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over a year ago
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"Ogling sounds kind of lecherous and creepy... no, I don't care for it. I like good attention from people. Well meaning compliments. Not a man addressing my tits with my name."
I would prefer they called lurking on here ogling instead though, in that respect I think it doesn't sound as creepy lol |
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"Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle "
When people can notice it I guess. Its easy to check someone out when your out and about without being obvious about it. When the person or others around can see what your doing it means its prolonged or unsubtle and moves into creepyville |
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"Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle
When it's more than a passing glance. 
Jo.Xx "
Had to check you out Jo promise no ogling but close to more than just a passing glance hehe |
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"No one ogles me
Let me tell you guys ...they do sod off they dont x
I would be happy to ogle you Kelly just let me know whenever you wish to be ogled  "
woo hoo im feeling all flustered thank you  |
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Randomly in public? No, I hate it, whatever you call it. I'm off to Boots to buy something embarrassing (not now), please stop being so obvious thinking about banging me. (or just, I'm a person being a person with things to do)
It can be awesome with a bit of context though. A look that lingers a bit too long during a Fab social (that isn't just about sex), the appreciative look when I'm meeting a Fab friend. |
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Worse are when comments happen. "oh baby you look too pretty to be sad, smile for me!" a) my natural resting face looks unhappy. Deal. b) This has a funny way of happening more after I've had bad news or a shitty day. I'm sorry I'm concentrating more on the awful doctor's appointment I've been to, or the pain I'm in, and not your penis |
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It's natural to take notice of people around you but generally an unpleasant behaviour when people decide instead to stare, without responsibility for someone's care. Let your noticing of others just remain close to the subconscious levels that we have for everybody around us.
It can be frightening for some, who may have also had men objectify and attack them. There are plenty of models who are happy for you to enjoy their work and qualities. And, if you have what it takes, engage appropriately with and attract people to you, instead of repulsing or scaring others. |
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Okay... yes.. but not every ogle is an ogle... i generally realise too late that ive looked for too long. Or at least i feel like i have.
The woes of being both a daydreamer and on the spectrum. |
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"Okay... yes.. but not every ogle is an ogle... i generally realise too late that ive looked for too long. Or at least i feel like i have.
The woes of being both a daydreamer and on the spectrum."
I appreciate that, although on the other end I still don't like it, you know?
I don't say anything unless they engage with me. I know mistakes happen. |
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"Suppose checking somebody out is more acceptable than ogling. Just when does a checking out turn into an ogle
When it's more than a passing glance.
Jo.Xx "
Then we have definitely ogled you !!! xx |
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