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"Do you feel threatened by sexy single men or women at swingers party or do you have a general rule not to play with them?"
Huh? Why ever would someone NOT want to play with someone sexy?
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"Do you feel threatened by sexy single men or women at swingers party or do you have a general rule not to play with them?
Huh? Why ever would someone NOT want to play with someone sexy?
We're not on muntersRus.com, we're here on Fab to find sexy peeps to play with. "
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"Do you feel threatened by sexy single men or women at swingers party or do you have a general rule not to play with them?"
i have never felt threatened by someone good looking, if i go to a party and theres a woman there thats very good looking/nice body i do feel self conscious tho
As for good looking guys i tend not to make a move on them if i feel they are out of my league but i dont have a rule not to play with them so if they made a move on me first that would be fine |
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"Seem to be holding on to there men tighter". Could just be in your mind. Personally they would have to padlock their men to themselves and me be the only other woman in the room for that thought to even enter my head |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?"
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
That sounds more like the green eyed monster than anything threatening.... it sounds like insecurity within your own relationship, rather than an outside person being threatening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
Judging by the post you removed, "this snigle person" is you. I'd suggest the majority wouldn't be swinging if they had that attitude (always going to be the odd one here and there). Don't worry love, the swinging world can cope with you  |
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
How would they know if the person had more to offer just by looking at them |
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"Do you feel threatened by sexy single men or women at swingers party or do you have a general rule not to play with them?
Huh? Why ever would someone NOT want to play with someone sexy?
We're not on muntersRus.com, we're here on Fab to find sexy peeps to play with. "
Dear god we actually agree
i can be shy around women i fancy...always have been, but never threatened, i just like them to make the first move...mind you that may be cos i'm sub, i like everyone to make the first move...
Why do i sense a hint of whipping up yet another controvery with the swingers are fat and ugly and cant get a shag any other way meme,,,the only one the OP hasnt done yet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I get it....other people (women) are feeling threatened by the Op....
Doesn't happen to me, but then again I'm not ever so gorgeous...
I do hope to be one day"
s'ok Jane, I'd shag ya, but you have to wear a I Luv Cam the Man t-shirt. It's a little fet thing I have.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
Judging by the post you removed, "this snigle person" is you. I'd suggest the majority wouldn't be swinging if they had that attitude (always going to be the odd one here and there). Don't worry love, the swinging world can cope with you "
I''m not single lol I have plenty men and woman in my poly relationship lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
Ahhh got you now and no I have never felt like that because Jet has never ever made me feel that way, I dont give 2 hoots who he looks at while we out thats all part of the fun and as its me who goes home with him at end of night he can look and touch away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
That sounds more like the green eyed monster than anything threatening.... it sounds like insecurity within your own relationship, rather than an outside person being threatening."
I have a healthy poly household and jealousy is just a emotion one have when feeling threatened as I am not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
oh yeah i get that a lot, lots of women in couples dont like single females as they think they are predators just after their man
personally i think that just a case of insecurities within a relationship and if you feel like that maybe your shouldnt be swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
Have you found others intimidated by your presence as a single person at a party or are you asking from the couples point of _iew?
Do you mean a man may fancy getting together with you and his wife/partner is looking daggers at you?
Or your man is the one doing the looking and you feel not as sexy as the female he is looking at? |
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
If anyone feels like this they shouldnt be swinging...all people here can offer me is sex and sometimes friendship, not love, total acceptance and deep everlasting bond that a life partner can.
People with insecurities and jealousy issues really need to tread very carefully if they are trying swinging...you need to be secure in yourself...
An example from my swinging life of a couple who got it...i was playing with a couple and started going down on the guy, she asked me very politely if i swallowed , on finding out i loved it she sat back and watched...till i had a very nice mouthful of cum...she then gave me a massive hug, and with the most joyful look on her face explained she gagged and hated the taste of spunk...and her hubby loved bjs. i offered something she could not do and she was over the moon about it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
Judging by the post you removed, "this snigle person" is you. I'd suggest the majority wouldn't be swinging if they had that attitude (always going to be the odd one here and there). Don't worry love, the swinging world can cope with you
I''m not single lol I have plenty men and woman in my poly relationship lol"
I'm just going by your previous post where you talked about entering parties as a single woman. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you feel threatened by sexy single men or women at swingers party or do you have a general rule not to play with them?
Huh? Why ever would someone NOT want to play with someone sexy?
We're not on muntersRus.com, we're here on Fab to find sexy peeps to play with.
