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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Its like gold lol"
if the sum effort of you selling yourself is 22 words... i counted them ... twice!.... then i don't think you really should be pointing the finger at other people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its like gold lol
Why, are you having to actually make an effort?"
Yes. It's so unfair.
When I joined I was convinced women would be constantly flinging themselves at me, eager for my attention. But they're not.
Must be a lot of lesbians masquerading as straight ladies on here if you ask me. It's the only possible explanation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone  "
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf |
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"Not really, you can buy gold. "
I think he meant gold dust.
OP, how often do you get sex in the ‘real world’? Chances are the odds of meeting will be lower on here as there are 100 men messaging that one ‘special lady’ every day, in the real world that lady is likely to only be chatting with one man at a time with the intention of meeting him. Get yourself down the pub/beach/cafe etc. and start up a conversation with someone who takes your fancy.
Lou x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its like gold lol
if the sum effort of you selling yourself is 22 words... i counted them ... twice!.... then i don't think you really should be pointing the finger at other people!"
Listen to this guy, sell yourself, don't be in a hurry, don't wave your cock about and you'll be fine mate.
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf"
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now "
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find your niche and sell yourself through that. I recently discovered that silly flirty poetry puts a smile on some girls faces. Come in expecting nothing and you can't lose. |
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What are you doing to make yourself appealing to the people you might want to meet?
I won't offer profile advice as you haven't asked for any, but I posted a thread on general profile advice in the introduction section. I suspect most people complaining about not getting meets would do well to read it, because the advice is generally applicable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its like gold lol
if the sum effort of you selling yourself is 22 words... i counted them ... twice!.... then i don't think you really should be pointing the finger at other people!"
Exactly! and your first picture has a spliff hanging out your mouth which really isn't going to help.
Woman and couples have tons of single men interested in them on here so it should be no surprise they go with the ones who have put the most effort into there profile, have genuine verifications, are active swingers in terms of attending clubs / socials and parties and most importantly are respectful and have the right attitude.
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years "
I don't bother differentiating tbh, and not everyone does. |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years "
It’s a guy thing I think....MFM, MMF, FMF, MFF they can all be miss read  |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf"
Please enlighten me, what is the difference? |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years
I don't bother differentiating tbh, and not everyone does. "
Ok but as a Bi-curious guy I know what to expect, that’s all x |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Please enlighten me, what is the difference?"
For those who care (I don't), an mfm is straight and an mmf is fully bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its like gold lol
if the sum effort of you selling yourself is 22 words... i counted them ... twice!.... then i don't think you really should be pointing the finger at other people!"
14 of those are the words fab gave his profile.
Fab isn’t that hard, maybe your expectations were too high? |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years
I don't bother differentiating tbh, and not everyone does.
Ok but as a Bi-curious guy I know what to expect, that’s all x"
I'm bi, I'll play with most people I want to play with, and I expect my play partners to talk to each other and figure that out. |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Please enlighten me, what is the difference?"
It’s a Bi thing MMF would be 2 bi guys and 1 lady....MFM 2 straight guys 1 lady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years "
It’s a semantic thing. Most people refer to it as a bi MMF if bi action is part of the deal, that way it avoids misinterpretation.
MFM is usually straight though. |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Please enlighten me, what is the difference?
For those who care (I don't), an mfm is straight and an mmf is fully bi."
Thank you, I genuinely didnt know there was a difference.  |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years
I don't bother differentiating tbh, and not everyone does.
Ok but as a Bi-curious guy I know what to expect, that’s all x
I'm bi, I'll play with most people I want to play with, and I expect my play partners to talk to each other and figure that out."
Same here, it’s all about an honest conversation.....it’s how it’s written |
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"Its like gold lol
if the sum effort of you selling yourself is 22 words... i counted them ... twice!.... then i don't think you really should be pointing the finger at other people!"
How many words is enough.. To sell yourself hmm? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Please enlighten me, what is the difference?
It’s a Bi thing MMF would be 2 bi guys and 1 lady....MFM 2 straight guys 1 lady "
Not necessarily on here.MMF is often used as a generic term as well, as the subtle difference is sometimes overlooked. |
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I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us."
Clarification is key |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Please enlighten me, what is the difference?
