a whole 'race' then I'd be fine with being called race-ist. | |||
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" Wow. Someone is in a particularly triggered and judgemental mood
If GK is triggered (that is, suffering significant ill effects from disorders such as PTSD), then I'm not sure that's desperately amusing.
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That's what being triggered means. I'm not saying that you are.
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you?" What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. | |||
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"I play with those I am attracted to. Race or colour doesn't come into it. What royally fucks me off is people playing the race card cos I won't play with them. Totally undermines the real racist issue and is totally pathetic!! totally agree ... the real substantive racism are in the 98% of the world that is not Fab ... as George said of his Navy days: all serve, all respected, no time for racist tossers or snowflakes " I'm the same.. race or colour doesn't come into it. Aren't snowflakes usually the ones pointing that out??? | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. " What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. | |||
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"Not bothered as long as their cocks are big.. Which would make you Size-ist.. if it existed.. which it most definitely does.. but doesn't.. if it did.. it's not be as bad as racist... WHY? Size-ist as a word isn't the same as racist. 'Racist' conjures up thoughts of segregation, violence, bad feelings. That is what I think people are usually rejecting. They don't hate that race or wish them any harm, they just don't want to fuck them. If 'race-ist' just meant not wanting to fuck a whole 'race' then I'd be fine with being called race-ist. " So there are levels of racism? Where is the cut off point? Are you allowed to discriminate based on race for sex.. but not for friendship? For a blowjob? But not for a job? WHY? | |||
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"Not bothered as long as their cocks are big.. Which would make you Size-ist.. if it existed.. which it most definitely does.. but doesn't.. if it did.. it's not be as bad as racist... WHY? Size-ist as a word isn't the same as racist. 'Racist' conjures up thoughts of segregation, violence, bad feelings. That is what I think people are usually rejecting. They don't hate that race or wish them any harm, they just don't want to fuck them. If 'race-ist' just meant not wanting to fuck a whole 'race' then I'd be fine with being called race-ist. So there are levels of racism? Where is the cut off point? Are you allowed to discriminate based on race for sex.. but not for friendship? For a blowjob? But not for a job? WHY?" I use the same criteria for friendships. I don't employ people. I am against positive discrimination in employment. | |||
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"Of all the places I've lived in the world, and all the world's people I've met and interacted with, I have to say - white British people are absolutely terrified of "racism". I find it really weird - you guys have absolutely no idea how to get on with people of different colours and cultures. You're either tripping over yourselves trying to prove how not racist you are, or you're accusing others of being racist for absolutely no good reason, apart from to virtue signal. Weird, really weird." Who is virtue signalling? I've lived on five continents, 10 countries and visited countless more for long and short breaks. I speak Spanish, a bit of German, bit of Arabic. I'm British, I'm absolutely fine with my 'Racism' I treat everyone the same. | |||
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"Not bothered as long as their cocks are big.. Which would make you Size-ist.. if it existed.. which it most definitely does.. but doesn't.. if it did.. it's not be as bad as racist... WHY? Size-ist as a word isn't the same as racist. 'Racist' conjures up thoughts of segregation, violence, bad feelings. That is what I think people are usually rejecting. They don't hate that race or wish them any harm, they just don't want to fuck them. If 'race-ist' just meant not wanting to fuck a whole 'race' then I'd be fine with being called race-ist. So there are levels of racism? Where is the cut off point? Are you allowed to discriminate based on race for sex.. but not for friendship? For a blowjob? But not for a job? WHY? I use the same criteria for friendships. I don't employ people. I am against positive discrimination in employment. " I'm not asking you.. I'm asking society at large.. but directed at you | |||
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"Threads like this make mr realise how vile some are on here. This is supposed to be fun. Fab, and the forums in particular, seem to attract those with an axe to grind. Play your way people, and don't let the butt hurt try and shame you by calling you things you are not. If arguing about how strangers play affects you so much then you have something missing from your life. " Who is being vile? | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. " No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. | |||
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"Not bothered as long as their cocks are big.. Which would make you Size-ist.. if it existed.. which it most definitely does.. but doesn't.. if it did.. it's not be as bad as racist... WHY? Size-ist as a word isn't the same as racist. 'Racist' conjures up thoughts of segregation, violence, bad feelings. That is what I think people are usually rejecting. They don't hate that race or wish them any harm, they just don't want to fuck them. If 'race-ist' just meant not wanting to fuck a whole 'race' then I'd be fine with being called race-ist. So there are levels of racism? Where is the cut off point? Are you allowed to discriminate based on race for sex.. but not for friendship? For a blowjob? But not for a job? WHY? I use the same criteria for friendships. I don't employ people. I am against positive discrimination in employment. I'm not asking you.. I'm asking society at large.. but directed at you "Oh righty. Discrimination in jobs probably needs a whole new thread. | |||
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"Threads like this make mr realise how vile some are on here. This is supposed to be fun. Fab, and the forums in particular, seem to attract those with an axe to grind. Play your way people, and don't let the butt hurt try and shame you by calling you things you are not. If arguing about how strangers play affects you so much then you have something missing from your life. Who is being vile?" Those who don't respect others preferences. This is my body. My choice who I play with. If that offends people cos I am not attracted to them - tough. My body. My choice. Fuck all to do with them. | |||
