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The Clique vs The Lurkers

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

- I've never been invited to a group chat with anyone (bar the odd nice, friendly couple).

- I've only met two and a half regular forum contributors face to face.

- I'm friends with and friendly with lots of regular users and harbour zero ill will to anyone on here. Very few have crossed over to 'Reality Fwends' in my inner circle.

- I dont know who all of my friends, friends and enemies are, because I'm not that interested and they're not inclined to say, take them as I find them.

- I would like to have sex with most of my friends and hot lists, but haven't.

Where am I going wrong? Where are my invites to these Elite Swingers Clubs and Conventions. Where is my free pass to Swingfields? Where are the Horde of lovelies queuing to ride my Mongol pony? What do I tell the women seeking a pass into the Clique??

(tongue firmly in cheek)

In my (very limited) experience.. It doesn't exist.

Just people making friends.

Stop Lurking... Heeeeeyyyeeyaaayy come out and play.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think there's a deliberate clique....There's just a lot of people that don't like others getting attention....We all see who they are....Some of them group ego boost as they are Fwriends on here lol....I think it's just a bunch of ego junkies that take over and blank the newbies as the forum is there home and a place to get attention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think there's a deliberate clique....There's just a lot of people that don't like others getting attention....We all see who they are....Some of them group ego boost as they are Fwriends on here lol....I think it's just a bunch of ego junkies that take over and blank the newbies as the forum is there home and a place to get attention

"
you're right, fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

I know there small but there's no need to be nasty

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

You don't go to the right swinging clubs and socials.....

Obviously!!

D'ur

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

I know there small but there's no need to be nasty

talk about bad timing

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By *appyhumper123Man over a year ago

hull

keep lurking lol you'll never get in the clique, ive been on here nearly 2 years, never had a meet no friend request not even a wink the only messages I get are from admin to say my site supporter is running out so ive gave up, im only here for the the crack on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

I know there small but there's no need to be nasty

talk about bad timing"

Hahahaha

Lier you was talking about me wasn't you....As it's all about me and I'm now taking over this post....I learn from others here lol

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By *yrdsisWoman over a year ago

Gleam Street

Lurker here... and proud

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

I know there small but there's no need to be nasty

Shes literally one of the hottest girls to use this site, or any

get a grip

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

I know there small but there's no need to be nasty

talk about bad timing

Hahahaha

Lier you was talking about me wasn't you....As it's all about me and I'm now taking over this post....I learn from others here lol

Haha

We just need to keep quoting each other then people get bored of scrolling down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

I know there small but there's no need to be nasty

Shes literally one of the hottest girls to use this site, or any

get a grip "
calm down white night, i'll slay you like william wallace

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

I know there small but there's no need to be nasty

Shes literally one of the hottest girls to use this site, or any

get a grip "

Thank you but he wasn't taking about me lol

Oh and have a look around there's lots on here way hotter than me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm going to read now and laugh at the comments....Not Take over the thread like some DOOOOOOOOOOOOO lol

Rant over

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

"I'm going to read now and laugh at the comments....Not Take over the thread like some DOOOOOOOOOOOOO lol

Rant over

"
stayband takeover it's fun reading

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Offer them cake

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By *xmfrvnMan over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Clearly the clique is just established users bouncing off each other. There are usually so many comments people are far more likely to respond to users they know or recognise. That's it. I get that it can be tough for newbies but there are enough topics to find a decent discussion. I usually post for my own amusement. Just like the rest of the site - try not to take it personally.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

You had me at no queue to ride your mongol pony.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I cant say as I've seen ANYONE close someone else down for anything other than a differing opinion.

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You can't be in a clique hun you don't have breasts

They bounce

I've been accused of it.

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

"Offer them cake

"
what's the best flavour to offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You don't go to the right swinging clubs and socials.....

Obviously!!

