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Small dogs can do. I find small dogs are allowed to do things because they're only little, bigger dogs are less likely to have it tolerated, even as puppies, because it's scary when they're bigger. |
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"Small dogs can do. I find small dogs are allowed to do things because they're only little, bigger dogs are less likely to have it tolerated, even as puppies, because it's scary when they're bigger. "
My wee Benji has actually been a lot better since we got him neutered. But Luna...god knows what happened to her in her last home (we got her when she was three and a half) but she is such an anxious dog, growls and barks all the time....tries to fight cars  |
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"Small dogs can do. I find small dogs are allowed to do things because they're only little, bigger dogs are less likely to have it tolerated, even as puppies, because it's scary when they're bigger.
My wee Benji has actually been a lot better since we got him neutered. But Luna...god knows what happened to her in her last home (we got her when she was three and a half) but she is such an anxious dog, growls and barks all the time....tries to fight cars "
Yeah, anxiety is definitely a factor 
I know a family with a dog who runs after cars, seemingly because they have friends and go fun places. (insert face-palm emoji) She also enjoys the vet. Friends! |
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"Small dogs can do. I find small dogs are allowed to do things because they're only little, bigger dogs are less likely to have it tolerated, even as puppies, because it's scary when they're bigger.
My wee Benji has actually been a lot better since we got him neutered. But Luna...god knows what happened to her in her last home (we got her when she was three and a half) but she is such an anxious dog, growls and barks all the time....tries to fight cars
Yeah, anxiety is definitely a factor
I know a family with a dog who runs after cars, seemingly because they have friends and go fun places. (insert face-palm emoji) She also enjoys the vet. Friends! "
Oh god!
Luna is fine once she gets to know new dogs, but that takes a few meetings, and when we’re out on walks it’s awful. Tried everything we can....but if we see another dog we just pick her up and hold her to comfort her so she doesn’t scare the bigger dogs |
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Isn’t it odd (hmm...) how short women are praised for being short and bitchy? I’ve seen memes where it’ll say something like ‘I’m only 5’1, but I act 6’1 and will knock you out!’
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"Small dogs can do. I find small dogs are allowed to do things because they're only little, bigger dogs are less likely to have it tolerated, even as puppies, because it's scary when they're bigger. "
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"Isn’t it odd (hmm...) how short women are praised for being short and bitchy? I’ve seen memes where it’ll say something like ‘I’m only 5’1, but I act 6’1 and will knock you out!’
Erm ok "
I think short/ very short women are more likely to be treated like children (I've got friends/ family who can attest to it). I'm not saying it's right, but I can definitely see it as a reaction to yet another person being a condescending prick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I do think a lot of shorter men have an inferiority complex. I’m 5’9
and I’ve noticed a lot of men who are shorter than me don’t like it. I’m talking in professional life. |
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"Isn’t it odd (hmm...) how short women are praised for being short and bitchy? I’ve seen memes where it’ll say something like ‘I’m only 5’1, but I act 6’1 and will knock you out!’
Erm ok "
Good point! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually, I swear two of my dogs have it. And one is female
Has it got worse since you've been pregnant? Could be jealousy. "
No it’s gotten a lot better bless them |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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I think some shorter guys do develop it as a reaction to the way they perceive they are treated by others. For a man being tall is a definite advantage in society and some shorter guys in turn feel that they have been on the receiving end of negativity or condescending remarks/attitudes and lash out in return. |
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I'm a short arse, especially by some of the standards set in here, but really couldn't care, it's not something I can change, unlike the rest of my build, so why worry about it.
Have no qualms about taller ladies. |
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"It has been proven not to exist.
Proven how? "
They went over the men of history and checked their heights against average.
napoleon is often used as an example as he is short by todays standard. However he wasnt short by the standard of the day.
When you meet a short person who has it, you will log it in your brain, if you meet a tall person who acts exactly the same then you wont. It's pretty much that simple. |
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"It has been proven not to exist.
Proven how? "
In that there no significant statistical connection between diminutive height and aggression or arrogance. |
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"It has been proven not to exist.
Proven how?
They went over the men of history and checked their heights against average.
napoleon is often used as an example as he is short by todays standard. However he wasnt short by the standard of the day.
When you meet a short person who has it, you will log it in your brain, if you meet a tall person who acts exactly the same then you wont. It's pretty much that simple."
That’s not the same as proving it doesn’t exist at all.
I get the fact about Napoleon and I understand reinforcement theory, but that’s definitely not saying it doesn’t exist. Which I think is impossible anyway |
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"It has been proven not to exist.
Proven how?
They went over the men of history and checked their heights against average.
napoleon is often used as an example as he is short by todays standard. However he wasnt short by the standard of the day.
When you meet a short person who has it, you will log it in your brain, if you meet a tall person who acts exactly the same then you wont. It's pretty much that simple."