Dear god we actually agree
i can be shy around women i fancy...always have been, but never threatened, i just like them to make the first move...mind you that may be cos i'm sub, i like everyone to make the first move...
Why do i sense a hint of whipping up yet another controvery with the swingers are fat and ugly and cant get a shag any other way meme,,,the only one the OP hasnt done yet? "
Insults is the lowest form of life and I can tell one things that I am not  |
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
Judging by the post you removed, "this snigle person" is you. I'd suggest the majority wouldn't be swinging if they had that attitude (always going to be the odd one here and there). Don't worry love, the swinging world can cope with you
I''m not single lol I have plenty men and woman in my poly relationship lol
I'm just going by your previous post where you talked about entering parties as a single woman. "
Surely if the OP is poly then they understand that feeling threatened by others is not part of the poly or swinging mentality...and that we have our needs met in different ways by different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
That sounds more like the green eyed monster than anything threatening.... it sounds like insecurity within your own relationship, rather than an outside person being threatening.
I have a healthy poly household and jealousy is just a emotion one have when feeling threatened as I am not."
Hoisted by your own petard methinks.... "jealousy is just a(n) emotion one have(Has) when feeling threatened..."
And you started by asking about feeling threatened...the implication being that IS how YOU feel... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get ya now, you're trying to suggest that other women are threatened by you.  "
Seems to me that you can only see negatively I said in my post by single men and women and not referred to me sweetie pie |
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"Do you feel threatened by sexy single men or women at swingers party or do you have a general rule not to play with them?
Huh? Why ever would someone NOT want to play with someone sexy?
We're not on muntersRus.com, we're here on Fab to find sexy peeps to play with.
Dear god we actually agree
i can be shy around women i fancy...always have been, but never threatened, i just like them to make the first move...mind you that may be cos i'm sub, i like everyone to make the first move...
Why do i sense a hint of whipping up yet another controvery with the swingers are fat and ugly and cant get a shag any other way meme,,,the only one the OP hasnt done yet?
Insults is the lowest form of life and I can tell one things that I am not "
Not sure what you mean, but there was no insult in my post...read it again... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
If anyone feels like this they shouldnt be swinging...all people here can offer me is sex and sometimes friendship, not love, total acceptance and deep everlasting bond that a life partner can.
People with insecurities and jealousy issues really need to tread very carefully if they are trying swinging...you need to be secure in yourself...
An example from my swinging life of a couple who got it...i was playing with a couple and started going down on the guy, she asked me very politely if i swallowed , on finding out i loved it she sat back and watched...till i had a very nice mouthful of cum...she then gave me a massive hug, and with the most joyful look on her face explained she gagged and hated the taste of spunk...and her hubby loved bjs. i offered something she could not do and she was over the moon about it.
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I felt really frubbly when I read that
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ok...before this thread goes baliistic, OP is your first language English...you seem to misunderstanding and badly expressing thing, looking at your grammar though there are mistakes usually made by speakers of English as a second language...if this is the case it might be worth taking more time over your posts, as you are coming across as contradictory and simply looking to wind people up at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
That sounds more like the green eyed monster than anything threatening.... it sounds like insecurity within your own relationship, rather than an outside person being threatening.
I have a healthy poly household and jealousy is just a emotion one have when feeling threatened as I am not.
Hoisted by your own petard methinks.... "jealousy is just a(n) emotion one have(Has) when feeling threatened..."
And you started by asking about feeling threatened...the implication being that IS how YOU feel... "
I feel horny as hell when I see sexy men and women especially when my chosen partner for the night wants to f@uck the cr@p out of them I am more than happy just to sit and watch them get it on at the end of the day my partner is the one that is the lucky one when he goes home with me lol and if he wants to leave with somebody else my words to them will be please be safe |
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
If anyone feels like this they shouldnt be swinging...all people here can offer me is sex and sometimes friendship, not love, total acceptance and deep everlasting bond that a life partner can.
People with insecurities and jealousy issues really need to tread very carefully if they are trying swinging...you need to be secure in yourself...
An example from my swinging life of a couple who got it...i was playing with a couple and started going down on the guy, she asked me very politely if i swallowed , on finding out i loved it she sat back and watched...till i had a very nice mouthful of cum...she then gave me a massive hug, and with the most joyful look on her face explained she gagged and hated the taste of spunk...and her hubby loved bjs. i offered something she could not do and she was over the moon about it.
