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Going to a club on your own
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How weird?
I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive |
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Plenty of perfectly pleasant single guys go to clubs
They're the exact ones we happen to be looking for.
Of course plenty of not so nice guys seem to turn up too.... We just don't interact with those.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is it weird for guys to go alone?
Is it weird for women to go alone too? X"
I dont really know but I just feel it would be weird for me to go alone which is why I haven't |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Why is it weird for guys to go alone?
Is it weird for women to go alone too? X I dont really know but I just feel it would be weird for me to go alone which is why I haven't"
Loads of really nice/hot guys go to clubs alone. That's what alot of single ladies are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How weird?
I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"
Not at all.
It's how you behave in the club that matters.
I go to to clubs alone, always someone to chat too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it weird for guys to go alone?
Is it weird for women to go alone too? X I dont really know but I just feel it would be weird for me to go alone which is why I haven't"
It's not weird at all as long as you don't turn on stalker mode and follow people about. I go alone and just chat to people. Get to know members and go from there x |
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"How weird?
I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"
ask yourself why you would feel that way. Many single guys and girls manage to go to clubs alone without feeling rapiest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How weird?
I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo aliveask yourself why you would feel that way. Many single guys and girls manage to go to clubs alone without feeling rapiest. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face |
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"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face "
You go up to them and talk to them...? |
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"How weird?
I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"
I go on my own with no pre-arranged meets all the time.
Doesn't feel awkward at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face
You go up to them and talk to them...? "
absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already |
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It’s good to go on your own. I am always learning new things about other people and myself while learning to look out for the signs. You are able to focus on them completely.
Had some great compliments from a conversation today. Definitely put a big smile on my face |
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"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face
You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already"
That's why I go to clubs. To talk to new people.
If you can't approach then you won't get far. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face
You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already
That's why I go to clubs. To talk to new people.
If you can't approach then you won't get far. "
exactly the reason I havent gone. |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already"
Why on earth not? That's how you get to know new people.
A lot of people go to clubs to meet new people. That's what they want. They're happy to have a friendly non-pushy person approach then.
I find it easiest to join a group that's having a conversation that I feel I have something to contribute to. The hot tub or sauna are good too - you've got a small group together for other reasons, and it's natural to chat.
It's only scary if you make it scary. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"How weird?
I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"
if that is your attitude then may i suggest that clubs are not for you..... period! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face
You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already"
But why though? Do you spend your life avoiding people you don't know? |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
Gleam Street |
Just chat... it doesn't need to be any more... there are loads of guys who go to our local club who've simply said Hi in passing... one complimented me on my dress.. guess what? I didnt run away screaming.. I said thanks.. want a cuppa?
Treat people like humans.. we'll all get on ok x |
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I have to say I love going to clubs. I’ve always had a great time meeting new likeminded people. Socially way more friendly and interactive than vanilla venues.
If you think that way, probably not a place you should try! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its great, ive met some wonderful people going alone. The only down side is the cost. It ends up being extortionate. Especially if you dont earn a lot or are self employed like myself.  |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
I'll hit my first club alone this Friday. Looking forward to it actually and since I have no problem hitting bars on my own in London and meeting/chatting with folk I'll have no problem with this one. I'll need to polish up the Spanish though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How weird?
I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"
With the mask you have maybe. But you will see you won’t be alone long |
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And why would you feel like that?! 
