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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

but is the wink function being wrongly and over used?

Should we have an armistice on the poor wink's abuse and agree to only send it to people we truly believe we have a connection with so the recipient knows it's not just a "lazy man's" message and if it isn't reciprocated then you know they're not interested.

I'm thinking how it would benefit us all?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure about others but think I’ve looked at winks once in 2 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t mind a wink, but I prefer it in my box

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer winks to messages tbh but, like it says on my profile, don't understand why people wink from the other end of the country!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The wink is only effective for women winking at men, it says ‘I have chosen you but I can’t be arsed to message, but you can message me and I may or may not reply!’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t mind a wink, but I prefer it in my box "

Is that a euphemism?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We just delete them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The wink is only effective for women winking at men, it says ‘I have chosen you but I can’t be arsed to message, but you can message me and I may or may not reply!’ "

Lol ... it works both ways

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I can't remember the last time I sent a wink before today

Bugger me! It worked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not sure about others but think I’ve looked at winks once in 2 years. "

This is what I'm trying to get away from, I'd say you get inundated with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t mind a wink, but I prefer it in my box "

A wink in your inbox!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I prefer winks to messages tbh but, like it says on my profile, don't understand why people wink from the other end of the country!

Definitely against that which is why I'm on this mission.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't remember the last time I sent a wink before today

Bugger me! It worked!

Really? Bugger I’ve been doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The wink is only effective for women winking at men, it says ‘I have chosen you but I can’t be arsed to message, but you can message me and I may or may not reply!’ "

Probably true but let's try to make the wink important and special.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't check them.

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"but is the wink function being wrongly and over used?

I'm thinking how it would benefit us all?

Who says there's a right way and a wrong way?

I'd much rather we received a wink than a badly-written message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t send winks, and I don’t check mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't check them. "

That's sad but I guess it's because you get too many?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"but is the wink function being wrongly and over used?

I'm thinking how it would benefit us all?

Who says there's a right way and a wrong way?

I'd much rather we received a wink than a badly-written message."

Absolutely not me, I assure you, but I'm trying to make the Wink meaningful and special.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t send winks, and I don’t check mine."

Would you if you know that there were special?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never used it. The only time it's ever come in handy is when I have been perving at someone and can see they winked me in the past

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"but is the wink function being wrongly and over used?

I'm thinking how it would benefit us all?

"
a winks as good as a nod to a blind bat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think Iv ever sent a wink.

I rearly look at them.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've not looked at mine for ages, I have met someone following a mutual wink before though.

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By *andonmessMan over a year ago

A world all of his own

I have no issue with people winking me at all, slightly more important things in life to be concerned with.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

Prefer them over, 'u meetin' or 'fancy a fuk' easier to ignore or respond to. However I generally get the persistent ones, so will still get those messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"but is the wink function being wrongly and over used?

I'm thinking how it would benefit us all?

a winks as good as a nod to a blind bat

True!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Redesign the wink to be like bumble so only women can send one first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d like a nod system instead.

It’s more gentlemanly.

Gentlemen nod, players wink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Redesign the wink to be like bumble so only women can send one first "

Okay, good idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’d like a nod system instead.

It’s more gentlemanly.

Gentlemen nod, players wink."

When was the last time you was a gent, you rough arse fucker that you are!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d like a nod system instead.

It’s more gentlemanly.

Gentlemen nod, players wink.

When was the last time you was a gent, you rough arse fucker that you are!

How.

Very.

Dare you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’d like a nod system instead.

It’s more gentlemanly.

Gentlemen nod, players wink.

When was the last time you was a gent, you rough arse fucker that you are!

How.

Very.

Dare you."

You love it, dare me to expose you, yet big girl's blouse!

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had good meets off winks.

They work for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d like a nod system instead.

It’s more gentlemanly.

Gentlemen nod, players wink.

When was the last time you was a gent, you rough arse fucker that you are!

How.

Very.

Dare you.

You love it, dare me to expose you, yet big girl's blouse!

I know your game...

You just wanna wink off me doc.

You want me to wink you good.

You’re thinking about me winking right now aren’t you doc?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've had good meets off winks.