I felt really frubbly when I read that
Wolf
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lubbly frubbly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO) 
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women
If anyone feels like this they shouldnt be swinging...all people here can offer me is sex and sometimes friendship, not love, total acceptance and deep everlasting bond that a life partner can.
People with insecurities and jealousy issues really need to tread very carefully if they are trying swinging...you need to be secure in yourself...
An example from my swinging life of a couple who got it...i was playing with a couple and started going down on the guy, she asked me very politely if i swallowed , on finding out i loved it she sat back and watched...till i had a very nice mouthful of cum...she then gave me a massive hug, and with the most joyful look on her face explained she gagged and hated the taste of spunk...and her hubby loved bjs. i offered something she could not do and she was over the moon about it.
I felt really frubbly when I read that
Wolf
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Awesome there is things I don't do and if somebody else can do it I say go for it |
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"I get ya now, you're trying to suggest that other women are threatened by you.
Seems to me that you can only see negatively I said in my post by single men and women and not referred to me sweetie pie"
Don't patronise me "sweet cheeks" - you deleted the post where you talked about yourself cos you realised how big headed it sounded. |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play "
hell no...though a few people have said i intimidate the hell out of them with the noise i make |
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"i dont get this post at all, is the OP saying people are threatened by them when they go parties or is it just a general question?"
General question seems people think its personal for god sake lol |
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"I get ya now, you're trying to suggest that other women are threatened by you.
Seems to me that you can only see negatively I said in my post by single men and women and not referred to me sweetie pie
Don't patronise me "sweet cheeks" - you deleted the post where you talked about yourself cos you realised how big headed it sounded. "
I saw it before it was deleted as well and responded to it accordingly  |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play "
EUREKA thank you very much |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play "
ive never seen anyone that good that their presents would stop me shagging, there aint anyone alive that good looking |
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"i dont get this post at all, is the OP saying people are threatened by them when they go parties or is it just a general question?
General question seems people think its personal for god sake lol "
The post you chose to delete gave out exactly that message....
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"I get ya now, you're trying to suggest that other women are threatened by you.
Seems to me that you can only see negatively I said in my post by single men and women and not referred to me sweetie pie
Don't patronise me "sweet cheeks" - you deleted the post where you talked about yourself cos you realised how big headed it sounded. "
I deleted the post as I found what I tried to say did not make sense in my own head lol |
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"i dont get this post at all, is the OP saying people are threatened by them when they go parties or is it just a general question?"
I'm still waiting for that answer too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont get this post at all, is the OP saying people are threatened by them when they go parties or is it just a general question?
General question seems people think its personal for god sake lol "
Because in the deleted post your referred to yourself setting foot in a party? Perhaps that could be it? |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much "
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go |
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I felt really frubbly when I read that
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lubbly frubbly?
pmsl - no. Honestly that was touching "
i always remember that with a hug smile...and it does sum up the essence of not being threatened to me. |
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Yes I had been in situations before where I felt that a people might feel threatened not by my looks lol as if i had any, but by with my openness about my own sexuality and personality lol the first thing I do I introduce myself to every single person in the room and spent 5minutes with them afterwards it's up to them how they feel about me most times when I do go to a party I go for the conversations and the wine lol |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go "
I have and hopefully never feel like that I was wondering if people do feel like that |
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"i dont get this post at all, is the OP saying people are threatened by them when they go parties or is it just a general question?
I'm still waiting for that answer too. "
General question |
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I felt really frubbly when I read that
Wolf
lubbly frubbly?
pmsl - no. Honestly that was touching
i always remember that with a hug smile...and it does sum up the essence of not being threatened to me. "
(sorry... trying not to take space up on the thread, but...)
it's beautiful Jem, makes it all worth while and humbling at the same time... and I've lost the emote for a heart... darnit... 3
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go
I have and hopefully never feel like that I was wondering if people do feel like that"
nah, im 37, over weight, have saggy bits and stretch marks, when i go to a party its a foregone conclusion before i get there most of the women will be better looking than me lol
Im not perfect and i dont claim to be you have to accept what you have and make the most of it, not dwell on looking like something your never going to be, whats the point in that? |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go
I have and hopefully never feel like that I was wondering if people do feel like that
nah, im 37, over weight, have saggy bits and stretch marks, when i go to a party its a foregone conclusion before i get there most of the women will be better looking than me lol
Im not perfect and i dont claim to be you have to accept what you have and make the most of it, not dwell on looking like something your never going to be, whats the point in that?"
