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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Both. Some people are just naturally confident, some people it just oozes out of them with everything they do.
Some people gain it from others etc.
You just need to find what gives you yours and embrace it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both. It’s got to come from the inside. Think of something you do that you’re confident about. How does it make you feel knowing you’re good at it? Analysise your emotions and learn to transfer them to their parts of your life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say the most inappropriate things given the situation I’m in sometimes but that’s just a nervousness of wanting not to do/say the wrong this but then saying or doing it anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s the duality of it that I find intriguing- as in I’ve felt unconfident but been told I externally appear so and on other occasions felt confident but it doesn’t seem to appear so.
To clarify I’m quietly confident but just fascinated by what it is |
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"It’s the duality of it that I find intriguing- as in I’ve felt unconfident but been told I externally appear so and on other occasions felt confident but it doesn’t seem to appear so.
To clarify I’m quietly confident but just fascinated by what it is "
Personally I think it has a lot to do with liking yourself and believing yourself to be good enough coupled with not being too concerned what other people think of you |
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"It’s the duality of it that I find intriguing- as in I’ve felt unconfident but been told I externally appear so and on other occasions felt confident but it doesn’t seem to appear so.
To clarify I’m quietly confident but just fascinated by what it is "
I get told that I appear confident even though I don't feel it. I talk a lot with nerves so maybe that's why? People can often have a different view to how we see ourselves x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's when you don't care about other people's opinions and love who you are confidence comes naturally after "
I care about the opinions of others and am still a very confident person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the duality of it that I find intriguing- as in I’ve felt unconfident but been told I externally appear so and on other occasions felt confident but it doesn’t seem to appear so.
To clarify I’m quietly confident but just fascinated by what it is
I get told that I appear confident even though I don't feel it. I talk a lot with nerves so maybe that's why? People can often have a different view to how we see ourselves x"
I'm exactly the same. Always told I'm a confident person...really not though x |
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"It’s the duality of it that I find intriguing- as in I’ve felt unconfident but been told I externally appear so and on other occasions felt confident but it doesn’t seem to appear so.
To clarify I’m quietly confident but just fascinated by what it is
I get told that I appear confident even though I don't feel it. I talk a lot with nerves so maybe that's why? People can often have a different view to how we see ourselves x
I'm exactly the same. Always told I'm a confident person...really not though x"
It's the 'fake it till you make it' attitude I think x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence is a very quiet trait. True confidence that is. It's understatement, it need not be expressed. It's just there as a permanent driver of attitude.
It's a bit like pornography: hard to define, but one knows it when one sees it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"or dominance
So are you confident or arrogant Mr Khan?"
A bit of both sometimes Miss Incandescent.
Depends on the the conversation and who I'm having it with. I try not to be arrogant, but I'm human. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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I like confidence in a man, dominant men, strong men, alpa men. It's something about there body language doesn't need to be a spoken word. You can see it, you can feel it...  it's a sexy energy that does though my body.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confidence is a very quiet trait. True confidence that is. It's understatement, it need not be expressed. It's just there as a permanent driver of attitude.
It's a bit like pornography: hard to define, but one knows it when one sees it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confidence is a very quiet trait. True confidence that is. It's understatement, it need not be expressed. It's just there as a permanent driver of attitude.
It's a bit like pornography: hard to define, but one knows it when one sees it. "
Extremely well put.
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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago
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I'm confident in real life, i have to be because of my job. Even when i'm not confident in certain situations, i have to come across as confident, which is hard sometimes. I'm not confident on here though much prefer face to face interactions as i'm a very animated person |
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