D'ur

True.. I dont go to either.. but I'm not in a clique

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Offer them cake

what's the best flavour to offer

Chocolate, you can rarely go wrong with chocolate

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By *yrdsisWoman over a year ago

Gleam Street

"Offer them cake

what's the best flavour to offer

Any cake is suitable surely?

I have a tame baker tho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should have put about the mongol pony in your headline. That's where you're going wrong

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opinion GK, from how I see people respond to you on the forum, you are exceptionally popular. I can only assume you haven't been proactive enough to get yourself invited to these elusive clubs, parties, socials and beds. People might be intimidated by your popularity and therefore haven't had the bottle to make the first move as they likely think you are knee deep in clunge(I did anyway). This thread, I would hope, will be a solid step in the right direction

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"keep lurking lol you'll never get in the clique, ive been on here nearly 2 years, never had a meet no friend request not even a wink the only messages I get are from admin to say my site supporter is running out so ive gave up, im only here for the the crack on the forums"

Maybd it's worth revisiting what you're sending out into the ether? I get messages and mine are replied to.. mostly.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm just like a piece of wood drifting down the river. Neither in the clique or a lurker.

I also have never been invited to any groups not that it would interest me anyhow.

I'd really like to get more involved with organised socials but until I find someone to go with that's unlikely to happen. Location is my curse

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By *appyhumper123Man over a year ago

hull

"You don't go to the right swinging clubs and socials.....

Obviously!!

D'ur

True.. I dont go to either.. but I'm not in a clique

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lurker here... and proud

I like lurkers. They're like "The Clique" Only less exhibitionist in nature. A good match.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Well this thread made me laugh

I think the “tongue in cheek” comment was missed

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By *yrdsisWoman over a year ago

Gleam Street

"Lurker here... and proud

I like lurkers. They're like "The Clique" Only less exhibitionist in nature. A good match."

Nah...I'm just lazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Offer them cake

Let them eat cake x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Offer them cake

Let them eat cake x"

Eat me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You had me at no queue to ride your mongol pony."

You could skip the line

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Holly"
like you can talk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well this thread made me laugh

I think the “tongue in cheek” comment was missed "

Some people are very, very passionate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Hollylike you can talk

I have no idea what you mean

Holly

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By *appyhumper123Man over a year ago

hull

"Offer them cake

Let them eat cake x"

I want cake I need cake, but only if its carrot cake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Hollylike you can talk

I have no idea what you mean

Holly"
ignorance is bliss

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You should have put about the mongol pony in your headline. That's where you're going wrong

Holly"

I know.. if only I could harness the power of language Holly x

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I'm just like a piece of wood drifting down the river. Neither in the clique or a lurker.

I also have never been invited to any groups not that it would interest me anyhow.

I'd really like to get more involved with organised socials but until I find someone to go with that's unlikely to happen. Location is my curse

I’ve started to attend more organised socials and most of them alone. Now if someone had told me this last year I wouldn’t have believed them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well this thread made me laugh

I think the “tongue in cheek” comment was missed

Some people are very, very passionate "

Is that what you call it?

Holly

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Well this thread made me laugh

I think the “tongue in cheek” comment was missed

Some people are very, very passionate "

Nothing wrong with passionate, a good thing to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Hollylike you can talk

I have no idea what you mean

Hollyignorance is bliss

That's why I'm always so happy

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm starting a clique in my inbox, cya there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Hollylike you can talk

I have no idea what you mean

Hollyignorance is bliss

That's why I'm always so happy

Holly"
i know that feeling annoying people makes me happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In my opinion GK, from how I see people respond to you on the forum, you are exceptionally popular. I can only assume you haven't been proactive enough to get yourself invited to these elusive clubs, parties, socials and beds. People might be intimidated by your popularity and therefore haven't had the bottle to make the first move as they likely think you are knee deep in clunge(I did anyway). This thread, I would hope, will be a solid step in the right direction

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I'm starting a clique in my inbox, dont all rush at once...cya there"

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By *arl17Man over a year ago

Central Portugal

Just be yourself, be honest and don’t BS and you will be fine xx

Easy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm just like a piece of wood drifting down the river. Neither in the clique or a lurker.