Nothing like embracing yourself and most of all Love yourself |
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Never felt threatened but have felt that they were out of my league, on a couple of occaisions.
Other times I've felt the opposite, like I'm punching above my weight, lol
Maybe this is what the poster means  |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go
I have and hopefully never feel like that I was wondering if people do feel like that
nah, im 37, over weight, have saggy bits and stretch marks, when i go to a party its a foregone conclusion before i get there most of the women will be better looking than me lol
Im not perfect and i dont claim to be you have to accept what you have and make the most of it, not dwell on looking like something your never going to be, whats the point in that?"
stop that i think your a lovely woman x and so do alot x why you have pics fabed over 100s of times here thay like the look of you x in person your a nice woman . x sexy too .. xxx |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go
I have and hopefully never feel like that I was wondering if people do feel like that
nah, im 37, over weight, have saggy bits and stretch marks, when i go to a party its a foregone conclusion before i get there most of the women will be better looking than me lol
Im not perfect and i dont claim to be you have to accept what you have and make the most of it, not dwell on looking like something your never going to be, whats the point in that?"
At least you are real, not plastic, most women of our age have some wobbly saggy bits and stretch marks- most men prefer real women with real confidence, it makes up for the lack of perfection, in my experience! |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go
I have and hopefully never feel like that I was wondering if people do feel like that
nah, im 37, over weight, have saggy bits and stretch marks, when i go to a party its a foregone conclusion before i get there most of the women will be better looking than me lol
Im not perfect and i dont claim to be you have to accept what you have and make the most of it, not dwell on looking like something your never going to be, whats the point in that? stop that i think your a lovely woman x and so do alot x why you have pics fabed over 100s of times here thay like the look of you x in person your a nice woman . x sexy too .. xxx"
but thats my point, everyoen see sexy and attraction different so you could be sat looking at some women thinking. god shes gorgeous how can i play while shes here and she could be looking at you thinking the same
as i said you have to just accept yourself and make the best of what you have and get on with it |
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"i kinda get what the ops getting at here(ATLEAST I THINK I DO)
think they mean do these sexy fcukers bring out ur own insecurities to a point u`d not play
EUREKA thank you very much
why would you swing if you felt like that, no matter what you look like theres going to be people better looking than yourself, if your going to run off and hide every time you see someone with a nice body and good looks you may as well pack up now because it happens everywhere you go
I have and hopefully never feel like that I was wondering if people do feel like that
nah, im 37, over weight, have saggy bits and stretch marks, when i go to a party its a foregone conclusion before i get there most of the women will be better looking than me lol
Im not perfect and i dont claim to be you have to accept what you have and make the most of it, not dwell on looking like something your never going to be, whats the point in that?
At least you are real, not plastic, most women of our age have some wobbly saggy bits and stretch marks- most men prefer real women with real confidence, it makes up for the lack of perfection, in my experience! "
fook me Im in then got more saggy wobbly bits and stretch marks than a saggy wobbly thing from saggywobblyville |
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"fook me Im in then got more saggy wobbly bits and stretch marks than a saggy wobbly thing from saggywobblyville "
Thats utter bollox.
I have met you and NN and both of you have good bodies, but the lack of confidence doesn't do you any favours.
Look at me, my body really isn't all that, but I used to get really hot men, punching way above my weight, because I had the confidence to go and get it! |
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"fook me Im in then got more saggy wobbly bits and stretch marks than a saggy wobbly thing from saggywobblyville
Thats utter bollox.
I have met you and NN and both of you have good bodies, but the lack of confidence doesn't do you any favours.
Look at me, my body really isn't all that, but I used to get really hot men, punching way above my weight, because I had the confidence to go and get it!"
Hey the only bit of my body I not happy with is me spotty bum other than that I love me ,will admit to not being confident enough to wear skimpy things but get me naked and I am happy as a pig in shit just dont look at me spots |
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I know I can't really answer, as I am single right now and fairly new this scene.
...but I hate feeling left out of the threads
so...
I never used to feel at all 'threatened' when I was with my EX, anywhere we went, if he saw a pretty girl he was free to comment as much and I would even point out anyone who looked his type. I guess I had that secure feeling that people are talking about here.
Unfortunately, we were not Swingers and he ended up being unfaithful.
I've stayed single since then, but would love to think if I ever hooked up again, I could have that secure feeling and enjoy the swinging life with someone special.
If I found it difficult, I guess I would give up on the swinging idea.
