"When you want to please everyone and be everywhere all at the same time and you can't?
How do you stop yourself from feeling crap about it?  "
Don't bother - can't be done- just be content with being a nice person xxx |
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Nothing you can do IMHO.
I get that feeling all the time at work, just not enough time to everything for everyone.
Inevitably, someone will get let down.
I tend to help those colleagues that I get on with more than those that don't.
Perhaps it is hardly surprising that I was cited as being argumentative and obstructive in my recent performance appraisal by my distractors  |
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"Nothing you can do IMHO.
I get that feeling all the time at work, just not enough time to everything for everyone.
Inevitably, someone will get let down.
I tend to help those colleagues that I get on with more than those that don't.
Perhaps it is hardly surprising that I was cited as being argumentative and obstructive in my recent performance appraisal by my distractors "
Thats not fair - but that's life I suppose- |
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"When you want to please everyone and be everywhere all at the same time and you can't?
How do you stop yourself from feeling crap about it?
Don't bother - can't be done- just be content with being a nice person xxx"
Was trying to think of something smarter but cant.
I get out of bed in the morning and look in the mirror and take pride in the fact I have never ever fucked anyone over.
Have a look tomorrow and see how you feel, works for me  |
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"When you want to please everyone and be everywhere all at the same time and you can't?
How do you stop yourself from feeling crap about it?
Don't bother - can't be done- just be content with being a nice person xxx
Was trying to think of something smarter but cant.
I get out of bed in the morning and look in the mirror and take pride in the fact I have never ever fucked anyone over.
Have a look tomorrow and see how you feel, works for me "
Yes I can relate to that too - do what you can to look after other people but accept that you can't please all of the people all of the time etc...... |
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Im liking the idea of a party and a wank LMAO 
I know we can't please everyone all the time its just not possible,but everything all comes at once sometimes and its a little overwhelming
It will pass im sure xxx |
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"When you want to please everyone and be everywhere all at the same time and you can't?
How do you stop yourself from feeling crap about it?
Don't bother - can't be done- just be content with being a nice person xxx
Was trying to think of something smarter but cant.
I get out of bed in the morning and look in the mirror and take pride in the fact I have never ever fucked anyone over.
Have a look tomorrow and see how you feel, works for me
Yes I can relate to that too - do what you can to look after other people but accept that you can't please all of the people all of the time etc...... "
I agree, be true to yourself; for piece of mind you need to satisfy the inner voice first.
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"Im liking the idea of a party and a wank LMAO
I know we can't please everyone all the time its just not possible,but everything all comes at once sometimes and its a little overwhelming
It will pass im sure xxx"
Do you want me to start another thread that you need to shut down? I will if you want! |
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"Im liking the idea of a party and a wank LMAO
I know we can't please everyone all the time its just not possible,but everything all comes at once sometimes and its a little overwhelming
It will pass im sure xxx
Do you want me to start another thread that you need to shut down? I will if you want!"
Or you could let it all out on the forums and bar yourself for 2 days to get some peace?
LOL
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lesrn to be better at saying no and/or delegating things to others where possible.
remember you're refusing a task or a request, not the person themselves.
and know where and who your safety valves are ...use them for those times when things really are too much and let them carry a bit of the load, even if its just a listening ear or a giggle
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"I actually meant that it wasn't fair on you!"
I know, and thanks! 
I actually thought I did rather well given I lost my late partner suddenly and had a life changing moment.
However, the movers and shakers (read: schemers and arse-lickers) think differently.
It would be difficult to change or mellow now at my age.
I shall try. However, I am also keeping my axe sharpened! |
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"Im liking the idea of a party and a wank LMAO
I know we can't please everyone all the time its just not possible,but everything all comes at once sometimes and its a little overwhelming
It will pass im sure xxx"
This is what happens when you put women in positions of power, they simply cant cope, get all emotional and then us guys are proper fucked |
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People always want something from you in exchange for nothing, it's how the world works, and they use things like love, honour & duty to get it. They'll also use guilt and fear to force you to hand over your power to them. By power, I am talking about the things that make you the person you are - if you are the helpful kind they'll try and manipulate your tendency to help out to get what they want. When you realise what the game is that's being played and refuse to play it any further they resent you for it, using guilt & fear again to bring you round to their way of thinking.
Stand fast and eventually you'll see that you become known as someone who is fair but won't be taken advantage of.
Try it, you'll see. |
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To use the advice of Bonk and wishy
Im in a postion of power im standing fast fucking the men and have fingers on my button?
sounds cool to me |
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"To use the advice of Bonk and wishy
Im in a postion of power im standing fast fucking the men and have fingers on my button?
sounds cool to me "
That's the spirit! |
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"To use the advice of Bonk and wishy
Im in a postion of power im standing fast fucking the men and have fingers on my button?
sounds cool to me "
Taking a very cautious step back now as I was just doing my ususal "fab" thing, if there is more to this and I have missed it then HPC I apologise in advance  |
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"To use the advice of Bonk and wishy
Im in a postion of power im standing fast fucking the men and have fingers on my button?
sounds cool to me
Taking a very cautious step back now as I was just doing my ususal "fab" thing, if there is more to this and I have missed it then HPC I apologise in advance "
No not at all.....I though you were funny,theres no need to apologise  xx |
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"To use the advice of Bonk and wishy
Im in a postion of power im standing fast fucking the men and have fingers on my button?
sounds cool to me
Taking a very cautious step back now as I was just doing my usual "fab" thing, if there is more to this and I have missed it then HPC I apologise in advance
No not at all.....I though you were funny,theres no need to apologise xx "
Thank feck for that, you know when you get that cold feeling as you may have overstepped............ |
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