I also have never been invited to any groups not that it would interest me anyhow.

I'd really like to get more involved with organised socials but until I find someone to go with that's unlikely to happen. Location is my curse

I like having you in my clique Spiderwoman. I think others would consider you in theirs or part of the clique ag large. You contribute often, you're popular, for good reasons.. and bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You should have put about the mongol pony in your headline. That's where you're going wrong

Holly

I know.. if only I could harness the power of language Holly x"

You certainly have the voice for harnessing it

Holly

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By *appyhumper123Man over a year ago

hull

"I'm starting a clique in my inbox, dont all rush at once...cya there"
im on my way look out for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Hollylike you can talk

I have no idea what you mean

Hollyignorance is bliss

That's why I'm always so happy

Hollyi know that feeling annoying people makes me happy

I've heard you on the phone remember, so i know THAT's true

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The clique are generally a gang of online “friends” that bombard one another’s threads and, spam the forums. These threads very rarely have anything to do with the websites purpose, they generally have friends that are admins and, have fake veris from each other. (whilst having never met irl)

Suffice to say - those that are using this website as their own personal blog/Facebook.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"You had me at no queue to ride your mongol pony.

You could skip the line

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

No intent to swing or share my Lord? I know people like that hate being pulled up on why they don't, but here regardless, so I won't ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well this thread made me laugh

I think the “tongue in cheek” comment was missed "

People read want they WANT to read.

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By *arl17Man over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Just be yourself, be honest and don’t BS and you will be fine xx

Easy x"

Btw: forget about ‘chat cliques’ ... not worth it imho x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

This is my first and only profile pal, 10 months in and having a blast. If it weren't for the forum I'd have given up on the place yonks ago. I like the craic as I think do you lol the username and the references to "The Mongol Horde" are lethal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

We know

Hollylike you can talk

I have no idea what you mean

Hollyignorance is bliss

That's why I'm always so happy

Hollyi know that feeling annoying people makes me happy

I've heard you on the phone remember, so i know THAT's true

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Offer them cake

Let them eat cake x

Eat me"

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

It's way more cooler to be outside the Clique

. Right I'll go back to lurkers corner now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm starting a clique in my inbox, dont all rush at once...cya there"
cock blocked me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just be yourself, be honest and don’t BS and you will be fine xx

Easy x"

THIS!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lurker turned more active forum user here. I general feel that most of the forum is pretty inclusive, however I have also felt ignored and overlooked in some threads because they get taken over by the same people just having chat _mongst themselves. Can be a bit annoying, but soon get over it and try not to take it overly personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If iv somehow managed to be entered in the clique can u kick me out please as nice as some of you are i wont let you ride excalibur its been reserved

I have no intent to swing or share

Thanks for understanding

No intent to swing or share my Lord? I know people like that hate being pulled up on why they don't, but here regardless, so I won't ask."
its ok im happy to say im far too competitive to share oldest boy syndrome plus a rugby league upbringing made me selfish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lurker turned more active forum user here. I general feel that most of the forum is pretty inclusive, however I have also felt ignored and overlooked in some threads because they get taken over by the same people just having chat _mongst themselves. Can be a bit annoying, but soon get over it and try not to take it overly personally. "
hi you ok hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You should have put about the mongol pony in your headline. That's where you're going wrong

Holly

I know.. if only I could harness the power of language Holly x

You certainly have the voice for harnessing it

Holly"

As do you, if I memory serves me correctly

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"Well this thread made me laugh

I think the “tongue in cheek” comment was missed

People read want they WANT to read."

