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You don't get a second glance in the street!
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Read this all the time. That women do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public.
I  not getting attention in public. I'm my own person doing my own thing. Free from creepy comments about my underwear while I'm in Boots, clothes while I'm in Sainsbury's, shoes in M&S.
I'm my own person and I fly under the radar. It's fantastic. |
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I've met most of my play partners in person to be honest. Mostly through the kink scene. I think some people on here are just nasty to say things like that. If they're sleeping with people they wouldn't look twice at in public then that says more about them than the rest of us. |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you  lol.
(She’s 23 btw!) "
Hahahaha I get ya, mines 25 and when they look I feel like saying "yehhhh love, I made that there"  |
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over a year ago
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"Oh I totally understand this, haven't been "checked out" in years. I don't care either, like you it doesn't bother me. "
I check people out discreetly. Most people do. |
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"Oh I totally understand this, haven't been "checked out" in years. I don't care either, like you it doesn't bother me. "
Behave I'll bet you've been "checked out " today x |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!)
Hahahaha I get ya, mines 25 and when they look I feel like saying "yehhhh love, I made that there" "
Yes ladies, your daughters get it from your genes!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The people that say things like that usually turn out to be the butt hurt entitled ones who can't get meets and are looking for something to blame other than themselves for their lack of "success"...
...as the old saying goes he/she who laughs last laughs longest 
I'm perfectly happy going about my life unnoticed to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate being "checked out" as it's called. Doesn't happen often but when it does I don't know what to do with myself... I blush way too easily, or I start twerking depending on alcohol consumption levels  |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!)
Hahahaha I get ya, mines 25 and when they look I feel like saying "yehhhh love, I made that there"
Yes ladies, your daughters get it from your genes! "
Very true, and the corn on her toe from her dad.... |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!)
Hahahaha I get ya, mines 25 and when they look I feel like saying "yehhhh love, I made that there" "
I get this a lot too with mine who’s 18. They’ll look at her, then me, then her, then me. Wonder what they’re thinking? |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!)
Hahahaha I get ya, mines 25 and when they look I feel like saying "yehhhh love, I made that there"
Yes ladies, your daughters get it from your genes!
Very true, and the corn on her toe from her dad.... "
Haha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never get looked at in the real world. Never get chatted up on a night out and actually do not get inundated with messages on here either.
I'm ok with it too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!)
Hahahaha I get ya, mines 25 and when they look I feel like saying "yehhhh love, I made that there"
Yes ladies, your daughters get it from your genes!
Very true, and the corn on her toe from her dad.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I totally understand this, haven't been "checked out" in years. I don't care either, like you it doesn't bother me.
Behave I'll bet you've been "checked out " today x"
Only by the OH as I haven't left the house. |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!)
Hahahaha I get ya, mines 25 and when they look I feel like saying "yehhhh love, I made that there"
I get this a lot too with mine who’s 18. They’ll look at her, then me, then her, then me. Wonder what they’re thinking?"
What beautiful sisters!! That’s what I always think they’re thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My boobs get hit on quite a lot in public. Or my voice does. The rest of me is tertiary or of little importance. "
Meli. Guys. Boobs. Nothing else exists, ever. |
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"Oh I totally understand this, haven't been "checked out" in years. I don't care either, like you it doesn't bother me.
Behave I'll bet you've been "checked out " today x
Only by the OH as I haven't left the house. "
Then I was still factually correct |
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"My boobs get hit on quite a lot in public. Or my voice does. The rest of me is tertiary or of little importance.
Meli. Guys. Boobs. Nothing else exists, ever. "
Give me a pretty smile over boobs anyday |
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"My boobs get hit on quite a lot in public. Or my voice does. The rest of me is tertiary or of little importance.
Meli. Guys. Boobs. Nothing else exists, ever.
Give me a pretty smile over boobs anyday "
I'll give you one. |
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"Read this all the time. That women do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public.
I not getting attention in public. I'm my own person doing my own thing. Free from creepy comments about my underwear while I'm in Boots, clothes while I'm in Sainsbury's, shoes in M&S.
I'm the same....i don't pay attention to what others are doing around me...i hate walking into a place and all eyes are on me....i hate being centre of attention...i blend in with the back ground and that's the way I like it.....
