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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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What were you doing a year ago?
I had just been diagnosed with the big C so it was a life changing moment, things will never be the same as they once were, but I’m surviving cancer..
What were you doing a year ago, has anything changed your life since? |
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"What were you doing a year ago?
I had just been diagnosed with the big C so it was a life changing moment, things will never be the same as they once were, but I’m surviving cancer..
What were you doing a year ago, has anything changed your life since?"
Hugs to you 0P. Stay strong.xx |
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over a year ago
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"I was two stone heavier and hadn’t met anyone for a very very long time
Now I’m here - a bit lighter and still not meeting a lot to be fair
Looking good though xx"
Long way to go yet ... thank you honey |
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hugs OP,a year ago a piece of my heart was broken and life wasn't easy but with the support of family and friends today life is good again
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Sorry you had a tough time, but glad to see you’re doing ok now xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This time last year I returned from Gran Canaria holiday to get back to work. This time I returned from Turkey holiday and when I got back to work I handed in my notice after I talked to my boss. Worked there since April 2012. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.
What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back.  .
She was my best friend. |
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.
What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back. .
She was my best friend. "
Sorry to hear that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.
What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back. .
She was my best friend. "
It gets better - I promise you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.
What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back. .
She was my best friend.
It gets better - I promise you "
I hope so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hugs OP,a year ago a piece of my heart was broken and life wasn't easy but with the support of family and friends today life is good again
Sorry you had a tough time, but glad to see you’re doing ok now xx"
Thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.
What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back. .
She was my best friend. "
Big hugs hun ,it's still very raw for you but in time you will smile again when you think of your mam xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hope you get through the battle with cancer op lost family and friends because of it.
Yet another one who’s daughter was 21 around this time last year. I had nervous breakdown so was feeling very low. Year on feeling much better and joined a gym so fitter too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I started a new relationship and moved into a house after nearly two years homeless, living in my vehicle or on the beach, or in the woods.. I d had a major meltdown over child issues and this was my first time within four walls in some time.. Wasn t sure how to adapt back after so long in the wilderness.. Funny a year on from moving into the house i still have quirks from my homelessness that won t go away, ny gf accepts them and all is good.. A foot in the world of houses and bills, another in the freedom of the wild places  |
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Just checked my veris and it would appear that on 31st July last year I was having hot trans-lesbian sex with another Tgirl.
And, OP, I'm another cancer survivor. 10 years ago in my case. Wish you all the best of luck from my heart darling xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was running a business, working way too many hours a week, burnt out and hated my own face a bit, and fighting some health issues. I’ve had a monumental year for a year where everything stopped and slowed down. My mind changed about a lot of things, lots of growth.
I’m glad you’re surviving the C xx
-Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A year ago, I would have been parading on a Mediterranean beach in nothing but a little thong. There will have been women onlookers revelling in the moment I'm sure..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also 1 year ago separately I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis
That’s s bit of a painful bitch to be honest "
How you doing Stella? Where are you at now? Haven’t seen you on here for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wow.
Cant remember tbh... but to those who have said
You have lost. It will get easier give yourself time
For those with medical issue. There is love and suppport on here for you.
Forthose with relationship storys . Your on Fab soooo its all good.
Be kind to yourself folks xx |
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Also 1 year ago separately I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis
That’s s bit of a painful bitch to be honest
How you doing Stella? Where are you at now? Haven’t seen you on here for a while. "
I’m good thanks Nora, having treatment on my back in a weeks time, so hopefully that’ll be sorted fingers crossed, in remission so all good so far there, put a bit of weight on which pleases the doctors but I’m not happy about it lol ...
Thanks for asking xxx |
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Wow.
Cant remember tbh... but to those who have said
You have lost. It will get easier give yourself time
For those with medical issue. There is love and suppport on here for you.
Forthose with relationship storys . Your on Fab soooo its all good.
Be kind to yourself folks xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just checked my pictures .
One year ago this eveing I was watching a beautiful sunset with my best pal pooch.
