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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what do you read on someone’s profile or what do they tell you in the first few messages that automatically gives them more of a chance? Perhaps not the normal things people would go for?
I find myself giving extra brownie points to single fathers. No idea why but all that masculinity and then that caring, nurturing side too...  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Honestly I've never even thought about that.
I know I'm instantly drawn to "different" profiles. Just general things that are not seen on many others. Be it a joke, something about them, the way they use words etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who don’t have any “action” photos. Lingerie or great boxers/shorts not naked in a toilet.
Also someone who references my profile and isn’t cut and paste message or crude |
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"So what do you read on someone’s profile or what do they tell you in the first few messages that automatically gives them more of a chance? Perhaps not the normal things people would go for?
I find myself giving extra brownie points to single fathers. No idea why but all that masculinity and then that caring, nurturing side too... "
Monkey needs another notebook |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something like
"I’m looking for a tall man. Minimum 5 foot 11 and this isn’t open to discussion. A playmate who can make me laugh. Someone who enjoys gin (or equivalent), having a giggle and has no problem acting the fool.
But wait.
Notice the word ‘acting’. This ideal man has a working brain and likes to debate and discuss over wine, beer, coffee and/or chocolate cake. Got it so far?
Let’s talk about sex. I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable to switch. I’ll be your whore if you’ll be mine 
I need a lover of lingerie, suspenders and stockings as my bedroom look is slutty chic. Appreciate me, adore me, watch me as I will be watching you.
If you think you fit, get in touch and let’s play..."
Would make me want to fuck them silly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like profiles that don't just have a list of what they want or don't want, mainly though I like the more consise profiles. Short and sweet does me and sure if we chat I can find out more about you
Also, redheads are awesome  |
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"I like profiles that don't just have a list of what they want or don't want, mainly though I like the more consise profiles. Short and sweet does me and sure if we chat I can find out more about you
Also, redheads are awesome "
Monkey nods knowingly ... then hides Red from zipper   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something like
"I’m looking for a tall man. Minimum 5 foot 11 and this isn’t open to discussion. A playmate who can make me laugh. Someone who enjoys gin (or equivalent), having a giggle and has no problem acting the fool.
But wait.
Notice the word ‘acting’. This ideal man has a working brain and likes to debate and discuss over wine, beer, coffee and/or chocolate cake. Got it so far?
Let’s talk about sex. I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable to switch. I’ll be your whore if you’ll be mine
I need a lover of lingerie, suspenders and stockings as my bedroom look is slutty chic. Appreciate me, adore me, watch me as I will be watching you.
If you think you fit, get in touch and let’s play..."
Would make me want to fuck them silly"
I’ll have you for copyright Mister.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something like
"I’m looking for a tall man. Minimum 5 foot 11 and this isn’t open to discussion. A playmate who can make me laugh. Someone who enjoys gin (or equivalent), having a giggle and has no problem acting the fool.
But wait.
Notice the word ‘acting’. This ideal man has a working brain and likes to debate and discuss over wine, beer, coffee and/or chocolate cake. Got it so far?
Let’s talk about sex. I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable to switch. I’ll be your whore if you’ll be mine
I need a lover of lingerie, suspenders and stockings as my bedroom look is slutty chic. Appreciate me, adore me, watch me as I will be watching you.
If you think you fit, get in touch and let’s play..."
Would make me want to fuck them silly
I’ll have you for copyright Mister.."
you know'd let me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like profiles that don't just have a list of what they want or don't want, mainly though I like the more consise profiles. Short and sweet does me and sure if we chat I can find out more about you
Also, redheads are awesome "
This is what I mean, so redheads it is |
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No action shots and a majority not involving genitals.
Profile text where they've thought about how they sell themselves to others. Insight into personality.
Things we might have in common.
Sometimes types of verifications.
Although honestly my message judgement comes first and that's most of the sudden death for me... |
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"I like profiles that don't just have a list of what they want or don't want, mainly though I like the more consise profiles. Short and sweet does me and sure if we chat I can find out more about you
Also, redheads are awesome
This is what I mean, so redheads it is "
Oh yes ... redheads... mmmm ... redheads  |
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By *0FrankMan
over a year ago
The South! |
"Something like
"I’m looking for a tall man. Minimum 5 foot 11 and this isn’t open to discussion. A playmate who can make me laugh. Someone who enjoys gin (or equivalent), having a giggle and has no problem acting the fool.
But wait.
Notice the word ‘acting’. This ideal man has a working brain and likes to debate and discuss over wine, beer, coffee and/or chocolate cake. Got it so far?
Let’s talk about sex. I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable to switch. I’ll be your whore if you’ll be mine
I need a lover of lingerie, suspenders and stockings as my bedroom look is slutty chic. Appreciate me, adore me, watch me as I will be watching you.
If you think you fit, get in touch and let’s play..."
Would make me want to fuck them silly"
Well played sir. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Localish
Able to accommodate
Pics....teasing ones catch my eye, if their room is tidy and what their wallpaper is like. If their profile is written in a light hearted way that's a bonus, although there's a fine line between jovial and coming across like an immature oik  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like profiles that don't just have a list of what they want or don't want, mainly though I like the more consise profiles. Short and sweet does me and sure if we chat I can find out more about you
Also, redheads are awesome
This is what I mean, so redheads it is
Oh yes ... redheads... mmmm ... redheads "
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Like to see a bit of a caring compasionate side so guys with dogs works.
