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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "
It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think every sexual "relationship" is different and unique in it's own way, and that can be dictated by many things, personal preferences, the dynamic between you, wants and needs, and indeed boundaries and limits - apart from when I'm in submissive mode though I don't think there's necessarily a conscious change between different sexual partners, but there may well be a more subtle and natural one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them "
Can't you be both though? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It doesn't just change depending on who I'm with, it also depends on that particular moment's dynamic with said person. Sometimes I want to utterly ruin someone and leave them spent and with a dorky grin on their face not quite knowing what's happened or that their body could respond in such a way. Others I want to be playfully pushed to my limits and left gasping and pleading for more. I like the dichotomy of the passionate, intimate almost "love making" sex in a meet combined with the more primal, fucking out the need to fuck, fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them
Can't you be both though? "
yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "
Definitely different with different people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them
Can't you be both though? yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you? "
Breastfed  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them
Can't you be both though? yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you? "
Only the breastfed ones? Well that sucks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think its more mood based for me now anyway we tend to have full days together so a bit of everything based on things like what we discussed earlier or how long since we last saw each other but its always very passionate whether hard slow or whatever its like instict knowing what we want and when
Thats way i see it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? It's the vibe that you give out some people have that sexy animalistic vibe others have girl next door written all over them
Can't you be both though? yes suppose you can but people and I find that here a lot slot you into a category and can't seem to see you any other way, I think it's much easier for a sexy large breastfed woman don't you?
Breastfed "
lol yes I bet you do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Do you think emotions play a part?
I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.
Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think emotions play a part?
I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.
Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. "
being in a certain mood in theory doesn't always work out in practice though, surely some guys you meet or want to meet will have different affects on that? |
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"It doesn't just change depending on who I'm with, it also depends on that particular moment's dynamic with said person. Sometimes I want to utterly ruin someone and leave them spent and with a dorky grin on their face not quite knowing what's happened or that their body could respond in such a way. Others I want to be playfully pushed to my limits and left gasping and pleading for more. I like the dichotomy of the passionate, intimate almost "love making" sex in a meet combined with the more primal, fucking out the need to fuck, fuck.
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Definitely agree with the above. Also that the dynamic may change during the session.
I may well start off being in a submissive mode, but then I may switch and become more assertive even dominant.
There's no formula for how/when it happens either. It's a unique thing between you and the person(people) you are with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you think emotions play a part?
I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.
Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. being in a certain mood in theory doesn't always work out in practice though, surely some guys you meet or want to meet will have different affects on that? "
That's kinda my point, my approach to sex is quite flexible in that I'm not looking for one specific thing so different people can bring out different sides to me. It's just that once someone has ignited a specific part then I tend to focus on things being that way with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think emotions play a part?
I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.
Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. "
yes i think your right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely agree with you, there are kinks and fetishes I would do with some people and wouldn't with others. Nothing to do with attraction, just the vibes you get from each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think emotions play a part?
I'm looking to meet and have sex on a very superficial level, obviously I still need to have a connection with someone but meeting for sex in a certain way keeps things on track, I'm focused on things being that way rather than allowing myself to be open and let feelings take over and rule how things go.
Whereas with a partner it's very much about living in the moment and expressing ourselves how we feel right then. being in a certain mood in theory doesn't always work out in practice though, surely some guys you meet or want to meet will have different affects on that?
That's kinda my point, my approach to sex is quite flexible in that I'm not looking for one specific thing so different people can bring out different sides to me. It's just that once someone has ignited a specific part then I tend to focus on things being that way with them. "
Ahhh ok so you pigeonhole to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "
Well here think of it this way. (this is the best example i've heard.
Think of a musical note. You can play it with another note and it sounds good, but play it with a different given note and it doesn’t. Or play it alongside a still different note, and again it sounds good, but in a different way.
The note has all the same qualities as before, but now others of its qualities become dominant— particular shades are brought to the surface while others are tamped below.
A scale may share notes with another scale, but it doesn’t share all of its notes. That’s why playing the notes of one scale when you are firmly in a different scale will sound “wrong,” at least at first.
This is like people when we clash We feel that we are not able to engage in the full spectrum of our behaviour. We feel limited by what we do that clashes with what they do. We want to resolve the dissonance.