I'm my own person and I fly under the radar. It's fantastic. "
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"My boobs get hit on quite a lot in public. Or my voice does. The rest of me is tertiary or of little importance.
Meli. Guys. Boobs. Nothing else exists, ever.
Give me a pretty smile over boobs anyday I'll give you one. "
Please do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's sort of more, when I'm buying eggs or (TMI) from the pharmacy, I'm very glad that I'm girl next door in appearance. You know? "
The girl next door eh
Someone lives next door to Andrea Corr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My boobs get hit on quite a lot in public. Or my voice does. The rest of me is tertiary or of little importance.
Meli. Guys. Boobs. Nothing else exists, ever.
Give me a pretty smile over boobs anyday I'll give you one.
Please do"
have done  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"My boobs get hit on quite a lot in public. Or my voice does. The rest of me is tertiary or of little importance.
Meli. Guys. Boobs. Nothing else exists, ever. "
So so true. Sometimes I get a proper thrill from having bordering on inappropriate cleavage out and seeing the back and forth eye darts. Simple creatures. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Anyways, apologies OP. I don't really ever feel like I'm that invisible in public (not in a I'm so hot way but I have big hair and other things) but sometimes it would be nice. I generally don't find men that predatory, they tend to do it in a not-subtle-but-trying-to-be way. |
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The clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday and I suddenly became invisible
In the outside world - very few people can see me or hear me - which is baffling as I'm quite big and loud.
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"The clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday and I suddenly became invisible
In the outside world - very few people can see me or hear me - which is baffling as I'm quite big and loud.
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I'll bet you a kit Kat you're not invisible certainly not with a face as pretty as you have |
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"I can’t remember the last time I got hit on. I don’t think I’d know if it was happening or not x
I think I got hit on today and only realised ten minutes later  "
But that was a nice friendly conversation.
Most of the gross people in my life get in my face and tell me to smile or stop me from doing what I need to do because apparently I need their opinion/ insight on my face. Yes, thank you Mr Stranger, I hadn't noticed my eye colour before. I've only had it 33 years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday and I suddenly became invisible
In the outside world - very few people can see me or hear me - which is baffling as I'm quite big and loud.
I'll bet you a kit Kat you're not invisible certainly not with a face as pretty as you have "
Would you like a Kitkat chunky?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!) "
Well I don't believe that for a minute. You're a very attractive lady.. |
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"Fab is full of male sour grapes. I can understand why, it's like some women don't know they're here to fulfil our desires for free and be grateful."
God, we're so dumb! We need big strong men to set us straight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The clock struck midnight on my 40th birthday and I suddenly became invisible
In the outside world - very few people can see me or hear me - which is baffling as I'm quite big and loud.
I'll bet you a kit Kat you're not invisible certainly not with a face as pretty as you have "
He really does love a pretty smile  |
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I get second glances... But not because I've my tits out or I'm flashing my suspenders... So not Fab-related lol. But it's reasurring at times to know that people can find you attractive away from Fab too, as the 'meat market' mentality here can sometimes make you wonder.... |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!)
Well I don't believe that for a minute. You're a very attractive lady.."
Aw thank you xx |
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over a year ago
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Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. |
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"I've always had attention...when I was younger I could make men fall off ladders, walk into doors, that kind of thing.
I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but who is?
Works for me "
You knocked the ladders and closed the doors in their faces, didn't you |
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"I've always had attention...when I was younger I could make men fall off ladders, walk into doors, that kind of thing.
I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but who is?
Works for me
You knocked the ladders and closed the doors in their faces, didn't you "
Yes, with my tits |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always had attention...when I was younger I could make men fall off ladders, walk into doors, that kind of thing.
I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but who is?
Works for me
You knocked the ladders and closed the doors in their faces, didn't you
Yes, with my tits "
I'm up my ladder now. Js |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the same but I think it's a lot to do with confidence, I tend to have my head down and try to hide a bit, I don't generally want noticed.
On a night out when I'm at my best and a bit tipsy I get noticed. I tend to not be so shy then |
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"So if people knew that you had a liberal outlook on sex they would give you more attention....
You think? Ready to be stoned OP?"
I suspect I'd get a lot more creepy guys in some parts of town, and a lot of religious people with Views in others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep a lot more attention from men who are hoping that you're going to direct your horniness at them.
