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Why oh why oh why fab?
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I'm fascinated by the variety of people on fab and what drew them here. Single, couples, experienced, newbies, vanilla, kinky...you get the drift!
What brought you to fab?
What keeps you on fab?
What would make you leave?
Signed, a curious Mrs TMN x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Curiosity. And a desire to explore my new love for cock and older people without judgement (I was relatively young when I joined).
The people I'm meeting and talking to keep me on here, I think I'll leave once I feel like my life's chapter is on the cusp of changing. |
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"Curiosity. And a desire to explore my new love for cock and older people without judgement (I was relatively young when I joined).
The people I'm meeting and talking to keep me on here, I think I'll leave once I feel like my life's chapter is on the cusp of changing. "
Yay, a reply! 
Interesting. You don't think you're a swinger for life then? |
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over a year ago
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The urge to rekindle the sexual adventures we enjoyed before settling down and starting a family.
It’s essentially what keeps us here but there’s also a lot of genuine friendships we’ve made that keep it interesting.
We’d leave if either one or both of us decide it’s no longer fun. |
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"The urge to rekindle the sexual adventures we enjoyed before settling down and starting a family.
It’s essentially what keeps us here but there’s also a lot of genuine friendships we’ve made that keep it interesting.
We’d leave if either one or both of us decide it’s no longer fun."
Ah, you sound very similar to us! The fun factor is all important |
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Here to explore some fantasies together. Stay because it is somewhat addictive and because I enjoy the banter and interaction of the forums and we have also made friends...
If we go it will be because we decide it's not right for us anymore but right now it's kind of part of our lifestyle.
Jo x  |
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Defo kinkster, not swinger. Fab's the most convenient place to meet others into same stuff.
Joined out of curiosity.
Stayed because it has filters and blockers.
Definitely a permanent singleton.
Don't want relationships.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Curiosity. And a desire to explore my new love for cock and older people without judgement (I was relatively young when I joined).
The people I'm meeting and talking to keep me on here, I think I'll leave once I feel like my life's chapter is on the cusp of changing.
Yay, a reply!
Interesting. You don't think you're a swinger for life then?"
No, I was more thinking if I got pregnant or something. I don't know if I am a swinger for life, it wouldn't be something I could say for certainty. |
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Defo kinkster, not swinger. Fab's the most convenient place to meet others into same stuff.
Joined out of curiosity.
Stayed because it has filters and blockers.
Definitely a permanent singleton.
Don't want relationships.
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Now that is interesting. I know I've seen threads about people misunderstanding kink on here before. Not in your experience? X |
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"Curiosity. And a desire to explore my new love for cock and older people without judgement (I was relatively young when I joined).
The people I'm meeting and talking to keep me on here, I think I'll leave once I feel like my life's chapter is on the cusp of changing.
Yay, a reply!
Interesting. You don't think you're a swinger for life then?
No, I was more thinking if I got pregnant or something. I don't know if I am a swinger for life, it wouldn't be something I could say for certainty."
Ah I see. I'm always intrigued as to how people find changing from being single to being in a couple on here, that's what I was thinking. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally. |
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally. "
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
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By (user no longer on site)
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A friend mentioned it to me in passing once when we were discussing dating and sex. Signed up out of curiosity, started speaking to some lovely guys who I have since met and stayed in contact with. Have stuck around mostly to stay in contact with them, and I’m always on the look out for the perfect arrangement.
I’d probably leave if I found myself in a relationship outside of fab, but who knows.x |
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"A friend mentioned it to me in passing once when we were discussing dating and sex. Signed up out of curiosity, started speaking to some lovely guys who I have since met and stayed in contact with. Have stuck around mostly to stay in contact with them, and I’m always on the look out for the perfect arrangement.
I’d probably leave if I found myself in a relationship outside of fab, but who knows.x"
So what would you consider the perfect arrangement? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A friend mentioned it to me in passing once when we were discussing dating and sex. Signed up out of curiosity, started speaking to some lovely guys who I have since met and stayed in contact with. Have stuck around mostly to stay in contact with them, and I’m always on the look out for the perfect arrangement.
