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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is swinging just a word to give an an excuse to be a what people see as a fuckboy or slapper or whatevef u wanna call itto make folks feel important and desired?
Or is it about something different
Im not saying it is i just been thinking is all rare i know
Hmmmm what u reckon |
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I believe it's a lifestyle choice, not just describing the act of sex with multiple partners. From my (albeit so far limited) experience, the swinging scene is almost as much about the social side as anything else - I know I'm really enjoying meeting like-minded people and enjoying the company of others who are open and honest about what they want in life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People like to give things a name
It's just a name for this "thing"
Or could equally been called "sharing" ... or more recently "hot-tubbing"
Everyone likes labels  "
Only cos they got a label maker for christmas |
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"People like to give things a name
It's just a name for this "thing"
Or could equally been called "sharing" ... or more recently "hot-tubbing"
Everyone likes labels
Only cos they got a label maker for christmas"
Good old Dymo |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"I believe it's a lifestyle choice, not just describing the act of sex with multiple partners. From my (albeit so far limited) experience, the swinging scene is almost as much about the social side as anything else - I know I'm really enjoying meeting like-minded people and enjoying the company of others who are open and honest about what they want in life."
This  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something very different!
For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun  "
so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I believe it's a lifestyle choice, not just describing the act of sex with multiple partners. From my (albeit so far limited) experience, the swinging scene is almost as much about the social side as anything else - I know I'm really enjoying meeting like-minded people and enjoying the company of others who are open and honest about what they want in life."
so freedom then
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"No. There's nothing wrong with having and enjoying a lot of sex as long as it is done considerately, ethically and with respect for all people involved. "
Perfectly stated as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something very different!
For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing"
Not always, sometimes.
We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something very different!
For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing
Not always, sometimes.
We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all."
aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something very different!
For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing
Not always, sometimes.
We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all.aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers"
Have you ever been to a club? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something very different!
For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing
Not always, sometimes.
We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all.aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers
Have you ever been to a club? "
yes it was the madest experience of my life never again i still have mental scars and a dent in my forhead due to a rogue towellers penis |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something very different!
For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing
Not always, sometimes.
We rarely play with others but love the social side of it all.aaaaah so like going wmc if it was full of naked drinkers
Have you ever been to a club? yes it was the madest experience of my life never again i still have mental scars and a dent in my forhead due to a rogue towellers penis"
Pmsl the club's we go to aren't like that.
For the most part we just have a laugh with friends in a situation where things can get sexual if we want them to. It's all about fun. If it wasn't fun, we wouldn't do it. |
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"Something very different!
For me now, it's about exploring my sexuality and experiencing things with my partner. We swing because it's fun so like fantasy fulfillment kind of thing"
Yep, totally this.
We fulfilled all our fantasies, and the fantasies of those we met.
Fab itself though seems to have its fair share of fantasists, and that’s a completely different kettle of fish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We need an excuse now?
Really dont care about the label, i have been called much worse than slut, and often justifiably.
We are who we are. The labels and the little boxes are of no use to us.
A rose by any other name and all that. |
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"I tend to think of it as folk who are sexually liberal.
Looking at some of the judgemental comments on this forum, I don't think all swingers are as sexually liberal as one might imagine."
Yep. They don't have the monopoly open mindedness either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We need an excuse now?
Really dont care about the label, i have been called much worse than slut, and often justifiably.
We are who we are. The labels and the little boxes are of no use to us.
A rose by any other name and all that."
of corse everyone needs an excuse |
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