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"Of all the places I've lived in the world, and all the world's people I've met and interacted with, I have to say - white British people are absolutely terrified of "racism". I find it really weird - you guys have absolutely no idea how to get on with people of different colours and cultures. You're either tripping over yourselves trying to prove how not racist you are, or you're accusing others of being racist for absolutely no good reason, apart from to virtue signal. Weird, really weird. Who is virtue signalling? I've lived on five continents, 10 countries and visited countless more for long and short breaks. I speak Spanish, a bit of German, bit of Arabic. I'm British, I'm absolutely fine with my 'Racism' I treat everyone the same. " My post wasn't specifically aimed at you, but your reply post is exactly that - virtue signalling! Just get with people as people, not every disagreement between people of different colours is racist against the darker one | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! I stand by what I said. Discrimination comes in many forms. When you do it based on ethnicity, its classed as racism. Except when it comes to sex?" Yes because everyone should choose who the want to have sex with, why should anyone be forced to sleep with someone else they’re not attracted too........... you gave a chip on your shoulder, get over it!! And just so you’re aware I don’t have a race preference at all, I have had great sex with Asian, black, white............. | |||
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"Because they can" Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! I stand by what I said. Discrimination comes in many forms. When you do it based on ethnicity, its classed as racism. Except when it comes to sex?" When it comes to attraction. Law of averages. Time management. Call it what you will. | |||
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"Because they can Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection." Exactly. Sex is like food. There’s a chemistry, a stimulant that’s hard to define. You like or dislike a food for no perceived reason. I MrK like chocolate but don’t like chocolate sponge cake ! Why I have no idea. But I like chocolate mousse. | |||
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"Because they can Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection. Exactly. Sex is like food. There’s a chemistry, a stimulant that’s hard to define. You like or dislike a food for no perceived reason. I MrK like chocolate but don’t like chocolate sponge cake ! Why I have no idea. But I like chocolate mousse. " I don't drink coffee, but eat coffee cake | |||
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"Because they can Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection. Exactly. Sex is like food. There’s a chemistry, a stimulant that’s hard to define. You like or dislike a food for no perceived reason. I MrK like chocolate but don’t like chocolate sponge cake ! Why I have no idea. But I like chocolate mousse. I don't drink coffee, but eat coffee cake "I drink coffee but don’t like Coffee cake | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. " Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. | |||
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"Threads like this make mr realise how vile some are on here. This is supposed to be fun. Fab, and the forums in particular, seem to attract those with an axe to grind. Play your way people, and don't let the butt hurt try and shame you by calling you things you are not. If arguing about how strangers play affects you so much then you have something missing from your life. Who is being vile? Those who don't respect others preferences. This is my body. My choice who I play with. If that offends people cos I am not attracted to them - tough. My body. My choice. Fuck all to do with them. " Nobody has told you what you can or can't do with it.. Have they? | |||
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"Of all the places I've lived in the world, and all the world's people I've met and interacted with, I have to say - white British people are absolutely terrified of "racism". I find it really weird - you guys have absolutely no idea how to get on with people of different colours and cultures. You're either tripping over yourselves trying to prove how not racist you are, or you're accusing others of being racist for absolutely no good reason, apart from to virtue signal. Weird, really weird. Who is virtue signalling? I've lived on five continents, 10 countries and visited countless more for long and short breaks. I speak Spanish, a bit of German, bit of Arabic. I'm British, I'm absolutely fine with my 'Racism' I treat everyone the same. My post wasn't specifically aimed at you, but your reply post is exactly that - virtue signalling! Just get with people as people, not every disagreement between people of different colours is racist against the darker one "I'm not virtue signalling. You dont know me and think I am. No, a lot are just normal disagreements, it's when the disagreement is based on the difference, that it becomes a problem. Yes I realised it wasnt aimed at me, sorry, got carried away. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! I stand by what I said. Discrimination comes in many forms. When you do it based on ethnicity, its classed as racism. Except when it comes to sex? Yes because everyone should choose who the want to have sex with, why should anyone be forced to sleep with someone else they’re not attracted too........... you gave a chip on your shoulder, get over it!! And just so you’re aware I don’t have a race preference at all, I have had great sex with Asian, black, white............. " At what point have I told anyone what they can or can't do with their body? | |||
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"Because they can Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection." | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. " I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening  | |||
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"Because they can Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection." They are indeed 'Isms' You're EXCLUDING based on those things alone. Whether you're in control of that.. is up to you.