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I have met you and NN and both of you have good bodies, but the lack of confidence doesn't do you any favours.
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never done me any harm i still get more offers than i can shake a stick at lol
To be honest i think with me sometimes im more just honest and blunt rather than un confident
Im not perfect and i dont have a great body but i dont mean that in a ...oh wooooow all feel sorry for me way lol i dont sit around moping about it i just mean it in a way that this is me and if your looking to meet you have to be honest
I am a happy person and i love my life at the mo, infact its the best its been for a long time, but i aint perfect so theres no point pretending i am
if that makes sence
but when i go out tho i may look at a young women with a great body and think ...bitch i dont mean it nasty and no it wouldnt put me off playing |
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"Hey the only bit of my body I not happy with is me spotty bum other than that I love me ,will admit to not being confident enough to wear skimpy things but get me naked and I am happy as a pig in shit just dont look at me spots "
go on, show us your spotty arse |
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"Hey the only bit of my body I not happy with is me spotty bum other than that I love me ,will admit to not being confident enough to wear skimpy things but get me naked and I am happy as a pig in shit just dont look at me spots
go on, show us your spotty arse "
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Years ago I was at Chams on a web social night and one of the guys was having a really miserable evening, so I asked him what was wrong. He looked at himself and said, "Look at me, who's going to want to play with this!"
He was a BIG guy.
I looked around and saw a woman who must have been a size 20+ in a fishnet bodysuit having an absolutely fantastic evening and said, "Look at her, being big doesn't bother her does it?"
He said, "You're right, might as well get stuck in then."
He had lots of fun after that. |
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"Years ago I was at Chams on a web social night and one of the guys was having a really miserable evening, so I asked him what was wrong. He looked at himself and said, "Look at me, who's going to want to play with this!"
He was a BIG guy.
I looked around and saw a woman who must have been a size 20+ in a fishnet bodysuit having an absolutely fantastic evening and said, "Look at her, being big doesn't bother her does it?"
He said, "You're right, might as well get stuck in then."
He had lots of fun after that."
you get lots of people like that and i dont get why they go. ive been out having a fag on many occasions and heard women moaning about how they look, why would you go to a club and put yourself down in such a way?
When i go to clubs i dont sit monaing about my inperfections, you leave that side of you in the locker i go to have a good time, so i get my gear on and go see who i can abuse |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you feel threatened by sexy single men or women at swingers party or do you have a general rule not to play with them?"
No i never feel threatened, and i have only ever played with people that i deem to be sexy |
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No I dont feel threatened.. I live with the fact that my Master sexually likes young ( under 25, I am 36) slim ( 10-12, I am a size 18)women.. these are the women that he likes to chat up.. he may budge on the age.. but rarely the size.. I know his type when we are out.. I know which women he will go for..
But I love that he can still get the attentions and offers from these young sexy women but I am the only one he truly has eyes for..
Same in reverse.. Master loves me with sexy younger guys.. so no.. we dont feel threatened..
I do on occassion get jealous but its not normally that.. it can actually be over silly things.. but its not the bad type..
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"No I dont feel threatened.. I live with the fact that my Master sexually likes young ( under 25, I am 36) slim ( 10-12, I am a size 18)women.. these are the women that he likes to chat up.. he may budge on the age.. but rarely the size.. I know his type when we are out.. I know which women he will go for..
But I love that he can still get the attentions and offers from these young sexy women but I am the only one he truly has eyes for..
Same in reverse.. Master loves me with sexy younger guys.. so no.. we dont feel threatened..
I do on occassion get jealous but its not normally that.. it can actually be over silly things.. but its not the bad type..
Cali "
The dynamics of master slave relationship is in a league of its own |
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"Yes I had been in situations before where I felt that a people might feel threatened not by my looks lol as if i had any, but by with my openness about my own sexuality and personality lol the first thing I do I introduce myself to every single person in the room and spent 5minutes with them afterwards it's up to them how they feel about me most times when I do go to a party I go for the conversations and the wine lol "
ah, now this is the kind of person we like at our gatherings. However, I have to admit that I have felt slightly intimidated, not really treatened by the sexual openess and voracity of some people because although I am quite outgoing, I am kind of picky about what I like in sex and in a person and those who aren't perturb me quite honestly. |
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over a year ago
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"In what way do you mean threatened by?
What i mean by threatened is that this single person might have more than you can offer and your partner cant seem to get their eyes off them and you cling onto you partner more than ever kind of threatened by sexy single men and women "
No have never felt threatened like that by singles or couples.