I’d probably leave if I found myself in a relationship outside of fab, but who knows.x
So what would you consider the perfect arrangement? X"
Ha a very good question, I’ll let you know when/if I find it x |
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"I'm fascinated by the variety of people on fab and what drew them here. Single, couples, experienced, newbies, vanilla, kinky...you get the drift!
What brought you to fab?
What keeps you on fab?
What would make you leave?
Signed, a curious Mrs TMN x"
Curiosity, potential of meeting someone with similar sexual thought process, not being ready for a relationship but still being alive and human.
Habit, the horn, some lovely people...the hope.
Finding someone I want to give everything and share everything with....or the constant battle of being taken seriously and genuinely may beat me before that! |
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A older family friend of mine recommended me to join this site aged 20.
I was seeing an older women he used to also see. He found out, we had a *very awkward* conversation where told me about this site.
I've been off and on for several years. Take time off because sometimes it can swallow your life.
Ultimately always come back though. I just....I'm probably too horny.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
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Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!  |
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing! "
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex boss brought me on fab. We used to have a fling at work. I left my job and moved away but he wanted to keep in touch and created us a couples profile on fab. Never met anyone that way so I created my own single profile and had fun on my own since  |
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on! "
Yep! Had never heard of any of those! And all the acronyms. Danberks was my personal urban dictionary before he left. I did use to make him laugh. I remember saying Dan what’s DVP mean lol. Then thinking omg is that really a thing! |
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on!
Yep! Had never heard of any of those! And all the acronyms. Danberks was my personal urban dictionary before he left. I did use to make him laugh. I remember saying Dan what’s DVP mean lol. Then thinking omg is that really a thing! "
You need educating a little more nora! |
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I joined pof a very naive and vanilla person looking to start dating again after my marriage ended.
Guy I was arranging to meet from pof started talking about cross dressing then feminising and of course I had to use google constantly to know what he was talking about.
He suggested I join fab to learn more which I did (using google again to find out meanings of words). He chickened out of meeting me and I stayed on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on!
Yep! Had never heard of any of those! And all the acronyms. Danberks was my personal urban dictionary before he left. I did use to make him laugh. I remember saying Dan what’s DVP mean lol. Then thinking omg is that really a thing!
You need educating a little more nora!"
Hey I know it all now! |
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on!
Yep! Had never heard of any of those! And all the acronyms. Danberks was my personal urban dictionary before he left. I did use to make him laugh. I remember saying Dan what’s DVP mean lol. Then thinking omg is that really a thing!
You need educating a little more nora!
Hey I know it all now! "
I know you do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fascinated by the variety of people on fab and what drew them here. Single, couples, experienced, newbies, vanilla, kinky...you get the drift!
What brought you to fab?
What keeps you on fab?
What would make you leave?
Signed, a curious Mrs TMN x"
it's a website same as most others, life has been taken over by the Web, people almost live and breathe using it, sex before I came here was great and it's still great now, where you meet people doesn't change that, you can label it how you want, it's at point at which you connect and hopefully meet if you are worthy of meeting  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm fascinated by the variety of people on fab and what drew them here. Single, couples, experienced, newbies, vanilla, kinky...you get the drift!
What brought you to fab?
What keeps you on fab?
What would make you leave?
Signed, a curious Mrs TMN xit's a website same as most others, life has been taken over by the Web, people almost live and breathe using it, sex before I came here was great and it's still great now, where you meet people doesn't change that, you can label it how you want, it's at point at which you connect and hopefully meet if you are worthy of meeting "
it's a point |
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on!
Yep! Had never heard of any of those! And all the acronyms. Danberks was my personal urban dictionary before he left. I did use to make him laugh. I remember saying Dan what’s DVP mean lol. Then thinking omg is that really a thing! "
Now that one I did know...know what you mean about acronyms though! DDLG and CFNM were a complete mystery to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined Fab from Kik and solely to escape from the reality of life ...