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening "Exactly! It's supposed to be fun, with like minded people who you are attracted to. | |||
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"Choice. That alone does not make you racist. It's just what you choose. Same as if you prefer blonde over redheads, thats not racist, just choice. And think GK is just bored and looking for entertainment. "I stand by what I've said. Its ginger-ist if you rule out all fingers, regardless of variation in shades.. personality, physique, sense of humour, eyes, soul. But you're right, I'm bored and seeking entertainment. I'm bored again now.. so if I stop replying to comments aimed at my comments. It's not because I'm losing the argument. | |||
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"Because they can Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection. They are indeed 'Isms' You're EXCLUDING based on those things alone. Whether you're in control of that.. is up to you.
Good for you for not giving a fuck. People will form opinions regardless."My choice is paramount on a sex site, not other people's opinions. | |||
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"Choice. That alone does not make you racist. It's just what you choose. Same as if you prefer blonde over redheads, thats not racist, just choice. And think GK is just bored and looking for entertainment.
I stand by what I've said.
Its ginger-ist if you rule out all fingers, regardless of variation in shades.. personality, physique, sense of humour, eyes, soul.
But you're right, I'm bored and seeking entertainment.
I'm bored again now.. so if I stop replying to comments aimed at my comments. It's not because I'm losing the argument. "So if they called it 'race-ist' that would really be more applicable than 'racist'? Perhaps people are just rejecting the presumed inference. | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening "If it's a temporary fantasy fulfillment.. not whole sexual outlook. Then you're exploring and it's a different scenario entirely. If you only ever.. not shag/only shag certain races and won't even entertain the idea of anything different. It's what I'm saying it is. What you do is up to you. What you write on your own profile and how you view life is entirely to you. I'm just pointing out differences in words and how those differences label people as different things. | |||
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"Because they can Because it is my choice, and I can choose whom I have sex with. I am visually not attracted to bald men. I am visually not attracted to inked bodies I am visually repulsed by body piercings. I am visually not attracted to skinny men. I am visually not attracted to men very young nor old. I am visually not attracted to black skin. So I won't fuck any of them no matter what their opinion is of my choices. Choices/preferences, not 'isms' because they choose to put a word on rejection. They are indeed 'Isms' You're EXCLUDING based on those things alone. Whether you're in control of that.. is up to you.
Good for you for not giving a fuck. People will form opinions regardless.
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"Choice. That alone does not make you racist. It's just what you choose. Same as if you prefer blonde over redheads, thats not racist, just choice. And think GK is just bored and looking for entertainment.
I stand by what I've said.
Its ginger-ist if you rule out all fingers, regardless of variation in shades.. personality, physique, sense of humour, eyes, soul.
But you're right, I'm bored and seeking entertainment.
I'm bored again now.. so if I stop replying to comments aimed at my comments. It's not because I'm losing the argument. "Well, you went looking, hope you found what you wanted
Maybe tomorrow you will be more cheerful and not have to seek an argument (no-one wins an internet argument)
I would offer a man hug, but alas, think you would find fault with that too haha
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"Choice. That alone does not make you racist. It's just what you choose. Same as if you prefer blonde over redheads, thats not racist, just choice. And think GK is just bored and looking for entertainment.
I stand by what I've said.
Its ginger-ist if you rule out all fingers, regardless of variation in shades.. personality, physique, sense of humour, eyes, soul.
But you're right, I'm bored and seeking entertainment.
I'm bored again now.. so if I stop replying to comments aimed at my comments. It's not because I'm losing the argument.
So if they called it 'race-ist' that would really be more applicable than 'racist'?
Perhaps people are just rejecting the presumed inference. "it's the rejection based specifically on x y or z. Rather than the whole alphabet. | |||
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"Choice. That alone does not make you racist. It's just what you choose. Same as if you prefer blonde over redheads, thats not racist, just choice. And think GK is just bored and looking for entertainment.
I stand by what I've said.
Its ginger-ist if you rule out all fingers, regardless of variation in shades.. personality, physique, sense of humour, eyes, soul.
But you're right, I'm bored and seeking entertainment.
I'm bored again now.. so if I stop replying to comments aimed at my comments. It's not because I'm losing the argument.
So if they called it 'race-ist' that would really be more applicable than 'racist'?
Perhaps people are just rejecting the presumed inference.
it's the rejection based specifically on x y or z. Rather than the whole alphabet. "But WHY?
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening
If it's a temporary fantasy fulfillment.. not whole sexual outlook. Then you're exploring and it's a different scenario entirely.
If you only ever.. not shag/only shag certain races and won't even entertain the idea of anything different. It's what I'm saying it is.
What you do is up to you.
What you write on your own profile and how you view life is entirely to you.
I'm just pointing out differences in words and how those differences label people as different things.
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths" How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate? | |||
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate?" I'm not an expert, however innate preference came about through millions of years of evolution - all designed to increase the odds of survival/reproduction. Youthful skin in women = Fertility Height in men = protection Etc Men are (generally) sexually attracted to women, and women to men, leading to reproduction and continuation of the species | |||
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"Choice. That alone does not make you racist. It's just what you choose. Same as if you prefer blonde over redheads, thats not racist, just choice. And think GK is just bored and looking for entertainment.
