Iv had a lot of contact on here from guys wanting me to play with their wives. I like the idea I really do but how often is it that I speak to the guy... does the wife get a say? Does the guy choose and she go along with it? I guess I’m just Naive? |
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If my husband even thought about messaging someone on behalf of me I’d be raging. My husband doesn’t choose. Why on earth would he?! I pick men. Not him.
I never understood relationships where someone picks someone for their partner. Yes, my husband knows what type of man I like. But my god, I’ll pick him. Just seems controlling imo |
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I would say approach with caution. Have had a few of these offers and chat progresses to the bloke wanting pics for himself. Not saying all couples do this before people start on me but there are baddies out there |
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You could ask to speak to her on the phone, cam or something, to check it is a couple first. Then agree to a social meet and see how relaxed she feels, see if he does all the talking etc or seems pushy. |
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"If my husband even thought about messaging someone on behalf of me I’d be raging. My husband doesn’t choose. Why on earth would he?! I pick men. Not him.
I never understood relationships where someone picks someone for their partner. Yes, my husband knows what type of man I like. But my god, I’ll pick him. Just seems controlling imo"
And in my experience, it’s mostly just men on a couples account wanting contact with another man. Come fuck my totally real wife....but show me photos and videos of yourself first so I know you’re right for her... |
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"If my husband even thought about messaging someone on behalf of me I’d be raging. My husband doesn’t choose. Why on earth would he?! I pick men. Not him.
I never understood relationships where someone picks someone for their partner. Yes, my husband knows what type of man I like. But my god, I’ll pick him. Just seems controlling imo
And in my experience, it’s mostly just men on a couples account wanting contact with another man. Come fuck my totally real wife....but show me photos and videos of yourself first so I know you’re right for her..."
And rightly so. He is very choosy on who shags his wife  |
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"Iv had a lot of contact on here from guys wanting me to play with their wives. I like the idea I really do but how often is it that I speak to the guy... does the wife get a say? Does the guy choose and she go along with it? I guess I’m just Naive? "
It depends on their dynamic. Some couples like this set up but they are few and far between. My advice would be to never get involved with a couple if the wife is unavailable to talk, the husband wants to meet you before he'll let you meet his wife, the husband wants you to seduce his wife without her knowing, the wife has had too much to drink. If everytime you ask to speak to the wife she's in the shower, gone shopping or at her mums also avoid.
For most (not all) swinging couples they're in it together and that will be obvious. |
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We only meet as a couple I mostly manage the account but who and when we meet is always down to my wife if I ever just randomly bought a guy home she would go crazy kick him out and give me a good ear bashing.
Always good idea to have social or very least chat on the phone or cam link |
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"If my husband even thought about messaging someone on behalf of me I’d be raging. My husband doesn’t choose. Why on earth would he?! I pick men. Not him.
I never understood relationships where someone picks someone for their partner. Yes, my husband knows what type of man I like. But my god, I’ll pick him. Just seems controlling imo
And in my experience, it’s mostly just men on a couples account wanting contact with another man. Come fuck my totally real wife....but show me photos and videos of yourself first so I know you’re right for her..."
This is what I worry about  |
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"If my husband even thought about messaging someone on behalf of me I’d be raging. My husband doesn’t choose. Why on earth would he?! I pick men. Not him.
I never understood relationships where someone picks someone for their partner. Yes, my husband knows what type of man I like. But my god, I’ll pick him. Just seems controlling imo
And in my experience, it’s mostly just men on a couples account wanting contact with another man. Come fuck my totally real wife....but show me photos and videos of yourself first so I know you’re right for her...
This is what I worry about "
Then don't send photos or videos of yourself. Do what you want to do whatever anybody else tells you |
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We look at profiles together, discuss if they are what we are looking for.
Ultimately, Vamp has the ‘final say’.
Occasionally, I may spot something in the profile she has not, and then we re look. |
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"How are you supposed to fuck the wife if she is unavailable?
Oh she'll be there on the day, promise! Or, oh, she's out, let's just wank... "
Or, as we had on one occasion, the wife storming out of the door, as we arrived. The guy said “I ‘forgot’ to mention you were coming over. Fancy a threesome instead?” |
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I would hope the wife gets a say! But maybe her husband having that control is something she likes? I would have to speak to her anyway to make sure she's happy with the arrangement
I wouldn't like my partner picking and me having no say in the matter. I'm very fussy and know what I like better than anyone else. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"If my husband even thought about messaging someone on behalf of me I’d be raging. My husband doesn’t choose. Why on earth would he?! I pick men. Not him.
I never understood relationships where someone picks someone for their partner. Yes, my husband knows what type of man I like. But my god, I’ll pick him. Just seems controlling imo"
Wee temptress (Good lady wife) would have my balls for earrings if I did that lol she has a mind of her own and is more than capable of choosing for herself  |
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"Iv had a lot of contact on here from guys wanting me to play with their wives. I like the idea I really do but how often is it that I speak to the guy... does the wife get a say? Does the guy choose and she go along with it? I guess I’m just Naive? "
They're probably just fed up with never getting a say in what's on the tv and they want their wife out of the way for a night.
Was there an increase during the cricket world cup? |
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"Iv had a lot of contact on here from guys wanting me to play with their wives. I like the idea I really do but how often is it that I speak to the guy... does the wife get a say? Does the guy choose and she go along with it? I guess I’m just Naive? "
My wife is totally aware of my FS profile and is very happy for me to find guys for her, she just doesn't want to be on here herself.
She's also trusts my judgement in who I choose. |
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