Hate those who are so far up their own arse they can't see out.
Handsome guys, who don't realise how dishy they are.
Not the ones that have 'been here before and know the score' 
Jo x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Like to see a bit of a caring compasionate side so guys with dogs works.
Hate those who are so far up their own arse they can't see out.
Handsome guys, who don't realise how dishy they are.
Not the ones that have 'been here before and know the score'
Jo x "
Yeah this puts me right off too.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Localish
Able to accommodate
Pics....teasing ones catch my eye, if their room is tidy and what their wallpaper is like. If their profile is written in a light hearted way that's a bonus, although there's a fine line between jovial and coming across like an immature oik "
I hate pics where you can see the toilet |
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"Like to see a bit of a caring compasionate side so guys with dogs works.
Hate those who are so far up their own arse they can't see out.
Handsome guys, who don't realise how dishy they are.
Not the ones that have 'been here before and know the score'
Jo x "
Monkey looks forward to going home to his 2 spaniels  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like profiles that don't just have a list of what they want or don't want, mainly though I like the more consise profiles. Short and sweet does me and sure if we chat I can find out more about you
Also, redheads are awesome
This is what I mean, so redheads it is
Oh yes ... redheads... mmmm ... redheads
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Redheads...a rusty roof, always means a wet basement.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love to read the following
“ Single female with own strap on looking for proper Bi guy / TV to pay back for all the anal I’ve taken over the years. “
I’ve yet to see it on any profile "
Snort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what do you read on someone’s profile or what do they tell you in the first few messages that automatically gives them more of a chance? Perhaps not the normal things people would go for?
I find myself giving extra brownie points to single fathers. No idea why but all that masculinity and then that caring, nurturing side too... "
No veris are a plus, pics that leave a little to the imagination are good,a witty write up |
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The first two things I tend to look for are that they can accommodate (not a 100% deal breaker but makes life soooo much easier) and that they've ticked safe sex in their interest options.
Then i like to actually see some profile text. Putting even a few sentences about yourself and what you're looking for puts you instantly above most of the guys on this site.
If their profile text makes them appear to have a sense of humour and they mention anything about wanting a regular play mate/ wanting to find someone they get on with or click with or anything that seems to suggest they're not looking to have a string of one off encounters where they barely know each other's name. No judgment, that's just not for me.
If on top of them they mentioned anything about BDSM or shared any if the same kinks as me then I think I'd be smitten haha. |
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By *0FrankMan
over a year ago
The South! |
Some people come across as brutal on their profile... Almost unapproachable... But then I guess that's the idea...
For me I like to see... South of Staffordshire... Similar interests... Maybe some adventurous pics... I saw pics of a fabber topless in a barn and I thought that was fun...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First I check if the lady is bi, I've been guilty of getting a little moist looking at pics then realise they're straight!
Teasing well taken pics and funny biogs work too.
An avatar of a dark bearded man with tattoos will draw me in...
I'm not shallow 
Peach x |
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"Well this thread is a goldmine for anyone needing to update their profile "
God woman would you stop changing your profile picture you’ve been giving me heart palpitations all day. Phewwwwww anyone got any ice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Localish
Able to accommodate
Pics....teasing ones catch my eye, if their room is tidy and what their wallpaper is like. If their profile is written in a light hearted way that's a bonus, although there's a fine line between jovial and coming across like an immature oik "
ImmatureOiksRUs |
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"Like to see a bit of a caring compasionate side so guys with dogs works.
Hate those who are so far up their own arse they can't see out.
Handsome guys, who don't realise how dishy they are.
Not the ones that have 'been here before and know the score'
Jo x
Monkey looks forward to going home to his 2 spaniels "
Awwww, we have a spaniel too x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well this thread is a goldmine for anyone needing to update their profile
God woman would you stop changing your profile picture you’ve been giving me heart palpitations all day. Phewwwwww anyone got any ice "
Sorry need to do some new pics. Bored of mine |
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"Well this thread is a goldmine for anyone needing to update their profile
God woman would you stop changing your profile picture you’ve been giving me heart palpitations all day. Phewwwwww anyone got any ice
Sorry need to do some new pics. Bored of mine "
Bored o no no no I’ll be right down with my camera and cake |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well this thread is a goldmine for anyone needing to update their profile
God woman would you stop changing your profile picture you’ve been giving me heart palpitations all day. Phewwwwww anyone got any ice
Sorry need to do some new pics. Bored of mine
Bored o no no no I’ll be right down with my camera and cake "
You I have to meet in the summer. |
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"Well this thread is a goldmine for anyone needing to update their profile
God woman would you stop changing your profile picture you’ve been giving me heart palpitations all day. Phewwwwww anyone got any ice
Sorry need to do some new pics. Bored of mine
Bored o no no no I’ll be right down with my camera and cake
You I have to meet in the summer."
Absolutly. But ssshhh. Keep it secret or everyone will want to come |
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