Oh so true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So who do I have to be friends with? This thread was so cliquey

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Best way to be, ignore it and move on

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By *appyhumper123Man over a year ago

hull

you get used to being ignored after a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The clique are generally a gang of online “friends” that bombard one another’s threads and, spam the forums. These threads very rarely have anything to do with the websites purpose, they generally have friends that are admins and, have fake veris from each other. (whilst having never met irl)

Suffice to say - those that are using this website as their own personal blog/Facebook. "

You make a lot of sense sir. Can I join your gang?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

Well I tip my hat to you Sir.. Not for the Mongol stuff. For poking your head high enough up on the parapet to risk getting it shot off.

Sex is about much more than bodies. It's about having fun with people who are right for you. How will we find them if we're not us?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's way more cooler to be outside the Clique

. Right I'll go back to lurkers corner now

I've seen your name pop up enough times to know you're a fledged forumite

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't think they mean to. Sometimes you don't even know you're doing it when you are. Most people would probably be a bit horrified if it were pointed out to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So who do I have to be friends with? This thread was so cliquey

Everyone who takes your interest x

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By *arl17Man over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Just be yourself, be honest and don’t BS and you will be fine xx

Easy x

Btw: forget about ‘chat cliques’ ... not worth it imho x"

I rest my case ... scroll up...’

Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think they mean to. Sometimes you don't even know you're doing it when you are. Most people would probably be a bit horrified if it were pointed out to them."

No, no, that’s not right. Some do it intentionally and I have pointed it out to them..

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By *moMan over a year ago

Salford

Nicely put

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

I don't think they mean to. Sometimes you don't even know you're doing it when you are. Most people would probably be a bit horrified if it were pointed out to them."

I’ll have to disagree with you on that one GK. from what I’ve observed over the last 3-4 months some definitely do take over the thread and I would say purposely try to take it off track. Some have had it pointed out to them and have changed their ways slightly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

Well I tip my hat to you Sir.. Not for the Mongol stuff. For poking your head high enough up on the parapet to risk getting it shot off.

Sex is about much more than bodies. It's about having fun with people who are right for you. How will we find them if we're not us?"

I couldn't have put it better, it's those who like us for ourselves that make the best friends, the normal or sexual kind.

When I first joined I thought that the username and hidden faces gave people a sense of anonymity and either let people step out of their comfort zone and be themselves more openly, or to be someone entirely different. I chose the first one, at the end of the day if I met someone then they would see me for true and my true self is what I want to project. I'm not as chatty in real life, sure I can have a joke and a laugh, but the topics on the forum allow for the type of chats I wouldn't generally have with my nearest and dearest.

As for this clique business, If you aren't in it(if it truly exists) then you are in the non clique clique which is fkn bigger hey

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't think they mean to. Sometimes you don't even know you're doing it when you are. Most people would probably be a bit horrified if it were pointed out to them.

No, no, that’s not right. Some do it intentionally and I have pointed it out to them.."

Well I probably dont see it anymore as I avoid the threads and comments that spark that behaviour.

I take over many of my own threads, out of respect to those who bother to reply. Do my best to dominate anyone elses. Though I'll hold my hands up to getting lured into social debates.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't think they mean to. Sometimes you don't even know you're doing it when you are. Most people would probably be a bit horrified if it were pointed out to them.

No, no, that’s not right. Some do it intentionally and I have pointed it out to them..

Well I probably dont see it anymore as I avoid the threads and comments that spark that behaviour.

I take over many of my own threads, out of respect to those who bother to reply. Do my best to dominate anyone elses. Though I'll hold my hands up to getting lured into social debates."

Do my best NOT to

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By *appyhumper123Man over a year ago

hull

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

Well I tip my hat to you Sir.. Not for the Mongol stuff. For poking your head high enough up on the parapet to risk getting it shot off.

Sex is about much more than bodies. It's about having fun with people who are right for you. How will we find them if we're not us?

I couldn't have put it better, it's those who like us for ourselves that make the best friends, the normal or sexual kind.

As for this clique business, If you aren't in it(if it truly exists) then you are in the non clique clique which is fkn bigger hey

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

Well I tip my hat to you Sir.. Not for the Mongol stuff. For poking your head high enough up on the parapet to risk getting it shot off.