If you look at it this way it would make sense as to why we feel like doing some things with one and other things with another. Which is why our behaviour changes depending on who we are with. if this is the case so broadly its easy to see the behaviour being replicated on a pure sexual level.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... "
and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol |
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"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol
Told you what your doing.....  omg I'm scared now vrooooom
Start building.....  I am I've ordered bricks "
And glue for the hands? |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
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"Does yours change depending on who you're with?
I was just thinking about the way I interact with people and the fact I crave different things with different people, like I want to have slow sensual sex with one person but have raw animalistic passionate sex with someone else.
Is it just me? Do you get different things from different people or do you just change style with the same person? "
My sexuality absolutely changes, I find I will try new things with some people and stick to my comfort zone with others. The difference sometimes depends on the meeting and not always the person. The environment, atmosphere and such can definitely influence whether the sex will be hot a passionate or slow and sensual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol
Told you what your doing..... omg I'm scared now vrooooom
Start building..... I am I've ordered bricks
And glue for the hands? "
lol natural glue or impact adhesive? |
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"Definitely different with meets....not many can get their legs around their necks for me ... and I'd be one of them lol my legs have never been round my neck except that time when my brother was inebriated had to go to hospital for that one lol
Told you what your doing..... omg I'm scared now vrooooom
Start building..... I am I've ordered bricks
And glue for the hands? lol natural glue or impact adhesive? "
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I enjoy the whole spectrum from slow and sensual to the rampant and animalistic. Different people may bring out more of a tendency of one relative to other. Sometimes both in equal measure
Depends on the chemistry and interaction with that individual |
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When I was meeting I had one guy who was shy and sort of innocent, one who enjoyed the spanking sub side, one who would kiss for hours and was very passionate, one who liked outdoor sex, so yes the difference is the dynamics that people bring to the meet |
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Definitely, and I can't always predict it. Some people I'm instantly in one space or another, others it'll depend on mood, still others there's compromise. I also try to read where they might be and run with that. So many variables. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think because of the relationship i build with my partner its a mix of everything... mood dependent. Ive had experiences in the past where its just been rip your clothes off sex and tbh i love it but have missed the sensual side of it also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the situation and the person you are with. We all change sexual persona at some point even with the same person. "
It's one of the reasons I think verifications are pointless. One person's great fuck may be another person's crap fuck. |
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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago
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"It doesn't just change depending on who I'm with, it also depends on that particular moment's dynamic with said person. Sometimes I want to utterly ruin someone and leave them spent and with a dorky grin on their face not quite knowing what's happened or that their body could respond in such a way. Others I want to be playfully pushed to my limits and left gasping and pleading for more. I like the dichotomy of the passionate, intimate almost "love making" sex in a meet combined with the more primal, fucking out the need to fuck, fuck. "
Beautifully put.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes most definetly. Thats why i have different gentleman friends they all fulfil something different in me
Ooh this too. Different itches to scratch "
100% different times, different needs and require different people to match with them needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the situation and the person you are with. We all change sexual persona at some point even with the same person.
It's one of the reasons I think verifications are pointless. One person's great fuck may be another person's crap fuck."
She is right. You know |
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I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first |
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"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first "
and a 25 th meet even more so |
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"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so "
25th meet 
Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills |
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"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so
25th meet
Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills "
I'm running up those hills...... Kate bushy |
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"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so
25th meet
Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills I'm running up those hills...... Kate bushy "
Damn you can run, ok hiding in a secret tunnel haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find I’m different with whoever I meet. Never have a set agenda, just go with the natural flow of where the mood takes you, whether that be slow and sensual to hungry and hot .... really goes depend on the person. A second meet can be completely different from the first and a 25 th meet even more so
25th meet
Sounds like a life sentence to me and I could be running up those hills I'm running up those hills...... Kate bushy
Damn you can run, ok hiding in a secret tunnel haha "
a wind tunnel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is a very astute observation. Different people unlock different aspects of your personality and often, the less you know someone, the free you feel because you worry less about conforming to their preconceived opinion of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a very astute observation. Different people unlock different aspects of your personality and often, the less you know someone, the free you feel because you worry less about conforming to their preconceived opinion of you."
That's a good point. It could also help make you less self conscious if you know you'll never see them again. |
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