Think attention for reasons other than your physical appearance are probably more worthwhile anyway. |
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter. |
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter. "
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Read this all the time. That women do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public.
I not getting attention in public. I'm my own person doing my own thing. Free from creepy comments about my underwear while I'm in Boots, clothes while I'm in Sainsbury's, shoes in M&S.
I'm my own person and I fly under the radar. It's fantastic. "
So why comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Read this all the time. That women do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public.
I not getting attention in public. I'm my own person doing my own thing. Free from creepy comments about my underwear while I'm in Boots, clothes while I'm in Sainsbury's, shoes in M&S.
I'm my own person and I fly under the radar. It's fantastic.
So why comment "
I did wonder this. |
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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
I never used to get attention.. guess I had low self esteem and confidence.
Then I lost 7 stone over a couple of years. I get a lot more attention. That boosted my confidence... I realise I should have been confident in myself before...
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
Masked and Distant |
Perhaps us men are getting more subtle?
Or maybe we are all gentlemen, but as for me, 2nd and 3rd looks would definitely be given for all the ladies saying they never get any.
But then again I am a perv |
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"Read this all the time. That women do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public.
I not getting attention in public. I'm my own person doing my own thing. Free from creepy comments about my underwear while I'm in Boots, clothes while I'm in Sainsbury's, shoes in M&S.
I'm my own person and I fly under the radar. It's fantastic. "
Only spiteful men who don't get any interest from the opposite sex say that I find or just horrible men in general. |
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"Read this all the time. That women do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public.
I not getting attention in public. I'm my own person doing my own thing. Free from creepy comments about my underwear while I'm in Boots, clothes while I'm in Sainsbury's, shoes in M&S.
I'm my own person and I fly under the radar. It's fantastic.
Only spiteful men who don't get any interest from the opposite sex say that I find or just horrible men in general. "
Oh I know. But my point is, it's a crap insult.
Woe, woe, I get to get on with my life without being pestered. Such a travesty. |
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"I can’t remember the last time I got hit on. I don’t think I’d know if it was happening or not x
I think I got hit on today and only realised ten minutes later "
Lol, but was he nice? X |
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"I can’t remember the last time I got hit on. I don’t think I’d know if it was happening or not x
I think I got hit on today and only realised ten minutes later
Lol, but was he nice? X "
She was lovely |
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"I'm thankful of it. Blending in means less hassle. Most people see what they expect to; especially at a distance."
I certainly don't miss the attention I had from strangers when I was young. I was shy and lacked self esteem so it was a nightmare to walk past any group of men in the street, or indeed to walk down a road and put up with guys yelling out from cars. I prefer the anonymity that has come with age, but what I don't like, in fact it pisses me off mightily is when I am actively ignored at work because the girl standing next to me is young and pretty..even though I'm the one serving the rude arsehole! |
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Don’t tend to get hit on or notice anyone checking me out, but tbh I’m usually with my slim and gorgeous sister, and she attracts the attention. I really am made to feel like the proverbial ugly sister.
Women check me out at festivals though, lol, but my sister doesn’t know I’m bi (family aren’t very tolerant) so can’t act on it
Viv xx |
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"Don’t tend to get hit on or notice anyone checking me out, but tbh I’m usually with my slim and gorgeous sister, and she attracts the attention. I really am made to feel like the proverbial ugly sister.
Women check me out at festivals though, lol, but my sister doesn’t know I’m bi (family aren’t very tolerant) so can’t act on it
Viv xx"
If your sister is more attractive than you she must be a stunner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wear really tight clothes so everyone looks at me 
Checking out your sugar lumps? "
Oh I missed that and now they've left... yes looking at the lumps in my trunks |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"Read this all the time. That women do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public.
I not getting attention in public. I'm my own person doing my own thing. Free from creepy comments about my underwear while I'm in Boots, clothes while I'm in Sainsbury's, shoes in M&S.
I'm my own person and I fly under the radar. It's fantastic. "
I see the comments and smile. The vast majority of people who make them are butthurt for getting rejected.
Attraction is subjective and there are a variety of things that capture my attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter.
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab"
Fucking right! and still nobody else pulls her up about it.
I've been shot down, blocked and called names for jokingly saying things in these forums, that are not half as bad.