I stand by what I've said.
Its ginger-ist if you rule out all fingers, regardless of variation in shades.. personality, physique, sense of humour, eyes, soul.
But you're right, I'm bored and seeking entertainment.
I'm bored again now.. so if I stop replying to comments aimed at my comments. It's not because I'm losing the argument.
So if they called it 'race-ist' that would really be more applicable than 'racist'?
Perhaps people are just rejecting the presumed inference.
it's the rejection based specifically on x y or z. Rather than the whole alphabet.
But WHY?
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths" Same. Calling someone racist isn't an attack in itself though. We are allowed to point it out. If people get uppity and take as an insult.. they probably need to ask WHY? | |||
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate?" Is gender discrimination the same as racial discrimination. A straight male not being attracted to other men being.. discriminatory? That's an interesting question. I feel it's a different thing, but I could devils advocate the case the other way around | |||
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate? Is gender discrimination the same as racial discrimination. A straight male not being attracted to other men being.. discriminatory? That's an interesting question. I feel it's a different thing, but I could devils advocate the case the other way around "oi ALL straight guy love me | |||
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate? Is gender discrimination the same as racial discrimination. A straight male not being attracted to other men being.. discriminatory? That's an interesting question. I feel it's a different thing, but I could devils advocate the case the other way around
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"Why?" “Preference”....... fuelled by an assumption that everyone of a certain skin colour looks/acts/behaves in a certain way. Whilst also believing that another group can never ever possibly be attractive to you. I find it unusual. Regardless of when it works in my favour or not. | |||
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate? Is gender discrimination the same as racial discrimination. A straight male not being attracted to other men being.. discriminatory? That's an interesting question. I feel it's a different thing, but I could devils advocate the case the other way around
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All the bi guys do too.. well I'm sure there are a few who think you're a bellend.. "oh,,lol,,i know who yer talking about,,its fine hes a twat | |||
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate? Is gender discrimination the same as racial discrimination. A straight male not being attracted to other men being.. discriminatory? That's an interesting question. I feel it's a different thing, but I could devils advocate the case the other way around
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate? Is gender discrimination the same as racial discrimination. A straight male not being attracted to other men being.. discriminatory? That's an interesting question. I feel it's a different thing, but I could devils advocate the case the other way around
oi ALL straight guy love me
All the bi guys do too.. well I'm sure there are a few who think you're a bellend..
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths How can waist size or skin type be considered innate but skin colour not? How can sexuality be innate (discriminating against an entire gender) but no attraction to another race not be innate? Is gender discrimination the same as racial discrimination. A straight male not being attracted to other men being.. discriminatory? That's an interesting question. I feel it's a different thing, but I could devils advocate the case the other way around
oi ALL straight guy love me
All the bi guys do too.. well I'm sure there are a few who think you're a bellend..
oh,,lol,,i know who yer talking about,,its fine hes a twat
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"Ghengis probably has a point There are certain innate preferences humans have developed (e.g. Height, hip-to-waist ratio, youthful skin, etc). However I don't believe skin colour is one of them. Racial preferences come about mainly though environmental factors, often stereotypes (there's a reason why you'll never see "Only Asians" on a profile). That said, I don't feel anyone should be attacked for their sexual preferences. However if they wish to discuss these preferences, they may have to face some uncomfortable truths Same. Calling someone racist isn't an attack in itself though. We are allowed to point it out. If people get uppity and take as an insult.. they probably need to ask WHY?" I am not getting uppity, I am disagreeing with the accusation of being called a racist because I am not sexually attracted to thin, bald, young, tattooed, pierced, nor black skin. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! " First of all love the padding to my play area im gonna steal that one! And then logs in different flavours! Babe im loving your view! | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. " Good luck having the time to consider every single human being who comes your way. Some of us do not have the time or the energy. | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening
If it's a temporary fantasy fulfillment.. not whole sexual outlook. Then you're exploring and it's a different scenario entirely.
If you only ever.. not shag/only shag certain races and won't even entertain the idea of anything different. It's what I'm saying it is.
What you do is up to you.
What you write on your own profile and how you view life is entirely to you.
I'm just pointing out differences in words and how those differences label people as different things.
