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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

Why are some people so aloof,one minute they chat away merrily then they are to good for you??

Some folks are very fickle

I’m just plain old me, try to always answer all messages if I haven’t so sorry xx

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm not sure it's being aloof, and conversations can fizzle out for all sorts of reasons, maybe someone else came along and they got distracted, maybe they weren't as invested in the chat as you were, maybe real life happened, maybe any number of things.

I don't let it worry me - with people I chat to regularly I know it'll pick up again at some point, with others I just take it as a sign that it's the end of the conversation.

Best not to take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry thought it said adolf men

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m guilty of being aloof on here. Never with my friends but certainly in those initial messages.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm too short to be aloof.

As Gemini said, you can only know what's happening at your end of the conversation. If you're finding people aloof then maybe they aren't people you'd want to meet anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well some people get zillions of messages,and most are just a lot of crap,,its impossible to reply to all,plus I don't want to,,its not fickle

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sometimes the chat just fizzles out, it's really never bothered me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

You can only hear from the individuals themselves and assuming they are aloof sounds potentially judgemental, when many reasons aside from psychological issues would be very likely.

Primarily, people are not here chatting with the priority partners in their lives, will have families and careers that come first and there's no expectations of response within a set time.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

One person's aloof is another person's busy.

I chat to people I like as and when I can.

Sometimes real life gets in the way of Fab.

No biggie. Can generally pick up where we left off.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

"One person's aloof is another person's busy.

I chat to people I like as and when I can.