I've even tried to give someone advice in private chat, only to end up getting slated in the forum and pm.
But a woman can say things like..
"need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
And its fine, because it's a female.
This site makes me fucking sick sometimes.
SMH
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter.
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab
Fucking right! and still nobody else pulls her up about it.
I've been shot down, blocked and called names for jokingly saying things in these forums, that are not half as bad.
I've even tried to give someone advice in private chat, only to end up getting slated in the forum and pm.
But a woman can say things like..
"need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
And its fine, because it's a female.
This site makes me fucking sick sometimes.
SMH
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My advice to all men on here is to either get themselves a female friend who will show them her messages or get yourselves a female profile..you will get a view of the site that will make you appreciate the women who don't just cut and run! |
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter.
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab
Fucking right! and still nobody else pulls her up about it.
I've been shot down, blocked and called names for jokingly saying things in these forums, that are not half as bad.
I've even tried to give someone advice in private chat, only to end up getting slated in the forum and pm.
But a woman can say things like..
"need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
And its fine, because it's a female.
This site makes me fucking sick sometimes.
SMH
My advice to all men on here is to either get themselves a female friend who will show them her messages or get yourselves a female profile..you will get a view of the site that will make you appreciate the women who don't just cut and run!"
Best answer ever....I had a couple profile and that was bad enough !! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter.
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab
Fucking right! and still nobody else pulls her up about it.
I've been shot down, blocked and called names for jokingly saying things in these forums, that are not half as bad.
I've even tried to give someone advice in private chat, only to end up getting slated in the forum and pm.
But a woman can say things like..
"need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
And its fine, because it's a female.
This site makes me fucking sick sometimes.
SMH
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With the greatest of respect if this site makes you "fucking sick" why stay?
I'm not going to get into the "treatment" you've received as that would be bordering on a personal attack and I don't want a ban but let's just leave it that there are two perspectives to that one.
As for the statement made about men you are referring to - from what I have seen I'd say it's pretty accurate - a lot of men do have the wrong idea of the site, and wrong expectations and attitude towards it - you only have to look for the daily threads posted by some women about how they have been treated for evidence of that.
The poster didn't say all men were like that either, just most men, and if that's her experience and also that of others then surely she's entitled to say so?
Now for balance, there are people of all genders and categories who probably fit that bill also, but given the vast majority of users are men, the bad apples amongst them are the ones who stand out more.
If as a man on this site you are decent, respectful, considerate, honest etc then obviously you don't fall into the camp the previous poster highlighted and have nothing to worry about. |
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter.
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab
Fucking right! and still nobody else pulls her up about it.
I've been shot down, blocked and called names for jokingly saying things in these forums, that are not half as bad.
I've even tried to give someone advice in private chat, only to end up getting slated in the forum and pm.
But a woman can say things like..
"need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
And its fine, because it's a female.
This site makes me fucking sick sometimes.
SMH
My advice to all men on here is to either get themselves a female friend who will show them her messages or get yourselves a female profile..you will get a view of the site that will make you appreciate the women who don't just cut and run!"
So much.
The messages I get... Lord I despair of humanity. And I don't mean the unattractive, lazy, or stupid. I mean the terrifying and criminal. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I get second glances, but it’s because of my height.
I had a particularly uncomfortable experience in Dublin a few years back where i walked into a bar with friends (they’d gone in ahead of me) and when i walked in the folk there did that thing you see in Westerns...they all stopped and turned and stared at me...felt like ages but was only probably mere seconds..
My friends were like “WTF just happened?!”, and i wanted to curl up and die. Horrible experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dress Amish chic, covered head to toe usually so nothing to ogle here. I quite like it that way too, not one to show boobs or legs off in public unless I’m at the pool or beach. |
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"I dress Amish chic, covered head to toe usually so nothing to ogle here. I quite like it that way too, not one to show boobs or legs off in public unless I’m at the pool or beach. "
Your style, hair and facial attractiveness would definitely get more than one admiring glance from both of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dress Amish chic, covered head to toe usually so nothing to ogle here. I quite like it that way too, not one to show boobs or legs off in public unless I’m at the pool or beach.
Your style, hair and facial attractiveness would definitely get more than one admiring glance from both of us."