You are doing the labelling. You are a stranger on a sex site. In the great scheme of things your opinion, and therefore label, does not matter to me one bit, especially when it comes to who I fuck. "No.. the dictionary is. I'm not a big fan of labels myself. I'm just following the dictionary and the accepted definition of the word in multiple other related scenarios. I agree with the rest of what you said though. So WHY reply? | |||
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"its just one thing i CANT get my head round. to me a persons skin colour just does not matter. if i fancy a person i fancy them regardless of colour. i think its racist if people say it does to be quite honest,,and don't believe anyone that denies it. soon very soon this will be banned on sites in this country,,there is no place today for racism. a good lookin black guy,,yum,,yes please" Banned on these sites ? Don't make me laugh. Take me to court for racism because I don't find certain physical attributes sexually attractive. Some people will shag anything with a pulse, some dont. Feel free to try though. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! I stand by what I said. Discrimination comes in many forms. When you do it based on ethnicity, its classed as racism. Except when it comes to sex? Yes because everyone should choose who the want to have sex with, why should anyone be forced to sleep with someone else they’re not attracted too........... you gave a chip on your shoulder, get over it!! And just so you’re aware I don’t have a race preference at all, I have had great sex with Asian, black, white............. At what point have I told anyone what they can or can't do with their body? " You are very clearly saying that people aren’t allowed to voice their choices and that not fucking someone whose a certain race/colour means they’re racist! You have issues with people making their own choices, you need to work on that ..... | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening
If it's a temporary fantasy fulfillment.. not whole sexual outlook. Then you're exploring and it's a different scenario entirely.
If you only ever.. not shag/only shag certain races and won't even entertain the idea of anything different. It's what I'm saying it is.
What you do is up to you.
What you write on your own profile and how you view life is entirely to you.
I'm just pointing out differences in words and how those differences label people as different things.
You are doing the labelling. You are a stranger on a sex site. In the great scheme of things your opinion, and therefore label, does not matter to me one bit, especially when it comes to who I fuck.
No.. the dictionary is. I'm not a big fan of labels myself. I'm just following the dictionary and the accepted definition of the word in multiple other related scenarios.
I agree with the rest of what you said though.
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance? "Because some people find specific colours of skin attractive or unattractive, just the same as some people find specific colours of hair attractive or unattractive? | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is"nope its not at all is there a league table | |||
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Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is"No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around. | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it isnope its not at all is there a league table"hmmm,,really sad,,lol,,really sad,,cant wait till racism is stamped out online on sites like this | |||
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"ONLY..? Harbouring racist views they dont think are racist , so call it a preference instead. That's my view and I block immediately whether I fit the bill or not. I don't want to see that shit, let alone have sex with it. That's my view. " Ok I agree if I saw this in the outside world. But don’t you think it’s my right to decide who I let fuck my body and who I share body fluids with? I’m happy to promote equality everywhere except when it comes to who can touch me.  | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening
If it's a temporary fantasy fulfillment.. not whole sexual outlook. Then you're exploring and it's a different scenario entirely.
If you only ever.. not shag/only shag certain races and won't even entertain the idea of anything different. It's what I'm saying it is.
What you do is up to you.
What you write on your own profile and how you view life is entirely to you.
I'm just pointing out differences in words and how those differences label people as different things.
You are doing the labelling. You are a stranger on a sex site. In the great scheme of things your opinion, and therefore label, does not matter to me one bit, especially when it comes to who I fuck.
No.. the dictionary is. I'm not a big fan of labels myself. I'm just following the dictionary and the accepted definition of the word in multiple other related scenarios.
I agree with the rest of what you said though.
So WHY reply?"Because I want to and can. Free choice. Something you struggle with obviously. You are applying the the labels on here, but it's ok thst's your choice. | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! I stand by what I said. Discrimination comes in many forms. When you do it based on ethnicity, its classed as racism. Except when it comes to sex? Yes because everyone should choose who the want to have sex with, why should anyone be forced to sleep with someone else they’re not attracted too........... you gave a chip on your shoulder, get over it!! And just so you’re aware I don’t have a race preference at all, I have had great sex with Asian, black, white............. At what point have I told anyone what they can or can't do with their body? You are very clearly saying that people aren’t allowed to voice their choices and that not fucking someone whose a certain race/colour means they’re racist! You have issues with people making their own choices, you need to work on that ....." You have issues reading. I'm not saying you can't do anything you want on here. At no point have I said that. I prefer it in the open. I don't want to accidentally shag an ugly person. I'm just saying it's racist when you include the word ONLY. Get off your horse. Or get some lessons.. I live on the saddle | |||
