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"How do you know she has 950 messages are you physic
*over 950
I'm guessing he's read it on a status or been shown a screen shot. I have before now
Well done that man ????"
Yes I am a man if that's what your asking |
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"I'm not great at reading mail and I hoarse tgem. I currently have a backlog of 5143.
Happy to take a screenshot if you don't believe me 
Hoarde them*"
Not surprised you’re smashing the hot photos hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually have around 20-30 unread messages by Friday but that's because I don't really message during the week.
I think having more 50 at the time is useless  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t get that many but my profile says clearly that I’m not looking for meets so any that I do get are either forum related or from people who haven’t read my profile so easily ignored or deleted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My filters are really tight and I still get hundreds. Mostly a load of crap though. I can tell by the first line whether it’s worth reading. 99% of the time it’s not! |
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Easy...
- out of age range delete
- skim of first line without opening could lead to delete
- deal with those with a specific forum thread
- respond to regular contacts
- the rest stay unread until I get a chance to read properly and respond, even if it’s a no
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I know why my messages remain unread for weeks, months and years  "
I always say to try once more when people do threads about women not answering. I miss so many from friends and forum people. These ones I always answer, but sometimes they just get lost. I delete and block if I’m not interested it’s just easier. A lot do so if they weren’t interested your message wouldn’t go through anyway. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
I have filters on lots of filters but I still have 400 unread and as Nora said you can normally tell by the first line if it's worth reading.
I try to respond to forum folk then often dont read anything else. Which is not doing to find me someone local. I need to rethink |
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"I have filters on lots of filters but I still have 400 unread and as Nora said you can normally tell by the first line if it's worth reading.
I try to respond to forum folk then often dont read anything else. Which is not doing to find me someone local. I need to rethink "
Haha. Me too. I need to be a bit more pro-active. I keep meaning to be . Bulk deleting every few days probably doesn’t help. I think I’m waiting for him to knock on my door and say it’s me I’m that elusive one that ticks everyone one of your ridiculous amount of boxes  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I have filters on lots of filters but I still have 400 unread and as Nora said you can normally tell by the first line if it's worth reading.
I try to respond to forum folk then often dont read anything else. Which is not doing to find me someone local. I need to rethink
Haha. Me too. I need to be a bit more pro-active. I keep meaning to be . Bulk deleting every few days probably doesn’t help. I think I’m waiting for him to knock on my door and say it’s me I’m that elusive one that ticks everyone one of your ridiculous amount of boxes "
Knock knock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have filters on lots of filters but I still have 400 unread and as Nora said you can normally tell by the first line if it's worth reading.
I try to respond to forum folk then often dont read anything else. Which is not doing to find me someone local. I need to rethink
Haha. Me too. I need to be a bit more pro-active. I keep meaning to be . Bulk deleting every few days probably doesn’t help. I think I’m waiting for him to knock on my door and say it’s me I’m that elusive one that ticks everyone one of your ridiculous amount of boxes
Knock knock "
Haha there’s one important box you don’t tick for starters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have filters on lots of filters but I still have 400 unread and as Nora said you can normally tell by the first line if it's worth reading.
I try to respond to forum folk then often dont read anything else. Which is not doing to find me someone local. I need to rethink
Haha. Me too. I need to be a bit more pro-active. I keep meaning to be . Bulk deleting every few days probably doesn’t help. I think I’m waiting for him to knock on my door and say it’s me I’m that elusive one that ticks everyone one of your ridiculous amount of boxes
Knock knock
Haha there’s one important box you don’t tick for starters! "
Besides. Got enough women. It’s the man I can’t find!! |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
from Home Counties to Middle Earth |
I had over 200 messages between jumping in the shower at 8am this morning and 10am.
I read/respond to familiar faces and forumites, then try to work through the rest, deleting dick pics, one-liners and anyone impatient enough to assume I'm ignoring them for not replying within a few minutes. It is a bit overwhelming at times. I don't think guys necessarily appreciate the time involved -even if someone catches my eye, sometimes I literally do not have the capacity for more chat at that moment, so may not be able to respond for a few days, by which point, the mail is way down my box and somewhat lost in the swamp! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just seen a woman has over 950 message CRAZY ! So how do you actually read all these if ever ?! Is it just a case of a quick scroll down and which one takes your fancy most "
they bulk delete when they get to them numbers
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now I know why my messages remain unread for weeks, months and years
I always say to try once more when people do threads about women not answering. I miss so many from friends and forum people. These ones I always answer, but sometimes they just get lost. I delete and block if I’m not interested it’s just easier. A lot do so if they weren’t interested your message wouldn’t go through anyway. "
I start to lose interest because, but then I think that's why the recipient does not open the message for that exact effect.
A bit like a subliminal message fab style |
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Anything past 100 messages if you're a subscriber you can't see unless you delete them.