That’s the best compliment ever and will put a spring in my step today. Especially coming from you two hotties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like being invisible, attention makes me uncomfortable.
And it gives me a healthy cynicism about all the rubbish people send on here "
Hi Gerry it's Gerry I've never sent rubbish but I was in the bin bag pic challenge  |
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By *erryxxxWoman
over a year ago
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"I like being invisible, attention makes me uncomfortable.
And it gives me a healthy cynicism about all the rubbish people send on here Hi Gerry it's Gerry I've never sent rubbish but I was in the bin bag pic challenge "
Hi there Gerry.
It’s not the weather to go wiggling about in bin bags today is it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that "
We only want to get noticed by people we want it from. Same as in the real world I guess. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that "
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here. |
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I don't see how this is hard.
When I'm volunteering in my community, any attention I get I want to be around that: kind, attentive, community minded, friendly.
When I'm buying coffee, I want politeness and the right coffee.
When I'm sick, I want medical attention.
The fact that in some circumstances I want kinky sexual attention does not mean I want it in all. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here."
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too? |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
We only want to get noticed by people we want it from. Same as in the real world I guess. "
It’s not a tap though and people will always find others attractive and not have it reciprocated
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too? "
My post was clearly referring to "*some* men" not women - and whilst personally I don't think I've seen a woman make that kind of comment, I would think if they did it may be for other reasons, as women on here don't tend to have the same entitled attitude that *some* men have. |
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too? "
Jealous maybe?
Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions. |
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Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions."
If there are any women out there like that I am happy to assist with removing some of those inhibitions, for science and the great good obviously |
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Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions.
If there are any women out there like that I am happy to assist with removing some of those inhibitions, for science and the great good obviously "
Oh how selfless of you |
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Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions.
If there are any women out there like that I am happy to assist with removing some of those inhibitions, for science and the great good obviously
Oh how selfless of you "
I can help anyone find their inner slut, it’s the least I can do |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
My post was clearly referring to "*some* men" not women - and whilst personally I don't think I've seen a woman make that kind of comment, I would think if they did it may be for other reasons, as women on here don't tend to have the same entitled attitude that *some* men have."
Nice that you’re deciding why women would say such things.
Your last comment beggars belief |
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over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
Jealous maybe?
Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions."
Or maybe - just maybe - they believe in what they say? |
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
Jealous maybe?
Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions.
Or maybe - just maybe - they believe in what they say? "
Unless they're talking about just themselves they have literally no idea how much attention other women get in real life and why do they even care enough to comment on it anyway? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
My post was clearly referring to "*some* men" not women - and whilst personally I don't think I've seen a woman make that kind of comment, I would think if they did it may be for other reasons, as women on here don't tend to have the same entitled attitude that *some* men have.
Nice that you’re deciding why women would say such things.
Your last comment beggars belief "
I'm not deciding a thing for anyone - I talk to enough people and read enough forum posts to have formed a fair and reasoned opinion.
As for my last comment, not sure how it beggars belief? Again if you talk to people and read the forums enough you'll know it's accurate and informed. |
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over a year ago
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"I get more attention when I'm out in public than I do on here. X"
That is hard to understand but as you have blocks in your profile singles like me can't comment on your beautiful breasts |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
Jealous maybe?
Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions.
Or maybe - just maybe - they believe in what they say?
Unless they're talking about just themselves they have literally no idea how much attention other women get in real life and why do they even care enough to comment on it anyway?"
Sorry, but the basis of this thread seems to be predicated on making assumptions based on things individuals say. You commenting on their comments is slightly ironic don’t you think? |
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over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
My post was clearly referring to "*some* men" not women - and whilst personally I don't think I've seen a woman make that kind of comment, I would think if they did it may be for other reasons, as women on here don't tend to have the same entitled attitude that *some* men have.
Nice that you’re deciding why women would say such things.
Your last comment beggars belief
I'm not deciding a thing for anyone - I talk to enough people and read enough forum posts to have formed a fair and reasoned opinion.
As for my last comment, not sure how it beggars belief? Again if you talk to people and read the forums enough you'll know it's accurate and informed."
You said you think that they said it “for other reasons”. How do you know that.