He influenced my life in so many ways , I went from 17 stones back to 11 . Walked the beautiful hills and beaches here.
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"I've just checked my pictures .
One year ago this eveing I was watching a beautiful sunset with my best pal pooch.
He influenced my life in so many ways , I went from 17 stones back to 11 . Walked the beautiful hills and beaches here.
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Sounds perfect |
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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I think it’s important to think about how things were and think about how things are now, 12 months ago I though I was dying, everyone I knew who had what I had were either dead or terminally ill, so to have survived for now I’m eternally grateful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A year ago today I decided I would learn the piano and practice everyday till I was the best I could be. I didn’t buy that piano or practice, but what I did learn is that pianos are way out of my price range. |
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"A year ago today I decided I would learn the piano and practice everyday till I was the best I could be. I didn’t buy that piano or practice, but what I did learn is that pianos are way out of my price range."
love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also 1 year ago separately I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis
That’s s bit of a painful bitch to be honest
How you doing Stella? Where are you at now? Haven’t seen you on here for a while.
I’m good thanks Nora, having treatment on my back in a weeks time, so hopefully that’ll be sorted fingers crossed, in remission so all good so far there, put a bit of weight on which pleases the doctors but I’m not happy about it lol ...
Thanks for asking xxx"
Ah good! Positive then  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A year ago, I was told I had diabetes, so changed lifestyle. Started diet, started exercising, started meds, etc.
Now blood sugar is back to normal, I'm 20lb lighter (lost 4" around my waist) and I've got actual muscles - feeling much healthier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This time last year I was having a breakdown. I didn't realise at the time, I mean I knew I wasn't right but just assumed it was a blip and I'd come out the other side. It was a few more weeks before I finally broke in quite spectacular fashion and realised how unwell I had become |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Last July, dad was recovering from an op for bowel cancer but had a fall and banged his head - resulting in a chronic bilateral subdural haematoma.
They rushed him to Coventry for surgery and drilled 2 holes in his skull, to relieve the pressure.
A year ago, I was driving from Chelt to Cov hospital every day, for 11 days. (Didn't tell parents about the diabetes, until 6 months later) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was exactly a month away from meeting the man who temporarily restored my faith in relationships and then went on to destroy it 10 months later. I feel I had a lucky escape.
However in that time my career has been very unsettled and I lost my mum in February. So in this last year a lot has changed.
To everyone going through things I wish you well and hope you continue to get stronger.
To anyone struggling remember the small steps take us to the bigger goals.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was employed, around 26 weeks pregnant and just starting to show and get a little bump. I think I was travelling around Ireland this time last year actually. My life has changed a ridiculous amount now my little one is here. I was about three stone lighter too! *sigh*
Keep kicking cancers ass OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A year ago yesterday was my husband’s funeral...it’s been a long year"
Nobody can prepare you, for just how crap it feels, in that first year after losing a spouse (and the second/third, tbh).
Anniversaries can be hard but things do get better eventually.
Hope time is kind to you. |
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Some awful stories in this thread, but also tales of fine human spirit and defeating the odds.
This time last year I was pretty ill, in the midst of depression, anxiety and generally feeling useless.
12 months on I've done a bit of traveling, lots of self-reflection, got myself better, motivated and am 7 weeks into a new challenge that has resulted in further employment on a short term contract.
I've also lost about a stone in weight and generally feel better, although not visiting here even half as regularly as I was. |
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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Some awful stories in this thread, but also tales of fine human spirit and defeating the odds.
This time last year I was pretty ill, in the midst of depression, anxiety and generally feeling useless.
12 months on I've done a bit of traveling, lots of self-reflection, got myself better, motivated and am 7 weeks into a new challenge that has resulted in further employment on a short term contract.
I've also lost about a stone in weight and generally feel better, although not visiting here even half as regularly as I was."
I think depression and stress were what bought on my cancer to be honest, so I know what you feel like and what you have been through |
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