Sex is about much more than bodies. It's about having fun with people who are right for you. How will we find them if we're not us?

I couldn't have put it better, it's those who like us for ourselves that make the best friends, the normal or sexual kind.

As for this clique business, If you aren't in it(if it truly exists) then you are in the non clique clique which is fkn bigger hey

I force those type of chats on my real friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does anyone know what time the chemist shuts? I need ointment for my clique

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Well I probably dont see it anymore as I avoid the threads and comments that spark that behaviour.

I take over many of my own threads, out of respect to those who bother to reply. Do my best to dominate anyone elses. Though I'll hold my hands up to getting lured into social debates.

Do my best NOT to

If it’s your own thread and you’ve started it why wouldn’t you respond to all, even as a mark of respect that they’ve added to the conversation

If I start a thread, I will respond to everyone personally, with the exception of those that have appeared purposely to side track it with comments that have nothing to do with the topic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

Well I tip my hat to you Sir.. Not for the Mongol stuff. For poking your head high enough up on the parapet to risk getting it shot off.

Sex is about much more than bodies. It's about having fun with people who are right for you. How will we find them if we're not us?

I couldn't have put it better, it's those who like us for ourselves that make the best friends, the normal or sexual kind.

As for this clique business, If you aren't in it(if it truly exists) then you are in the non clique clique which is fkn bigger hey

I force those type of chats on my real friends

Lol I wish I could but it would just lead to a slagging, and even mentioning Fab would get me something like "oh you can't get your baking bowl like a normal person, you have to join a website to do it. Are taking it in the bum too?"

I'd love to reply "Not yet, but I'll be pegged eventually" but I wouldn't dare lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I probably dont see it anymore as I avoid the threads and comments that spark that behaviour.

I take over many of my own threads, out of respect to those who bother to reply. Do my best to dominate anyone elses. Though I'll hold my hands up to getting lured into social debates.

Do my best NOT to

If it’s your own thread and you’ve started it why wouldn’t you respond to all, even as a mark of respect that they’ve added to the conversation

If I start a thread, I will respond to everyone personally, with the exception of those that have appeared purposely to side track it with comments that have nothing to do with the topic. "

I don't mind sidetrackers.. provided it's not an injoke or dig at my expense. Even then I'm unfucked about it really. Shiyt happens. Some people will like you, some won't.

No harm in a thread taking a wrong direction, side directions or uturns. Just wordage at end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

Well I tip my hat to you Sir.. Not for the Mongol stuff. For poking your head high enough up on the parapet to risk getting it shot off.

Sex is about much more than bodies. It's about having fun with people who are right for you. How will we find them if we're not us?

I couldn't have put it better, it's those who like us for ourselves that make the best friends, the normal or sexual kind.

As for this clique business, If you aren't in it(if it truly exists) then you are in the non clique clique which is fkn bigger hey

I force those type of chats on my real friends

I'd love to reply "Not yet, but I'll be pegged eventually" but I wouldn't dare lol "

All my friends know what I'm like.. it's liberating. People arent as judgemental as you may at first think.. men especially nowadays. If they are.. they can fook off!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're no fool. I've seen some of your posts as of late. Unsure if you're existing forumite under a new name or someone fresh.. So I'm not going to respond properly to that

Well I tip my hat to you Sir.. Not for the Mongol stuff. For poking your head high enough up on the parapet to risk getting it shot off.

Sex is about much more than bodies. It's about having fun with people who are right for you. How will we find them if we're not us?

I couldn't have put it better, it's those who like us for ourselves that make the best friends, the normal or sexual kind.

As for this clique business, If you aren't in it(if it truly exists) then you are in the non clique clique which is fkn bigger hey

I force those type of chats on my real friends

I'd love to reply "Not yet, but I'll be pegged eventually" but I wouldn't dare lol

All my friends know what I'm like.. it's liberating. People arent as judgemental as you may at first think.. men especially nowadays. If they are.. they can fook off! "

I'll take that into consideration, probably still keep it to myself like lol

K I've just landed in Liverpool Street Station and I'm away to explore a bit. Have a good one all!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Suffice to say - those that are using this website as their own personal blog/Facebook.