Well put, sir. |
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I used to have the misfortune of working with one of these cunts, he was vile! I won’t go into details of what I endured while working with him, suffice to say that in the end I kept a log and was building up evidence for a futures tribunal as my employer wouldn’t deal with him. I always refused to go to any work social events as I knew that if he spoke out of turn when outside of work I would end up punching him. Eventually he got caught tampering with food and drink in the fridge in staff room, was arrested and sacked. I swore that if I ever saw him again I’d knock him out.
Fast forward about a year and hubby and I go to buy a car, accompanied by our friend. Who do we see come scuttling out the showroom but cuntwaffle himself. I couldn’t help myself, I blurted out what a cunt he was and if he thinks he’s going to come over to us and interact with me I’ll punch him so hard he’ll be shitting teeth for weeks. Our friend was shocked lol  |
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"I used to have the misfortune of working with one of these cunts, he was vile! I won’t go into details of what I endured while working with him, suffice to say that in the end I kept a log and was building up evidence for a futures tribunal as my employer wouldn’t deal with him. I always refused to go to any work social events as I knew that if he spoke out of turn when outside of work I would end up punching him. Eventually he got caught tampering with food and drink in the fridge in staff room, was arrested and sacked. I swore that if I ever saw him again I’d knock him out.
Fast forward about a year and hubby and I go to buy a car, accompanied by our friend. Who do we see come scuttling out the showroom but cuntwaffle himself. I couldn’t help myself, I blurted out what a cunt he was and if he thinks he’s going to come over to us and interact with me I’ll punch him so hard he’ll be shitting teeth for weeks. Our friend was shocked lol "
Nothing really to do with his height though, is it?  |
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"I used to have the misfortune of working with one of these cunts, he was vile! I won’t go into details of what I endured while working with him, suffice to say that in the end I kept a log and was building up evidence for a futures tribunal as my employer wouldn’t deal with him. I always refused to go to any work social events as I knew that if he spoke out of turn when outside of work I would end up punching him. Eventually he got caught tampering with food and drink in the fridge in staff room, was arrested and sacked. I swore that if I ever saw him again I’d knock him out.
Fast forward about a year and hubby and I go to buy a car, accompanied by our friend. Who do we see come scuttling out the showroom but cuntwaffle himself. I couldn’t help myself, I blurted out what a cunt he was and if he thinks he’s going to come over to us and interact with me I’ll punch him so hard he’ll be shitting teeth for weeks. Our friend was shocked lol "
Oooh you sound so tough! Bet there’s plenty of women on here creaming their nicks at the thought of what you said you were going to do...twice...and didn’t lol. Purrrr em upppp!!! |
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"I used to have the misfortune of working with one of these cunts, he was vile! I won’t go into details of what I endured while working with him, suffice to say that in the end I kept a log and was building up evidence for a futures tribunal as my employer wouldn’t deal with him. I always refused to go to any work social events as I knew that if he spoke out of turn when outside of work I would end up punching him. Eventually he got caught tampering with food and drink in the fridge in staff room, was arrested and sacked. I swore that if I ever saw him again I’d knock him out.
Fast forward about a year and hubby and I go to buy a car, accompanied by our friend. Who do we see come scuttling out the showroom but cuntwaffle himself. I couldn’t help myself, I blurted out what a cunt he was and if he thinks he’s going to come over to us and interact with me I’ll punch him so hard he’ll be shitting teeth for weeks. Our friend was shocked lol
Oooh you sound so tough! Bet there’s plenty of women on here creaming their nicks at the thought of what you said you were going to do...twice...and didn’t lol. Purrrr em upppp!!! "
Why do so many people on Fab automatically assume the person using a couple profile is Male? I’m a woman who is straight with the occasional flex, I really don’t care whether the women on Fab are creaming their nicks as I have no interest in them anyway! |
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"Isn’t it odd (hmm...) how short women are praised for being short and bitchy? I’ve seen memes where it’ll say something like ‘I’m only 5’1, but I act 6’1 and will knock you out!’
Erm ok
Good point!"
Why thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn’t it odd (hmm...) how short women are praised for being short and bitchy? I’ve seen memes where it’ll say something like ‘I’m only 5’1, but I act 6’1 and will knock you out!’
Erm ok
Good point!
Why thank you"
never mess with small women... They're quick and can pounce like ninjas! |
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I got punched by an irate delivery driver last year after I don't him he couldn't do something in particular on our site. He was about 4 foot nothing and when didn't swing back he started calling me a little bitch. I had swatted enough flies that day but that "little bitch" definitely had small man syndrome. |
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"Isn’t it odd (hmm...) how short women are praised for being short and bitchy? I’ve seen memes where it’ll say something like ‘I’m only 5’1, but I act 6’1 and will knock you out!’
Erm ok
Good point!
Why thank younever mess with small women... They're quick and can pounce like ninjas! "
And taller women can’t?