I love to chat and have a laugh
I’ve never met anyone here although I’m intrigued and curious
Not got any expectations and go with the flow
I did get some abuse on a previous profile so I deleted but returned as it’s fun ..... the abuse was from 2 ladies who thought I was fake after sending a face picture and became irate .... I should have just blocked but deleted me in panic lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What brought you to fab?
Looked up a sexy redditor and they mentioned this place, had to check it out and loved the vibe
What keeps you on fab?
The messages out of the blue which lead to discovering sexy naughty new people 
What would make you leave
Probably some of the more arrogant and stuck up people on here. For such an open minded site there are some seriously prissy, prudish sorts on here sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on!
Yep! Had never heard of any of those! And all the acronyms. Danberks was my personal urban dictionary before he left. I did use to make him laugh. I remember saying Dan what’s DVP mean lol. Then thinking omg is that really a thing!
You need educating a little more nora!
Hey I know it all now! "
I’m still googling at times lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I googled bicurious and fab came up. I joined and blocked all except women. One day I thought I’d have a little peek at the men and never changed it back. Never ever intended meeting any men originally.
Hurrah! That's what I love about fab. The endless possibilities. Things you didn't know you liked. Things you didn't even know were a thing!
Yes, for sure. Definitely a lot of things I didn’t know were a thing!
Pegging. Sounding. Docking. Snowballing. I could go on!
Yep! Had never heard of any of those! And all the acronyms. Danberks was my personal urban dictionary before he left. I did use to make him laugh. I remember saying Dan what’s DVP mean lol. Then thinking omg is that really a thing!
Now that one I did know...know what you mean about acronyms though! DDLG and CFNM were a complete mystery to me "
CFNM is the only one I googled and thought hmmmm I like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined at the end of a 10 and a half year relationship to find kink without drama. Met men and couples. Found couples were far too much drama so stopped meeting them. Then 2 yrs ago stopped meeting men. Stayed for the chat room and to keep up with friends. |
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"I'm fascinated by the variety of people on fab and what drew them here. Single, couples, experienced, newbies, vanilla, kinky...you get the drift!
What brought you to fab? Seems to be 'the' place to be for like-minded folk.
What keeps you on fab? Fear of missing out lol. Dont think im at full 'swing' at the moment, so probably havent got full use out of the site, but think it will compliment meets very well, in establishing trust for others, and for others in me.
What would make you leave? Abuse probably. But have and could again take a break.
Signed, a curious Mrs TMN x"
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"Here to explore some fantasies together. Stay because it is somewhat addictive and because I enjoy the banter and interaction of the forums and we have also made friends...
If we go it will be because we decide it's not right for us anymore but right now it's kind of part of our lifestyle.
Jo x "
If my answer to what keeps me here was to be 'those legs', would that be too cheeky  |
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What brought you to fab?
Fab had just started and a woman from another site recommended it
What keeps you on fab?
I live in the hope of finding a group of people I can let go with and set sail on unchartered waters of sexual pleasures 
What would make you leave?
If I could no longer function sexually |
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I've been here for many years under different guises. This incarnation is more about engaging my mind, rather than purely satisfying physical urges.
I honestly can't think of anything that would make me want to leave right now,I've met some wonderful people and shared some amazing experiences with them....long may it continue |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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Think I first heard about it on fetlife, then joined a kik group and they started talking about it so I took the plunge. I'm not looking for a relationship - drama kills it, I lose myself - so I'd rather find others who I can connect with but on a more sexual basis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined Fab this time same as all the other times, to re-connect with a few people I know that have been on the scene for many many yrs, long before Fab's existence.
I had the intention of deleting my account on my return home, but have decided to keep it for now.
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"I'm fascinated by the variety of people on fab and what drew them here. Single, couples, experienced, newbies, vanilla, kinky...you get the drift!
What brought you to fab?
What keeps you on fab?