You make a lot of sense sir. Can I join your gang?"

I’m a lone wolf. Moreover, I was merely attempting to get them to bite

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Lurker here... and proud

I used to lurk but it is good to find a voice and come out to play...its good to see you x

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By *m389Man over a year ago

Magherafelt

I only post on a handful of threads, even then I don’t say much. Am I still a lurker?

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'd not put myself as either, I'm not in a clique nor want to ge and I dont lurk, I post mostly boring shite when I want..

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

Urgh... be not ge obviously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"- I've never been invited to a group chat with anyone (bar the odd nice, friendly couple).

- I've only met two and a half regular forum contributors face to face.

- I'm friends with and friendly with lots of regular users and harbour zero ill will to anyone on here. Very few have crossed over to 'Reality Fwends' in my inner circle.

- I dont know who all of my friends, friends and enemies are, because I'm not that interested and they're not inclined to say, take them as I find them.

- I would like to have sex with most of my friends and hot lists, but haven't.

(tongue firmly in cheek)

In my (very limited) experience.. It doesn't exist.

Just people making friends.

Stop Lurking... Heeeeeyyyeeyaaayy come out and play."

I have nothing to add to the thread, I literally only replied because of the Offspring reference.

Now, what were we talking about......?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"- I've never been invited to a group chat with anyone (bar the odd nice, friendly couple).

- I've only met two and a half regular forum contributors face to face.

- I'm friends with and friendly with lots of regular users and harbour zero ill will to anyone on here. Very few have crossed over to 'Reality Fwends' in my inner circle.

- I dont know who all of my friends, friends and enemies are, because I'm not that interested and they're not inclined to say, take them as I find them.

- I would like to have sex with most of my friends and hot lists, but haven't.

(tongue firmly in cheek)

In my (very limited) experience.. It doesn't exist.

Just people making friends.

Stop Lurking... Heeeeeyyyeeyaaayy come out and play."
.

I don't know who the clique is but I suspect you'd like to be one of them?.

My advise is turn off there not worth chasing, there not friends, whatever your seeking can't be found in words on a forum, all your doing is massaging your own ego.

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By *sgigglersCouple over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

" "Shiyt happens" "

Was that a deliberate spelling of fat fingers? Either way it's how I will be spelling it from now on

As for the topic, I'm a lurker who's finding my voice more recently, and I'm enjoying it!

I can understand people feeling intimidated when people seem to know each otherreslly well, but the only way you change that is commenting & becoming known yourself, surely?

L x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"- I've never been invited to a group chat with anyone (bar the odd nice, friendly couple).

- I've only met two and a half regular forum contributors face to face.

- I'm friends with and friendly with lots of regular users and harbour zero ill will to anyone on here. Very few have crossed over to 'Reality Fwends' in my inner circle.

- I dont know who all of my friends, friends and enemies are, because I'm not that interested and they're not inclined to say, take them as I find them.

- I would like to have sex with most of my friends and hot lists, but haven't.

(tongue firmly in cheek)

In my (very limited) experience.. It doesn't exist.

Just people making friends.

Stop Lurking... Heeeeeyyyeeyaaayy come out and play.

I have nothing to add to the thread, I literally only replied because of the Offspring reference.

Now, what were we talking about......?"

Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"- I've never been invited to a group chat with anyone (bar the odd nice, friendly couple).

- I've only met two and a half regular forum contributors face to face.

- I'm friends with and friendly with lots of regular users and harbour zero ill will to anyone on here. Very few have crossed over to 'Reality Fwends' in my inner circle.

- I dont know who all of my friends, friends and enemies are, because I'm not that interested and they're not inclined to say, take them as I find them.

- I would like to have sex with most of my friends and hot lists, but haven't.

