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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You not scared ov catching 1?"
Naturally... But like most swingers on here are more aware of sexual health matters than our vanilla friends, we practice the safest sex possible and get regular checks...;-)
Be afraid... It could save your life...;-);-) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Condoms cant save you from crabs, is there somebody who checks ppl arm pits chest and pubic area when a person arrives at a swingers club, i dont think so!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms cant save you from crabs, is there somebody who checks ppl arm pits chest and pubic area when a person arrives at a swingers club, i dont think so!!!!!!"
Bouncers don't check ppl for crabs at normal niteclubs either. What's your point?  |
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"Condoms cant save you from crabs, is there somebody who checks ppl arm pits chest and pubic area when a person arrives at a swingers club, i dont think so!!!!!!"
I think most people on a swingers site will have at least thought about issues of sexual health, and I would have thought that most know that even using condoms isn't a guarantee that you won't catch an STD. You can only do what you can to keep safe. As for crabs ...no I wouln't like to catch them...but they aren't exactly life-threatening so would be fairly easy to get sorted if it did happen. Be aware rather than afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Caught crabs yrs ago from a fem she had nice job v v clean house"
Once instance years ago shouldn't blur your views this much. It's made you aware sure, and it's good to be aware, but you should also be aware that swingers are probably the most std-aware section of society along with sex industry workers. |
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" I'd never had thought that someone would worry more about pubic lice than actual std's .... that has made me chuckle no end "
i'm guessing you've never been nipped by a crabs claw ???
owwwwwwwww
not that there's much room for one in my pants though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am just saying you cud be the cleanest person ever but u dont check everybody do you they may dress nice and chat nice but hav they crabs hmmmmm"
Let us know how you get on at your first meet from here when you ask to check armpits and gentials for crabs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you here to meet people?
If you are then take responsiblity for your own sexual health by getting regular checks
If you're going to be paranoid about anysort of sexual contact then surely this is'nt the place for you to be
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you here to meet people?
If you are then take responsiblity for your own sexual health by getting regular checks
If you're going to be paranoid about anysort of sexual contact then surely this is'nt the place for you to be
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well 20 years of being a dirty girl and not caught anything.
Interesting fact about crabs... If you drop them on a body they will always head down. They dont live anywhere else... And the other lice are body lice...
Do I worry... Not so much. I regularly check myself at the clinic. Sorry for op for catching them... Should check people out more carefully.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You not scared ov catching 1?"
wouldnt say scared
we are all awear of STIs, all you can do it protect yourself the best you can and hope its good enough
And if you do catch something go get it treated
what else can you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but you dont check everybody and 1 person cud pass it too many of you
Simple solution if you're that bothered - don't have sex! 100% success rate in avoiding stis."
i was thinking this, some people come on here and are so paranoid of what others are doing and have i wonder why they are here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes, i have a healthy fear of catching an STD it keeps me vigilant... and u know what.. crabs,,, curable... so are the majority of STD's you can catch while wearing a condom... its a risk you take when you play like this... i get regular checks when active and semi regular checks when not active keeps everyone safer... if i was too afraid to do anything because of what might happen i would never leave my bed... |
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Life is about risk management...today i will walk 2 miles along a county road where cars occasionally speed...
Tomorrow i will see sir...with the risks attendant in that...
Eriday my son will have an anesthesic for tooth removal...the one that worries me most...because i am unable to manage the risk other than knowing he is going to be in the hands of trained professionals.
We all have to know and accept which risks we are willing to take, i manage risks as well as i can, i wear condoms, i walk in daylight, i chose a sane Dom, this stops me being scared.
If you are scared you need to inform yourself of what the risks are , then think long and hard about why you are prepared to do something that you are not happy with...that applies to life not just swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm nice to meet you but b4 i give you oral can i check 4 crabs? "
just curious but why join a site looking for casual sex when you have such seemingly paranoia about crabs? wouldn't you be better suited to a monogomous relationship with someone you know for certain is free of crabs?
i can't see it making for a sexy scenario checking each other like monkeys for fleas proir to foreplay even starting or maybe you could encouporate it into your foreplay ya never know some might find it sexy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm nice to meet you but b4 i give you oral can i check 4 crabs? "
i know you had a experience of catching crabs but that does not mean everyone on here has them, you really need to chill out a bit
Ive been doing this 11 years now and never cought anything, most people who swing take their sexual health serious, most are shaven and go for regular check ups
but it seems you are still far to hung up on this experience so maybe this site isnt the best place for you? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes but you dont check everybody and 1 person cud pass it too many of you"
I see from your quote even though you are a member you dont consider yourself one of "us", how scared are you of sexually transmitted diseases?
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