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Women say they don’t want dick pics..
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Men just like their dicks so much they think women must want to see them too and this overrides the multiple statements that they don't.
We don't mind a dick pic too much but if that dominated a man's profile it doesn't show very much understanding or imagination so we won't have any interest in him. |
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Women rarely want to be sent dick pics as there's so many to see on here as it is. Why do we want to be sent a dick pic by a guy who's only public pics are his dick anyway? (not you but generally) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my fab friends do not have cock pictures in their profile - if they do it's all in friends gallery. Only one has a cock as his avatar. I choose my friends and lovers. |
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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago
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"Men just like their dicks so much they think women must want to see them too and this overrides the multiple statements that they don't.
We don't mind a dick pic too much but if that dominated a man's profile it doesn't show very much understanding or imagination so we won't have any interest in him."
point taken then to find just to have a civil conversation like climbing mount everest....well only here guess be much different in the real social world hashtag just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't see the point in getting mine out for the camera, because a dick is nothing that a woman hasn't seen before.
I honestly don't get why so many men are so eager to show them off.
Even the small ones are up for show lol it just seems abit daft  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I state it clearly on my profile but nope. Most guys don’t listen. Need to post pics of their Crown Jewels to the world. There sure are some ugly ones around...  |
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"I state it clearly on my profile but nope. Most guys don’t listen. Need to post pics of their Crown Jewels to the world. There sure are some ugly ones around... "
Second the ugly ones......some look raw, what that about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of men don't listen 
Nearly quarter past nine! Why do you ask?  "
Hahaaa - I laughed a little bit too much at that - I didn't get much sleep last night I'm a bit delirious 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I state it clearly on my profile but nope. Most guys don’t listen. Need to post pics of their Crown Jewels to the world. There sure are some ugly ones around...
Second the ugly ones......some look raw, what that about "
shrivelled and wrinkled and hairy cmon they have character  |
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"I state it clearly on my profile but nope. Most guys don’t listen. Need to post pics of their Crown Jewels to the world. There sure are some ugly ones around...
Second the ugly ones......some look raw, what that about shrivelled and wrinkled and hairy cmon they have character "
Mr Tinkle getting on now eh Gertrude.... |
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"could say the same for women......not complaining just stating an obvious fact....to be fair sooner men and women get past this bs the better. "
Are you saying women send you messages with pics of their foof attached  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I'm curious to know how many women send messages to guys with their body parts attached as a first message.... "
loads its like rat atouille on here   |
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A dick pic, or a tit pic, booty pic..is fine, if its one. Profiles with 6 different dick pics, on different days, different boxers and angles..I consider that overkill.
A variety of pics works best to attract me. 6 pics of the same dick..not going to work for me. |
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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago
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"A dick pic, or a tit pic, booty pic..is fine, if its one. Profiles with 6 different dick pics, on different days, different boxers and angles..I consider that overkill.
A variety of pics works best to attract me. 6 pics of the same dick..not going to work for me. "
but you got ya tits hanging out like a washing line....lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I state it clearly on my profile but nope. Most guys don’t listen. Need to post pics of their Crown Jewels to the world. There sure are some ugly ones around...
Second the ugly ones......some look raw, what that about shrivelled and wrinkled and hairy cmon they have character
Mr Tinkle getting on now eh Gertrude...."
he gets on very well and his names Justin |
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"A dick pic, or a tit pic, booty pic..is fine, if its one. Profiles with 6 different dick pics, on different days, different boxers and angles..I consider that overkill.
A variety of pics works best to attract me. 6 pics of the same dick..not going to work for me.
but you got ya tits hanging out like a washing line....lol"
Yeah..just the one! Which is what I just said! Just the one pic. |
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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago
London |
never complained bout meets in fact i know what to do just to overcome that issue you've stated. bottom is this are we adults or kids?? reject me water off a ducks back....specific stipulations looking for the golden goose crack on with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site is also full of men complaining they can't get meets."
Some struggle its true, i think ive come to terms with the women know what they want and if they want you theyll come and tell you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pussy rules.....and get manipulated in return hence why half women hardly content. thats fab life lol"
Some of us are just happy ... in life and with their corner of fab! Complaining is just not attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pussy rules.....and get manipulated in return hence why half women hardly content. thats fab life lol"
If you allow yourself to be manipulated, that's your own fault. You don't have to pander to ladies demands. You have free will. |
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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago
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not complaining im just talking with in forum....i have no malice. if thats what make you happy crack on lol the point was women state not wanting to see this and that but there more women showing themselves off. fact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not complaining im just talking with in forum....i have no malice. if thats what make you happy crack on lol the point was women state not wanting to see this and that but there more women showing themselves off. fact "
I haven’t noticed that. So you’re saying women who don’t like seeing cock pics on profiles have pussy pics on theirs? Genuine question I don’t look at many women’s profiles to be honest. |
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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago
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"pussy rules.....and get manipulated in return hence why half women hardly content. thats fab life lol
If you allow yourself to be manipulated, that's your own fault. You don't have to pander to ladies demands. You have free will. "
can we all remember its two way street never said i was manipulated said pussy gets that treatment. yes your right dont pander to ladies demands hence why we are having a civil discussion about it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am bored of seeing pictures of cocks I have no interest in playing with... Once a connection is established and we are arranging to meet or we have met before and I know I already enjoy said dick... Then a picture of it can adds to things... Until that point is reached, I don't want to see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"pussy rules.....and get manipulated in return hence why half women hardly content. thats fab life lol
If you allow yourself to be manipulated, that's your own fault. You don't have to pander to ladies demands. You have free will.
