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Making love and having sex IS IT THE SAME ?
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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago
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"making love and sex are completely different things nothing to do with a word"
Hi all I' Mi definately think the 2 are different. This site for me has nothing to do with love....other than loving sex and having loads of choice 
You get weird ones that want to pretend they are in love with you, but love is reciprical and more than just feeling comfortable with a cool couple you might get on with at a meet. Mi x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. "
so john saying he need sex to me is just relief but if he do it with more passion its making love ? Next time in the middle of sex i am going to stop and ask him which one , lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"making love and sex are completely different things nothing to do with a word
Hi all I' Mi definately think the 2 are different. This site for me has nothing to do with love....other than loving sex and having loads of choice
You get weird ones that want to pretend they are in love with you, but love is reciprical and more than just feeling comfortable with a cool couple you might get on with at a meet. Mi x
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Hello you sexy woman xxx well i like sex with passion loads of lust but not in love with them maybe there body at the time , |
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By *i_sSwingWoman
over a year ago
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"yes and no,same actions different emotions "
I wouldn't necessarily say the same actions aprt from the obvious penetration there are sexual acts I won't do with people from Fab as too personal. Besides you never know what the buggars have been upto and with who? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. so john saying he need sex to me is just relief but if he do it with more passion its making love ? Next time in the middle of sex i am going to stop and ask him which one , lol "
LOL I wouldn't need to ask, I would know  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. so john saying he need sex to me is just relief but if he do it with more passion its making love ? Next time in the middle of sex i am going to stop and ask him which one , lol
LOL I wouldn't need to ask, I would know "
well i think theres been alot of shagging going on , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Is it not same thing just making love is more a mind thing having more feelings. MAYBE SAYING THE LOVE WORD ?  "
I am surprised you have to ask, what me and Kev do is very different to the sex we have with people we swing with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"yes and no,same actions different emotions
I wouldn't necessarily say the same actions aprt from the obvious penetration there are sexual acts I won't do with people from Fab as too personal. Besides you never know what the buggars have been upto and with who? "
some on fab it do turn from shagging to the making love ... taken me years to get better at this , love making shagging thing , i do lust with a passion ,  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Is it not same thing just making love is more a mind thing having more feelings. MAYBE SAYING THE LOVE WORD ?
I am surprised you have to ask, what me and Kev do is very different to the sex we have with people we swing with."
well i have been married over 25 years .. we know each other well . lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nope think they are very different . making love to me is all about emotions , passions, kissing etc etc where as fucking is get your clothes off and do the business . The way i would fuck someone and the way i would make love to someone are very very different .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Is it not same thing just making love is more a mind thing having more feelings. MAYBE SAYING THE LOVE WORD ?
I am surprised you have to ask, what me and Kev do is very different to the sex we have with people we swing with. well i have been married over 25 years .. we know each other well . lol"
Not that well if you think making love and having sex is the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"nope think they are very different . making love to me is all about emotions , passions, kissing etc etc where as fucking is get your clothes off and do the business . The way i would fuck someone and the way i would make love to someone are very very different . "
I think i do both with john , maybe you do when married ? Dont you think you have more of this emotions when first together .. i love john but our sex together can be just 10 min or over a hour . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Is it not same thing just making love is more a mind thing having more feelings. MAYBE SAYING THE LOVE WORD ?
I am surprised you have to ask, what me and Kev do is very different to the sex we have with people we swing with. well i have been married over 25 years .. we know each other well . lol
Not that well if you think making love and having sex is the same thing. "
well maybe i dont think of it and just know it good , lol and get lots so i feel i shag and make love if have time , lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont know, i dont do making love i just have sex"
i think alot do . If thay say the truth . Maybe if you just love the person a 5 min leg over is making love ... But did make me think when had a person saying do i shag or make love with passion yesterday so i felt like asking here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. "
Absolutely agree 110%  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers.
Absolutely agree 110% "
Ditto! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. "
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Has "Making Love" got anything to do with having sex, apart from the fact that when making love, you may well end up having sex!
Sex is fun and we love it, but making love is different and the same... Holding hands, cuddling, talking softly and may other things are making love. Sex may be a part, but it is not necessary!
If you equate miking love with sex, what about when you are swinging?
"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. "
Spot on! |
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When ever i have sex i shag with my mind body and soul. I might not be the best shag in the world but i give it my all. To me making love to someone has nothing to do with the act of sex.
When i show jay i love him its not through sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. "
Agree 100%
No offence intended but surprised at some peoples' ideas of making love here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely two different things.
When you make love you connect with your partner so deeply that when its over you just want to cling to him and stay like that forever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From what I have understood making love can be all those loving gestures from a loving look, a little posy of flowers, through dating, foreplay, sex and the gentle afermath.
Having sex is just having sex although there may sometimes be a little overlap. |
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"I make love to my boyfriend and i have sex when i swing the emotions between the 2 are very different,still bldy good though lol  "
see i can just fuck with kev...it wud be crap if we were limited to just the hearts and flowers stuff.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hummm unsure on this one
I think it can be the same act but its the feeling behind who your doing it with that makes it different
Some times sex is just a shag end of, very cold and clinical but i have met men where its been a very intimate, intense and a very passionate, tender experience almost felt like making love but without the love 
but even tho the act can feel the same at times i do think its how you feel towards the person your with that makes it love making or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex and lovemaking are too completely different things.
Lovemaking tends to be slower, more passionate, more considerate and more intimate. Its more about both enjoying the act and meeting mentally as well as emotionally.
Sex is more selfish, less caring and is pure physical gratification |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex and lovemaking are too completely different things.
Lovemaking tends to be slower, more passionate, more considerate and more intimate. Its more about both enjoying the act and meeting mentally as well as emotionally.
Sex is more selfish, less caring and is pure physical gratification "
but you dont have to be in love with someone to do what you have described as love making and you can have a selfish pysical grarification shag with someone you love surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sex and lovemaking are too completely different things.
Lovemaking tends to be slower, more passionate, more considerate and more intimate. Its more about both enjoying the act and meeting mentally as well as emotionally.
Sex is more selfish, less caring and is pure physical gratification "
I don't agree.
Sex can be just as intimate , intense and passionate . It's the only way I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me they are two different things. Sex is sex and physical relief. Making love is a mind body and soul experience only shared with intimate lovers. "
I agree |
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