Basing your world view on this or any other online forum is no guarantee of either accuracy or being informed. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
My post was clearly referring to "*some* men" not women - and whilst personally I don't think I've seen a woman make that kind of comment, I would think if they did it may be for other reasons, as women on here don't tend to have the same entitled attitude that *some* men have.
Nice that you’re deciding why women would say such things.
Your last comment beggars belief
I'm not deciding a thing for anyone - I talk to enough people and read enough forum posts to have formed a fair and reasoned opinion.
As for my last comment, not sure how it beggars belief? Again if you talk to people and read the forums enough you'll know it's accurate and informed.
You said you think that they said it “for other reasons”. How do you know that.
Basing your world view on this or any other online forum is no guarantee of either accuracy or being informed. "
By using that thing in my head called a brain, by observing and listening and drawing my own conclusions and opinions based on that information, the same way anyone forms them 
And you're the one making the assumptions here - did I say that my "world view" was based purely on this or any other forum? However if I were doing so, surely given that the OP was pertinent to this site, surely the knowledge gleaned here would be more than relevant.
I'll be honest and say I'm not entirely sure what point you're trying to make/prove here but getting back to the OP and your opening response to it, which was very much wide of the mark and missed the point completely. |
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"Yes, people come onto this site to not get noticed and hate it when they do. I buy that
I don't think that's what anyone has said at all - the OP was about the ridiculous sentiment that appears to be shared by *some* men (usually butt hurt entitled ones) on here who seem to think *some* women "do better than they should here because they wouldn't attract attention in public" and the offshoot of that being that for some, attracting attention in public is not something they are comfortable with.
Nothing at all to do with not wanting to be noticed on here.
I’ve heard women say that women on here get more attention than they would in “real life”. Are they entitled too?
Jealous maybe?
Women are often worse to each other than anyone else. Especially when it comes to sex. I think sometimes they internalise a lot of the negative views society has about women enjoying sex and having a lot of it and that results in nastiness towards other women who have a more liberal attitude to sex in order for them to distinguish themselves as "other and different" to them in their minds. I.e. "I love sex but I'm not like those sluts over there!". Sometimes deep down they wish they could shed some of their hang ups and shame around sex too and that even further fuels their dislike of other women who appear to have less inhibitions.
Or maybe - just maybe - they believe in what they say?
Unless they're talking about just themselves they have literally no idea how much attention other women get in real life and why do they even care enough to comment on it anyway?
Sorry, but the basis of this thread seems to be predicated on making assumptions based on things individuals say. You commenting on their comments is slightly ironic don’t you think? "
Erm, isn't this post about _naswingdress's feelings about comments made in reference to her as a woman? Hers actually being that she prefers less attention in public. |
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"Worse when you realise it’s your daughter they’re all looking at now and not you lol.
(She’s 23 btw!) "
Exactly, my daughter is 23 also, I wouldn't mind a look or a whistle every now and then even from the builders x storm x |
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"Don’t tend to get hit on or notice anyone checking me out, but tbh I’m usually with my slim and gorgeous sister, and she attracts the attention. I really am made to feel like the proverbial ugly sister.
Women check me out at festivals though, lol, but my sister doesn’t know I’m bi (family aren’t very tolerant) so can’t act on it
Viv xx
If your sister is more attractive than you she must be a stunner! "
She is!! Haha, I’m so glad she’s not on here or I’d have everyone asking me about her on here as well, haha xx |
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All women will do better on here than in public, simply due to the ratio of men to women on here, its never this ratio in a club etc, and the men on here can be a bit desperate.
Some women will do drastically better, some a lot better, and some only a little better, but all will do better.
I think even the most stunning woman you ever seen would do better on here than in a pub, as in a pub probably not many will approach and if she posts a photo on here then hundreds will approach. |
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over a year ago
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"All women will do better on here than in public, simply due to the ratio of men to women on here, its never this ratio in a club etc, and the men on here can be a bit desperate.
Some women will do drastically better, some a lot better, and some only a little better, but all will do better.
I think even the most stunning woman you ever seen would do better on here than in a pub, as in a pub probably not many will approach and if she posts a photo on here then hundreds will approach."