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" Where exactly? Here racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another Is not wish to me smokers discrimination or preference? Is not wanting bare back sex preference or discrimination. Is not wanting to meet bald/shaven head discrimination or preference ???? The people have said they don’t want sex with black:white. They did not make them travel in different buses or use different swimming pools. That is discrimination. Racist.. you're showing prejudice by discarding an entire ethnicity.. regardless of the variations. Preference.. Greater liking.. not ONLY. Big difference. Do you want me to copy and paste Discrimination for you? What you over look is this. Fab is a numbers game verses time. It like a marketing exercise. You aim for the majority you wish to hit on So although yes there may be a small percentage of yellow black white or bald you would find attractive for any number of reasons. You are not generally attracted to the vast majority of a particular group. So why waste time looking for that needle in a hay stack ? It just lengthens the odds of find someone your happy to meet. Whereas at a club you may find someone attractive from your said ‘no’ list and play with them. There is a difference between preference and racist. That’s why they are two words with different entries in a dictionary. Its just something we will have to agree to disagree on. What you're overlooking.. is everything I've said. Now you're veering off on an unrelated tangent. No I’m not. As I said, they are different words in the dictionary and so have different meaning. Your interpretation of the meaning is very different to mine. So here’s an example. I mr K don’t generally find oriental woman attractive. ie Chinese: Vietnam etc. So I won’t try to meet one through Fab. Yet I’ve played with one in a club because the dynamics were there. Yet I’ve have / had oriental friends, visited those countries and happily interacted with them socially. If I were racist I wouldn’t do this. Don't generally.. said in that manner.. allows for an exception. NO ASIANS Does not. It might sound picky.. it may seem pedantic. So much so.. we've had to make societal laws about it. Words are examined very closely in a Court of Law. I used to be generally, not attracted to Mongolian/Steppe/Asian faces (however we're allowed to describe it). Then I realised what I was. I dont look at skin colour, I don't look at body, I dont look at faces, doing look at sexuality, dont look at ability, size or experience. I try my best to take the entire package into account. Then see if I'm attracted. Pretty people with Ugly personalities turn ugly. Ugly people with pretty personalities become Pretty. Race doesn't come into it for me. It's not even a factor. I don't expect EVERYONE to feel the same way. I'm not trying to insult anyone by calling them a racist. Just pointing out a difference in words and my view on things in general. I get that.. for all sorts of reasons.. you may not find certain common racial features physically attractive.. or especially physically attractive. That is normal.. to outrule an entire race of people is stupidity though. There IS someone/s in that MASSIVE group of people who IS the EXCEPTION to YOUR RULE. They WOULD CHANGE your OUTLOOK on things, but you're REFUSING to give yourself that OPPORTUNITY. I am not looking to change my outlook on people. I am here for hedonistic sex, not a relationship or life long friendship. If I want to rule out a whole ethnicity to feed my sexual fantasy, I can and will. The more people throw the race card about, the more likely I will rule them out. I am not racist, I have sexual preferences which certain people don't respect, they feel entitled to be 'given a try', and I should 'make an exception'. Bollox, not happening
If it's a temporary fantasy fulfillment.. not whole sexual outlook. Then you're exploring and it's a different scenario entirely.
If you only ever.. not shag/only shag certain races and won't even entertain the idea of anything different. It's what I'm saying it is.
What you do is up to you.
What you write on your own profile and how you view life is entirely to you.
I'm just pointing out differences in words and how those differences label people as different things.
You are doing the labelling. You are a stranger on a sex site. In the great scheme of things your opinion, and therefore label, does not matter to me one bit, especially when it comes to who I fuck.
No.. the dictionary is. I'm not a big fan of labels myself. I'm just following the dictionary and the accepted definition of the word in multiple other related scenarios.
I agree with the rest of what you said though.
So WHY reply?
I reply because I disagree with the racist implication of sexual preference.
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around."Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist? | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it isnope its not at all is there a league table
hmmm,,really sad,,lol,,really sad,,cant wait till racism is stamped out online on sites like this"And how will that work? So I have preferences, I haven't stated them, however just cos I can make a choice that makes me a racist. Now those labelling me know nothing about the ethnicity of my children, nor my friends. Yet they think they have some right to label me as a racist? On who's authority? Elsewhere kids are being bullied due to the colour of their skin! Yet I'm racist cos I chose who I want to fuck. If that's the case people need to get a grip! | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. GK, don’t you think that might be a little extreme? I mean, to transfer the framework a little (sorry), I prefer “fuller figures” to slim partners. That is my preference and therefore the type of partner I pursue. That doesn’t mean I harbour any ill will or hatred toward my slim brothers and sisters of humanity, just that I like more padding for my play area. Back to the plot at hand, just because someone wants their logs in dark, milk or white chocolate exclusively doesn’t make them a hater for every other type of yummy confection! I stand by what I said. Discrimination comes in many forms. When you do it based on ethnicity, its classed as racism. Except when it comes to sex? Yes because everyone should choose who the want to have sex with, why should anyone be forced to sleep with someone else they’re not attracted too........... you gave a chip on your shoulder, get over it!! And just so you’re aware I don’t have a race preference at all, I have had great sex with Asian, black, white............. At what point have I told anyone what they can or can't do with their body? You are very clearly saying that people aren’t allowed to voice their choices and that not fucking someone whose a certain race/colour means they’re racist! You have issues with people making their own choices, you need to work on that ..... You have issues reading. I'm not saying you can't do anything you want on here. At no point have I said that. I prefer it in the open. I don't want to accidentally shag an ugly person. I'm just saying it's racist when you include the word ONLY. Get off your horse. Or get some lessons.. I live on the saddle "Grow up ffs | |||
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"ONLY..? Harbouring racist views they dont think are racist , so call it a preference instead. That's my view and I block immediately whether I fit the bill or not. I don't want to see that shit, let alone have sex with it. That's my view. Ok I agree if I saw this in the outside world. But don’t you think it’s my right to decide who I let fuck my body and who I share body fluids with? I’m happy to promote equality everywhere except when it comes to who can touch me. "Why do people think I'm telling them who they have to fuck when I call them a racist for excluding people based on ethnicity alone? It's up to you who you find attractive.. up to you who you fuck. I don't give a fuck who you fuck. I'm not telling anyone to do anything. People will judge you by what you write. How you write it. It's up to you if you give a fuck or not. Facts are still what they are. Nothing changes but you. | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around.
Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist? "In sexual preference terms on a sex site, it is not 'ist', it is sexual preference. I have been declined in the past because of my size, I didn't throw my dummy out and claim discrimination. They didn't fancy me, that's the bottom line. | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around.
Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist?
In sexual preference terms on a sex site, it is not 'ist', it is sexual preference. I have been declined in the past because of my size, I didn't throw my dummy out and claim discrimination. They didn't fancy me, that's the bottom line. "Who made you in charge of sex sites and who made them in charge of a dictionary? I get declined all the time. Sometimes it's due to an 'ist'. Like age, beard, bodyshape, sexuality, verifications.. what the fuck ever.. I don't spit my toys out of the pram either. If they're not interested, I don't care because it no longer matters. Racism is a preference, you dont have to be one. Just accept that there may be the remotest possibility that there could possibly be that one a billion chance, that the right person may just swivel your neck a bit. | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around.
Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist?
In sexual preference terms on a sex site, it is not 'ist', it is sexual preference. I have been declined in the past because of my size, I didn't throw my dummy out and claim discrimination. They didn't fancy me, that's the bottom line. "did they have "thin people ONLY" on their prolile ? | |||
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"ONLY..? Harbouring racist views they dont think are racist , so call it a preference instead. That's my view and I block immediately whether I fit the bill or not. I don't want to see that shit, let alone have sex with it. That's my view. Ok I agree if I saw this in the outside world. But don’t you think it’s my right to decide who I let fuck my body and who I share body fluids with? I’m happy to promote equality everywhere except when it comes to who can touch me.
Why do people think I'm telling them who they have to fuck when I call them a racist for excluding people based on ethnicity alone?
It's up to you who you find attractive.. up to you who you fuck. I don't give a fuck who you fuck. I'm not telling anyone to do anything.
People will judge you by what you write. How you write it.
It's up to you if you give a fuck or not.
Facts are still what they are. Nothing changes but you.
"And you are untitled to your view. But we are writing job adverts if truth be told on our profiles here, the job being sexual. Therefore it is personal and I have the right to ask for whatever I want. I write nothing about colour on mine GK but have been refused by guys who are friendly until they see my pics and realise I’m brown skinned. For me, if they would have written on their profile, no Asians, it would save me time and the short stab of pain that does happen. Are they racist? Don’t know and don’t care. I don’t know their lives and their experiences so I try not to judge and simply move on. Freedom of choice. Very important my friend. Teach those you can influence about equality, but don’t take away someone’s freedom of choice. | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around.
Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist?
In sexual preference terms on a sex site, it is not 'ist', it is sexual preference. I have been declined in the past because of my size, I didn't throw my dummy out and claim discrimination. They didn't fancy me, that's the bottom line.
Who made you in charge of sex sites and who made them in charge of a dictionary?
I get declined all the time. Sometimes it's due to an 'ist'. Like age, beard, bodyshape, sexuality, verifications.. what the fuck ever.. I don't spit my toys out of the pram either. If they're not interested, I don't care because it no longer matters.
Racism is a preference, you dont have to be one. Just accept that there may be the remotest possibility that there could possibly be that one a billion chance, that the right person may just swivel your neck a bit. "Beardist??? This post just keeps on giving.. | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around.
Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist?
In sexual preference terms on a sex site, it is not 'ist', it is sexual preference. I have been declined in the past because of my size, I didn't throw my dummy out and claim discrimination. They didn't fancy me, that's the bottom line.
did they have "thin people ONLY" on their prolile ?"This person didn't, but I see some profiles stating 'no size 14 or above' etc. To me that is a preference, and I respect that. Move on to someone who states they seek curvy or similar, that is what this site is about, seeking sexually compatible people. | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around.
Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist?
In sexual preference terms on a sex site, it is not 'ist', it is sexual preference. I have been declined in the past because of my size, I didn't throw my dummy out and claim discrimination. They didn't fancy me, that's the bottom line.
Who made you in charge of sex sites and who made them in charge of a dictionary?
I get declined all the time. Sometimes it's due to an 'ist'. Like age, beard, bodyshape, sexuality, verifications.. what the fuck ever.. I don't spit my toys out of the pram either. If they're not interested, I don't care because it no longer matters.
