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By *abio OP Man
over a year ago
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as a single bloke i am "expected" to like these by a lot of clubs.... as these are the only nights that a lot of guys are allowed in....
but there is something about a greedy girl night that just doesn't appeal to me... partly not as socialable... partly the attitute of some other guys who do go to them (and i have heard some abhorant _iews from guys in clubs about the women who attend them)
am i then the exception that as a single guy, I would rather attend a mixed night, even though I suppose the amount of people who I could possibly play with would be lower.... than going on a greedy girls night, where playing chances would be increased?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My OH would not get involved in a greedy girl night. I've asked if he ever wanted to try it and he says that he has no wish or desire to be one of many, or standing in line waiting. I've never really been to one so I'm not sure what it consists of really.
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u are not alone fabs,kev doesnt like them either, he likes to flirt and seduce,
Tbh GG night are for me, i get the kind of blind, meaningless sex i sometime really want,and to behave like a complete slut,i didnt coin the term live dildoes for nothing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"u are not alone fabs,kev doesnt like them either, he likes to flirt and seduce,
Tbh GG night are for me, i get the kind of blind, meaningless sex i sometime really want,and to behave like a complete slut,i didnt coin the term live dildoes for nothing "
I love that term.. lol see that's the type of sex I like 99% of the time with meets. Master only goes to greedy girl nights if I'm the greedy girl lol
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"u are not alone fabs,kev doesnt like them either, he likes to flirt and seduce,
Tbh GG night are for me, i get the kind of blind, meaningless sex i sometime really want,and to behave like a complete slut,i didnt coin the term live dildoes for nothing
I love that term.. lol see that's the type of sex I like 99% of the time with meets. Master only goes to greedy girl nights if I'm the greedy girl lol
Cali "
i would love to go to one with Sir and be a total show off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its your thing you go if you don't like don't go. Nobody is going to make you attend something you don't want to so why worry or try and knock something others enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i would love to go to one with Sir and be a total show off "
I only do group stuff with Master present.. lol only do most stuff. I love showing off..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Greedy girl nights are a total turn off for me also. It's almost like the only qualifying criteria I need to have is a cock, but I'm sorry to say that my cock comes attached - to me, and I have a brain, feelings and a sense of pride too. |
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"we been thinking of going to our local 1 ,we done few hotel meets and trying next for 2/3 men but hard to get them all there so defo gona try a g/g night soon"
drop me a line if up do, i like a good natter between the mindless sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take a look at my post on the same, wasn't the most greatest night I can tell you, in fact I'm not really sure I ever want to go again. I understand though where you are coming from |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I dont attend clubs on greedy girl nights now either.
Ive never participated anyway but I agree with _abio that the single guys there seem to have a different mentality on those nights.
The last time I went to one a guy stood on my head in the rush to get to the woman playing with guys next to me....  |
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i have to say a word in defence of those men who enjoy GG and gangbangs, before group think take over completly...
There is(from talking to friends)something very erotic about seeing a woman abandon herself to sex, to behave in a manner that society still condemns,yes there is objectification of both the women and men, but that itself means you are often getting sex in its purest form...stripped even of the rules swingers impose.
On a GG night i let go ,becoming nothing more than an object of sexual pleasure and fulfilling my sexual needs...that is apparently very sexy to watch... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have to say a word in defence of those men who enjoy GG and gangbangs, before group think take over completly...
There is(from talking to friends)something very erotic about seeing a woman abandon herself to sex, to behave in a manner that society still condemns,yes there is objectification of both the women and men, but that itself means you are often getting sex in its purest form...stripped even of the rules swingers impose.
On a GG night i let go ,becoming nothing more than an object of sexual pleasure and fulfilling my sexual needs...that is apparently very sexy to watch..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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something very erotic about seeing a woman abandon herself to sex, to behave in a manner that society still condemns
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Yeah, breaking or subverting sexual norms..very potent spice, swinging brings a little light relief from having to behave like social automaton......still don't like gangbangs though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If its your thing you go if you don't like don't go. Nobody is going to make you attend something you don't want to so why worry or try and knock something others enjoy."
