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Had a message from a guy, he sent a face pic but wasn't my type so I politely said thank you for the message but not for me as I would usually.
He then went to the trouble of screen shotting a face pic from one of my previous meets profiles and used the direct send method with a message saying "wow so this is your type but you won't meet me"
He must be really bored to have checked my veris for someone with a face pic. You often get stroppy folk when you say no and have had the name calling etc but this is a step up.
I didn't reply, just blocked, didn't want to push any further confrontation!
Any other ladies actually had this? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Had a message from a guy, he sent a face pic but wasn't my type so I politely said thank you for the message but not for me as I would usually.
He then went to the trouble of screen shotting a face pic from one of my previous meets profiles and used the direct send method with a message saying "wow so this is your type but you won't meet me"
He must be really bored to have checked my veris for someone with a face pic. You often get stroppy folk when you say no and have had the name calling etc but this is a step up.
I didn't reply, just blocked, didn't want to push any further confrontation!
Any other ladies actually had this? "
Report him, too..x |
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"Someone I know has and it's bang out of line, if a woman did that to me I'd be furious."
I just thought it was rude. when you get that sort of response it makes you realise you made a good decision in saying no to start with. |
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We've had something similar.
Guy messages without reading the profile. I say no thanks because as it says in the profile I don't want a VWE guy.
He argues that we've met *other man* and he's way bigger.
No dude, that veri was from a cam show. He went as far as checking veris and looking at their pics for sizes but didn't bother to read the actual verification. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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I'm fine with rejection. I'd never go to lengths like that at all.
However I will admit from time to time (much less now) I have looked at veris just to see the "competition" and after being rejected have wondered why I got rejected yet they did met guy X, Y, or Z. That's all it was though, an internal thought. Nothing petty or aggressive, or even hard feelings. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It's the usual story of entitled indignation and looking for something/someone else to blame for their own failings really - as you say it takes it to a whole new level though, and shows an arrogance not only of how much they think of themselves, but how little they understand about attraction too.
Blocking is the right thing to do, and to be honest I may even be inclined to report also, as effectively they are using that users picture without their permission. |
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"Had a message from a guy, he sent a face pic but wasn't my type so I politely said thank you for the message but not for me as I would usually.
He then went to the trouble of screen shotting a face pic from one of my previous meets profiles and used the direct send method with a message saying "wow so this is your type but you won't meet me"
He must be really bored to have checked my veris for someone with a face pic. You often get stroppy folk when you say no and have had the name calling etc but this is a step up.
I didn't reply, just blocked, didn't want to push any further confrontation!
Any other ladies actually had this?
Report him, too..x"
I wasn't sure if it came under any rule breaking or was just him being stroppy from being turned down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thankfully, never happened to us.
Worst we get is the name calling, resorting to insults about Vamp’s size, followed by we should be grateful, then, finally, more pleading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a guy that trolled our pic to prove his cock was bigger than hubbies. My response was “yes, but he knows how to use it” ...poor fella blocked us ....bless.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He might have point .. if the guy u dated was uglier than him lol 
But I really thought opening this .. that he might have gone had a face surgery and then msgd you "is that what you looking for "?
That must have bin cool  |
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"Thankfully, never happened to us.
Worst we get is the name calling, resorting to insults about Vamp’s size, followed by we should be grateful, then, finally, more pleading."
My best one went from me being amazing in my pics to I was a fat, ugly miget...that one stuck with me cos it made me giggle so much  |
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By *annooWoman
over a year ago
Hastings |
"It's the usual story of entitled indignation and looking for something/someone else to blame for their own failings really - as you say it takes it to a whole new level though, and shows an arrogance not only of how much they think of themselves, but how little they understand about attraction too.
Blocking is the right thing to do, and to be honest I may even be inclined to report also, as effectively they are using that users picture without their permission."
This statement so true to the crap that been going on on here lately, guys who think they have a right to meet just for being on here etc demanding answers, demanding in general have known women and couples do it too so not knocking men entirely as to blame, but lets me honest the site has triple the single men to women and couples and TV and TS, it's just silly. Their actions doesn't get them what they want so why be "Dick's" about it |
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"It's the usual story of entitled indignation and looking for something/someone else to blame for their own failings really - as you say it takes it to a whole new level though, and shows an arrogance not only of how much they think of themselves, but how little they understand about attraction too.
Blocking is the right thing to do, and to be honest I may even be inclined to report also, as effectively they are using that users picture without their permission.
This statement so true to the crap that been going on on here lately, guys who think they have a right to meet just for being on here etc demanding answers, demanding in general have known women and couples do it too so not knocking men entirely as to blame, but lets me honest the site has triple the single men to women and couples and TV and TS, it's just silly. Their actions doesn't get them what they want so why be "Dick's" about it"
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Why.....why go to all that trouble of making yourself look like a crazy!!
Deleted message is a no thank you.
Polite reply saying no...is still no.
Doesn't matter what you say or do the answer is still going to be no.
When will people understand this!! |
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"Why.....why go to all that trouble of making yourself look like a crazy!!
Deleted message is a no thank you.
Polite reply saying no...is still no.
Doesn't matter what you say or do the answer is still going to be no.
When will people understand this!!"
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"Thankfully, never happened to us.
Worst we get is the name calling, resorting to insults about Vamp’s size, followed by we should be grateful, then, finally, more pleading.
My best one went from me being amazing in my pics to I was a fat, ugly miget...that one stuck with me cos it made me giggle so much "
If your an example of a fat ugly midget then I’m into them for sure as they’re gorgeous xx |
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I haven't had someone go to the extreme of sending me a face pic from my veris... But yes, I have had that 'you met him, but not me?!!!!!' reaction many times. Oddly it usually comes from guys who randomly mail me asking to meet... It never seems to occur to them that I'd spent weeks or even months building up a rapport with the person before meeting them (even though that's something that's quite often mentioned in my veris). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We didn't respond to a guy once as his first message was quite crude, he then messaged again shortly after saying I guess your not interested not sure why as you f*ck ugly guys. So blocked him. By this I assume he means hubby's as our meets faces are blurred out and we only had one verification up at that time and they didn't have face photos.
I think some men just want to have the last word and to do that they have to be mean. It just makes them look like immature babies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had something similar.
Guy messages without reading the profile. I say no thanks because as it says in the profile I don't want a VWE guy.
He argues that we've met *other man* and he's way bigger.
No dude, that veri was from a cam show. He went as far as checking veris and looking at their pics for sizes but didn't bother to read the actual verification. "
That made me laugh. |
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