There needs to be inbox filters so you can view people on friends / hotlist messages out of the rest of them too. Without losing everyone's messages
And page scrolling through the messages 4o you can get to say page 8 of your 900 messages.
No one will ever get through them all just too time consuming
And a filter reset to start blank slate clear the winks and previous messages. Resetting the message blocks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some recive 1000s mails but if you see them in real life you would rather shag a tree"
Yep, that's what people think when they meet me. I look like my photos so it's a lose lose situation for all involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some recive 1000s mails but if you see them in real life you would rather shag a tree
Yep, that's what people think when they meet me. I look like my photos so it's a lose lose situation for all involved. "
Stop knocking yourself you! You’re beautiful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some recive 1000s mails but if you see them in real life you would rather shag a tree"
suppose it depends what sort of tree really weeping willow or cedar?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Emails are for wimps. Talking F-2-F is we’re it happens  "
Are you having a laff ...
It's fabswingers they can't even be bothered to open mail.
Stop being so pushy |
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"some recive 1000s mails but if you see them in real life you would rather shag a tree
Then don’t message them 
I love the ones who message me anyway. Like, if you don't want me, why? "
My favourite is “why didn’t you respond to my message” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some recive 1000s mails but if you see them in real life you would rather shag a tree
Then don’t message them
I love the ones who message me anyway. Like, if you don't want me, why?
My favourite is “why didn’t you respond to my message” "
There's only ever gonna be 1 winner in that exchange ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just seen a woman has over 950 message CRAZY ! So how do you actually read all these if ever ?! Is it just a case of a quick scroll down and which one takes your fancy most "
You do realise some women will use that as bait to get attention, make you feel lucky and ‘chosen’ if you get a reply. |
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By *illowzWoman
over a year ago
Exeter |
I have my filters set pretty tight but mine goes like this :
Check for regulars and reply
Delete anyone asking for immediate meet.
Delete any too far away.
Reply with thanks for complimentary comments
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to just go through and delete without reading, those out of my age range, too far away, no profile pic, dick pic... still have quite a backlog tho, sometimes I mark some as unread that I might go back and reply to at a later date but I usually forget and they drop off the end of my inbox |
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"some recive 1000s mails but if you see them in real life you would rather shag a tree
Yep, that's what people think when they meet me. I look like my photos so it's a lose lose situation for all involved. "
any one that think you are not beautiful they need to go to Specsavers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have exactly 1007 right now, it's normal. I scan through them. Only 5% worth reading I filter them a bit I don't look if to young and the ones with photos usually get my attention however a majority of the time it's all a waste of time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like Disneyland for a woman, but it’s similar too when it’s hot, people moan they can’t sleep and they don’t know what to wear. Just embrace the attention I say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes a read a message and reply....Then go to my inbox and there another three waiting while I've read the first message....It gets ridiculous on here sometimes....I currently have 686 unread and I cleared them all this afternoon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like Disneyland for a woman, but it’s similar too when it’s hot, people moan they can’t sleep and they don’t know what to wear. Just embrace the attention I say "
Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate. |
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"Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate."
What would an appropiate message consist of then? |
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"Sounds like Disneyland for a woman, but it’s similar too when it’s hot, people moan they can’t sleep and they don’t know what to wear. Just embrace the attention I say
Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate."
Don’t embrace it then it’s youre decision . I understand that it’s a bit tiresome sometimes but no attention would be as well. It’s hard to get exactly what you want when you want it, such is life x |
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"Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate.
What would an appropiate message consist of then? "
Oh, I've got it now, you want me to tell you a joke.
Knock Knock.. |
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"Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate.
What would an appropiate message consist of then?
Oh, I've got it now, you want me to tell you a joke.
Knock Knock.."
Hang on. An appropriate message. Quite short, evidence that my profile has been read and no dick pic attached.
Who’s there? |
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"Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate.
What would an appropiate message consist of then?
Oh, I've got it now, you want me to tell you a joke.
Knock Knock..
Hang on. An appropriate message. Quite short, evidence that my profile has been read and no dick pic attached.
Who’s there?"
Amir |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate.
What would an appropiate message consist of then?
Oh, I've got it now, you want me to tell you a joke.
Knock Knock..
Hang on. An appropriate message. Quite short, evidence that my profile has been read and no dick pic attached.
Who’s there?
Amir"
Finish off the joke then or am I missing something  |
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"Sounds like Disneyland for a woman, but it’s similar too when it’s hot, people moan they can’t sleep and they don’t know what to wear. Just embrace the attention I say
Embrace the attention? Funny. Come and read my messages and you’ll see that for most of the senders, absolutely no body contact would ever be appropriate.
Don’t embrace it then it’s youre decision . I understand that it’s a bit tiresome sometimes but no attention would be as well. It’s hard to get exactly what you want when you want it, such is life x"
Some of the messages are horrifying, stomach turning. |
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