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Do the male half of couples totally ride on the coat tails of the woman ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or have they got there on their own merits ?
Thanks in advance, kind regards x"
I'm sure it not the case with the majority,but so many are solely promoted with pics and details about the female partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or have they got there on their own merits ?
Thanks in advance, kind regards x
I'm sure it not the case with the majority,but so many are solely promoted with pics and details about the female partner."
Now we just wait for the couple backlash. |
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I think I feel like us chaps do ride the ladies tails quite a lot but my wife insists I also draw people's attention and to a point I think that I agree however in my opinion Danni draws more attention than me! This only applies to singles though as for couples to work everyone has to be feeling it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been told that we are an attractive couple but i think Holly is definitely the beauty to my beast.
Riding on her coat tails, I don’t think so but as we are not looking to meet it’s hard for me to say in our case.
LJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do
I also think that there are many that don't
As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers
We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths
There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you |
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100% yes from our experience.
I would say I did too, but since I much preferred to see my wife having fun, and I wasn’t bothered about playing with others myself, I don’t know if that’s the case regarding this observation.
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Depends on their dynamic surely.
We are a couple only looking for straight men, to play with me but hubby would be there also, playing with me.
So, whilst the attraction is for me to the male and vice versa, I would always consider hubby when bringing a guy in, he has to fit in with us.
So we talk about it, discuss it. See if he fits.
Yes I generally answer the messages and make the forum posts but he still reads it all, so he's fully aware of who I'm chatting to
Jo x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been told that we are an attractive couple but i think Holly is definitely the beauty to my beast.
Riding on her coat tails, I don’t think so but as we are not looking to meet it’s hard for me to say in our case.
LJ"
You would never be riding on my coat tails lovely, even if we were meeting. You are simply scrumptuous 
Holly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been told that we are an attractive couple but i think Holly is definitely the beauty to my beast.
Riding on her coat tails, I don’t think so but as we are not looking to meet it’s hard for me to say in our case.
LJ
You would never be riding on my coat tails lovely, even if we were meeting. You are simply scrumptuous
Holly"
Why ride your coat tails when I have a much better part of you to ride!
LJ |
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"Depends on their dynamic surely.
We are a couple only looking for straight men, to play with me but hubby would be there also, playing with me.
So, whilst the attraction is for me to the male and vice versa, I would always consider hubby when bringing a guy in, he has to fit in with us.
So we talk about it, discuss it. See if he fits.
Yes I generally answer the messages and make the forum posts but he still reads it all, so he's fully aware of who I'm chatting to
Jo x "
What Jo said! Depends entirely on the dynamic of the couple and what they're looking for.
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She isn't wearing a coat apparently it's not normal to wear them in the bath
Though I have only seen her on Skype since May so who knows what she is up to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do
I also think that there are many that don't
As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers
We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths
There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you "
The men in couples who slag off singles are usually in relationships where they know if their wife/ partner left them, they'd never have sex again. They are turning their hatred of themselves outward that's all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do
I also think that there are many that don't
As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers
We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths
There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you
The men in couples who slag off singles are usually in relationships where they know if their wife/ partner left them, they'd never have sex again. They are turning their hatred of themselves outward that's all. "
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"There are undoubtedly 'some' males that do
I also think that there are many that don't
As a bloke here on my own, my only niggle is with the males of couples mocking guys and viewing them as 'second class' swingers
We are all here for our own reasons and to eek out our own paths
There is really no need to give 'attitude' to those who swing differently to you "
I completely agree with you mate, and have laid many a challenge to the male half of a couple thus; visit a swinger club you’ve never been to before, as a single male, and let us know how you get on. The conversation always goes quiet  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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When we only used our cpls profile I thought I might be but when we both added single profiles and started meeting solo as well as a cpl I quickly found out I could hold my own in the meet stakes  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Some people call me the space cowboy, some call me the gangster of love, probably should have told them my real name.
It must be a bummer, all those ugly bastards watching you fuck their wives
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Oh thanks that's stuck in my head now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or have they got there on their own merits ?
Thanks in advance, kind regards x"
I'm not sure - I no longer meet couples - but when I did it was usually because I fancied them both. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people call me the space cowboy, some call me the gangster of love, probably should have told them my real name.
It must be a bummer, all those ugly bastards watching you fuck their wives
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Thanks for quoting my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or have they got there on their own merits ?
Thanks in advance, kind regards x
I'm not sure - I no longer meet couples - but when I did it was usually because I fancied them both."
Ok, that doesn’t really fit in with what I was going for, but all opinions are welcome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing |
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"My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing"
Usually easiest just to ask! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing"
We always sign our name at the end of a message. That way, there is no confusion as we use the account equally .
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"My problem is that you don't know who you are mailing if it's the female or the guy who you are talking to. Because I have spent a good bit of time mailing thinking am speaking with the female and it's the guy. Can be confusing"
They should say, but you've got to ask. It's usually the bloke who neglects to state I find. You've got to be aware of single men posing as Couples (maybe they are ex, maybe not), who at some point says he's the guy and the wife isn't playing at the moment. This could even be true, but it's got to be all upfront or it's ridiculous. |
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