(tongue firmly in cheek)

In my (very limited) experience.. It doesn't exist.

Just people making friends.

Stop Lurking... Heeeeeyyyeeyaaayy come out and play..

I don't know who the clique is but I suspect you'd like to be one of them?.

My advise is turn off there not worth chasing, there not friends, whatever your seeking can't be found in words on a forum, all your doing is massaging your own ego."

Thankyou for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought we weren’t allowed to do clique threads again, I’ve got a backlog of clique material to annoy people with, I mean to inform and educate people with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" "Shiyt happens"

Was that a deliberate spelling of fat fingers? Either way it's how I will be spelling it from now on

As for the topic, I'm a lurker who's finding my voice more recently, and I'm enjoying it!

I can understand people feeling intimidated when people seem to know each otherreslly well, but the only way you change that is commenting & becoming known yourself, surely?

L x"

I spell shit different ways depending on the tone I'm looking for. 'Shiyt' Is said with 'Attitude".

Spot on about commenting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just figure it’s not a clique but people who know each other, have developed some banter, newbies like me and G, we are like that weird person who suddenly laughs loudly and tries to sit right at the pub table with you all without saying “hi” first. So, yeah, hi.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just figure it’s not a clique but people who know each other, have developed some banter, newbies like me and G, we are like that weird person who suddenly laughs loudly and tries to sit right at the pub table with you all without saying “hi” first. So, yeah, hi. "

best way to look at it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought we weren’t allowed to do clique threads again, I’ve got a backlog of clique material to annoy people with, I mean to inform and educate people with."

Post it before they get up. Education is good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get friend requests who's sole purpose is to have a blimp at my private pictures then they either unfriend or block me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought we weren’t allowed to do clique threads again, I’ve got a backlog of clique material to annoy people with, I mean to inform and educate people with."
its only you banned from it i think

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I get friend requests who's sole purpose is to have a blimp at my private pictures then they either unfriend or block me. "

So ... what can we deduce from that my dear Holmes ?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get friend requests who's sole purpose is to have a blimp at my private pictures then they either unfriend or block me. "
do u accept tho?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Clique v Lurkers.

I've never believed in the existence of a clique. I cba going through the very obvs reasons.

However..... 'clique' members contribute: lurkers don't.

No prizes for guessing which group maketh more of a forum.

Am I on your hotlist ming ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

"
shes lying i soooooo am

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

My house is bigger than your house.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

shes lying i soooooo am

He has dementia setting in by his own admission.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I've not had an invite to these elite swingers clubs yet either.

Out of all the people to you'd think I would have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I thought we weren’t allowed to do clique threads again, I’ve got a backlog of clique material to annoy people with, I mean to inform and educate people with."

If it's not in the official forum rules and we're not being offensive, I think it's all good Tame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

shes lying i soooooo am

He has dementia setting in by his own admission."

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

I'm so on the margins that even the I Spy group couldn't find me to invite me....

Can I pet your pony OP?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

I doubt im interesting enough to be in anyone's clique.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hello weird people.. I think you've found the rest of your kind

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

shes lying i soooooo am

Only when your in the mirror harrold....

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

Am I in or out I forget

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've not had an invite to these elite swingers clubs yet either.

Out of all the people to you'd think I would have. "

You are the forumites sweetheart after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get friend requests who's sole purpose is to have a blimp at my private pictures then they either unfriend or block me. "

I wouldn't accept them unless they chat to you first. They tend to stick around longer that way.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"I get friend requests who's sole purpose is to have a blimp at my private pictures then they either unfriend or block me. "

Or...............

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Am I in or out I forget

Now that's a really bad sex night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I get friend requests who's sole purpose is to have a blimp at my private pictures then they either unfriend or block me.

So ... what can we deduce from that my dear Holmes ?"

Elementary my dear Granny

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've not had an invite to these elite swingers clubs yet either.

Out of all the people to you'd think I would have. "

Too bloody right

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

That's what in trying to get across

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I've not had an invite to these elite swingers clubs yet either.