Well said |
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"If its your thing you go if you don't like don't go. Nobody is going to make you attend something you don't want to so why worry or try and knock something others enjoy.
Well said "
it's rather like those that don't like the sun newspaper moaning about those that do like/buy the sun,its a very simple solution really if you dont like gg nights?,dont go!.
if you dont like the sun?,dont buy it!
it really is that simple!.
just dont keep going on about it!. |
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By *abio OP Man
over a year ago
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"If its your thing you go if you don't like don't go. Nobody is going to make you attend something you don't want to so why worry or try and knock something others enjoy."
see.... everyone is this comment... but I don't see where ANYONE has actually knocked them at all.......
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have to say a word in defence of those men who enjoy GG and gangbangs, before group think take over completly...
There is(from talking to friends)something very erotic about seeing a woman abandon herself to sex, to behave in a manner that society still condemns,yes there is objectification of both the women and men, but that itself means you are often getting sex in its purest form...stripped even of the rules swingers impose.
On a GG night i let go ,becoming nothing more than an object of sexual pleasure and fulfilling my sexual needs...that is apparently very sexy to watch..."
See now that sounds incredibly erotic and bloody fantastic but my experience was far from it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...There may be trouble ahead..", bound to be, an arena for folks to voice their _iews, theres gonna be conflicting ones..the power to say 'shut yer face' and make that commandment stick, doesn't however lie in the hands of us mere mortals, but with the moderators & admin..thankfully. So all and any with an opinion who are 'inclined' to share it...knock yourselves out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like group sessions where an equal amount of men and women are indulging. I've been to parties where this happens and I've been on the couples bed at Chams where its kinda turned into that kind of thing and I absolutely love that. I don't tend to have penetrative sex with lots of men, as that isn't for me, but I will get involved in oral sex.
But I feel a little uneasy when too many men gather around me, I don't play with lots at one time and it feels a bit claustrophic and I'm on edge, ready to bat them off if they touch me. So a gg is not for me. I'd love to watch one though, I do think it would look sexy. I like what Jem said about a woman abandoning herself to sex. Its not me but I'd like to see that.
I think men pushing and shoving to get to a woman playing is really bad. Seems very disrespectful really, I don't like the thought of that |
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"we been thinking of going to our local 1 ,we done few hotel meets and trying next for 2/3 men but hard to get them all there so defo gona try a g/g night soon
drop me a line if up do, i like a good natter between the mindless sex "
sure thing(ne pun )
remember few years ago at our local on wednesday nite the numbers went down on the men so the club advertized the champ leagues games to be shown on the club gg nite the lasses went mental posting thing ie " i aint there for half time entertainment" hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as a single bloke i am "expected" to like these by a lot of clubs.... as these are the only nights that a lot of guys are allowed in....
but there is something about a greedy girl night that just doesn't appeal to me... partly not as socialable... partly the attitute of some other guys who do go to them (and i have heard some abhorant _iews from guys in clubs about the women who attend them)
am i then the exception that as a single guy, I would rather attend a mixed night, even though I suppose the amount of people who I could possibly play with would be lower.... than going on a greedy girls night, where playing chances would be increased?
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Your not alone m8. Im a single lad but I would not at all want to go to one of these nights at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If its your thing you go if you don't like don't go. Nobody is going to make you attend something you don't want to so why worry or try and knock something others enjoy.
see.... everyone is this comment... but I don't see where ANYONE has actually knocked them at all.......
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So you put up the thread because you love them? NO you didn't you were commenting you don't like them and there is something called RIGHT OF REPLY! Some like them, if they do good for them, you don't have to attend after all. I have never seen clubs rounding up single men and forcing them into clubs. It sounds almost like you would stop them if you had your way. |
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By *waymanMan
over a year ago
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"as a single bloke i am "expected" to like these by a lot of clubs.... as these are the only nights that a lot of guys are allowed in....
but there is something about a greedy girl night that just doesn't appeal to me... partly not as socialable... partly the attitute of some other guys who do go to them (and i have heard some abhorant _iews from guys in clubs about the women who attend them)
am i then the exception that as a single guy, I would rather attend a mixed night, even though I suppose the amount of people who I could possibly play with would be lower.... than going on a greedy girls night, where playing chances would be increased?