They work for me

You are now my pin-up girl for the movement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not going to bother sending winks,just get deleted well one did lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I bulk delete winks

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By *hesterXXXMan over a year ago

in your dreams

I'm thinking how it would benefit us all?

I'm thinking you may be over Thinking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I bulk delete winks"

I can understand but how sad at he same time, winks shouldn't be an off the cuff thing to do, don't you agree?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm thinking how it would benefit us all?

I'm thinking you may be over Thinking!"

Actually just want the forum and communication to be significant and meaningful unlike the usual "rate the above" or "pass, wank, marry" type threads.

Just trying that's all!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've put about winks on my profile but doubt people read that far tbh. Still I am ever the optimist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've put about winks on my profile but doubt people read that far tbh. Still I am ever the optimist. "

Keep being optimistic, my friend

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

Strangely I use winks quite a lot on my couples profile but don't even look at them on my singles one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wink/ message/ cause issues in here but dont seem to get anywhere?!?!? I thought this scene would be easy?!?! I have never had issues in real life I.e. pub/ clubs etc but here is a other level. Can I get any pointers please??

I wink loads but never get to the money shot!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Strangely I use winks quite a lot on my couples profile but don't even look at them on my singles one"

How do you think it can be improved?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wink/ message/ cause issues in here but dont seem to get anywhere?!?!? I thought this scene would be easy?!?! I have never had issues in real life I.e. pub/ clubs etc but here is a other level. Can I get any pointers please??

I wink loads but never get to the money shot!!

With all due respect my friend you appear to have highlighted my concerns about winks!

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

"Strangely I use winks quite a lot on my couples profile but don't even look at them on my singles one

How do you think it can be improved?"

I think for me it's a numbers game. We receive far fewer on our couples profile and use them ourselves sometimes to express interest. I have used them on this profile but receive a far greater number so tend not to look at them

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I don’t look at winks, I occasionally clear them out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wink loads but never get to the money shot!!

With all due respect my friend you appear to have highlighted my concerns about winks!"

It's really a strange?!?! Women look at me on the streets and when I'm out, but on here it's like I have the AIDs or something!! Confused massively.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Strangely I use winks quite a lot on my couples profile but don't even look at them on my singles one

How do you think it can be improved?

Seems to me your experience sums up my thoughts, winks are not decerning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t look at winks, I occasionally clear them out"

You probably just get them from undesirables!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wink loads but never get to the money shot!!

With all due respect my friend you appear to have highlighted my concerns about winks!

It's really a strange?!?! Women look at me on the streets and when I'm out, but on here it's like I have the AIDs or something!! Confused massively."

Alas that's appears to be the way of fab!

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"I don’t look at winks, I occasionally clear them out

You probably just get them from undesirables!"

Who send stroppy messages!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leagues don't apply here women rule make an efergy and worship them, message don't wink but as a guy receive all communication gracefully

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely look at winks. I much prefer messages. Not dick pics though or fancy a fuck first off lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I rarely look at winks. I much prefer messages. Not dick pics though or fancy a fuck first off lol! "
daym my post is irrelevant now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I rarely look at winks. I much prefer messages. Not dick pics though or fancy a fuck first off lol! "
I look at winks, women see them as lazy and they are but couples and women who send them are beat for time an sending a maybe interested wink which I respond to after checking profile, guys have more time to do the leg work but manners still apply. Alas the negative from a couple or woman that send a wink is they probably have a very busy inbox so you may still get missed lol the joy of fab

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

It's not often that I go to Home Page, so some of the winks that people have sent me get overlooked for weeks or months on end, usually when I do check them out, I find myself either blocked or they haven't been on line for ages

I can only imagine that it's the audacity that I can't even look at them rather than them send me a message in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I bulk delete winks

I can understand but how sad at he same time, winks shouldn't be an off the cuff thing to do, don't you agree?"
to me they are a....i like profile but thats it.....not looking to meet ....if that makes sense...

I wish there was a way of switching them off.

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By *latinumkittenWoman over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

"The wink is only effective for women winking at men, it says ‘I have chosen you but I can’t be arsed to message, but you can message me and I may or may not reply!’ "

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