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I've just started crying!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

seeing a friend(whom ive never met),but known since probably my earliest days on the internet...we've managed to keep in touch alot throughout the 10years or so.

just seen pics shes sent, what an awful mess her face has been left in by her partner, who actually broke in while she was asleep and her kid present in the house..YEP u heard it...while she was ASLEEP!

my eyes welled up looking at her

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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so sorry to read that Paddy xx

the best to your friend x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Domestic violence is vile but sadly very common. More than 2 women a week are murdered by partners or ex's. I hope she has reported the assault to the police.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sorry to read this, hope your friend manages to get over this and is ok. Hope the bastard that done it is caught and punished.

Best wishes xxx

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By *aceytopWoman over a year ago

from a town near you

never any excuse for violence,hope your friend gets some help

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

Please see PM Paddy x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

Ahh hun...hope she is getting the help she needs, and be proud you can be there for her...hugsxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's horrible. I do hope she's given him the boot and doesn't take him back.

In between my ex and my hubby I dated this guy for a few months, he wasn't what I was looking for so I dumped him. Woke up one night with him towering over my bed. He'd just been stood there watching me sleep. He didn't lay a finger on me just alot of weeping and shouting, but he woke my babies and really scared them. Even that made me scared to go to sleep for months and I had to move house becuase I felt unsafe there.

I hope she'll be ok xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Horrendous Paddy, and tragically, an all too common story. Some women are never free from the abuse no matter where they go or when they left their partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all, im pretty much against male and female violence on eachother(and i stress EACH OTHER), but attacking someone in their sleep??????????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some nasty people about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's what I'd call cowardly and spineless. He should be jailed

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Domestic Violence is awful no matter what way, or who its aimed at

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is no place in the world for domestic violence..

it is so sad.. and to be woken like that and have a child in the house..

So very sad.. this man certainly needs locking away

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ok im probably being cynical here but if someone beat you up why would you take pics and post them round the internet?

I hate violance and i really hope shes ok but that just seems a really odd thing to do to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i did wonder if its right or wrong, nn...however ive been advocating people sharing proof of animal abuse via the internet at times, but thats about catching culprits i suppose.

I suppose people ought be careful too mind, regarding the offense as they a get in trouble too.(the pics i seen werent public i have to say)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First thing police tell you to do is get photos..

Your not exactly thinking straight when something like that happens.. you have a million thought going around in your head.. including often was it my fault, could I have prevented it.. guilt, anger, fear, so many things.. a photo taken to send to a friend who may well then want to protect them.. there is logic in that.. maybe even not aware themselves of why they would.

My suggestion would be that she is moved to somewhere he has no knowledge of where she is... it is the best way.. and a change of name can help.

May sound drastic.. but its better to be safe than sorry.

cali

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Domestic violence is horrendous. But don't forget that men are often on the receiving end of it too. Not all women are angels sadly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hell ...................

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

very true cali, and shes getting a good amount of support with family/friends, but I suppose thats almost a rare thing too!!!

and agreed violence can be two way, I never accept it from any side

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So sorry to read this, hope your friend manages to get over this and is ok. Hope the bastard that done it is caught and punished.

Best wishes xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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Aaaww thats terrible

I hope her and her child are able to get over it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's awful, I am sorry to hear it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thanks honeypot,iconic xxxx

suppose we do have feelings for people we've never met sometimes...just takes horrible things for u to realize it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes horrible horrible horrible. Gonna have to go away and take my mind of this or I am gonna have bad dreams.

Really feel for her.

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

"thanks honeypot,iconic xxxx

suppose we do have feelings for people we've never met sometimes...just takes horrible things for u to realize it x"

And this reaction to someone just known over the 'Net speaks volumes about you too..

I do hope they get over this as best they can. I hear all sorts of horrific stories like this, but I am glad to say that most I have been invloved in have reached a happy conclusion.

Thanks for sharing and I hope this thread has helped you in some small way

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By *els_BellsWoman over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Hope her and her little one are ok.

Sure she is thankful to have a supportive friend like you for her x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Domestic Violence is awful no matter what way, or who its aimed at

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the wishes to my friend, and to me all.

I don't normally have such reactions, I don't kneejerk either, all will suffer...even the perpetrator if he has any conscience to accept what he has done.

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