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Clubs don't expect you to like them. They set their prices and their admission policy according to who they want in on which nights. If you don't want what's on offer, at the price charged, so be it.
The idea that you only get dickheads at greedy girl nights is also a little off kilter. There are people on here whose ideas and outlook on life mean that I wouldn't touch them with a well wrapped bargepole who are far more likely to turn up at couples nights than GG nights. And, truth to tell, that's no different to the rest of real life.
I can understand the frustration of single guys who don't fancy GG nights but who feel excluded by the commercial approach of clubs on non GG nights. But guess what? For those clubs swinging is a business. Nothing more. |
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"as a single bloke i am "expected" to like these by a lot of clubs.... as these are the only nights that a lot of guys are allowed in....
but there is something about a greedy girl night that just doesn't appeal to me... partly not as socialable... partly the attitute of some other guys who do go to them (and i have heard some abhorant _iews from guys in clubs about the women who attend them)
am i then the exception that as a single guy, I would rather attend a mixed night, even though I suppose the amount of people who I could possibly play with would be lower.... than going on a greedy girls night, where playing chances would be increased?
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when I was a single I was a friday night guy at my local club, as that was the only night i could attend (wed was work day )
I did try for over 2 years to get approved for a sat night, and was never successful.
So I voted with my feet and wont go back, even thought I am now part of a couple.
Yes there are a lot of guys who don't like gg nights but don't have any other choice,
It seems you are one of the lucky ones who is one of regulars on the sat nights |
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By *abio OP Man
over a year ago
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So you put up the thread because you love them? NO you didn't you were commenting you don't like them and there is something called RIGHT OF REPLY! Some like them, if they do good for them, you don't have to attend after all. I have never seen clubs rounding up single men and forcing them into clubs. It sounds almost like you would stop them if you had your way."
no.. I actually put this thread up as it was an offshoot of another thread that was going on..... so rather that hijack that one I started another one......
and as for sounding like I would stop them if I had my way... oh my god,wow!!! really!!! that is reading a lot into some words and I don't see anyone else reading it that way either... |
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I sort-of like GG nights - I like them because there is more often than not more choice of men to play with. I don;t like some of the 'it's a GG night, you're female so you're bound to f*ck anything mentality' that I've seen and experienced.
I'm not keen on playing with masses at one go (I'm easily distracted!) nor am I keen on a queue building up - it's rather presumptive (especially if they're wearing a condom before they even get close!) but GG nights can still lead to having some good fun with 1 or 2 away from the masses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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no.. I actually put this thread up as it was an offshoot of another thread that was going on..... so rather that hijack that one I started another one......
and as for sounding like I would stop them if I had my way... oh my god,wow!!! really!!! that is reading a lot into some words and I don't see anyone else reading it that way either... "
Fabio and I rarely see eye to eye but I didnt think he was saying that these events shouldnt happen. He was just expressing his disinterest in them, and was looking to see if he was the only guy that thought like that.
I think for some men they feel that these events show little respect for either men or women.. I never feel disrespected but I can see how for some it may seem it though..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If its your thing you go if you don't like don't go. Nobody is going to make you attend something you don't want to so why worry or try and knock something others enjoy."
i don't believe the op knock the nights at all i think he was just seen if he was usual |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So you put up the thread because you love them? NO you didn't you were commenting you don't like them and there is something called RIGHT OF REPLY! Some like them, if they do good for them, you don't have to attend after all. I have never seen clubs rounding up single men and forcing them into clubs. It sounds almost like you would stop them if you had your way.
no.. I actually put this thread up as it was an offshoot of another thread that was going on..... so rather that hijack that one I started another one......
and as for sounding like I would stop them if I had my way... oh my god,wow!!! really!!! that is reading a lot into some words and I don't see anyone else reading it that way either... "
its true people read things that aren't there so don't worry x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as a single bloke i am "expected" to like these by a lot of clubs.... as these are the only nights that a lot of guys are allowed in....
but there is something about a greedy girl night that just doesn't appeal to me... partly not as socialable... partly the attitute of some other guys who do go to them (and i have heard some abhorant _iews from guys in clubs about the women who attend them)
am i then the exception that as a single guy, I would rather attend a mixed night, even though I suppose the amount of people who I could possibly play with would be lower.... than going on a greedy girls night, where playing chances would be increased?
