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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So basically i spend ages writing decent messages to people mentioning something they have in their profile or pic ect so they now its personal to them and not just a copy and paste but then my messages dont even get read.
So what can i do to get my messages read or make my profile stand out more? Women what catches your attention and makes you read a message as i know you all get a lot so cant read them all. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically i spend ages writing decent messages to people mentioning something they have in their profile or pic ect so they now its personal to them and not just a copy and paste but then my messages dont even get read.
So what can i do to get my messages read or make my profile stand out more? Women what catches your attention and makes you read a message as i know you all get a lot so cant read them all. Thanks"
Sometimes they’re not read immediately. I’ve 192 unread at the moment. I read 5 this morning and they were so gross and ridiculous that I really couldn’t be arsed to read anymore. Give it a couple days x |
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"So basically i spend ages writing decent messages to people mentioning something they have in their profile or pic ect so they now its personal to them and not just a copy and paste but then my messages dont even get read.
So what can i do to get my messages read or make my profile stand out more? Women what catches your attention and makes you read a message as i know you all get a lot so cant read them all. Thanks
Sometimes they’re not read immediately. I’ve 192 unread at the moment. I read 5 this morning and they were so gross and ridiculous that I really couldn’t be arsed to read anymore. Give it a couple days x"
Wait till you read the other 12 I sent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suck it up buttercup.
This happens I’m afraid. It’s annoying, frustrating, maybe even heart wrenching.
But those women get more messages than they can even read through |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So basically i spend ages writing decent messages to people mentioning something they have in their profile or pic ect so they now its personal to them and not just a copy and paste but then my messages dont even get read.
So what can i do to get my messages read or make my profile stand out more? Women what catches your attention and makes you read a message as i know you all get a lot so cant read them all. Thanks
Sometimes they’re not read immediately. I’ve 192 unread at the moment. I read 5 this morning and they were so gross and ridiculous that I really couldn’t be arsed to read anymore. Give it a couple days x
Wait till you read the other 12 I sent "
 . I do skim through to see if I recognise any names.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So basically i spend ages writing decent messages to people mentioning something they have in their profile or pic ect so they now its personal to them and not just a copy and paste but then my messages dont even get read.
So what can i do to get my messages read or make my profile stand out more? Women what catches your attention and makes you read a message as i know you all get a lot so cant read them all. Thanks
Sometimes they’re not read immediately. I’ve 192 unread at the moment. I read 5 this morning and they were so gross and ridiculous that I really couldn’t be arsed to read anymore. Give it a couple days x
Wait till you read the other 12 I sent
. I do skim through to see if I recognise any names. "
Oh! That just clicked  . Sun and Prosecco gone to my head!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You do nothing apart from delete messages in your sent folder. You'll be less likely to stress about them if you can't see if they've been read or not.
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"So basically i spend ages writing decent messages to people mentioning something they have in their profile or pic ect so they now its personal to them and not just a copy and paste but then my messages dont even get read.
So what can i do to get my messages read or make my profile stand out more? Women what catches your attention and makes you read a message as i know you all get a lot so cant read them all. Thanks"
Same here. I have a friendly and tailored approach to writing however they are, in essence, unsolicited so if not not read or deleted or not responded to then you just have to continue until there's a connection. It's disheartening though that you might hear complaints about trashy one-liners but if folks are complaining I don't to know them then.
Conclusion: Some would call it a numbers game. It's also the weakest communicative form of creating a connection |
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