What would make you leave?
Signed, a curious Mrs TMN x"
Found Fab by accident.
Looked like a good place to have lots of the sex.
Found I was wrong, so very wrong.
Stumbled across the forums.
Found they were mostly inhabited by freaks, weirdos, sarcastic and argumentative fuckers.
Finally felt at home, so stayed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stumbled across randomly when looking to cam. I stayed as I thought it would be a good place as my partner and I have a hot wife fantasy we would like to explore some day. I stay now for the forums mostly. If this place didn't have forums 99% of my messages would have scared me away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need sex....Due to a ex bf I'm off relationships for life....My friend was on here (he's gay) He told me there's a lot of hot people on here so I joined....At first I thought it was full of idiots....Then I met someone that changed my mind on leaving....Then I met his gf and I've not looked back since....I think if we all face the facts there's were all here for the same thing |
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"I need sex....Due to a ex bf I'm off relationships for life....My friend was on here (he's gay) He told me there's a lot of hot people on here so I joined....At first I thought it was full of idiots....Then I met someone that changed my mind on leaving....Then I met his gf and I've not looked back since....I think if we all face the facts there's were all here for the same thing "
cake of popcorn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never heard of Fab until my straight mate told me about it, as he is a swinger on here. I joined after my bicurious phase started, with intention of a possible bi MMF in mind. I have not done it yet and had offers, but will at some point when I am ready |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here for many years under different guises. This incarnation is more about engaging my mind, rather than purely satisfying physical urges.
I honestly can't think of anything that would make me want to leave right now,I've met some wonderful people and shared some amazing experiences with them....long may it continue "
And I’m friends with Cilian Murphys family lol
I can keep you here lol |
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We happened upon Fab after a recommendation from a swinger on another site.... Fab is much better.
As for swinging, we had fantasies that we couldn't act out on our own, so after much debate, we took the plunge, and loved it.
If it had just been "sex", we probably would have hung up our boots by now, but we quickly found the social side, and the friendships we have made, keep us engaged...oh, and the fun we have is awesome too lol!
Not sure we will ever leave, although I'm guessing it will happen by degrees at some point in the future. |
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"I need sex....Due to a ex bf I'm off relationships for life....My friend was on here (he's gay) He told me there's a lot of hot people on here so I joined....At first I thought it was full of idiots....Then I met someone that changed my mind on leaving....Then I met his gf and I've not looked back since....I think if we all face the facts there's were all here for the same thing "
no two people are here for the same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined in the hope of finding some occasional male company and fulfilling sex
Stay mostly for the forum nonsense and characters
I'll leave when I've had enough of it all |
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I'm here purely for my sexual urges that change often I love speaking with like minded people I do sometimes feel I want to leave due to judgemental people but then I remind myself why I am here it always makes my day when I stumble across nice polite people even if they say no I find it very respectful they make the effort my only wish would be to find more engaging 60 plus women and couples yes please x |
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"I'm fascinated by the variety of people on fab and what drew them here. Single, couples, experienced, newbies, vanilla, kinky...you get the drift!
What brought you to fab?
What keeps you on fab?
What would make you leave?
Signed, a curious Mrs TMN xit's a website same as most others, life has been taken over by the Web, people almost live and breathe using it, sex before I came here was great and it's still great now, where you meet people doesn't change that, you can label it how you want, it's at point at which you connect and hopefully meet if you are worthy of meeting "
See, for us it's opened up so many possibilities - as a couple unless we were using a different swinging website I don't think it's the same as many others? |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I joined for the sex, and that’s been great. But I didn’t expect to meet so many interesting people. People that I probably wouldn’t meet in every day life. I’ve really enjoyed getting to know a number of lovely women that I consider friends. |
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"Why do you like your nipples twisted?
Now now. Answer the thread question first!
1 desperation
2 desparation
3 desperation"
Ha ha! Good answers. How's it working out for you, then?
And in answer to your question - it makes we weak at the knees and ridiculously wet |
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