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Thank You. Been invited to a few and its just the biggest turn off...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fabio is one of the most fair-minded members on here and he was merely asking what people thought of GG nights, whilst also declaring his own position.
I'm all for a Mrs Merton "heated debate" but I wish one or two of those jumping on his ass now bothered to do the same when someone genuinely posts something controversial.
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The GG nights i have been to are very socialable,and far less cliquey than most other nights, i am not sure where some seem to get the idea from that ppl dont mix...the only time i have ever been to a club and found ppl to be less than friendly was a couples only night...i do not assume all couple are stand offish now though...
i think a lot off ppls prejudices are showing on this thread...mainly towards the women who enjoy group sex...wierdly we are also able to hold a converation...some seem to believe these are mutually exclusive.i think women are empowered and in control at GG night is something they need to get their head round.
As for the quality v quantity debate,one of the great things about sex is it comes in many forms...there should be no restrictions or belief that there is onle one twue way...are people really always having sex the same way every single time ?Never wanting to experiment or try something new? Now i am not saying if u try it and discover its not for you u have somehow failed...but dont knock something as lower quality simply because its different.
How do you measure quality anyway...number of orgasms or the fact you make your meet go through a rigorous inter_iew process before you deign to meet them?
Its thread like this that stop me calling myself a swinger  |
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seems - as usual this has got away from the OP.
i dont much like greedy girls nights or gang bangs.
this is not a judgement of girls / guys who do it is simply a comment that it is not my 'thing'.
now a greedy guys night..... may be a different thing ! |
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As for the quality v quantity debate,one of the great things about sex is it comes in many forms...there should be no restrictions or belief that there is onle one twue way...are people really always having sex the same way every single time ?Never wanting to experiment or try something new? Now i am not saying if u try it and discover its not for you u have somehow failed...but dont knock something as lower quality simply because its different.
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No two nights are the same, not even in the same club, but I think I do kind of get what Fabio is saying.
There are some couple and ladies who are happy to accept quantity over quality (that's their thing and it's fine, but maybe not the type of person we'd play with personally) and there are guys that seem to think they are guaranteed to fuck you just because you are there (and are therefore easy).
We like the atmosphere, and we like meeting likeminded couple (and guys) that down look down their noses at you if you so even as mention meeting a couple that is not of peak physical perfection.
So, guess I'm saying I think there are pros and cons to every type of themed night. We like the GG nights but not always for the obvious reason.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as a single bloke i am "expected" to like these by a lot of clubs.... as these are the only nights that a lot of guys are allowed in....
but there is something about a greedy girl night that just doesn't appeal to me... partly not as socialable... partly the attitute of some other guys who do go to them (and i have heard some abhorant _iews from guys in clubs about the women who attend them)
am i then the exception that as a single guy, I would rather attend a mixed night, even though I suppose the amount of people who I could possibly play with would be lower.... than going on a greedy girls night, where playing chances would be increased?
Clubs don't expect you to like them. They set their prices and their admission policy according to who they want in on which nights. If you don't want what's on offer, at the price charged, so be it.
The idea that you only get dickheads at greedy girl nights is also a little off kilter. There are people on here whose ideas and outlook on life mean that I wouldn't touch them with a well wrapped bargepole who are far more likely to turn up at couples nights than GG nights. And, truth to tell, that's no different to the rest of real life.
I can understand the frustration of single guys who don't fancy GG nights but who feel excluded by the commercial approach of clubs on non GG nights. But guess what? For those clubs swinging is a business. Nothing more. "
Spot on! I don't go myself but heads up to those who do because it helps keep the clubs going financially. Really dont see a reason for people wanting to put GG nights down my self. |
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