can we all remember its two way street never said i was manipulated said pussy gets that treatment. yes your right dont pander to ladies demands hence why we are having a civil discussion about it.... "
Not everyone is the same. I don’t manipulate, play games or time waste. Plenty do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men don't listen. They think that penis ownership should be enough to get them laid. It isn't.
Everyone on here has some responsibility for the way they interact, but men are the ones who are often the root cause of the reactionary way women & couples treat every man.
Example: I write well worded, sensible messages to people I genuinely think are a good match, and about about 9 out of 10 messages are either left read and not replied to, or simply never get read.
The ratio of conversations to messages is rubbish, and that's coming from a guy who has (what I feel) no problem meeting people (I have a number of regular play partners too).
Most men send out a load of dick pics and "hi how r u" type messages, then get arsey when they get deleted - women and couples get 100's of messages so the people like me just get deleted along with the dick pic swamp.
It's a numbers game - pure & simple. We just have to suck it up until all the dull dick pic spammers grow up and learn to write legible sentences. |
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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago
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"not complaining im just talking with in forum....i have no malice. if thats what make you happy crack on lol the point was women state not wanting to see this and that but there more women showing themselves off. fact
I haven’t noticed that. So you’re saying women who don’t like seeing cock pics on profiles have pussy pics on theirs?
Genuine question I don’t look at many women’s profiles to be honest. "
you ok maybe you should and come to the debate later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not complaining im just talking with in forum....i have no malice. if thats what make you happy crack on lol the point was women state not wanting to see this and that but there more women showing themselves off. fact
I haven’t noticed that. So you’re saying women who don’t like seeing cock pics on profiles have pussy pics on theirs?
Genuine question I don’t look at many women’s profiles to be honest.
you ok maybe you should and come to the debate later"
Or maybe I’ll just stay right here |
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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago
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here we go again fml!!! least one person female actually got my point and i wasnt crude or vindictive about it....nevertheless each on to there own. good to debate like adults on an adult site!! |
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"Men don't listen. They think that penis ownership should be enough to get them laid. It isn't.
Everyone on here has some responsibility for the way they interact, but men are the ones who are often the root cause of the reactionary way women & couples treat every man.
Example: I write well worded, sensible messages to people I genuinely think are a good match, and about about 9 out of 10 messages are either left read and not replied to, or simply never get read.
The ratio of conversations to messages is rubbish, and that's coming from a guy who has (what I feel) no problem meeting people (I have a number of regular play partners too).
Most men send out a load of dick pics and "hi how r u" type messages, then get arsey when they get deleted - women and couples get 100's of messages so the people like me just get deleted along with the dick pic swamp.
It's a numbers game - pure & simple. We just have to suck it up until all the dull dick pic spammers grow up and learn to write legible sentences."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"here we go again fml!!! least one person female actually got my point and i wasnt crude or vindictive about it....nevertheless each on to there own. good to debate like adults on an adult site!!"
I asked you a genuine question. You asked me if I was ok and told me to come back later! Without even answering my question! I’d understand if it was a stupid taking the piss question but it wasn’t.
Very adult |
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By *agluvrMan
over a year ago
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!"
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards?"
This is the question I asked. I agree that’s double standards if that’s the case. But I look at profiles of forum people quite a lot and I haven’t seen a profile full of pussy pics from people who openly say they don’t want cocks sent to them. That’s why I asked. |
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards?"
My profile is a vagina free zone...not to be confused with a free vagina zone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards?"
Men like genital/play pics, most of the time... Women don't, mostly... Not a double standard at all... Just how people work differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many women actually say on their profile they don't want dick pics? I don't think it's that many. "
I say I don’t want to get sent them. I would prefer not to see any on a profile if I’m honest. I’ve seen so many now, it does nothing for me. I would prefer to see it if I ask and from someone I’m interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards?
Men like genital/play pics, most of the time... Women don't, mostly... Not a double standard at all... Just how people work differently"
Exactly. Some people just don’t get the difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never understood the complaint, there are millions of photos of lady bits all over this site, which is great so why shouldn't the guys post photos of their tackle,
Don't like it don't look or delete and block, job done
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards?
Men like genital/play pics, most of the time... Women don't, mostly... Not a double standard at all... Just how people work differently"
I'm not most men then , I'd much rather see a pic of a woman drinking a pint of Guinness, or cooking an Omelette |
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards?"