Racism is a preference, you dont have to be one. Just accept that there may be the remotest possibility that there could possibly be that one a billion chance, that the right person may just swivel your neck a bit.
Beardist???
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"Why?" Because we can. Because its our choice Because its our Preferance Simple really | |||
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"can anyone actually explain why a person colour is of any relevance?
Why is being a size 22 relevant to some ?
thats completely different and you know it is
No it isn't. Some people find size 22 sexually attractive, some dont. But fattist isn't thrown around.
Why? Why is fattist not as bad as racist?
In sexual preference terms on a sex site, it is not 'ist', it is sexual preference. I have been declined in the past because of my size, I didn't throw my dummy out and claim discrimination. They didn't fancy me, that's the bottom line.
Who made you in charge of sex sites and who made them in charge of a dictionary?
I get declined all the time. Sometimes it's due to an 'ist'. Like age, beard, bodyshape, sexuality, verifications.. what the fuck ever.. I don't spit my toys out of the pram either. If they're not interested, I don't care because it no longer matters.
Racism is a preference, you dont have to be one. Just accept that there may be the remotest possibility that there could possibly be that one a billion chance, that the right person may just swivel your neck a bit.
Beardist???
This post just keeps on giving.. "Not mock it Some very upset men and women out there who can't grow a proper one
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. And one other thing before I bow out of this. I have never ever in my life refused to be friends with someone because of their race, nationality, religion or sexual preferences. You are apparently so openminded yet look at some of us as the opposite. However, you refused to be friends with someone based solely on their sexual preferences. Can you really not see the narrow mindedness and hypocrisy here? Or does it only work one way? Stop bringing up private conversations. Friendship has nothing to do with it! If you wont even consider someone.. simply because they've been with a man. Or have a certain shade of skin.. but still like them in every other way.. You have to ask yourself WHY!? Now leave me alone woman! Stop airing our laundry. No I dont want to be friends with you because you think that way about bi men. Deal with it. Making you think a bit am I? I’d still be friends with you. Even though you make absolutely no sense. Please don’t speak to me in that tone, I am not a child. And don’t tell me to ignore your comments either. If you’re going to post publicly I’m going to comment. Deal with that "Oh dear. This is getting a bit personal. Lovers tiff is it. Guys take it elsewhere. This isnt about the thread sounds like its a personal war | |||
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. And one other thing before I bow out of this. I have never ever in my life refused to be friends with someone because of their race, nationality, religion or sexual preferences. You are apparently so openminded yet look at some of us as the opposite. However, you refused to be friends with someone based solely on their sexual preferences. Can you really not see the narrow mindedness and hypocrisy here? Or does it only work one way? Stop bringing up private conversations. Friendship has nothing to do with it! If you wont even consider someone.. simply because they've been with a man. Or have a certain shade of skin.. but still like them in every other way.. You have to ask yourself WHY!? Now leave me alone woman! Stop airing our laundry. No I dont want to be friends with you because you think that way about bi men. Deal with it. Making you think a bit am I? I’d still be friends with you. Even though you make absolutely no sense. Please don’t speak to me in that tone, I am not a child. And don’t tell me to ignore your comments either. If you’re going to post publicly I’m going to comment. Deal with that
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"preference 1. A greater liking for one alternative over another or others. "her preference for white wine" synonyms: liking, partiality, predilection, proclivity, fondness, taste, inclination, leaning, bias, bent, penchant, predisposition, desire, wish. racist 1. Aperson who shows or feels discrimination or prejudice against people of other races, or who believes that a particular race is superior to another. "I had a fear of being called a racist" synonyms: racial bigot, racialist, xenophobe, chauvinist; More anti-Semite. Read a dictionary. Which side does "ONLY" Put you as the poster? Not saying it, but still practicing it, still makes you racist, you'll just get less flak for thinking like that. If you don't care, carry on casually as you are. And one other thing before I bow out of this. I have never ever in my life refused to be friends with someone because of their race, nationality, religion or sexual preferences. You are apparently so openminded yet look at some of us as the opposite. However, you refused to be friends with someone based solely on their sexual preferences. Can you really not see the narrow mindedness and hypocrisy here? Or does it only work one way? Stop bringing up private conversations. Friendship has nothing to do with it! If you wont even consider someone.. simply because they've been with a man. Or have a certain shade of skin.. but still like them in every other way.. You have to ask yourself WHY!? Now leave me alone woman! Stop airing our laundry. No I dont want to be friends with you because you think that way about bi men. Deal with it. Making you think a bit am I? I’d still be friends with you. Even though you make absolutely no sense. Please don’t speak to me in that tone, I am not a child. And don’t tell me to ignore your comments either. If you’re going to post publicly I’m going to comment. Deal with that
Oh dear. This is getting a bit personal. Lovers tiff is it. Guys take it elsewhere. This isnt about the thread sounds like its a personal war
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