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Timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wish there was a rating system like eBay where you could blackball time wasters, it hard enuf for a single guy on here as it is with out time wasters any one else think should have a three strike n ya out of something similar what do you guys think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK but you didn't turn up to that meet we arranged last night so I'm gonna report you and get your first strike OK?

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"OK but you didn't turn up to that meet we arranged last night so I'm gonna report you and get your first strike OK?

Yep...did the same to us...strike two.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well firstly I don't know who you are n secondly I have never not attended an arrange meeting I have manner s

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And you're out OP.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Well firstly I don't know who you are n secondly I have never not attended an arrange meeting I have manner s"

That's the point, anyone can say it, doesn't make it so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wish there was a rating system like eBay where you could blackball time wasters, it hard enuf for a single guy on here as it is with out time wasters any one else think should have a three strike n ya out of something similar what do you guys think."

What do you mean by time wasters?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Well firstly I don't know who you are n secondly I have never not attended an arrange meeting I have manner s"

But who's to say? I've been reported as fake for rejecting people, so...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Well firstly I don't know who you are n secondly I have never not attended an arrange meeting I have manner s"

They're showing you why it would never work. People would make shit up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well firstly I don't know who you are n secondly I have never not attended an arrange meeting I have manner s"

They’re trying to show you how easy it would be to abuse that system

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some think needs to be done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And that's why it wouldn't work....

it'll be badly used just to get rid of people.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Some think needs to be done"

What do you suggest that wouldn't be abused by those who won't take no for an answer?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

In the single man's dictionary I saw this ....... TIMEWASTER = Someone who didn't shag me when I asked, which was NOW.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some think needs to be done"

Why?

We're all adults here and we should all be aware of the perils of using the internet to meet people.

The site is here to host on a social/introductory level not to police its users.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Some think needs to be done"

Yes it does! And that is YOUR responsibility to change your strategies.

Choose more wisely.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Some think needs to be done

Why?

We're all adults here and we should all be aware of the perils of using the internet to meet people.

The site is here to host on a social/introductory level not to police its users. "

Yes. We're all adults. You take your chances.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

The perils of any site like this and ive been on a few are sorting the wheat from the chaff,spend more time chatting to people for ages thinking this is going well for them to either never meet ,or just go silent ,my time is as precious as anyones so its annoying and dishearting ,BUT i will plod on as ive had 2 fab meets on here with a further on the cards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know when its frustrating and you just want all timewasters dealt with. So I get you, but such a feature would be heavily exploited

Just block and move on

I had one when we talked for a week then I was blocked few days before the meet. Way I see it, She did the blocking for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well firstly I don't know who you are n secondly I have never not attended an arrange meeting I have manner s"
thats the point anyone can say anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your own fault for not having a substitute on standby

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Blaming the victim seems to be depending on the scenario on here

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Admin already have a system in place...if you report people Admin will take a look

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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