Spot on |
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This is why we class ourselves on our profile as a normal everyday couple. In the real world outside of swinging and the clubs that's just what we are, and we get very little looks out in the pubs etc, but swinging we seem to get way more attention, strange one really x |
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"All women will do better on here than in public, simply due to the ratio of men to women on here, its never this ratio in a club etc, and the men on here can be a bit desperate.
Some women will do drastically better, some a lot better, and some only a little better, but all will do better.
I think even the most stunning woman you ever seen would do better on here than in a pub, as in a pub probably not many will approach and if she posts a photo on here then hundreds will approach.
Spot on "
I never approach anybody on here, but I have no problem approaching a women in a pub, shop, cafe, or anywhere as long as you do it with respect, and dont appear to be a creep. It's easy to spot those that want to be left alone, just by eye contact and body language. I have always found most but not all, are happy to chat and make new acquaintance. |
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter.
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab
Fucking right! and still nobody else pulls her up about it.
I've been shot down, blocked and called names for jokingly saying things in these forums, that are not half as bad.
I've even tried to give someone advice in private chat, only to end up getting slated in the forum and pm.
But a woman can say things like..
"need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
And its fine, because it's a female.
This site makes me fucking sick sometimes.
SMH
My advice to all men on here is to either get themselves a female friend who will show them her messages or get yourselves a female profile..you will get a view of the site that will make you appreciate the women who don't just cut and run!"
I know what you mean there.. But that doesn't make it alright to say things like that.
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"All women will do better on here than in public, simply due to the ratio of men to women on here, its never this ratio in a club etc, and the men on here can be a bit desperate.
Some women will do drastically better, some a lot better, and some only a little better, but all will do better.
I think even the most stunning woman you ever seen would do better on here than in a pub, as in a pub probably not many will approach and if she posts a photo on here then hundreds will approach.
Spot on "
But some men act desperate on here, I bet they wouldn’t out in a pub. ‘Do better’ is a funny thing to say. |
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"All women will do better on here than in public, simply due to the ratio of men to women on here, its never this ratio in a club etc, and the men on here can be a bit desperate.
Some women will do drastically better, some a lot better, and some only a little better, but all will do better.
I think even the most stunning woman you ever seen would do better on here than in a pub, as in a pub probably not many will approach and if she posts a photo on here then hundreds will approach.
Spot on
I never approach anybody on here, but I have no problem approaching a women in a pub, shop, cafe, or anywhere as long as you do it with respect, and dont appear to be a creep. It's easy to spot those that want to be left alone, just by eye contact and body language. I have always found most but not all, are happy to chat and make new acquaintance."
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"Even at my age I do still get attention when in public and I do not dress provocatively to attract it. Sometimes it's a nice feeling to be noticed.
The people who write mean things on Fab about "us women" not standing a chance at being looked at off this site are probably not "Getting Any" themselves and need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin.
can you imagine if a man said this in the forum about women.
Yet a woman can say it and it doesn't seem to matter.
Sometimes a man does say something similar and gets flamed. There are mass double standards on fab
Fucking right! and still nobody else pulls her up about it.
I've been shot down, blocked and called names for jokingly saying things in these forums, that are not half as bad.
I've even tried to give someone advice in private chat, only to end up getting slated in the forum and pm.
But a woman can say things like..
"need to realise that an awful lot of the men on Fab are absolute rotters,totally undesirable and quite frankly only fit for the bin. "
And its fine, because it's a female.
This site makes me fucking sick sometimes.
SMH
With the greatest of respect if this site makes you "fucking sick" why stay?
I'm not going to get into the "treatment" you've received as that would be bordering on a personal attack and I don't want a ban but let's just leave it that there are two perspectives to that one.
As for the statement made about men you are referring to - from what I have seen I'd say it's pretty accurate - a lot of men do have the wrong idea of the site, and wrong expectations and attitude towards it - you only have to look for the daily threads posted by some women about how they have been treated for evidence of that.
The poster didn't say all men were like that either, just most men, and if that's her experience and also that of others then surely she's entitled to say so?
Now for balance, there are people of all genders and categories who probably fit that bill also, but given the vast majority of users are men, the bad apples amongst them are the ones who stand out more.
If as a man on this site you are decent, respectful, considerate, honest etc then obviously you don't fall into the camp the previous poster highlighted and have nothing to worry about."
Obviously because I'm giving it a chance. Would it be okay for me to say that? Hell no.
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