When women say they don't want dick pics, they mean mailed to them unasked for. Aside from my recent slip up where I accidentally attached an intimate photo instead of a face pic to people I was replying to on a forum thread, I doubt many women are randomly mailing their tuppenny bits to complete strangers. #ThinkFirst |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but why it is ok for women to state terms of agreement but men dont??? mind boggles....lol"
Who said it wasn't okay for men to state terms of agreement? LJ did on his singles profile. I respect those that have preferences. In fact, i prefer it. It seperates them from the 'any holes a goal type'.
Op, I was never interested in dick pics. I'm a firm believer in less is more. Some women love them. One i knew, insisted on a dick pic in the first message. I've also never asked to see one. Showing my genatalia to a bunch of randomers was never for me. Only those i met got to see it and truth be told, that's what i preferred of those i met also. But that is just my personal preference. Everybody is different on here
Holly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but why it is ok for women to state terms of agreement but men dont??? mind boggles....lol
Who said it wasn't okay for men to state terms of agreement? LJ did on his singles profile. I respect those that have preferences. In fact, i prefer it. It seperates them from the 'any holes a goal type'.
Op, I was never interested in dick pics. I'm a firm believer in less is more. Some women love them. One i knew, insisted on a dick pic in the first message. I've also never asked to see one. Showing my genatalia to a bunch of randomers was never for me. Only those i met got to see it and truth be told, that's what i preferred of those i met also. But that is just my personal preference. Everybody is different on here
Holly"
I feel exactly the same as you Holly. Less is definitely more. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"I think the key is , only send one if you are asked to , it's really not difficult  "
Exactly this. I also get confused with close up dick pics as avatars, a lot look the same to me. At least I write my name on my nork avatar pics |
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"I think the key is , only send one if you are asked to , it's really not difficult
Exactly this. I also get confused with close up dick pics as avatars, a lot look the same to me. At least I write my name on my nork avatar pics "
Nork is a great word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just sending them, it really does my head in seeing an enticing avatar pic, face/thighs/bum(not hole)/abbs, then click on their 2 public pics and they are both dick... So disappointing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't mind seeing a dick before I joined here....That's changed though as there's a lot of gross specimens on here....Now I'm bored of looking at them. |
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Putting aside the intial subject a moment, there is a sub-issue running here which i am intrigued by.... what is an ugly dick?
.. and what constitutes good looking, average or ugly dick?
Be interested to know also (naturally) which is mine?
Thanks
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"Putting aside the intial subject a moment, there is a sub-issue running here which i am intrigued by.... what is an ugly dick?
.. and what constitutes good looking, average or ugly dick?
Be interested to know also (naturally) which is mine?
Thanks
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For example.....
A good looking dick = Joey Essex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!
The bit that cracks me up is that a lot of the women who say they don’t want dick pics are quite happy to display pics of their pussy. #DoubleStandards?
This is the question I asked. I agree that’s double standards if that’s the case. But I look at profiles of forum people quite a lot and I haven’t seen a profile full of pussy pics from people who openly say they don’t want cocks sent to them. That’s why I asked. "
I agree. I don't think the women with pussy pics are the same women who say no dick pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely its more a case of women saying they dont want it, to try and put people off from just dropping dick in their inbox. You know, just on the odd chance a man might read it and think twice |
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"Surely its more a case of women saying they dont want it, to try and put people off from just dropping dick in their inbox. You know, just on the odd chance a man might read it and think twice "
My profile text is purely for those who will read... For those who clearly don't I have the delete message option
I've never seen the point in profiles that rant about people not reading... They're only ranting to the people who do!! |
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"Surely its more a case of women saying they dont want it, to try and put people off from just dropping dick in their inbox. You know, just on the odd chance a man might read it and think twice
My profile text is purely for those who will read... For those who clearly don't I have the delete message option
I've never seen the point in profiles that rant about people not reading... They're only ranting to the people who do!! "
I get what you mean but whose women have probably had all kinds of scary, niknak looking nobs in their inbox haha. |
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"Surely its more a case of women saying they dont want it, to try and put people off from just dropping dick in their inbox. You know, just on the odd chance a man might read it and think twice
My profile text is purely for those who will read... For those who clearly don't I have the delete message option
I've never seen the point in profiles that rant about people not reading... They're only ranting to the people who do!!
I get what you mean but whose women have probably had all kinds of scary, niknak looking nobs in their inbox haha. "
Haven't we all? Glimpse, delete! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab is just like the real world with lots of diverse people looking for different things and with various needs and desires. Having read all this thread, it’s clear that some of us like the more ‘in your face’ pics and some don’t. That’s fine, it’d be sooo boring if we all like the same.
My only wish is that guys would read my profile and respect my wishes. That’s all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!"
it's mostly the women in forums that say it and they've been here years, manners maketh the man that woman wanteth nuff said |
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!it's mostly the women in forums that say it and they've been here years, manners maketh the man that woman wanteth nuff said "
Eh? |
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"But 99.9% of profile pictures on here are cocks? what’s all that about?!it's mostly the women in forums that say it and they've been here years, manners maketh the man that woman wanteth nuff said
Eh?"
that's what horses eat |
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