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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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Lovely people of Fab
What are your thoughts on mixed sex changing rooms at clubs. Ladies and couples changing room?
IMO it should be just two changing rooms, ladies and gents.
Why should I be expected to get changed in front of a man I haven’t chosen to see me undressed/naked? Before anyone says to wait until the room is empty, that may not be possible.....
No negative posts please, I’m only wanting your thoughts, it’s not a have a go thread. I’m just keen to know what you think that’s all.
Bhubaysi x |
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I agree. Much as I like being around ladies changing into underwear.
Its awkward and I bet it doesn’t feel relaxed. All I have to do is chuck my stuff in a locker wrap the towel round me and off I go.
I also been on the end of the bum bump! If you know you know. |
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Actually a great thread, as I generally have kept to clubs in which they have a place for Tgirls to change, for example Club Sx, if I don't arrive dressed.
The one time I did change in a club I was happy that I'd turned up.early and was out before anyone came in.
I've never yet, ever had any problems using the ladies whilst dressed, however.
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over a year ago
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Actually never thought this an issue. As at some point we gonna see the woman naked or even worse never knew it mattered. But very good point.
On the flipside you get to see people and decide ohh I am gonna say hi to that couple later. |
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Never a problem for us, we frequented Chams twice a week, sometimes more for a fair few years and couples always got changed in the same room. Our local club didn’t have changing rooms as such, so my wife would get changed in a vacant play room. |
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"This is interesting ..why is this an issue with ladies yet not with men"
I have occasionally come across men in club changing rooms who try to take the piss because I'm (un)dressing right there. It might well have been an issue if other people hadn't been around.
Maybe that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is interesting ..why is this an issue with ladies yet not with men
I have occasionally come across men in club changing rooms who try to take the piss because I'm (un)dressing right there. It might well have been an issue if other people hadn't been around.
Maybe that? "
I've experienced this too. Even worse, at one club the changing room was just full of creepy leering men. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This is interesting ..why is this an issue with ladies yet not with men
I have occasionally come across men in club changing rooms who try to take the piss because I'm (un)dressing right there. It might well have been an issue if other people hadn't been around.
Maybe that?
I've experienced this too. Even worse, at one club the changing room was just full of creepy leering men. "
This is exactly the reason I don’t like it. I feel it’s an invasion of my privacy! |
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Ok I know I’m going to sound dumb here, as a club virgin, but why wouldn’t the ladies put on their desired lingerie or clothing under other clothes before going to the club. Then when arrive just take off the unnecessary layers ? |
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I’m happy for it to be mixed means we only have to take one bag etc
But I can see your point as a single female especially if you’ve had a night full of wanking dead following you around the last thing you want is to have to go and get changed in front of them
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"Ok I know I’m going to sound dumb here, as a club virgin, but why wouldn’t the ladies put on their desired lingerie or clothing under other clothes before going to the club. Then when arrive just take off the unnecessary layers ? "
Sometimes it depends on what you're wearing over the top. I often do.
But sometimes they're right there and even, say, when you've got lingerie on and you're struggling into or out of a dress... It's a vulnerable position. Where in my head normal changing room etiquette should apply, you know? |
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"Ok I know I’m going to sound dumb here, as a club virgin, but why wouldn’t the ladies put on their desired lingerie or clothing under other clothes before going to the club. Then when arrive just take off the unnecessary layers ?
Sometimes it depends on what you're wearing over the top. I often do.
But sometimes they're right there and even, say, when you've got lingerie on and you're struggling into or out of a dress... It's a vulnerable position. Where in my head normal changing room etiquette should apply, you know? "
Thanks Swing
Yes makes perfect sense and can totally see where you are coming from |
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