"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
If it's a meet for a coffee and a face to face chin wag... no harm
Obligated? No ... no one is obligated to do anything when it comes to meets |
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over a year ago
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
God no and I hope nobody does feel they have to!  |
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Attraction comes in many ways!
I’ve yet to meet a woman that thinks I’m drop dead gorgeous and has that instant attraction to me!
Normally they like what they see, or think I’m ‘Alright’ but it’s my personality that wins them over...
But I’d only meet if I wanted to. Never obliged |
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
not obligated but if I liked them I wouldn’t have any hesitation going on a meet  |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while not obligated but if I liked them I wouldn’t have any hesitation going on a meet "
good to know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not obligated but I don't mind meeting people for a drink and as friends. I would like to meet for a drink as friends but it ain't happened yet "
awwww well I'm sure many would love to meet you
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? "
because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc |
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc "
oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them "
I do delete and block them but then is the next guy doing the same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them I do delete and block them but then is the next guy doing the same thing "
ahhhh OK but it doesn't matter still it's always what you want to do, you're attractive and some guys are very persistent maybe tighten your filters Taylor them more to what you want and are looking for |
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them I do delete and block them but then is the next guy doing the same thing ahhhh OK but it doesn't matter still it's always what you want to do, you're attractive and some guys are very persistent maybe tighten your filters Taylor them more to what you want and are looking for "
tailor jeez |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again. |
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while
Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again. "
I won't do it again promise but you do owe me a kiss |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"No oh that's good because I have been feeling lately like I have to
You don't have to do anything you don't want to."
that's good because some of the guys on here are so creepy telling me they have wanked over my pictures that dont make me wanna meet you |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while
Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again. I won't do it again promise but you do owe me a kiss "
Oh go on then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while
Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again. I won't do it again promise but you do owe me a kiss
Oh go on then "
Ooooh fluttery eyelashes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I wouldn’t meet anyone I didn’t fancy unless it was a social. Even then a social without any chemistry is a bit weird. I’d hate someone to meet me just because they’d been chatting to me and felt obliged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sexual meet or friendly meet?
Sexual no way why would you?
Friendly meet? Its up to you.
For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.
If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Sexual meet or friendly meet?
Sexual no way why would you?
Friendly meet? Its up to you.
For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.
If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet."
that's what I thought but you get those men that just like take a no for answer and keep on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet themjust thisI want to meet your breasts kelly can I "
I'll cut them off and post them ...shall i  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sexual meet or friendly meet?
Sexual no way why would you?
Friendly meet? Its up to you.
For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.
If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet. that's what I thought but you get those men that just like take a no for answer and keep on "
Just block them. Ive had someone ive been chatting too for a while as mates, shes nice and asked to meet quite afew times, ive said im seeing someone and not meeting she still asks and says as friends but i just dont want to put myself in the position plus i respect who im seeing too much to consider a social meet even if it is just a meet. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Sexual meet or friendly meet?
Sexual no way why would you?
Friendly meet? Its up to you.
For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.
If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet. that's what I thought but you get those men that just like take a no for answer and keep on
Just block them. Ive had someone ive been chatting too for a while as mates, shes nice and asked to meet quite afew times, ive said im seeing someone and not meeting she still asks and says as friends but i just dont want to put myself in the position plus i respect who im seeing too much to consider a social meet even if it is just a meet."
that's good you respect the person you are seeing and good dont go there |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while
Absolutely not... guess it's just me then lol
You turned me down  "
when did I turn you down hmm |
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
I never feel obligated to do anything i dont want to do. Its my life and my time so therefore my choice. I chat to loads of men on here but only meet the ones i find sexually attractive.x |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while
I never feel obligated to do anything i dont want to do. Its my life and my time so therefore my choice. I chat to loads of men on here but only meet the ones i find sexually attractive.x"
I wish I could find some one I find attractive I have been talking lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet themjust thisI want to meet your breasts kelly can I I'll cut them off and post them ...shall i "
really....... OK |
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while
I never feel obligated to do anything i dont want to do. Its my life and my time so therefore my choice. I chat to loads of men on here but only meet the ones i find sexually attractive.xI wish I could find some one I find attractive I have been talking lol "
Message men you find attractive yourself and start chatting. Dont just wait for men to message you. Plenty hot men on Fab. |
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"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
Have they asked you for a meet? |
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