Out of all the people to you'd think I would have.

You are the forumites sweetheart after all. "

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

That's what in trying to get across

I'm just making it shorter and clearer ......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I get friend requests who's sole purpose is to have a blimp at my private pictures then they either unfriend or block me.

So ... what can we deduce from that my dear Holmes ?

Elementary my dear Granny

The fact I don't have any naughty pictures is probably one of the reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Clique v Lurkers.

I've never believed in the existence of a clique. I cba going through the very obvs reasons.

However..... 'clique' members contribute: lurkers don't.

No prizes for guessing which group maketh more of a forum.

Am I on your hotlist ming ?

Possibly, maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm so on the margins that even the I Spy group couldn't find me to invite me....

Can I pet your pony OP?

Yes you may.. you're in my little clique.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello weird people.. I think you've found the rest of your kind

And I’ve even learned to post on the forum rather than sending bizarre messages! Ha look at me go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've not had an invite to these elite swingers clubs yet either.

Out of all the people to you'd think I would have.

You are the forumites sweetheart after all.

Tongue was firmly in cheek, but you love it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I doubt im interesting enough to be in anyone's clique.

I doubt that's true Clem. You're pretty quick and sarcastic as fuck. Both entertaining and interesting traits to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lurker n proud lol love reading the forums, i do contribute sometimes.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

Hello weird people.. I think you've found the rest of your kind

And I’ve even learned to post on the forum rather than sending bizarre messages! Ha look at me go. "

Hahahaha

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I doubt im interesting enough to be in anyone's clique.

I doubt that's true Clem. You're pretty quick and sarcastic as fuck. Both entertaining and interesting traits to me."

Shut up n fuck me.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Same! Hi

Mrs TMN x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Clique v Lurkers.

I've never believed in the existence of a clique. I cba going through the very obvs reasons.

However..... 'clique' members contribute: lurkers don't.

No prizes for guessing which group maketh more of a forum.

Am I on your hotlist ming ?

Possibly, maybe

Bjork ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People naturally migrate to groups they are comfortable with and tend to be guarded about letting others in...why should here be any different?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

"This again........yawn, the word should be banned from fab.....as should fab royalty? Really ....

lurkers trust me, know one on little ole fab is better than anyone else......end of....

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Hi and laugh away

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"People naturally migrate to groups they are comfortable with and tend to be guarded about letting others in...why should here be any different?"

Guarded ? It's not MI5.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab royalty

Fab legend

Forum royalty

Forum legend

There are friendship groups ... no ones a legend or royalty- if you think you are , give your head a fucking wobble

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Wibbleh Wobbleh ......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People naturally migrate to groups they are comfortable with and tend to be guarded about letting others in...why should here be any different?

Guarded ? It's not MI5.....

"
no but it is a secret service

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"People naturally migrate to groups they are comfortable with and tend to be guarded about letting others in...why should here be any different?

Guarded ? It's not MI5.....

no but it is a secret service

Wonder what the initiation to enter was.....hmmmmmmmm

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Have a hot FWB. Then you can cynically ride her coat tails into the elite swinging get togethers. Worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People naturally migrate to groups they are comfortable with and tend to be guarded about letting others in...why should here be any different?

Guarded ? It's not MI5.....

no but it is a secret service

Wonder what the initiation to enter was.....hmmmmmmmm"
have hole will travel

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

"People naturally migrate to groups they are comfortable with and tend to be guarded about letting others in...why should here be any different?

Guarded ? It's not MI5.....

no but it is a secret service

Wonder what the initiation to enter was.....hmmmmmmmmhave hole will travel

Been used a bit but still works....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People naturally migrate to groups they are comfortable with and tend to be guarded about letting others in...why should here be any different?

Guarded ? It's not MI5.....

no but it is a secret service

Wonder what the initiation to enter was.....hmmmmmmmmhave hole will travel

Been used a bit but still works....

"
vrooooom

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