It’s a Bi thing MMF would be 2 bi guys and 1 lady....MFM 2 straight guys 1 lady
Not necessarily on here.MMF is often used as a generic term as well, as the subtle difference is sometimes overlooked."
Very true, experience is everything  |
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"I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us."
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"I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us.
Clarification is key "
I just don't think it's necessary, and reflects hangups about male bisexuality. I've never seen anyone talk about a bicurious ffm I might touch her stomach, I might kiss in a Katie Perry way to turn my boyfriend on, but I'm not touching her pussy omg eww. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're looking for women and are straight but verified by a male. Well that'll be Fab straight then.
Also no need for the funny fag in pictures.
The profile details don't say much at all.
A total rethink would be advisable I reckon. Then perhaps you'll get more responses and the lot of gold at the end of the ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us.
Clarification is key
I just don't think it's necessary, and reflects hangups about male bisexuality. I've never seen anyone talk about a bicurious ffm I might touch her stomach, I might kiss in a Katie Perry way to turn my boyfriend on, but I'm not touching her pussy omg eww."
Yep it’s very rarely written FMF. However male bisexuality sadly still carries a stigma. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us."
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"I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us.
Clarification is key
I just don't think it's necessary, and reflects hangups about male bisexuality. I've never seen anyone talk about a bicurious ffm I might touch her stomach, I might kiss in a Katie Perry way to turn my boyfriend on, but I'm not touching her pussy omg eww.
Yep it’s very rarely written FMF. However male bisexuality sadly still carries a stigma."
Indeed. But that's one reason I don't differentiate. People can handle their shit. |
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"You're looking for women and are straight but verified by a male. Well that'll be Fab straight then.
Also no need for the funny fag in pictures.
The profile details don't say much at all.
A total rethink would be advisable I reckon. Then perhaps you'll get more responses and the lot of gold at the end of the ?? "
Men can be verified by men for all sorts of reasons. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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It's easy to blame the numbers, the fact that women are hot, other guys are hotter than you, blah blah blah.
Take a look at yourself and your profile first, before you start blaming everyone else... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's really silly and call it all an mmf. Sometimes I'll specify bi if it is. Orally bi? Bicurious bi? Touching bi maybe but not admitting it later?
It's two men and a woman, and the details are between us.
Clarification is key
I just don't think it's necessary, and reflects hangups about male bisexuality. I've never seen anyone talk about a bicurious ffm I might touch her stomach, I might kiss in a Katie Perry way to turn my boyfriend on, but I'm not touching her pussy omg eww.
Yep it’s very rarely written FMF. However male bisexuality sadly still carries a stigma.
Indeed. But that's one reason I don't differentiate. People can handle their shit. "
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years
It’s a guy thing I think....MFM, MMF, FMF, MFF they can all be miss read "
If placing two M’s next to each other indicates Bi male how do you write 1 women with 4 straight guys ?
If the profile of the couple says. straight male then MMF would mean straight male.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years
It’s a guy thing I think....MFM, MMF, FMF, MFF they can all be miss read
If placing two M’s next to each other indicates Bi male how do you write 1 women with 4 straight guys ?
If the profile of the couple says. straight male then MMF would mean straight male.
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Thsts called a MFM-M |
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years
It’s a guy thing I think....MFM, MMF, FMF, MFF they can all be miss read
If placing two M’s next to each other indicates Bi male how do you write 1 women with 4 straight guys ?
If the profile of the couple says. straight male then MMF would mean straight male.
Thsts called a MFM-M "
No that’s only 3 guys. Asked about 4 
Or is that MFM-M-M ? |
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"Ah just spotted it.....you state “straight” but your verification says you are good at MMF....that’s a bisexual overtone
Some people don’t realise a mfm is different to mmf
Very true....but 9 months on fab surely he should know by now
I didn’t realise there was a difference until about a year ago...and I’ve been here two years
It’s a guy thing I think....MFM, MMF, FMF, MFF they can all be miss read
If placing two M’s next to each other indicates Bi male how do you write 1 women with 4 straight guys ?
If the profile of the couple says. straight male then MMF would mean straight male.
Thsts called a MFM-M
No that’s only 3 guys. Asked about 4
Or is that MFM-M-M ? "
How bout F-4M |
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