Might have thought a few times 'Wish I had her body' etc
Think if a woman or man feels like that, then they really shouldn't be swinging. |
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"maybe she self she was doing all the other women a favour by leaving and giving the rest of us a chance "
true when we arent all poly pan sex goddesses we need to be grateful
btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show |
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show "
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy |
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I don't feel threatened at all in clubs, when I go, get my gear on, strut my stuff, I feel gorgeous and sexy. Yes in other peoples eyes I'm not, but that's immaterial as long as you feel it yourself.
Yes I might see a woman and think 'she's got a fantastic body' but I continue to shake my own big ass, at least there's more of it to shake.
I think women who can easily be appreciative of other women, not find it difficult to give a woman a compliment and mean it, are usually confident in themselves. There are women who never compliment others, stare at them but would die rather than admit other women are attractive. Those are the ones with the issues |
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy "
yaeh errrrr did think that after i posted 
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy
yaeh errrrr did think that after i posted
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I did exactly the same The post she removed was all about how, when she's been to parties as a single, the wives all grip their husbands' arms a little tighter etc and I couldn't help thinking.....really? |
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy
yaeh errrrr did think that after i posted
I did exactly the same The post she removed was all about how, when she's been to parties as a single, the wives all grip their husbands' arms a little tighter etc and I couldn't help thinking.....really? "
Thank god it wasn't just me |
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy
yaeh errrrr did think that after i posted
I did exactly the same The post she removed was all about how, when she's been to parties as a single, the wives all grip their husbands' arms a little tighter etc and I couldn't help thinking.....really? "
There will always be those who continue to confuse ambition with ability. |
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy
yaeh errrrr did think that after i posted
I did exactly the same The post she removed was all about how, when she's been to parties as a single, the wives all grip their husbands' arms a little tighter etc and I couldn't help thinking.....really?
Thank god it wasn't just me "
ohhh arent we bad |
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy
yaeh errrrr did think that after i posted
I did exactly the same The post she removed was all about how, when she's been to parties as a single, the wives all grip their husbands' arms a little tighter etc and I couldn't help thinking.....really?
Thank god it wasn't just me
ohhh arent we bad "
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"oh i say where did she gostrange here one day gone the next ,
not really strange we failed to fall at her feet, "
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btw was it just me or did someone think they were fitter than there pics appeared to show
funny you should say that cause i typed out a message to suggest something the same but decided against posting it incase it made me look bitchy
yaeh errrrr did think that after i posted
I did exactly the same The post she removed was all about how, when she's been to parties as a single, the wives all grip their husbands' arms a little tighter etc and I couldn't help thinking.....really?
Thank god it wasn't just me
ohhh arent we bad "
I never saw all those posts - ah perhaps suffering from delusions of grandeur then.
Its good to have confidence and feel you look great, but you have to have a degree of honesty and there are many women I see in clubs, on this site, on these forums, that I perceive to be a million times better looking than I am. But I'm happy I look like me, warts and all (not that I have any warts, I don't want to start that vicious rumour)
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Its good to have confidence and feel you look great, but you have to have a degree of honesty and there are many women I see in clubs, on this site, on these forums, that I perceive to be a million times better looking than I am. But I'm happy I look like me, warts and all (not that I have any warts, I don't want to start that vicious rumour)
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Agree with you totally Iconic, I like the woman I have become and that gives me the confidence |
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"I don't feel threatened at all in clubs, when I go, get my gear on, strut my stuff, I feel gorgeous and sexy. Yes in other peoples eyes I'm not, but that's immaterial as long as you feel it yourself.
Yes I might see a woman and think 'she's got a fantastic body' but I continue to shake my own big ass, at least there's more of it to shake.
I think women who can easily be appreciative of other women, not find it difficult to give a woman a compliment and mean it, are usually confident in themselves. There are women who never compliment others, stare at them but would die rather than admit other women are attractive. Those are the ones with the issues "
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Its good to have confidence and feel you look great, but you have to have a degree of honesty and there are many women I see in clubs, on this site, on these forums, that I perceive to be a million times better looking than I am. But I'm happy I look like me, warts and all (not that I have any warts, I don't want to start that vicious rumour)
Agree with you totally Iconic, I like the woman I have become and that gives me the confidence"
Both kev and Sir have commented how much sexier i am becoming,and they find me pretty dman sexy to start with! They both put it down to the sexiest thing going self confidence... |
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