Imma direct you to my good friend Phoenix |
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it exists - but like any trait it always will have its exceptions. But ultimately it’s a human survival mechanism to always try and combat any deficiency you may have for your present environment. Society/trends/fashion etc unfortunately often create synthetic environments that don’t fit into natural selection rules, but if you found yourself on desert island with lots of small men and you were tall - you’d likely find yourself the one with the syndrome or become king depending on your own personal skills. But the general theme in today’s society if you a short guy you do feel the need to compensate for it. A lot of it probably comes from fact that girls tend to grow quicker initially than boys so a short guy will be even shorter in their junior years compared to girls, and obviously other males who will just about be equal to other girls before they overtake them.
Small dick syndrome I think is unique to swinging - and ultimately likely less obvious as a small dick guy less likely to be content with being public about that fact unless he uses it to their advantage in a cuckold way. |
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Tall person makes an unprovoked 'funny' remark about a short fella's height thinking they're highly original. Short fella retorts with some scathing remark relating to tall person's physical appearance be they fat, ugly, whatever. Short fella has small man syndrome. |
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"Isn’t it odd (hmm...) how short women are praised for being short and bitchy? I’ve seen memes where it’ll say something like ‘I’m only 5’1, but I act 6’1 and will knock you out!’
Erm ok
Good point!
Why thank younever mess with small women... They're quick and can pounce like ninjas!
And taller women can’t?
Imma direct you to my good friend Phoenix "
any woman can pounce like a ninja ... But smaller ones are the worst they're harder to see and can hide anywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. Anyone below 5’5” is one angry twat
I’m 5’8 but I have an angry twat
Is that why it’s called a growler?
Yes!!! "
The 5’5” rule is just a gauge. However growlers can only be classed as angry if it’s dripping like a St Bernards chin |
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"Tall person makes an unprovoked 'funny' remark about a short fella's height thinking they're highly original. Short fella retorts with some scathing remark relating to tall person's physical appearance be they fat, ugly, whatever. Short fella has small man syndrome.
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You tell em titch my dad was 5ft 2in hecwas as placid as a Labrador |
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"Tall person makes an unprovoked 'funny' remark about a short fella's height thinking they're highly original. Short fella retorts with some scathing remark relating to tall person's physical appearance be they fat, ugly, whatever. Short fella has small man syndrome.
You tell em titch my dad was 5ft 2in hecwas as placid as a Labrador"
With you being 5' 9" did you ever ask your mum who your real dad is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It certainly does exist and is recognised! My 6ft6 brother got glassed in the face by a short man & when it went through court the short man told the judge that he didn't know my brother, my brother did nothing wrong had not even looked at him, he just saw red and wanted to hurt him. The judge actually told him he had short man syndrome and acted on it and for that alone did him for ABH!! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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I am 5ft9 so not exactly amazonian but have certainly seen it over the years. The worst ones seem to hover around 5ft7 for me - not sure why. Just a couple inches more and they'd be more human I think.....  |
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By *hezuMan
over a year ago
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"It certainly does exist and is recognised! My 6ft6 brother got glassed in the face by a short man & when it went through court the short man told the judge that he didn't know my brother, my brother did nothing wrong had not even looked at him, he just saw red and wanted to hurt him. The judge actually told him he had short man syndrome and acted on it and for that alone did him for ABH!! "
This sounds like stupid man syndrome not short man lol for him to say that in court I wonder what his solicitor was doing |
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"It certainly does exist and is recognised! My 6ft6 brother got glassed in the face by a short man & when it went through court the short man told the judge that he didn't know my brother, my brother did nothing wrong had not even looked at him, he just saw red and wanted to hurt him. The judge actually told him he had short man syndrome and acted on it and for that alone did him for ABH!!
This sounds like stupid man syndrome not short man lol for him to say that in court I wonder what his solicitor was doing"
No idea lol but it was an eye raiser |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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As a 6ft 2 gal i tend to attract the shorter guys, particularly when out. Men 5ft 5 and just above would pursue me quite hard in Clubs when younger.
I’ve never had any rudeness or attitude from short men particularly.
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"It does seem to exist.
I’m not saying that every short bloke has it - far from it. But some seem a lot angrier than would be rational "
It certainly does,I used to have a manager who was a prime example. The key words here are "used to" !
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"It does exist unfortunatly. I'm 6.3 and work behind a bar. Most trouble is always men under 6ft"
One of the reasons for that, I think, is that trouble makers are less likely to seek to make trouble with physically bigger guys |
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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago
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"It does exist unfortunatly. I'm 6.3 and work behind a bar. Most trouble is always men under 6ft
One of the reasons for that, I think, is that trouble makers are less likely to seek to make trouble with physically bigger guys"
I'm a tall and broad but still get challenged. They see you as just staff |
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From some research on height & violence ...
RESULTS: In unadjusted analyses, height had a moderate negative relationship to violent crime; the shortest of men were twice as likely to be convicted of a violent crime as the tallest. However, when simultaneously controlling for all measured confounders, height was weakly and positively related to violent crime. Intelligence had the individually strongest mitigating effect on the height-crime relationship |
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maybe for you tho 
